WEDNESDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

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Shout out to all the women here...I hope your woman crush Wednesday is going well? I hope and pray so!

In this life, please make sure you are Loyal to someone that has your back in good and bad times...If you show Loyalty to someone who can never be there for you, its like saving water in a basket for a day you will need it....THINK ABOUT THIS VERY WELL.... This message may be for you!

Let me share 100k for ten people this weekend.

Glam granny Gigi sent me 25k for someone, I dont wanna mention who before others will form their own format....The person will get the money today or tomorrow....

Let me look for what to eat.........

Enjoy your day and say hi to Doggy...

Those my kind of posts about men and women will continue tomorrow, make i give some people space to breathe.....sideeyes

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MADAM AMEBO CORNER.....

Good day Dearest Stella, love found one of my friends and I am so happy for her.

This girl suffered a lot in her previous marriage, most times we will sit together and be talking about our horrible pasts, sometimes we end up crying and wishing it will get better.

One of our neighbors at the shop celebrated his birthday,, it was big,  he was involved in a ghastly motor accident, a lot of people died in that accident, so this Bros decided to celebrate his second chance at life, his friends from far and near came, it was a very beautiful and decent event, na me this love for find ooo, but I was busy hustling food, na so better man take pass me by.

One of the guests  from Lagos invited her to join their table, she was about turning the guy down if not for the quick intervention of one of us, she sat with them, na small thing remain, this guy been wan fold enter her body, he kept acting like some lost dog, I even thought he was drunk but he wasn't, after the event, they exchanged contacts, the next day he called her to meet him somewhere, she was having cold feet 

But I begged her to go if not for anything, just to kill boredom since they'll be meeting at an open place, she went and it was such a beautiful meeting, this guy loved her more when she told him that she's a mother of 2kids.

He's been taking care of her and her kids, he adores her, na this people relationship teach me say "when you add value to what you have, that the world will adjust and respect what you value too", 

He invited  her over during the long holiday, she went with her kids, she said the guy is an Angel, he almost refused them coming back, he practically introduced them to everyone he knows and he's very comfortable.

She told me he didn't disturb her about s#x and he was really cool with her kids,.

Na last weekend we dey ooo, the guy called her to pick a waybill he sent for them, he bought the children's back to school stuff, bought her a new phone and some clothes plus engagement ring and begged her over the phone to marry him, my head wan burst, if you see this beautiful ring eeh chaiii.

I dey shop the next day when she called to inform me that he's coming with his people this weekend to do introduction,

I have not been myself since then, I am so so happy for her cos she's been through a lot, that news brought a lot of meanings like man wey go marry you, no go waste your time, a man that knows what he wants and goes for it is a treasure and should be celebrated. 

Love is a beautiful thing, if you're in the right place with the right person, no let anybody fool you, true love still exists, if not for this my pot belly, shebi i for ask  the brother if he has any available brother... Mtchewww 

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha you can still ask if he has brother, who go love you no go mind your biggy belle naaaaaa

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PINKYS CORNER
People are really passing through a lot and I wonder how on earth will a sane person tend to add more to one's problem. I pity those girls walking either with the Chinese or Lebanese (I mean the live in house maids or cook).

For those of us who knows park view area very well. There is a particular area there where you can find 7 storey buildings or so. There is a particular one I'm using as a case study but for security purposes shaaa. Make I pim. Those people who stays in there are too wicked (I don't know to you after reading this). It's a 6/7 storey building and each apartment has its own house maid and cook.

The cook and the maid of every apartment are not allowed to use the LIFT. I was so curious and needed to get info. Met a lady at a Mart in there who came to get pain killer and robb. A very pretty lady and we got talking.8 engaged her joking and she was so calm and accommodating. I asked her what she needed it for and she explained.You need to see this lady, so pretty and speak English fluently. I was surprised when she said she is a maid(there is dignity in labor but just kind of wondering the correlation).

We spoke at length. We walked out of the mart and continued our discussion.i asked her several questions but what immediately she said she works with a white man who stays on the 5 floor and she comes down stairs countless times in a day and she is just tired of the job. I tried encouraging her and also made her see reason to not give up but what amazed me was that, she said they are not allowed to use the LIFT either when going up or coming down. The lift is only for their boss and his/her family.

I asked her if only for she and the maid who walks with her boss and she replied saying "na everybody". That is, all the maids and cook in that building are not allowed to use the lift. We discussed a lot but make I leave that for now and face this issue. Why ? Who does that? You ask human like you to not use the lift with you, not even considering that, they are women. You still send them on an errand and they think it's easy right? How many times will such person buy drugs to kill the pain? I had to ask her if we're the lift was located is closer to their boss room or what? And she said no then why? She replied saying "that's the rule and we must abide".

People should learn to know how to treat people rightly. This is also talking to you, I mean you reading this and most especially those of you who has maids and cook. Please treat this people right and don't mal-treat them because they work for you. It's not a good thing to do. Because he is a driver doesn't mean, you should travel with him and make him sleep in the car while you are lodged in an hotel (bad thing to do). There are some people you need to treat well because at times,they will determine if you will die young or not(if you know you know). Your driver can kill you, your cook can poison you, your P.A can set you up, your gate man can also set you up. Please, make them happy. Though, there are some that will still act like a born devil even after treating them like a family but God's mercy and grace will always prevail.
Be a burden lifter
Be constructive and not destructive
That you have now and able to employe them is a grace and don't use what you got by grace to disgrace others.
Ire ooooo

But have you considered that they may spoil the life or get trapped in there from over use and bad operation....I know someone who spoilt the lift in same scenario and they are still shopping for parts which runs into millions, i was asked to help source for the part sand i refused cos its stressful..... I may be wrong but if anyone is being treated poorly at work, you have every reason to leave...Dont these people have a union they can complain to?

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BUSINESS GIVEAWAY RECHARGE CARD FROM BV ADAOLUCHI

Thank you for the cards..I am so happy that the business is going well...

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WEIRD FACTS
----Being a perfectionist can result in stress and depression.

----Having no friends could be as deadly as smoking, a Harvard University study suggests.

----In 2011, a man in the UK fed up with marketers calling him changed his phone line to a premium rate number
When telemarketers called, he would make money by letting them talk

---It takes about 50 hours of socializing to go from acquaintance to casual friend, an extra 40 hours to become a “real” friend, and 200 hours in total to become a close friend

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