Do you know/believe that too much attention and choking can kill love? Do you believe in giving your partner space in the house?What is your view on sharing different bedrooms at home?
You wont believe this but having your own space at home and away from your space is very healthy....It has nothing to do with them loving you less but has everything to do with not losing yourself inside the union.....
Some of you will not agree to this mindset but if you spend all day together, it doesnt make love better, it chokes, it suffocates and it str#ngles love....
Lets gist!
What God has joined together, let no bedroom put asunder, so no!
ReplyDeleteYes oooo Ekalicious 👍👍👍
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Hello iya Boys
Stella. I disagree with you.
ReplyDeleteYou work, your spouse works.
Most likely, you both spend the day apart.
Then when both of you are back in the evening or night, you still go to your separate rooms.
I can’t even imagine such arrangement.
It stifles deep intimacy and true connection in my opinion
Before I and my husband got married, he drummed it into my ear that we would never have separate bed rooms.
Infact, if I go to another room to sleep, he would wake me up and ‘command’ me to go to our room
Funny thing is when he wants to keep malice he goes to sleep in the guest room😂😂😂. Then I come and remind him of our agreement and he comes back.
My point is, couples should have their own lives and not stifle each other. Sleeping on the same bed doesn’t mean your stifle each other. You can still give your spouse healthy space and preserve your intimacy
Selah
Mma Nwachukwu
Very compelling stance
DeleteI love having my me time. And I love the idea of having separate bedrooms.
ReplyDeleteNot happening! My mum warned me against it. Married for 40yrs and they slept in the same room. Beautiful marriage they had!
ReplyDeleteMe? I'm towing that path.
I hate separate bedrooms for couples, what of gist, intimacy and cuddling, they won't enjoy all these things to the fullest, if they have separate bedrooms.
ReplyDeleteI will never agree to couple having separate bedrooms with any man, because I like to cuddle a lot, infact I can leave a man because of that.
Ummmmmmmm
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