Hmmmm....
BREAKFAST SERVED HOT
Stella i got tired of my husband and i served him breakfast so hot that he will never forget
The deceit, cheating, disrespect and unruly behaviour finally got to me and i went the extreme to claim back my mental health...
I work hard and have done quite well for myself and single handedly pay the school fees of our teen daughters because it seemed as if i committed a crime birthing girls for the wicked man....I am so successful financially that spending any amount of money means nothing to my account..I cannot go into too much details cos I am not used to putting out info and don't want anyone to spot me here so some details may be altered but the true story is unchanged.
He lives outside of Nigeria and i built the mansion we live in single handedly while he sat back and took all the praises from family and friends...I put my kids names on the papers and he raised the roof but i didn't change it..
So whenever he visits, while i am at work he gallivants round town in my cars while the ladies were at his beck and call..
The last time he visited and demanded to sleep with me after a night out drinking, i refused and he beat the living daylights out of me and told me all the horrible thing you tell to an enemy,he called my daughters useless ans swore he would never takecare of the girl child, said since i refused having more babies, he was trying his luck outside for a son.
As he rained slaps and blows on me, i cried becos the words he used tore me apart...that was the first and only time he ever beat me but he told me he would ''off me'' next time.
The next morning after the beating he went on his knees and begged with tears and i forgave him and made him promise never to do it again...
He travelled back some weeks later and i changed the locks as soon as he left and called security not to let him back into the estate anytime he comes around....
I took all the necessary steps to protect myself and the girls financially and otherwise and i called his people to come and collect his bride price...everyone was shocked!!!
I did not take his call and refused to discuss details of why i took such decision.
I also got myself a rich boyfriend but we are yet to do the do cos i want all my divorce process to be over.
The bride price has been returned to the village head since his family did not want to let me go....My Lawyer assured me that the legal process would be over soon.
Now guess what? he is presently in Nigeria and is telling everyone who cared to listen that he walked out and that i am the one who told him not to help his family and friends financially and some are thanking God wile some do not believe him.
he has refused to talk to his daughters calling them small ho's like their mum and they have blocked his numbers....
One told me that he has been playing with her small growing b##bs and told her not to tell me cos I am too stressful and will turn it into big drama......GOD SAVED ME!
I am happy and have gotten my groove back after 20 years with this man...
I am planning a divorce party for December outside of Nigeria...
I am happy to be out of the toxic marriage and urge anyone in a toxic marriage to decide if staying or leaving is better...
I changed so many details here but what happened has happened and i am happy and ready to explore the world with my girls.
WOW...if this tory is how you narrated it then you are a strong woman and i congratulate you for successfully get rid of him....
It was easy for you to serve him breakfast because you are financially equipped, not every woman is as lucky as you are...
Enjoy your new life.
It's well with you.
ReplyDeleteWhy not take a break from relationships for now, just an advice better still don't allow yhe new man near your girls
After serving out breakfast?
DeleteShouldn't she eat lunch and dinner?
For lesser than she got, married women are advised here to get side cocks while still in their matrimonial home, right?
Poster, why take the party to the abroad?
You do not want most of us to attend?
#questionsbyaman.
You have gotten the accolades you came for, we know this is a made up story orchestrated to paint your husband black. Note that no breakfast is served to the young man, he will get himself a pretty young lady and marry. Your money means nothing to a man which is the reason you are still looking for a rich man despite your claim to be rich. Loosing you does not mean anything to the man unless the man is lazy. You stayed in a marriage for 20 years only to come out now and start painting your husband in a bad way just because you have small change and one small boy is running after you. We know that is how you people's behavior are.
Delete18:41, this one pain u sha.
DeleteAnonymous 18:41 you sound pained. Like it is personal. Not accepting the fact that she did what she did, and she is okay? Tell us your story, and make sure to tell the truth.
Delete@eka e pain am well 🤣😂 they don't like women serving them breakfast. You did well poster don't look back . Bitter man . Imagine calling his blood hos.
DeleteActually some women no get sense, she is looking for who is better suited to spend her money. Rich young man indeed
DeleteAll the best Poster....This looks straight outta of a movie....Godspeed in all decisions
ReplyDeleteMy goodness, calling his daughters hoes, playing with his daughters boobs. Sick mf. Good thing you dealt with his sick a&& the way you did. How poster got her groove back. 👏👏. Enjoy your life my dear.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations..
ReplyDeleteThe sisterhood are proud of you 🥰
U deserve a party 🎉🥳🥳🎈
No be small party ooo
DeleteEnjoy yourself poster oooo..
Hello iya Boys
Why is it that any woman that is cheating will 1st paint her husband black before saying that it is what pushed her to cheat.
ReplyDeleteAll these calamities have been happening to you and you spent 20yrs in the marriage.
Until I hear your husband side of the story before I say anything.
He is not reaching out to his daughters but you are the person that told the security not to allow him into the estate.
Men are endangered species.
Cry me a lagoon
DeleteKING XOXO MYSTERY
Dante shut up!
DeleteAnd then the husband molested the kid.. na their way..
DeleteThey'll push a man to the wall and then use his reaction as the reason for them ending the relationship.
Dear men, when your woman starts doing things you can't understand, the only reaction you should give her is ending the relationship... She's just looking for a reason to end it and the more you stay and try to make it work, the more danger you're putting your life and reputation..
Because she get money pass the guy, she begin frustate am..
Many of them are in a relationship but still searching for another.
For the man to call the daughter hos na him know wetin the mama do them..
But let's insult the man and call him unprintable names because the woman said so,🙏
Husbands make their wives cheat.
DeleteBut husbands cheat on their own.
Who make the single women cheat with the husbands of other women.
You guess right - the husbands.
Let's turn this table and see how the female bvs will drag the poster.
DeleteLet's say the poster is a man, has money, he now divorce his wife and told the estate security not to let her in just because she has her own money and doesn't contribute to the home(the way you female bvs advise ladies to hide their money) heaven knows that you female bvs will drag the living daylight out of the man.
Let's say he find himself a new sidechick because his wife is cheating, none of you will agree that he is saying the truth, just because he is a man.
Anyway, it is only a man that doesn't know himself that his wife will be pushing around.
That's how a female bv slapped her husband and none of you was able to say domestic violence. None of you asked where the husband saw the useless woman and married her.
It is good when a man is born let him be a man.
They never born that woman wey go do rubbish for my side.
Oh dear! It is a cold world......
DeleteI Wish You the Very Best in Life.
ReplyDeleteAny Man that Sexualize his Biological Child( ren) is A Beast and not a Normal Human.
Congratulation on your Forthcoming Divorce party
Wow,you are strong woman,thank God you came out alive and that statement of him touching his daughter's breast needs to be addressed, what kind of a father is that?....
ReplyDeletebeing financially independent stops alot of nonsense.
Congratulations
You are a strong woman, but why stay that long when he has always been a deadbeat or he just changed? Check the new man well to be sure he's not coming for your money to avoid jumping from frying pan to fire.
DeleteYou are a strong woman, but why stay that long when he has always been a deadbeat or he just changed? Check the new man well to be sure he's not coming for your money to avoid jumping from frying pan to fire.
DeleteI wish You the Very Best in Life.
ReplyDeleteAny Man that Sexualize his Biological Child( ren ) is A Beast and not a Normal Human.
Congratulations on your Forthcoming Divorce party.
how are you sure about that.
DeleteIf what you have narrated here is the absolute truth, then you have really endured a lot. Tagging his daughters with such a name is very bad of a father. This is the type of man that will start crying fowl if the daughters don't allow him to work them the aisle.
ReplyDeleteIf this narrative is true, your head has oil. He even had the gut to tell you he is trying his luck elsewhere! He is a gold digger! Ensure you are done with the divorce paper, before you marry or gbensh with your new boyfriend and so your ex-husband won't use that against you. I wish you well.
ReplyDeleteYesh ladies always protect your mental health. it is very important. it would end in praise
ReplyDeleteYeah, Stella is right. It's so much easier when you are the boss and can take care of you and the kids.
ReplyDeleteBye bye to rubbish horsebands😁
You did well.
Women try everything possible to equip yourself before getting married o, maka e get why
I love you already ma. You prioritize your happiness and that of your queen above all.
ReplyDeleteHis big loss
Demon horseband. When I read the playing with the daughter's budding breast I absolutely lost it.
ReplyDeleteSo glad you honoured yourself and did not put up with the disrespect any longer.
Financial freedom gives freedom in many other parts of life. Do not worship money but never underestimate its power to set a person free.
Wow,what a sick man? Even his biological daughter was not spared? 😭😭😭. I pray you and your girls healing from the traumatic experiences. 😌😌😌
ReplyDeleteWhat i took out of this, is to be financially stable as a Woman. It will help you make sound and logical decision and stick to it. Financial Stability is a must
ReplyDeleteYou couldn't have said it any better✅✅✅
DeleteCongratulations on doing what make you happy. But one thing, ur man maybe definitely a useless man, but u also sound like u are part of the problem, and both of u are cupable in this situation. U wrote like the decision not to make more babies is coming only from u and u didn't agree with ur husband on this.
ReplyDeleteNice u are doing well for urself.
Remember as u are trying to find love again, don't be a pain to another Lady, in essence, stay far away from someone's husband no matter the sobing story he tells u.
I don't know but I find it difficult to believe that your narrative was exactly what happened
ReplyDeleteNo be only you..
DeleteThe story too sweet.. the man na psycho.. she be angel. She gets new man but she never do the do.. hehehe
Same here
DeleteResponse from 3 mad men. Didn't you read she changed some details? Ndi hyway
DeleteIt will be good to hear from the other side.
ReplyDeleteYour own marriage was more than toxic, it was a disaster!
ReplyDeleteA man that molests and calls his own daughters horrible names is not fit to be a father.
Thank God that you are financially stable and out of that nightmare you called marriage.
Hmmm
ReplyDeleteCongratulations!
ReplyDeleteWow! I love women of your kind.🍾🌹
ReplyDeletePoster I am happy for you. You deserve to be happy.
ReplyDeleteImagine him touching the B**B of his children 😡.
Just imagine, he is even a child molester! Calling his own girls names God forbid rubbish husband.
ReplyDeletePoster glad you were able to discard him and I wish you all the best.
you did well
ReplyDeleteYou did not even wait for marriage to end, you have jumped into another affair. Hope this boyfriend will not be a danger to your daughters. E ku ise.
ReplyDeleteMy own is that as you have finally left , please don't go and cause pain to another woman.
ReplyDeleteI hope this your new rich boyfriend is not a married man
Well scripted!!
ReplyDeleteHello it is well
ReplyDeleteThis your story is just too perfect, i pray you get the happiness you seek ma'am.
ReplyDeleteWatch the series menendez brothers. Men who abuse their own children exist o. It shocks me
ReplyDeleteNa here dem go see you..
DeleteThe same you that said it's ok for a wife to slap her husband but not for the husband to..
Make Una dey look face wella before Una move mad go man side, make you no go learn the lesson of your life
This Dante ehn I will gate crash your marriage to any woman and stop it .honestly you be banza
DeleteYou go first chop nice beating before we throw you for jail.. you think say I dey follow Una do rubbish.. your people go cry tire, running up and down because them get senseless daughter
DeleteSome women here will hear that their husbands are sexually abusing their daughters and sons and say "it doesn't mean' and then cover up. I be wan call out one particular woman but make I digest this food wey I chop 1st.
ReplyDeleteStrong woman @postee don't go back to your stinking vomit abeg. God with you.
Nne , don't mind the naysayers on here, a lot of them did not see where you wrote you changed the story.....You see this thing you did ,thats something I know I can do minus the beating you received(I am so sorry about that) I salute you..you are indeed a strong woman.Enjoy your divorce party o jare
ReplyDeleteThis thing called marriage.... Hmmm!!!
ReplyDeleteIt was your life while it lasted and it is still your life as it unfold. Just live your life as you deem best fit
ReplyDeleteIn all you do please be mindful of your new man. Be sure that he truly loves you before committing anything to him. Also, be careful with him and your daughters because many men end up sleeping with their step daughters,make sure you educate the girls on why it's not good to do so.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to you Ma'am. Could you invite me to your divorce party please?
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