Monday In House News

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IN HOUSE MEMO

How una dey?How was the weekend? Please eh, from tomorrow, those of you who copy and paste long prayers should try to edit it..I dont think some of you even read what you post cos i have seen a kinda pattern......You cant just be copying and posting the word of God without any attempt to impact with the words and there is nowhere that says it must be so long like a book....Please take note cos i love to read such...

I am getting my thing ready to make indian curry sauce and basmati rice...so please bear with me if i am a little slow oh....Man must wack and my hubby and bambinos love food..lol (Somebody will come now and say im not married oh)

One of my Bambino is speaking pidgin like he grew up in Lagos...I am so shocked and begging him to stop and use his British or American accent more ....

''Mama how far, wetin you wan cook'' ''Mama how you dey'' ''Mama you don shop food''''Mama wetin dey be''.................my people be careful how you talk and what you tak, these children are recorders........I love his pidgin accent but i no want abeg...lol

Any way, make una enjoy the day, weather too cold here..

Make i go find Angel star to see whether any giveaway go dey .......

catch my hug....

Can we do pidgin bible quiz today?

Let me start.....

-WHO BE THE ASHEWO WEY HOLD JESUS FOR CLOTHE

:Who say ''Papa so you wan use me do suya?''

You guys can continue and reply each other.....

-how many wives bible say bra solo get?

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MADAM AMEBO CORNER
Good day Stella, hope you slept well? I saw something beautiful the other day, I have this neighbor at the shop, she's known for being troublesome, infact she can quarrel from morning till night, e be like tomtom to her soul....

 I have this aged woman that comes to buy one sugarless biscuit from me, so as usual the mama parked her vehicle and I was packing up the biscuits for her while my neighbor was doing was she knows how best to do, I noticed that mama kept staring at her...
Suddenly mama came down from her car and asked me to call the woman for her, I told her it would be better to call my village Chief priest than to call that woman but she insisted, so I went and called her, surprisingly she came that instance, mama told her that the other day she caught her yelling like this and today again she's on it, she asked her what she's bitter about, the woman said the person that provoked her called her barren, that even her husband calls her that too and it makes her really upset to hear anybody call her that, she said she doesn't get love or attention at home and it makes her really bitter....

So mama told her that people's opinion should not matter to her, she told her a few stories about life but the one that caught my interest was her ex-husband, she said the man was sent to India for education but couldn't complete cos the person financing his education died and he became stranded, so she took over, made sure he graduated, they came to Nigeria and got married, she also sent him to law school, paid the fees, and after school, she used her connections to get him a very beautiful job but he never spent a dime on her, he would always tell her that it's foolishness to pick stones and throw into the ocean that you will never find it after....

She said they stayed for years and the man never complained about their inability to have kids, even when she complained, the man would tell her that they were fine and kids will come when it will come...
Years later, she had a church program that would take her away for days, she packed her stuff and her husband drove her to the church vehicle, they kissed and said goodbye, while at the prayer camp, they were communicating well, only for her to come back and find out that this man has moved out of their matrimonial home, though the house belongs to the woman, he moved everything that belongs to him, so she called him to ask what went wrong, but he told her that she will be served the divorce papers soon, the woman said she cried so much and questioned God but later moved on.

She adopted two kids, a boy and a girl and joy found her again,
She later found out that her husband had another woman and was milking her to raise a family with that woman, they have 6kids , she said when she found out that he's been using her, she decided to create her own happiness and today she has no regrets, sometimes you don't have to allow people or conditions of life define you and give you a name that is not yours..

She gave the woman her number and told her that if she ever considered adopting, she should give her a call and she will help her both financially and otherwise, ever since then, a lot changed about this woman, she became more nice, happier and lively, sometimes the people we term angry and unhappy have pains they don't wanna share with anyone, and what the elder sees is deep...
If anyone had told me that this woman was not born to be that quarrelsome, I for no gree ooo.. no matter what you're facing in life, please be happy, create your own happiness, Help will come, there will be joy in the morning...

This is what a lot of women are going through.....I know someone in this same psotion and i pestered her to adopt and do surrogacy...The story is different today....Sometimes na money to hold some women down wey dem no fit adopt or do surrogacy..Some women are married to men who dont waana hear the wordadopt

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GIST
I worked for someone as a nanny, in a family house, the lady lived with her sister in-law, mother and father in-law and her husband and child.
Her husbands babymama frustrated the woman so she left with her child and the baby mama quickly moved in. Her in-laws welcomed the babymama and were even calling her iyawo till their son in a different state came to stay with them.

It wasn’t long they began to quarrel and fight with the babymama, the man started accusing the babymama of using juju that made him have problems with his wife so he went back to his wife and they rented a different accommodation where they started living.
The babymama got frustrated and started pouring her frustration on everyone in the house including my innocent self.
She will quarrel with the father and mother of her baby papa including the baby papa elder brother that returned to stay with them. The guy told me he started pouring early morning urine in the woman’s cooked food cos she cooks differently ( I’ve caught him before sha).
I pleaded with him to stop cos her child/ his brother’s child also eat the food but he refused and promised to kee the woman silently since she chose to be insulting his parents in his presence.
I had to quit the job cos it was draining my mental health.
I later heard they fought with the babymama and ended up in police so she had to leave their house.

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FROM THE COMMENT SECTION
 Please I'm worried for my elder sister. She wakes up goes to the gym on empty stomach and workout for 3hrs I'll ask her why she stays so long in the gym she'll say it's because she was on the treadmill for 2hrs!!! I was like aunty on empty belly? I'll ask her what she wants to eat she'll say anything small and light. BTW she's 53. Should I be worried about her? Is she well?

Does she look well?

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