Read to the end to find out why she is weeping...
''I WEEP FOR WOMEN OF THIS ERA .
DURING OUR TIME ONCE WE FIND OUT THAT OUR MEN CHEATS ON US , WE WILL KICK AGAINST IT WITH FULL FORCE , YELL AT HIM , STARVE HIM S#XUA!!Y , GIVE HIM CERTAIN ATTITUDES HE WONT FIND COMFORTABLE AND IF HE REFUSES TO STOP CHEATING , WE WILL WALK AWAY FROM THE MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP IRRESPECTIVE OF WHO HE THINKS HE IS OR HOW MUCH HE THINKS HE HAS
LADIES YOU CAN DO BETTER NOOOOOW , IT'S HIGH TIME YOU STARTED PROVING TO YOUR MEN THAT MONEY DOES NOT BUY RESPECT .
SECONDLY , I HAVE BEEN SAYING THIS THOUGH , LADIES HAVE SOMETHING YOU DO THAT FETCHES YOU MONEY , BE A BOSS , SAIL YOUR OWN SHIP BY YOURSELF , SO YOU CAN COMFORTABLY TACKLE A MAN WHO KEEPS MESSING UP . IT IS ONLY WHEN YOU DEPEND ON YOUR MAN FOR SURVIVAL THAT YOU WILL HAVE NO SAY WHEN HE BEGINS TO TRAMPLE ON , YOUR EMOTIONS AS A WOMAN .
PLEASE PLAN YOURSELVES BIKO NU MAKA NA TATA BU GBOOO''
At the end of it all, people will choose what's of utmost importance to them.
ReplyDeleteSome of these women would rather cry inside and console themselves with the luxury they are getting than hustle on their own to keep their self respect.
Couldn't agree more with you
DeleteYou spoke my mind.
DeleteAnd the luxury is to impress and oppresse their imaginary haters
DeleteNot really o, majority of them cheats more than their Men.
DeleteJust that they hide it very well, more than the Men.😁
Society will also disrespect you for being a single mother. People will judge you for not being able to keep a marriage so where’s the respect. Everybody should just do what works for them.
DeleteFan Emmanuel
Hmn... Oh... It is well
DeleteTrue..
Delete@fan, they stigmatize them
They Actually Prefer The Luxury Life Style To The Own Life..
ReplyDeleteGod will help them ooo..
Hello iya Boys
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DeleteDuring your time? I thought women of your time were long suffering 🤔
ReplyDeleteFan Emmanuel
I tire o. Na them dey stay the marriage sef no matter what happened.
DeleteI was wondering too but oh well....
DeleteI was wondering too but oh well....
DeleteSame thing i had in mind. The era that the first wife will sleep on the floor while the younger wife sleeps on the bed with the husband. 😗
DeleteI wonder ooo. it is even now that women are walking away from cheating husband's. Before now it was even a taboo to leave your marriage no matter what you are going through
DeleteOn point 👌
DeleteThey are now awake.
DeleteMao Akuh
Same thing l had in mind
DeleteI believe this is her opinion and shouldn't be used as a yard stick for all Women. This is You Rita ! Keep doing YOU and let others do what works for them.
ReplyDeleteMost of them would say "its better to cry in Lamborghini than to cry in keke napep.
ReplyDeletePeople will chose what matters most to them.
ReplyDeleteMoney is not the only reason they stayed, they're cheating too, even before the man even started his own.
ReplyDeleteThe game has changed.
Married women now na something else.
And na them go church pass.😁😁😎
I am one of the women who is staying with a cheat, not because of the money he gives me, nor because I cheat back too, but because I hate the idea of divorce: I believe in marriage so much that it breaks my heart to see what people have turned it into.
DeleteI have handed my husband over to God, as I continue to ask the Holy Spirit for guidance.
It's their choice
ReplyDeleteLet them live their life
Let everyone do whatever works for them
ReplyDeleteLeave talks on social media Ladies. please do what's make you happy. Choose your life and live it
ReplyDeleteShikena!
DeleteLet everyone do as it works for them.
ReplyDeleteLol at your last paragraph 🤣
ReplyDelete@ Apple of God's own eyes
Isn't it funny that many of these women who will boldly cheat on the men, with multiple men while you date them and even in marriage, will latter turn around when they are tired of that stuff, and be demanding faithfulness from the men?
ReplyDeleteMay God help us 🙏🏿
ReplyDeleteWomen of old endured all sorts from their men. They stayed with a cheating husband because of their children and stigma. They said it was a taboo to be seen as a divorced woman, everyone would see you as a failure but now many women are walking away. The narrative gas changed.
ReplyDeleteSo ma'am Rita was referring to the women of old not now.
Let everyone do what's best for them, another man's meat is another man's poison.
ReplyDeleteI pray they hear oo, set awon "Is better to cry in Lamborghini than in Keke napep" tueehhh
ReplyDeleteIs now that women walked away from cheating men not then
ReplyDeleteCheating is not a deal breaker for every woman. So, folks will stay according to what their stomachs can take.
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