If you are on the Lady's side, what would be your reaction?
This is daylight extortion...
Saturday, October 12, 2024
Bride Price Or Extortion...
If your brother or male relative was asked to produce this, what would be your reaction?What would be your reaction as a man if this list was given to you?
If you are on the Lady's side, what would be your reaction?
This is daylight extortion...
If you are on the Lady's side, what would be your reaction?
This is daylight extortion...
47 comments:
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That's extortion
ReplyDeleteI don't think this is huge if you add the money together. Though I understand some tribes marriage list is huge but there's something people need to understand. A huge list doesn't mean a man should provide everything therein. There's room for negotiations. There's also a compromise if the man can't meet up all the items. Though there are non negotiable items he must provide. The ones not that compulsory will be taken away from the list.
ReplyDeleteMost men often pay in cash than providing the items. That also make it less expensive unlike when you buy the whole items.
In all, there's always negotiations. Don't forget them no dey pay woman head finish.
© TEEJAY
What are they negotiating, their daughter or pepper?
DeleteNa question o
Lol.
DeleteT to the J, my guy, that negotiation na fallacy. Very huge lie.
My wife's family and her kinsmen did not minus 1 thing from the list when I went for negotiation. I bought everything thing on the list. Even the small ones like chewing gum and soap I forgot, I paid the cash that day.
During Ogo malu be, I was given another list and I still bought everything.
So my man, ready your money. Don't believe that negotiation story.
14:54, that negotiation is actually very true. But ur family has to be reasonable for that to work. I used my hand to reduce the quantity of most of the non essential things they asked for my wedding, showed my dad and he told me to go ahead to tell my husband to bring what he could. So I don’t know what u are arguing
Delete14:54, your wife's family were inconsiderate for them to not agree to negotiate or maybe someone tipped them that you could afford it. Mine reduced items on the list to almost half. So it depends on the family. Negotiation works with a family that has empathy.
DeleteYeah Exco, empathy is the word, add fear of God
DeleteThank you T.Jay for the summary. To those that say he's lying about the negotiation aspect, are you from Igbo? Please say what you know. Do you want to tell me not that an okada rider will buy all these? Like, brick layers won't marry again since we all know that they can't provide all these? If they don't negotiate, how has low income earners been marrying?
Delete14:54 your wife must have told them not to agree for negotiation because she knows that you could afford it.
DeleteChimo oooo
ReplyDeleteThis is too much abeg
If the man bring all this wetin him and the wife go dey chop
Noooo I will give my Brother better Advice by 🏃🏃🏃
Hello iya Boys
These are not outrageous,just littered or spread out.
ReplyDeleteExactly. They were just spread to make it look outrageous. Just like I said above, sum them together the money won't even get to what you're thinking.
Delete© TEEJAY
Over to the ladies.
ReplyDeleteOntop non virgin o..
ReplyDeleteA girl that has been around and will now marry you, still cheat and commit paternity fraud.
God forbid
Just go marry your fellow man. Make sure he is single too, not Bobrisky type o.
DeleteWhy?
DeleteAre there no longer virgins or what is your problem actually?
Am I not entitled to have a spec?
Do you want me to slap some sense into you this evening
I got married as a virgin at 27 I’m 39 now and my husband didn’t pay everything on the list. We were 2 youngies in love and starting out though he was out of the country then he was still not extorted. Also, I want you to know that getting married as a virgin dosent determine a great experience from the man in marriage. I decided to keep me for me in everything, God determines who finds favour. Just my own opinion.
DeleteThis is a broad day robbery. They want to open provision shop or food stuff business? I no go gree o. Make the bride dey go o jare
ReplyDeleteHow old are you?
Delete© TEEJAY
Yimu
DeleteThis is too much abeg.
ReplyDeleteIf the guy is not complaining, well...
I feel a lady should speak up for her man. Her people should be reasonable abeg.
My people did well with my in-laws, no issues.
There is nothing serious here. Wait till you see ihe eji agba nkwu nwanyi in some local governments in Imo state.
ReplyDeleteGreedyness, extortion,theifing,hunger what again 🤪
ReplyDeleteIf my brother or son is capable, why should I complain?
ReplyDeleteA man can do anything for the woman he loves. If I was still single and I love my woman, I can do it, as long as I have the money.
God bless you.
DeleteOn point.
DeleteExactly, you will do it for the woman you love, as long as you HAVE the money
DeleteThis one na big time extortion
ReplyDeleteGreedy people
Confirmed virginity will bring in more I suppose🤷🏽♀️
ReplyDeleteIf he can come than afford it and be fine, no problem
ReplyDeleteProblem is with trying to collect from who doesn’t have. My own relative did that to his own sister. Holding up marriage because of things he knew very well the man could not afford.
I don zoom tire. There's nothing outrages there. Those items were spread out on a table, even the wrappers were not piled up.
ReplyDeleteAnd probably cheap items sef. Told my husband not to bother with anything expensive as most would be given away
DeleteSame here
DeleteI also zoom the picture I see nothing outrageous there.
Exactly,is not too much
DeleteWhat I am looking at is not much compared to where I come from you will bow for our list for marriage.
DeleteIs it not human being that are still marrying them? If you can't afford it then don't get married.
ReplyDeleteIts just the way they spread everything nothing is outrageous here, if the man is capable, let him pay, if not he should negotiate with the family .
ReplyDeleteThey just spread everything on the table,nothing outrageous there..
ReplyDeleteIf all is added together the money will not be much..
Me I didn't see anything big in there.
ReplyDeleteIf you're ruch & willing to do it big there's no problem
But if you're not rich & not willing & you're forced to then it's exploitation.
The Most Complex B
This is day light robbery!!
ReplyDeleteBut, who am I to complain if the man is okay with it
Most of those items are not very expensive. If you put everything there together, can't be more than 500k.
ReplyDeleteObi for President
Wizkid FC
Proudly Tiv
These items are affordable na, except the travellers bags, its cosmetics and toiletries that are packed there 😆 I didn't see the usual yams, goat, fish, fruits and heavy drinks...Abi the coke & fanta are for elders? 😆
ReplyDeleteGoat is there, that rope is for the goat, check well, its head is showing. I think the photographer fid not capture everything. Schnapps and beer will be there too.
DeleteOnye oshi
ReplyDeleteThat's why some Men don't take or tolerate rubbish from their wives after going thr' this . Lol the family don sell their daughter na wetin remain
ReplyDeleteThe family has the right to demand these things. The idiot who bought all these should blame himself for not walking away from a bad deal.
ReplyDeletePerson go spend all this and the mumu woman go.come dey drag right with the man for house. No wonder some men dey kpai their wives.
ReplyDelete