Media Girl Toke Makinwa Warns Ladies To Stop Telling Their BFF' Secrets To Their Men

Serial host/Media geh Toke Makinwa posted a video in which she admonished women to have a boundary between what they tell their husbands/boyfriends about their best friends....

She said 

“Your man who you took vows with, who is the father of your kids. Who is your husband or your significant other or boyfriend is not my best friend okay? I am your best friend and I see no reason why he should know my business. My best friend contract is with you and I and not you and your significant other.

You know it breaks my heart to see many female friendships actually hit the rocks because of this mistake a lot of us females make.

 I understand, you know he is your guy you guys are best friends when you guys took the vows to become one so therefore, he has to know everything that is going on but if you love your friends and you really want to have them in your lives and you cherish your friendship. However long or short the friendship has been because friendship is not a thong of years. Longevity as I grew older doesn’t define a solid friendship.

I think protecting them should come second to none as you want to protect that man, right? And if your best friend confides in you about something she is going through or something that is happening in her life. About the guys, I said guys because if she’s seen guys nobody is here to judge anybody that are on her case, whatever she is doing with her life your husband or your boyfriend should not be privy to that information because guess what, he’s not her best friend right?
And sometimes you now wonder how when you say you are going to hang out with this friend your man has an issue. 

It’s the things you tell him. What’s so good and so fun while you both are laughing, you say you know she is dating this person, oh that’s the guy that bought her this. My business is none of his business okay the same way you protect him and you never want to air his dirty laundry out there to me your best friend is the same way you shouldn’t want to do mine honestly.
And even if you confide in me about your man I would not discuss your man with my man. I think that all these things can be avoided.

I have heard too many stories of females now saying things like you know my man just started acting strange, he used to like her before all of a sudden you can’t hang out with that person. She is a wh#re. It’s the things you say. Honestly sometimes you guys just get yourself so carried away that you start to air your best friend business and he has friends, he has people he knows, he is not bound by loyalty to keep her secret so if he sat somewhere and talking about her, he can give a cent or two and guess where that came from? You talking about your friend. 

Resist the urge even if she calls you to speak to you about something personal if your man is there you can excuse yourself or just text her that you will catch up with her in a bit. And don’t come with my man is mature he can handle this; No no let’s stop doing that, I know couples’ gossip at night you people don’t have anything to talk about ,talk about the wind ,the air ,talk about counting sheep, talk about whatever not your best friends business”