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GENOTYPE CHANGE
Its been hell running in and out of the hospital, the stress is great and has taken a toll on my business and i am closing that up soon cos i barely have time for it as I am either in hospital with my children or at home nursing them..There is no space to relax and breathe......My other kid checked and his result was AA but recently i had to check again for a form to be filled and it came out as AS...I am so shocked cos i didnt plan for this at all......I am older from thinking and stress, how did this happen to me?
I am also thinking, if my husband is AA ;how come we have SS and AS kids?I am AS right from time and made sure that i married someone who is AA and all this has been too much for me..What could have happened?
Hmmmm , what cold have happened is that your husband lied about being AA or some Lab made a mistake..He is AS and married you AS and that is why your kids have these genotypes...... So sorry about what you are going through...
He is AS.
ReplyDeletePlease come to the NSPPD FIRE ALTAR at 7am WAT, so many genotypes being changed to AA!!! What God Cannot Do Does Not Exist!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
DeleteHe is really AS and lied about it, poster sorry your husband has been lying to you!
DeleteYou don come again with your NSPPD talk abi?
DeleteDo you know if the poster is a Christian and if she is, do you know if she believes in your NSPPD thing?
Una go just dey type, "Join NSSPD, Come to NSPPD" upandan, like who no go school. Abegggiiiii
If many people have recorded miracles which she needs, there is nothing wrong with offering help or directing her to where she knows from history of people getting the needed miracle that she too will record a miracle.
DeletePoster, you can also follow Commanding the day midnight prayer on Dunamis platform at 11pm. Its just 1 and half hours.
Grace and strength be multiplied to you.
Kai! There are some mistakes that just doesn't leave us the same!
DeleteWhat in the name of problem is this in this economy?
He might not have lied, it might have been a genuine laboratory mistake, I went through my secondary school believing I was AS because that's what the lab result showed when I took the test when I was in JSS1, I didn't find out I'm AA until I went for my 100L medical clearance and carried out subsequent tests too.
DeleteSorry for the stress poster, your As child is fine though, all he has to do is to ensure he doesn't marry a carrier like him, simple.
So sorry dear. May God grant you the grace and strength for running around
ReplyDeleteYour husband lied about being AA.If he is AA and you are AS ,you can't have SS kids.
ReplyDeleteHe is AS or SS.
Maybe he didn’t lie
DeleteMaybe he got the wrong result
Check well before you accuse
Pls don’t say her husband lied. She just stated up there that when she tested her child, the baby was AA, after a while she did a second test and the result came out AS, you didn’t say that she lied, so what if the husband had the same issue too?
DeleteIt could be a mistake from the lab. Or he lied about it.
DeleteIt doesn’t matter what could have happened at this point. I believe there was some new research being done. Read up on it to see if there are new approaches to the illness. Take time out for self-care. As hard as it is you have to replenish yourself physically and spiritually. Ask for help if you need it, do not overburden yourself because you want to form super woman.
ReplyDeleteWORDS!
DeleteLab definitely have made a mistake. Same way a mistake was made when your child first tested as AA.
ReplyDeleteOne child is AA
DeleteHe got one A each from each AS parent
The other two got the S’s and that’s why they are SS
Go and read again. No stress me.
DeleteUr husband is As or the kids are not yours.. And ur other kid test may a mistake, u need to carry out genotype test in 3 different places to confirm ur actual genotype
ReplyDeleteOh! Dear no need of confirmation again nah since their children are already SS it means they are both AS, chai, this is just so unfortunate thing anyways, Nne just try and carry this cross with a calm heart and keep trusting and asking God for mercy is well .
DeleteSo sorry poster, there's no time to fight your husband, tie your gele on your waist and wrestle the enemy called sickle cell, na only Jesus is the way the truth and life, join mfm and be attending manna water service online every Wednesday bd giving the children to drink that in and out sickness go vamus in Jesus name Amen. Be strong please
DeleteMay the Lord keep them for you, it's not easy raising SS children.
ReplyDeleteIt's very important to carry out your genotype test in three (3) different labs. THREE O.
ReplyDeleteThe three can't lie.
I don't know if your husband lied to you or just assumed he was AA.
May God take control.
Make it 5 labs abeg. I did in 4 and 2 came back AS and the other 2 AA. I don rest for the matter since. I will run another one soon. Hopefully the abroad will give a reliable result
DeleteThis is so sad to read.
ReplyDeleteSorry about all of these. It is well with your kids.
Poster sorry for what you are going through. Taking care of a sick child is so draining talk more of two children . May see you through and be with you.
ReplyDeleteI left a good man, a man that showed me what love is all about because we are both AS. It hurt till date.
I am so sorry about what you and your family are currently going through.
ReplyDeleteThis is part of the reason it is advised that AS shouldn't get married.
The stress from tending to SS Children will make love evaporate.
When I did my test as an adult, I was told I was AS, so I always informed any prospective suitor accordingly. However when I got pregnant for my first child, test results came in, and I was told I was AA, I was shocked and couldn't believe it.
Then I was advised I could go for further opinions at other labs, so this could be a possibility for you and your husband.
Strange as it may sound, I have heard and read about something like this, genotype tests giving different results.
Don't know if it is a fault from our labs here but there's this Naturopath on FB that believes that genotype isn't hereditary but as a result of people's lifestyle.
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@ur second line, are you for real?? Who gave this advice that AS shouldn’t marry? I’d like to hear more.
Delete16:13 s/he means two as shouldn’t marry each other
DeleteThere’s ivf now so they can sha
IVF is for the brave, some people check baby genotype in feotus n flush the sickle cell ones that is a big NO it is called MURDER
Delete18:56 there’s no need to flush
DeleteJust test in ivf
So sorry about this taking a toll on you.
ReplyDeleteIt seems someone lied, your husband or the lab. That's why it's advisable to do such tests in more than one place and as often as we can for confirmation.
And you didn't also state how he's taking all of this.
So sorry ma. Stella's answer is it. But God can do all things, including changing genotype. Have you tried joining NSPPD daily prayers? (What it does is, it helps build your faith daily and heighten your prayer life. In the process, you have faith to receive your miracle from GOD. Not Pastor Jerry. Always keep d focus on God while on it, and never give up).
ReplyDeleteI await your testimony.
E hugs
Poster ur husband is AS. Let him go run the test again and run it in about 3 different places
ReplyDeleteI believe Stella is right. Your Husband is not AA. Even though it's too late now to do anything...if it's only to answer all these questions popping up in your head...try and get your husband to do another genotype test. AS is ok...I am AS.l too..and I am ok. My husband also lief for a long time that he was AA...it was after I was pregnant the doctor told him to go do a genotype test..na so we realize that he is actually AS...and to think he was bragging about AA to anyone who can listen to him for years!
ReplyDeleteBcos ur husband lied to u doesn’t mean that her husband lied too. So did she also lie when she said her son’s first test result showed he was AA and the second one showed he was AS?
DeleteFYI, even ur husband might not have lied to u, sometimes these things change, may be cos of lab or smthn.
I know my husband’s colleague who dated a girl for very long, almost 10yrs, and they even lived together for sometime, all that while, she was AA according to test result, when he finally made money to settle down, they ran a final test before kick starting their marriage process, and VOILA! she was suddenly AS, three different labs confirmed that, they had to delay their break up in case a miracle wud happen, nothing happened, they were sooo in love but had to let go. So did she lie? No! These things happen all the time.
So sorry to hear this. Your husband may have lied about his genotype. This is what we are advising one content creator to run away from.
ReplyDeleteTake heart, the Lord is your strength.
Definitely, your husband is AS. This is a sure banker. but having SS children comes with a lot of drama, talking from experience. My younger brother's penis is affected but sp**rm still comes out if he uses his hand, not yet married because of this issue. He had pe**is problem due to PRIAPRISM while my other SS brother is married with children but having serious eye issues and needs laser sessions which requires plenty of money. They are both in their forties.
ReplyDeleteIt is well with your brothers
DeleteGoshhh, so sorry for your brother's, SS is a **cking stressful disease, if it's not the eye, it's the bones, or non stop nerve pains, always needing blood transfusion, being prone to infections etc.I learnt that priaprism can be really painful.
DeleteI pray God continues to be with your family.
Oh dear
ReplyDeleteMaybe you both are AS, something definitely is not right. Maybe he didn't tell you the truth.
It is well
Oh dear, sorry Ma’m.
ReplyDeleteI pray God kee sensing helpers your way and the works of your hands be fruitful because it isn’t easy. I also pray that they get to outgrow it and stabilize. I have a friend who lives currently in the UK, she is quite okay even married and birthed 2 boys. God’s healing hands upon your babies. 🙏
Ask your husband to do another genetype test
ReplyDeleteAnd/or
If you can withstand any result you get, do DNA test on all your children especially if you used the same hospital for birthing them
Is probably the both of you are AS
ReplyDeleteChaiii sorry poster , E.hugs🫂🫂
It is well with you and your kids..🙏🙏
Hello iya Boys
Something has been compromised, take heart and be strong but to do so, I think you need closure.
ReplyDeleteWhy don't you discuss with your husband and lay hold on some truth, and maybe an apology from whatever/whosoever caused it. I promise you, from there on, strength will return, don't forget, your children needs you.
Sending you lots of 💜💜
The deed has been done. Even if your husband runs another test and it comes out as AS or AA, it will not make any difference. All you need now are ways to cope. Be positive about the whole issue and continue praying.
ReplyDeletePlease don't close your shop because you need a place you can go once in a while to ease tension.
May God come through for you and your family.
This happens alot. I know someone in the medical field that thought he is AA because he did several test even in a federal medical center which said he was AA. Imagine the shock when they had an SS child.
ReplyDeleteTheir was a mistake in his result over these years. He had to carry out several test in other labs that confirmed he is AS.
Some of the medical staff we have are very careless.
Hi poster, so sorry to hear this. the Lord is your strength
ReplyDeleteIt is well with you Poster.
ReplyDeleteInnocent children have been brought into this world to suffer because of incompetence or deception.
ReplyDeleteIt is impossible for your spouse to be AA and you to be AS and then give birth to SS; something is wrong there, and your husband may be aware of his genotype but has lied to you.
That is why it is advisable to have a confirmatory test before marriage.
Poster sorry for the unfortunate issues you are having. You need more strength and grace to carry on and may God provide them for you.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry dear,the good Lord is your strength ❣️🥰❤️🌹
ReplyDeleteIt must have been a mistake from the lab testing. Apparently you and your husband are As genotype. 😌😌😌
ReplyDeleteYes I believe your husband is As. There might have been a mistake somewhere years back so let him rerun that. But take care of yourself still.
ReplyDeleteGo and do DNA test first. Cos the things that happen in Nigerian hospitals no be here with how they be changing peoples kids .
ReplyDeleteMy people instead of going to 3 different places, go to a well reputed hospital to direct you to the reliable lab they use. This test is not rocket science
ReplyDeleteAlso if you live in Nigeria and tend to have malaria, you’re probably AA
Omo! I wonder how come at this age and time, genotype test is a struggle for Nigerian labs. I’m weak!
DeleteHad to drop a guy that insisted I must just take his word for it
ReplyDeleteMy fiancé says he’s AA is not the way. You must both get tested in a good place and both have access to the results directly. Same thing for STD tests and hiv.
Dear poster sorry for what you are going through, it's not easy taking care of children with sickle.
ReplyDeleteE-hug dear 🫂
Poster am really sorry to hear this
ReplyDeleteReach out to Nicole consultancy on Facebook
ReplyDeleteFor a better treatment for your kids
We don't have that problem , thanks be to god we are all AA,woman god will help and solve this problem also but if it is a lie that caused this from your husband then he needs to apologize to you for all these troubles
ReplyDeleteMay God forgive those saying the husband lied about his genotype. This same thing happened to my family.
ReplyDeleteWe discovered my second child was SS .
This is after running genotype test at a general hospital and my husband was AA and I AS.
Took the help of the councilor at the sickle cell foundation to make us realise that a mistake must have happened with the kit used for testing.
Till today, I still wonder how that happened, because he had a previous genotype test done amd it was AA too.
Now I focus all my energy in taking good care of my child.
That child remains God's gift to my family, because we waited 10 years after our 1st child before we had her.(stella,I was testimony no 48 in miracle posts in 2016).
I pray for the poster and family, that God will continue to uphold them.
When God decides to suspend one or more laws,miracles happen.To man, it may seem impossible to live a normal life but I tell you, with God, nothing is impossible.You already have kids for him,take them to God and believe they will live a normal life.
ReplyDeleteIt wasn’t until I started visiting this blog that I knew genotype testing existed and presented a condition for whether a couple could carry on their union or even make children. In my part of the world nobody does it and a couple just accepts whatever child they get. By all means continue to do testing and take precautionary measures but remember that nothing is fool proof.
ReplyDeleteJust love the children you have and give them the best experience of life that you can. Build happy memories and create a home life that they will always speak of with pride and joy. The things you and your husband are in control of do them well and in abundance.
Your husband's genotype was clearly mixed up..I'm AS. I have friends that are SS. One of them is dead now. I vowed that no amount of love will make me marry AS. The love of my life was AS. I had to let go..it birth me so much, but anytime I look at my healthy kids, it was worth it. So sorry about what you're going through..I don't wish it on anyone
ReplyDeleteNigeria and their misdiagnoses and incorrect lab results.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry for what you’re going through Poster….
I hope you get the help needed.