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ADVICE NEEDEDHubby earns N1Mmillion in this economy and he's not really interested in relocating, we live in north central state where nothing much is there for me to explore in terms of work, so I'm a stay at home mum, though I don't lack anything, how do I make him see reason why we have to relocate abroad? N1Millon is nothing in this economy!!!!
What makes you think abroad is the solution? Do you know how it is to relocate with a family? IT IS DIFFUCLT and the man may never find his feet..most people that make it need to leave their families and relocate first...would you want that?some may even go and not return to their wives becos they remarry to find their feet....leave him to make that move and dont force him else you may regret it::You are complaining for selfish reasons, open provision store in front of the house for now, interact more with people to busy yourself and let him think
What makes you think abroad is the solution? Do you know how it is to relocate with a family? IT IS DIFFUCLT and the man may never find his feet..most people that make it need to leave their families and relocate first...would you want that?some may even go and not return to their wives becos they remarry to find their feet....leave him to make that move and dont force him else you may regret it::You are complaining for selfish reasons, open provision store in front of the house for now, interact more with people to busy yourself and let him think
See your ungrateful mouth like 1mil is nothing in this economy. I know families earning 50k a month in this economy so shut up. You think abroad is heaven where you get there everything is bliss. Just leave that man alone and go earn 1mil by yourself if e easy .mchew
ReplyDeleteLoool Stella what's with you and this provision shop 😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteAbroad isn't heaven one must have a proper plan. Don't do things because others are doing it.
The way Stella is advising people to open provision store😂 shop rent will soon increase
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@Stella 🤣🤣🤣🤣 you and opening provision stall near your house.....
ReplyDeletePoster while I understand your japa option based on how Nigeria has turned out, I am more concerned about you and rightly said, 1 million is 'not enough' however I see you are comfortable with your status quo; because your husband earns a lot does not mean you won't have something going on in your life...You can't depend solely on husband's income because Life can happen to anyone...
To japa you need skills or you think you will eventually japa without bringing some income on the table...My advice is get something doing, develop a skill or get a job, don't depend on your husband for everything...Focus more in building your family with your husband..
All the best
It's the nerve of some women for me.🥺
ReplyDeleteShe's got nerves and idleness.
DeleteWomen!
ReplyDeleteI pity this innocent husband of yours.
Is it that we don't have sensible and reasonable women again? Must he do your bidding of relocating? What's so special? Because he earns 1m he should do big things that's how you all live miserably and above your means.the young man is doing fine and living content fully with a grateful mind but too sad he has a foolish wife that he is yet to find out.
Get out! Foolish women are the burden of men.
It's like na to open provision shop dey reign now o 😂😂🤣
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ReplyDeleteWhen trouble sleep iyanga go wake am, wetin e dey find.
Palava e dey find, palava e go get yo.
Some Have, Some have not. Hubby makes 1Milli, Madam how much are you contributing ? No too stress the Man abeg !
ReplyDeleteThis comment rubbed me off the wrong way.
ReplyDeleteIf you are so keen on getting something doing, you can learn a skill and get a job online/remotely. It truly pays. I've been working remotely for the past 9 months and it's the best decision I've ever made.
Please don't put a lot of pressure on your husband, so he doesn't end up doing something he might regret.
Anon pls enlighten me on how to work remotely . We need sources of income
DeleteIs it because he is earning 1 m, you think 1m can be enough to relocate?
ReplyDeleteHave you gotten a job for him abroad?
It's like the North Central that you live is not making you know what's up
N1m per month? You say it's nothing? And some people's monthly salary is 50k. Poster na wah for you oh.
ReplyDeleteHave you talked to him about it?
ReplyDeleteYou can start the process of relocation,If you're so keen about it. Our family friend started a course in care giving job and after certification. She also helped her husband to get a job. The husband who was reluctant to go,joined her. Relocation is a lot of process not a walk in the park.
ReplyDeleteIs like Stella likes that provisions store business too much🤣🤣
ReplyDeletemadam poster calm down and follow Stella advice.
Yes you need to start from somewhere. Just have a grocery store around you and get busy to kill boredom
ReplyDeleteIn this economy, one million is still something, some people are not even earning up to quarter of it and they're coping, not everybody that relocates will make it, abroad isn't automatical paradise, some people are living large here and living like slaves after relocation.
ReplyDeleteEven if he wants to relocate, let him relocate at his own will, don't force him, so that he will prepare for anything that comes his way.
As for your own, you can be selling stuff online, or be doing remote job, if you have the skills.
If money dey shebi I for go open Provision Shop 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤸🤸🤸
ReplyDeleteFather Biko bless me with Provision.shop oooo...🤣🤣🤣🤣
Abeg iya Boys done finish work I don't know what to say again🤣🤣
Hello iya Boys
My dear relocation is not easy especially with your family. If you now have little ones; just be keeping money for childcare.
ReplyDeleteI believe in that area you are at, there must be things you can get busy. If you don't have space for provision store like Stella suggested, you can start online business.
If you want to travel abroad with your family, travel when you're financially stable and ready.
It is not about the fine fine pictures taken in fine fine backgrounds; you must be ready ready.
1m a month = 120 m in a year, plus allowances here and there. If channeled well, its very good in this economy.
ReplyDeleteMadam, have you thanked God for this. Thank Him and you will see why you are blessed.
Dearest poster, relocation may not be the answer. If he doesn't want, pls leave it alone..
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