Tuesday In House NEWS

  Hailings!!!

IN HOUSE MEMO....

How una dey..

Person call me winch for spontaneous post today because of comment wey i make so i say make i balance with this dogs photo....It may even be the person that made that Dog comment....Abeg nor be by force to come this side if you feel i get winch and i dey chop your luck.......
Na ya mate dey visit this Blog dey progress but you choose to negative nah...Abeg no let me dey laugh anyhow jor......

What the Lord has done for me eh, I cannot tell it all but i cant and wont stop praising his name and making sure that i try to make this place his dwelling place..........I need una eep too oh...After gossip and all make we nor gorget God..I know say true true winch fit dey visit this blog but i beg them to use their winch take serve God...Una doh!

Enjoy the day.....

See another dog photo oh...

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD.

I have been seeing a lot of comments on social media pages saying “ My child is too stubborn for gentle parenting”, “gentle parenting cannot work for kids like mine”. Statements like this show how much gentle parenting is being misunderstood.
Gentle parenting is not talking to children in soft voices and giving in to their whims. Gentle parenting isn’t permissive parenting. It’s being a parent who leads with empathy and honesty.
A gentle parent is a parent who is firm on the child, honest, understanding, and compassionate. It's about treating your child like humans without abuse, without threatening and humiliating the child , without hitting and screaming and all.
magine you have a boss who, on a new job, shouts at you every time you make a mistake and humiliate you too. You will definitely learn the ropes fast, but your emotional health will be in shambles.
This is the same way the child is seen as a new being, trying to navigate life without experience and deserve to be taught patiently.
It’s okay to mess up as a gentle parent. After all, we are still healing, too, and trying our hardest to break the cycle .Gentle parents are allowed to make mistakes, too . I have made a ton of mistakes myself and will still make more in the future.
The goal is not to be perfect. It ’s about trying hard every day to give parenting your best shot in the most compassionate and empathetic way possible. It’s a lifetime journey.

You make this parenting thing seem like childsplay but i know that it is not.....LOL

My Bambinos are not easy at all oooh, they are like me (clears throat) and like their stubborn Father..Sometimes my hubby will just hands off and say ''its the Nigerian thing in them '' and i always ak what Nigerian thing he means...hahahahahahahahahaha...They are better now sha but.............

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SHOKY AAAARGH FROM BV KING ''ANUTY'' JERRY

Thank you so much my darling Jerry......

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MEMO TO MEN
DONT LET A WOMAN MAKE YOU HER RETIREMENT PLAN

After you’ve spent years building yourself up—grinding, sweating, sacrificing—don’t make the mistake of becoming a retirement plan for some delusional and entitled woman who spent her prime years hopping from one man’s bed to another in the name of “having fun.” Those same women who told themselves, “I’m living my best life” in their 20s, will suddenly come looking for you when they’ve burned through their options and can no longer find the attention they crave.
They’ll hit you with, “I’ve changed,” or, “I’m ready to settle down now,” because now that they’ve exhausted their supply of high-flying thrills and toxic relationships, they’re looking for a safe landing—and that’s where they think you come in. But here’s the reality: You didn’t hustle through your 20s and 30s just to save someone who lived recklessly. That’s not your responsibility, and it’s certainly not your destiny.

You see, these women aren’t offering anything of real value, just baggage, regrets, and inflated self-entitlement. They’ll say, “I deserve a good man now,” but the truth is, they haven’t earned a man like you. A man who has spent years building himself into an Alpha, a man who has his finances in check, his values solidified, his discipline honed. You deserve better.
You’re not here to pick up the pieces of someone else’s reckless life. You deserve a woman of high value—a woman who kept her standards high, kept her virginity intact, and respected herself enough not to play the foolish game of “hot girl summer” at the expense of her future.

The truth is, a high-value woman is rare, but she’s worth the wait. She’s the woman who understands what it means to respect a man, who was raised well by her father, and who doesn’t come to you with baggage, issues, and endless demands. She knows her worth, but unlike the delusional ones, she doesn’t need to sell you on it—her actions speak louder than her words.

She isn’t the woman who’s hitting her 30s, panicking because the well has dried up, and now she wants to settle down. No. She’s the woman who made wise decisions from day one—who focused on her growth, her values, and her future. She knew that one day she would meet a man like you, and she wasn’t about to waste her prime years jumping from one bed to another, killing her soul and self-worth in the process.

The entitled women of today think they can have it all. They think they can spend their 20s running wild, using men for attention, money, and whatever else they can get, only to turn around and find a “good man” to settle down with when it’s convenient for them. That’s the trap, fellas. They’re hoping you’ll be dumb enough to fall for it.

But here’s the hard truth: You’re not their backup plan. You’re not there to clean up their mess or save them from the consequences of their poor decisions. If she disrespected herself in her 20s, she’s not going to suddenly transform into the wife material you deserve just because she’s run out of other options.

Go for the high-value woman—the one who knows what it means to be feminine, a virgin, nurturing, respectful, and who values your leadership as a man. She’s not here for your money or status; she’s here because she sees real value in you as a person, and she wants to build with you, not take from you.
Don’t waste your time on women who have nothing left to offer but their past mistakes. You’ve worked too hard, sacrificed too much, and built too solid a foundation to waste it on someone who only sees you as a retirement plan.

Stay sharp, stay vigilant, and choose wisely. Your value is too high to settle for anything less. Remember, you’re not here to be anyone’s Plan B—you’re the Alpha, and you deserve a woman who understands that and respects you for who you are. Don’t let some entitled, delusional woman ruin what you’ve built with her sob stories and fake redemption arcs.

Demand respect.
Demand loyalty.
Demand character.
And most importantly, demand value—because that’s what you’ve spent your whole life building, and that’s what you deserve.

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