This is so sad..........
For over 20 years I kept silent, desisted from any comments on my failed marriage, allowing the 'good wife', hoping the wounds will heal and a reconciliation possible. But for 20 years the 'good wife' pounded me, rubbished my reputation, belittling my achievements exploiting my name for her selfish benefits.
It was over 25 years ago that I came up with the unique idea of Inside-Out with Agatha, a talk show with six informed and opposing points of view represented by a person with Oratorial skills, now male now female. We had gone to see a talk show by Regina Askia, and Agatha wanted to be a talk show host. I told her not to worry "I will come up with something, it will make you be like Oprah Winfrey". And I did. Ingeniously.
I was the dedicated creator, throwing in flesh blood and sweat to create and deliver a concept that had never before been done in Nigeria, save for a similar perhaps less engaging 6 episodes of a program called MEE to you, or something like that, by the late May Ellen Ezekiel, who was married to RMD. A program that could stand the test of time and put bread on the table of the young marriage. A program, so versatile, it is still relevant today.
Inside-Out with Agatha was an instant hit, the genius of the angle the production values the directorial approach the lighting and production design were so engaging, it was irresistible. I was at the height of my directorial rendezvous, and i gathered a production crew of the best technical hands in what is now early nolllywood and TV soaps were the biggest things, because we dared to stand out.
from the emerging crowd of Nollywood Directors. Kingsley Ogoro my friend brother and nemesis, would lead a high. I co opted Nollywood greats, Zack Orji, Okey Bakassi, Sunny Mcdon, Francis Onwochei Emeka Ossai, Zik Zulu Okafor, Francis Duru, Prince Jide Kosoko and numerous friends who looked up to me and I asked their support for the first episodes, and soon every body who was anybody wanted to be part of Inside Out.
I staked every resource, friends, favours, loyalties, family, extended family wife and links, I involved the creme de la creme of the big production, studios. Tunde Kelani, Wale Fanu, Tade Ogidan, Tunde Oloyede, Pat Nebo, Uzor Okpeche, Simi Opeo Oluwa Opa Williams the late Chico Ejiro, and numerous others to ensure no failure of the program, I staked even my first attempt to be president of DGN, Don Pedro Obaseki and Matthias Obahiagbon will attest. Inside Out with Agatha became a run away hit,so good i did not relise it threatened the fabric of the marriage.
At a meeting of the two families when a resolution was being sort to the marriage crises. Inside Out was at the centre of deliberations. It was agreed that if Inside Out could provide for the Children. Then we should let Agatha the 'good wife' continue with it, after all she was the marketing person. And Inside Out with Agatha, became the cash cow of the 'good wife', it became her tool to malign me, became her weapon to steal my fame and rubbish my name.
with the influence it wielded and the contacts and connections it gathered, 'The Good Wife' soon built an empire with no emperor. She employed maligning my name to acquire favours and contracts. Inside Out is the Source of all the good wife's wealth. My genius, my sweat my vision, and for 20 years I swallowed it. My reputation diminishing as the good wife's gathered momentum. So today the 'good wife' using my brain child has become a billionaire. No credit to me. No compensation no royalty. But the 'good wife' is good, let raising the the childeren be my royalty.
Buoyed by her own success without any recourse to the creator, the Ebu Delta state born 'Good Wife, has gathered a litany of resentment, she has registered a new company to own the program discarding the company we set up together, she has sued for and gotten a divorce, and 20 years on she still carries a bitterness and will still go to extremes to tarnish my image.
But after 20 years, one would think she has had her fill of putting me down. Her resentment seems to be that I contested nothing, challenged nothing, not ownership. Not even compensation. But know this 'Good wife' Agatha ALL YOU HAVE EVER OWNED, ALL YOU WILL EVER OWN IS BECAUSE OF INSIDE OUT.
My brain child my intellectual property.
Yet to put a nail to a coffin to bury me for being silent, taking no heed of the billions you haved harvested, carefree of your stupendous assets. 'The good wife' will dare tradition. Challenge abomination,embrace taboo, stare Africa in the Eyes to manipulate my daughter and her husband, to hoodwink the love birds and walkMy Daughter down the Isle, to give Stephanie away to a husband.
I can't keep quiet any more. It's time to speak up. This is an Abomination. This is Taboo. No where in the world, no where in Africa, No where in Delta State and the lands where we come from can a woman give away her child in marriage especially where the father is alive. Especially when the father is willing and able. Worse when the father is in the same city.
What malice would drive a woman in an attempt to rubbish her ex to lead his daughter to marriage. What manipulation would warrant concealing the date and time from a father who has already given his blessing. Even if the daughter forgets. when father and daughter are in the same city of London. Is it not the place of 'The Good Wife'
Good people of the world, netziens well wishers haters and influencers. What options are left to this heart broken father, how do you throw away the baby with the bath water, do you cast away the ones you will forever love, because a 'good wife' has been blinded by wealth and fury to jeopardise the fathers blessings on his daughter. They came to me in London, Aaron brought Drinks as Kola to me the father as the pictures show.
What kind of 'good wife' does a thing like this simply to make a man look bad?"
I wish PEACE on both parties
ReplyDeleteThere is something about the AMATAs and how they treat their women....Hmm na wa...After all these years, at least put a united front for the sake of your daughter....Why do this on your daughter's happiest day...
Delete@SEP, are you being serious?
DeleteSo the man hasn't endured enough?? For 20 years??
When Saint Obi died, everybody blamed him for not speaking out.
Now a man has kept quiet for good 20 years and decided that enough is enough and spoke out, and you're still blaming him??!!
Omo, I can't deal.π΅
@Apple why do you always like to support a cheating husband.
DeleteIs like you are dating a married man....
Apple, you clearly dont know their story. He has been quiet bcos he has nothing to say. Guy is simply reaping the fruit of his labour.
DeleteFoundational problem.
DeleteNot one of them is married.
Quite unfortunate.
@Mouse 10:19, the fact that I don't paint all men with same brush must be very painful to you.
DeleteAnd No! I can never date a married man for the life of me. But wait o, is that supposed to be an insult to me? Like if I am dating a married man, na me go be the first person to do that??
Your brain dey pain you.π
@ Miss Aboki, I'm not even supporting him o, I am only against him not being allowed to talk.
Check my main comment, I said that his daughter going with the plan as an adult says something is wrong somewhere.
That means he got it wrong with her.
Anybody wey wan talk, man or woman should be allowed to to do so,. That's all.π
This Right here is " For all those Men that Say,When she wants to Marry,She will look for me"
ReplyDeleteAll Parents should be Available(intentional) in the lives of their Children .
I doubt Agatha has,had any say in Her Child's decision of not allowing Fred into the Marriage plans.
They had already gone to see Him,If she wanted him,She would have involved him in her Marriage plans,For God sake, They all live in the Uk together.
Thank you.
DeleteI'm not siding anyone of them but hope he was there for the daughter.
DeleteThank you.
DeleteNot even these GenZ's who has a mind of their own. You better be responsible cos they won't find you.
"All Parents should be Available(intentional) in the lives of their Children". This statement is so on point, you can't be an absentee father and expect your opinion to be respected.
DeleteYul hope you dey see with your korokoro eyes now
Thank you for this statement. The daughter, her fiance, Fred's son with Agatha, and his daughter's fiance's family knew the date of the wedding the day this picture was taken and chose not to let him know. The Agatha that financed the sins wedding and stll stood with you was likely told by the daughter not to include you in planning. It's certainly part of why she opted out of a traditional wedding so as not to involve you in anyway. That's a hurting girl nursing a heart her father broke and mummy has been trying to mend.
DeleteThe son may have had no choice regarding his own marriage since his side had to meet demands but no one can break a girl's heart like her Dad. Fathers like Patrick Doyle and the Amatas really wasted their youth on crass foolishness.
This write up will further convince the daughter that she made the right choice.
If Amata feels robbed concerning the TV show, he should take up legal measures. If he can prove his presence in the lives of the children when they needed him most as their mother toiled alone,he should remind them.
Other children of his will still pull this stunt because I don't think he was a present or providing father to Ibinabo's kid either or is her stillbirth of an acting career also his brainchild?
Fred should ask himself why none of his brain children can feed him today if he can't realize that this good wife kept that brain child alive and thriving without his help for decades, while he was skirt hopping right in the faces of her and her children.
The Amata boys have a lot of family patterns to address. Calling Africa and heritage to save what common sense could have prevented seems futile.
Gone are the days when they’ll say the child will grow up and look for their father. Irresponsible men are irrelevant, a lesson to y’all wondering pricks… !
ReplyDeleteYul Edochie, continue oh. This Fred thinks we have forgotten what he did to his wife with Ibinabo.
ReplyDeleteY’all think ur kids are not watching. They even brought the man to you. I won’t be surprised they told him she would be walking her down that aisle and he said over his dead body.
Thank God the girl kuku marry oyibo who no send una tradition of condoning and rewarding evil as long as it’s perpetrated by men (the makers of the said tradition)
When you allow God fight your battles you will always win, she doesn't need to respond to these accusations.
ReplyDeleteOniranu . You left the responsibility of the children to her alone and you want think that your opinion will be respected . You that left your marital home and was having and affair with Ibinabo even having a daughter with her. Fred I no forget oh
ReplyDeleteHmn...*sigh*
DeleteReally??
DeleteChei! His affair with Ibinabo was all over the place. Now he's ranting nonsense..
DeleteThis is so sad to read,I don't like vindictive people. Don't use your kids as a bargaining chip in the war between you and your spouse. πππ
ReplyDeleteThis man did what Yul is doing now, besides who is the child here? Do children get married? A woman is getting married and you blame her mother for her dad’s absence? No na
DeleteFan Emmanuel
Their case is different. You see how yul edochie is disgracing his lineage? That was exactly what this epa did that year. The kids wont be kids forever, they see everything.
DeleteHe was the Yul of that time, forgetting that time will tell @ Aboki, na Epa him be now? π€£π€£
DeleteWhen you tell some irresponsible ones (man/woman) to change their ways cos they will reap their rewards, e be like say na bluff. Ngwanu!
DeleteChildren will not all ways look for an irresponsible parent, at least not this sets.
His daughter is an adult and she made her choice. Shebi he had a child with Ibinabo while married the Agatha? He should walk that one down the isle na. Una never see anything, this will be yul edochie few years from now.
ReplyDeleteIbinabo might take a Cue of this and Decide to walk her daughter herself seeing that She has only a Daughter ππππ
DeleteFred ACTUALLY WALKED OUT ON Ibinabo Fiberisima as well when she had their daughter and said THAT A BABY WAS NOT PART OF THEIR AGREEMENT in that adulterous byrelationship.
DeleteThat was Ibinabo's nemesis for jointly breaking up Agatha's marriage yo Fred Amata!
No naaa @ Anon 19:19.
DeleteMy Daughter and Ibinabo's Daughter with Fred were in same School( Year 7 and 8) Before they relocated to the UK and in this 2years,I see both Ibinabo with Fred attending Occassions in the School,If You say Currently maybe but As of 3 years ago,They were still together
I saw Ibinabo with Fred attending Occassions in the School
DeleteMarie they were probably just attending together, they broke up a long time ago...remember that Ibinabo married and divorced?na d pikin hold dem together,, she is so beautiful.
DeleteSDK thank you for clarifying this for Marie.
DeleteI know what I wrote at 19:19 is based on facts.
Really Stella??
DeleteI didnt know ooooh,They Usually hold hands,Walking together.
And Yes,Their Daughter was,is Beautiful,
All this internet ranting is for what?
ReplyDeleteOur sympathy?Here,take truck loads of sympathy and use it to collect money from your bankπ
The world hasn't forgotten your gallivanting in case you don't remember.
If you had a good relationship with your daughter,you wouldn't be writing all these epistles for those who really don't care.
Like! I was reading and waiting to get to where it's the woman's fault I all of these. Baba, carry your load. Your daughter is an adult, why are you not writing against her? Enjoy the result of your waywardness in peace.
DeleteI'm baffled at the comments I'm reading. Like what? You guys missing the point,huh?
DeleteAgatha Amata has committed ~sacrilege~π²ππ± if she actually walked her daughter down the aisle, Fred isn't the only male in the Amata family,where are they?
It's not about whether he cared or not,it's deadass wrong when he's not incapacitated nor dead.
Prince Charles walked Meghan Markle down the aisle with the consent of some Markle uncles she has. Helloo?π₯ΊHe should be there and Agatha can decide not to sit or stand close to him. No aso ebi, nothing.Alibaba the comedian,his daughter Xara also married a white guy in same London,isn't his case with his wife similar?
When the repercussions arise, + Agatha,+ her daughter,+ Fred who didn't raise alarm because he obviously knew the wedding held. Dem go hear am.
This same Amata family has stinking record of "irregular" marriages riddled with divorce and separations. THERE'S A CURSE somewhere.They better find it and break it because it's entering grand kids level.
Women like actress Ngozi Ezeonu know how far,don't play with tradition. No ekpere from your Rev Fada will rescue you.
Is Prince Charles , the father of Meghan Markle or did you not see her mother there?
DeleteWhat language do you understand let me type in it?
DeleteThe Markles chose Prince Charles to do the walk. It's called due sidelining.
AFTER CONSULTATIONS.
Copy that "after consultations".
In this case scenario Fred didn't know the wedding held.
#sacrilege
No repercusion will arise in Jesus name. Sacriledge kor sacrifice. Is walking down the isle even a Nigerian tradition?
DeleteMiss Aboki...learn to skip posts way above your mental wavelength and level of exposure.
DeleteRead the comments on this post judiciously and jot down the salient points being raised by ADULTS.
Read me again ADULTS,it's not a kpakpangolo post, okay?
Not like your 2 eyeballs have seen the 3 Esu Meta at the Lagos Tollgate? You been anywhere near Masha Kilo bus stop? Or Winnis Guest House? Shushhhh!π€«
Did Fred keep quiet ,Yes? Why? For posterity sake,his kids,he was a bad husband but his wife Agatha too had her "runs", let's not get into how Dove Tv license came about.
This post isn't about adultery.
Lock your door and open your window, observe from there because it's just starting.
@Xhlrted P there's no sacrilege here.
DeleteTradition is made for man not man for tradition. Copy that!
Besides, is white wedding an African or Delta State tradition?
Fred had been given his due honour by the couple (which he doesn't deserve).
Did he not collect the hot drink?
Did Agatha collect the dowry?
When Fred left his family and was running around with Ibinabo Fiberisima, and even had a baby, did you come to the blog to pontificate?
A woman who raised her children by herself walking her daughter down the aisle on her wedding day is no sacrilege!
It is an HONOUR!
*Onye lΓΌΓΆ nya liΓ©!*
Yen yen yen. Adult that will open mouth waaa and be yarning shit.
DeleteXP nobody committed sacrilege here that's the fear & guilty they put into people. Watch it her union is blessed. Just like what people say that a woman would not eat anything used from her husband's burial lol my mum taught me how to convict the spirit before you eat what people alleged that belongs to it.
DeleteAna akogheri. Ndi sacrilege, ana emenu.
DeleteYul should just copy and save the Fred's message store it on his diary because in few years to come he is going to need it .
ReplyDeleteSo when this thing starts happening to him, he won't be looking for what to type just simple edits here and there.
You that had a whole baby on your wife and I heard you were even flaunting it on magazines then same way Yul is misbehaving on social media with Judy.
That his family nawao Moving ran for her life from your brother now see the way you treated your wife in the past.
Your ex wife is doing better and so is Mbong.
Go and wait for Ibinabo daughter to get married maybe then they might consider you to walk her down the aisle
And u will still see people choosing to drag Daniella when she does this!
Deleteπππ your comment about Yul is so funny but you wrote the absolute truth. He should safe it very well.
DeleteThis is so funny. Yes he should just edit this one and insert his name that's all.
Delete@Eka leave them they must still find ways to drag even now on twitter men are defending Fred saying he was maltreated.
Delete@Osundi Yul needs to save the message ooo because that girl Daniella will show him pepper.
This generation no send that nonsense talk of she will look for her father when she wants to marry.
Highest they will buy hot like they did for Pa Fredππ they should drink and wallow in their misery
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DeleteThe both of Them Should just Come Together and talk things out..
ReplyDeletePeace Matters here oo..
As he be say nah white wedding she done do so, father and mother can still Organise traditional wedding so the Father can be present ..
It is well with them oo..
Hello iya Boys
It's well...
ReplyDeleteRegardless of Fred Amara’s mistakes
ReplyDeleteRegardless of all you all know
Regardless of the sides you take
He should be part of his daughters big day
Period
He is willing and available
He should be part of it.
It’s totally wrong
Well.... i guess the Daughter thinks otherwise.
DeleteLet Us all be careful as Humans in our Actions and Words.
Yimu
DeleteI think it was her daughter's choice, hope irresponsible men should learn from this
DeleteYou shall all see what will come out of the marriage. Pain and bitterness, just the way they made the man feel. I wish them well but you see that oyinbo, he go make sure he treat her the way she treats her father . All women treating men with bitterness…dont know we are the only being God took time to make , we are divine. When a man cries God hears . All of una talking like oyinbo, saying cheating and stuffs like that , no worry . Most of you will still end up as second or fourth wife like your great grandmothers or single like your woke mothers
Delete12:28, be a deadbeat dad and this will be ur future, yeye epistle or not!
DeleteWhen you dishonor your dad
DeleteYour husband watches and see his future with you
Na oyibo divorce no kuku hard am
Wrong foundations don’t help anybody
Your father is no fool
I am female and my child should go out her dad in her marriage except he is not willing
Anons 12.28 according to Sir, Pete Yul picked Judy without his knowledge & blessings as a father why is it that no man has said something about what will become of their union? Is it only when it comes to a woman? Anons you are not God
DeleteIf he wasn't part of her life all these while, what is he looking for? There are rewards for misdeeds like this se! Nobody is taking sides, he already created them.
DeleteFred should bless himself first. What did he bring into his marriage with Agatha who has blessings from both father and mother?
DeleteWhen failed fathers are put in on their place, they begin to threaten with curses since they have refused to ever be a blessing to their children.
Fred should fess up and apologize to all his children for his decades of shameful conduct. Not every deadbeat will be lucky.
Pain and bitterness pressed down, shaken together and running over is yours. Drink and have your fill.
Delete12:28 and 13:47 EMPTY WORDS!
DeleteIRRESPONSIBLE FATHERS have NO BLESSINGS TO GIVE and NO HONOUR TO RECEIVE❗
"Fathers PROVOKE NOT YOUR CHILDREN TO WRATH" - check this out in the Bible.
A father that refused to bear the responsibilities of his children is already a cursed man.
DeleteHe prayer will not pass his ceiling talk less of getting to heaven.
So many cursed men walking around looking for who to blame for their frustrations.
They want reap the fruits of someone else's labor.
Some are so shameless, they except the children to look after them when they could not look after the same children.
Anon 12:28 & 13:47, abeg carry your lies away from here! Many divorces & seperations happen, didn't the both parents bless those marriages? If any couple decide to go their seperate ways, fine. Not this nonsense both of you are ranting.
DeleteMaybe you are a deadbeat father and a bad husband to the mother, reason why she didn't get you involved
ReplyDeleteNot maybe, he indeed was a bad husband.
DeleteSo now that you finally opened up after 20yrs what should we do? Netizens should pity you or what? Kai❗Mr Fred we didn't forget your philandering ways then and how you maltreated Agatha, the kids were watching and if one decides not to involve you on her big day then blame your damn self
ReplyDeleteActions have consequences,so face yours...I hope others who are towing your path can see ? Gone are the days menh when you think even if as a dead beat or irresponsible fathers will be remembered by their children,not anymore
Thank You ...
DeleteActions have Consequences
Exactly π
DeleteThat's just it.
DeleteI was sad when I read about it I thought they have settled.
ReplyDeleteIt's good you speak up.
ReplyDeleteBut what I know is that, if you have been a good father, your daughter is an adult, so there's no way she would have ignored you like that.
Something is wrong somewhere.π
Oga Fred I believe your daughter is an adult and can make decisions. If she really wants you to walk her down the aisle, nobody would make her do otherwise.
ReplyDeleteThis pity party you're seeking for won't happen.
Actually.
DeleteDaughters would always wants to have their Daddy walk them down the Aisle, For her not to after going to visit him with her husband says a Lot.
I thought you were more learned than Agatha but with the look of things, she's more matured than you, not in age wise but with this whole ish. For over 20 years you were hoping for reconciliation as howπ€· what effort did you make to reconcile with your ex-wife. What about Ibinabo or you forget to talk about that part. Imagine calling your ex-wife names π³ good woman , oh l see you want to rubbish her name, Oga fear God, just take a look at what you write about her. Pls stop dragging her and let her be. You were properly informed about the wedding, probably you decided not to go along with the whole thing, and they decided to continue with the wedding preparation. As a father, did you care to know how they were preparing for the wedding, you didn't say anything because l was waiting for you to address that part but l didn't read anything pertaining to that angle. or they should keep waiting for you. . I don't understand this your rants
ReplyDeleteI wish Agatha will not reply you, becos if she writes her own part, people will now understand what's has been happening between both of you.
Licious Babe
Thanks a lot...You nailed it ππΏππΏ
DeleteThanks a lot...You nailed it ππΏππΏ
Delete10:15 Fred and Agatha are both learned. They met in the university as undergraduates and got married thereafter.
DeletePeople admired their union then but Fred decided to ruin what would've been a match made in heaven with his philandeering ways.
Fred what are you all about. You deadbeat father's your end is always this way. You left catering of these kids to only Agatha and now you are ranting. This is always the case 20 years later. you want reconciliation how?
ReplyDeleteThis is so sad to read.
ReplyDeleteAll I can see here is your interest in "Insideout" Ok, let's agree you founded a
ReplyDeleteshow that met their financial needs, what about their emotional needs? You chose Ibinabo and her kids over your nuclear family. You even did so with reckless abandon! I'm in my 40s so I sabi your story Mr handsome. While you were away enjoying your youth, the good wife sacrificed all enjoyment to nurture her kids. Don't worry, you get plenty kids nah, what you could not get from the "good wife" you will get from the good baby mama!
LOL π€£@the last three lines.
DeleteThose that supported what Agatha did, hope u we’re not against what Chris Oyakilome’s similar action to his ex wife , Anita , bcoz it’s d same thing, stopping or shielding ur ex from being part of d joy of ur daughter. From what we read up there, with names mentioned as witnesses,d fact that Fred was literally d Founder , Initiator & d Brain behind “Inside Out”, that made Agatha who she is today, financially & otherwise, from where she leveraged on d proceeds & trained their children, is enough to involve him in any celebration that concerns their kids & we all know that there’s no more money in Nolly Wood, meaning that Fred might be financially down. If d there was no separation in d marriage, , “Inside Out” would have been a family business, including Fred, if u get my drift. I saw when they all celebrated their children’s graduation years back , so what changed.? D way I felt when Chris Oyakilome stopped Anita from attending their daughter’s wedding , is d same way I feel now. Not cool at all.
ReplyDeleteUr right anon.i know Fred didn't do well putting her and the children tru wat dey went tru.and being an absent father but I wish she could have just let him do this.cos he is her father.even if the daughter didn't want it, Agatha should have insisted and show Fred she is the bigger person and not allow all this attention calling by Fred to mar her daughter's wedding day memories. Agatha has bin tru alot most of us saw wat he did but it doesn't make it right for her to stoop to his level. Don't join him in the mud dear Agatha.
DeleteThe way some of you lie unprovoked needs to be studied!! Anon,do you have any evidence to back up this claim that Pastor Chris stopped Pastor Anita from attending their daughter's wedding???!!! Please fear God o!
DeleteI was going to scroll past but I couldn't ignore that your lie,because some gullible ones will read it and start spreading this hearsay up and down! Please fear God!!
And Agatha just sat there as a dunce while Fred ran the show? So if the director claims he is the star of the show, what should the producer say? What of those in front of and others behind the camera? Who leveraged the show and made billions other colleagues could not make without losing her values? Was having public affairs that led to many children also part of the show ? Was ignoring children's emotional and financial needs in the name of "I made your mother" part of the show ? What held his hand from making another show?
DeleteWhen he wondered off to make Ibinabo and other women, why didn't Hemr Maker bother to make himself? How has the show continued for decades despite all the public ridicule when he left? Is it that without Agatha in front of the camera using her cerebral sagacity, Mr maker had nothing to direct but without Fred the maker, Agatha continued to soar higher in a male dominated field, making and drawing more directors than Fred?
The children who's mothers he didn't make, how responsible is he regarding fatherly duties? When wicked people narrate their son story, they should not forget that it's not the wicked that will judge.
Fred should set his house in order and apologize to the good wife and her good children for leading them into the uncharted waters of abomination as he calls it. Not every child will be broken and caged by tradition that ignores their humanity.
15:07 thank you for speaking up. Anon, much as I am heartbroken over Pastor Anita and Pastor Chris's divorce, you have no proof Pastor Anita was barred from her daughter's wedding. She was the first to know and announce her daughter's engagement. She actually raised and lived with her two daughters alone for about 14 years. What if she a chose to stay away from all the hurt she endured?
Delete15:53 you π― % right!
DeleteHumanity over tradition!
Oga Fred, are you in your daughter's life? Cuz if you were you will be actively involved in her big day.
ReplyDeleteDo you have a relationship with her?
Do you speak with her weekly?
Were you there for her?
If she needs advise on important issues, can she pick up the phone and call you?
Can she confide un you?
Answer these questions sincerely and you will understand why your presence didnt matter at the event.
ππMay God increase your knowledge Amen π
DeleteLicious Babe
You know this believe with African Men, that they can always get away with any issue cos sem be "Man" ?? Those days are far gone !!! Tradition say, Tradition no say π. If you dont do or act well, you'd be thrown out of the game.
ReplyDeleteGod is not asleep , you cant come and reap where you did not sow Mba !!! ko le werk.
So Agatha is innocent in all this? Fred was with Ibinabo after his marriage already crashed. Some of us remember the scandal that led to the end of that marriage and I think the man is generous and respectful not to have brought it up in this post. I don’t get why a woman will agree to walk her daughter down the aisle in a circumstance as this. I don’t understand why some women celebrate themselves on Father’s Day.
ReplyDeleteAbeg get out
Delete
ReplyDeleteI never knew that a time like this will come when Fred will rant because this guy moved to other women instantly & was fathering children now , he's aging, fame is diminishing, he's not rich and his hotness no dey again. Fred was super irresponsible then and was never involved in rasing his children. Agatha practically stopped her life to train this children to be responsible & successful.
My advice to Fred & other irresponsible fathers and mothers is that there is always a day of reckoning
Stopped her life? Hmmmn.
DeleteBut she went on to more money and more.
Let us keep the ball in the park.
I think baba is just shocked his own child led hm on then gbe won ni serious handicap.
ReplyDeleteHe was convinced he had sweettalked and sweet walked his way into the heart of a girl who terribly wanted to be a Daddy's girl instead of just coming clean and saying he is sorry for the life he led and living like the apology is heartfelt. He cannot believe how badly she is hardened so he is blaming the only responsible parent the two children have.
Apparently, she is truly his daughter. She shunned him the same way he shunned the marriage and children of his youth. His son colluded meaning they have no close relationship and the door he shut when they were mere toddlers, they have locked from within. They only endured his presence at his wedding but since then have remained close only to their mom.
When fred was hot and happening, he claimed to be a born again divorce and clearly stated the marriage was over. Just two decades later with alleged billions and clearly successful children on the other side, Fred claims he is looking for reconciliation after how many concubines and bastards to stain the stability Agatha used her youth to secure.
I hope the younger Amatas are watching. It doesn't have to come to this. You can still earn your children's respect.
"Bastards?? Strong word. Even the English man would not readily use that English word in public.
DeleteThis man has time to be honest. Is marriage the end of the world?
ReplyDeleteWe are ever ready to throw away most to make our minute points?
ReplyDeleteAn adult is not a child?
All adults are children of two people. They are ever so. That is why some obituary say "survived by children, grand children, ... And some obituaries are signed by a son/daughter who is an Oga at the top of even a country.
How many of you would want your 35 year old son or daughter not to do what CHILDREN of your class/society are expected to do for/with their parents? After all, a 35 years old man/woman is not a child, right?
Tradition is nothing?
How many of you who said so will not want your wine carrying ceremony done in your hometown even if it is at your mother's home as your father was dead beat?
How many of you would not want any bride price paid?
How many of you would not want the marital list met?
He was visited that is tradition done; what part of his tradition is church wedding that required him to be there?
So why did you do or would you want a "white" wedding after wine had/has been given to your father in his home. What part of Nigerian tradition requires white wedding for marriage to be completed?
Point is:e
Life is a bundle of actions/inactions and consequences. If the matter on the ground is consequence for his actions/inactions, let that be the focus. No need to twist or cancel out what we believe in, we are living in, or we will do tomorrow to make our points against him