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IN HOUSE MEMO

Greetings to you all, especially those in Nigeria enjoying the work free day!...It is a Sunny cold day here and i dont know if i should wish for the sun to warm up everywhere or wish for winter .....It is a confusing mix...
Something happened on Saturday.... I was in a shopping mall gisting with some Chinese people when i locked eyes with an African lady and i winked at her and we laughed, she kep looking at me ( I had on my brown gushy face cap so she could really see)... She kept looking and i was just laughing and having fun and then she started walking up to me and i was thinking, Ah this my winking don put me for wahala oh....She got to me and said ''Please are you Stella?'' And i asked her which Stella and she said I follow you on Instagram...We both burst out laughing and exchanged numbers.. She is from one of these African Countries........ I just quickly rounded up buying the chinese told, did takeaway instead of eating there, make person no use me do content..LOL..... I gisted my Bambinos and kids and my hubby was like ''So you feel like a super star?''...And his children joined in and said ''Oh mama is a star''...Infact they finished me with sarcasm.......Today i am going back there to pick up the other pack of Chinese noodles i forgot...I wonder how all these big celebrities cope...being recognised anywhere steals ones privacy......... end of gist...
How was your Saturday and Sunday? Anything big happened?

Enjoy the rest of the day.....

xoxoxoxoxoxooxox

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MADAM AMEBO CORNER....
Good day Sdk, 
A young guy was rushed home to his village and what happened was that he and his friends went across the river to meet the famous ancient baba across the river (Babalawo), he prepared some charm for them and it worked like magic, they were cashing out so much, my landlord at the shop was always proud of him (cos they're siblings), he sings his praises...

Even recently he followed them to the place and each of the boys sacrificed 3 cows each, we saw videos of them bathing with the blood of the cow, the man stood in for them as their father, it was a terrible sight to behold...
Last month the boy got really sick, at first we thought he was reacting to the excessive boozing they ingest, but my landlord being who he is said there was more to the sickness, so he went in search of how it happened, only to find out that amongst the 4 friends who were always on convoy, that baba told them that one of them has to be used to furnish their Oke-ite as the thing as burning really hard and might consume all of them if them no give am blood suck...

So they decided amongst 3 of them to use my landlord younger brother, after all he's made more money and investments more than all 3 of them, so they told Baba to use him unknown to him, now he's very sick, he has spent all his money on buying blood, always weak, drained and pale, my landlord said he will not accept it and will return the favor to them but today the body got worse..
The boy left the hospital he was admitted in, came to his brother's workshop to beg him to take him home, that he wants to see his mom before he dies and he doesn't have much time, I saw him and tears was running down my cheeks on it's own, like he couldn't sit upright inside keke, even the GLE he no drive again, his friends are not anywhere in town, they have disappeared and abandoned him to his fate, even the so-called elder brother couldn't do anything, he just de boast de waka...
Immediately the boy left, he went back to his job, life is an individual race, the wages of sin is death, the blessings of God makes rich, e no de add sorrow, I remember when this boy bought him a land worth millions, when he would give him millions to lodge in a hotel and enjoy himself, na so him go come de tell us say he over drink cos the wan use enjoyment kill am,
I don't know what to pray for him, I don't think he'll survive this, whatever is wrong with him is out to finish him off and it's already doing so, before you consider rituals, before you tell them say your mind and moral carry am, please pause and think about this story, that wealth was shortlived cos of devil give you cap, he go collect , for devil side, nothing is Free...

What a sad story....

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A MEMO TO MEN

Listen up, Men!
If you think spending money on a woman will make her respect you, think again! You’ve been lied to, sold a fantasy that women will fall head over heels for the guy who buys them the most expensive gifts, takes them to lavish dinners, and showers them with money.

Newsflash: They don’t respect you for it. In fact, they see you as a f#ol, and you become nothing more than an ATM in her eyes.
Let me break it down for you: women are not impressed by how much you can spend on them. They might smile, bat their eyes, and thank you with sweet words, but deep down, they know exactly what’s going on. You’re buying their attention, their time, and their company.

They respect men who command respect through character, strength, and ambition—not by opening their wallets.
When you throw money around, you send a clear message: you’re trying to buy her approval. And guess what? No one respects a man who tries to buy affection. Women can smell desperation from a mile away, and the more you spend, the less respect you’ll get. She’ll take the gifts, enjoy the dinners, and smile for the Instagram photos, but deep down, she’s laughing at you. You’re just another guy in her collection of fools.

Think about it. When was the last time you truly respected someone who was willing to throw their hard-earned money at you for no reason? Never, right? Exactly. Women operate the same way. They’ll take what they can get, but respect? That comes from your actions, your ambition, and how much you respect yourself.

A man who respects himself doesn’t need to spend a fortune to get a woman’s attention. He knows his value and doesn’t feel the need to prove it with money. He’s on his grind, building his empire, and doesn’t waste time or resources trying to impress women who offer nothing in return. Real men invest in themselves, in their future, and in things that will yield results—not on temporary flings that drain their wallets.

You think she’s impressed with that new bag you bought her? That fancy vacation? No, she’s thinking about how to milk you for more. She’s testing your limits, seeing how much she can get out of you before you wise up. And once you do, she’ll move on to the next fool who’s willing to pay the price. Don’t be that guy.
Women respect men who don’t bend over backwards for them, who don’t try to buy their loyalty, and who set boundaries. They respect men who make them earn their place in their life, not men who hand it over on a silver platter. And that’s the key—make her earn it. Make her prove that she’s worthy of your time, attention, and resources. You’re not an ATM, and you’re not here to fund her lifestyle. You’re here to build your own life and find someone who adds value to it, not someone who drains it.

Stop being the f#ol who spends money on women thinking that will win her over. She doesn’t respect it. She’ll use you, laugh behind your back, and move on to the next guy when she’s done. Respect yourself enough to say “no.” Your money is for you to invest, to grow, and to build your future. If she’s not with you for who you are—your ambition, your grind, your vision—then she’s not worth it.

Men, wake up. You don’t need to impress anyone with money. Impress her with your drive, your character, your confidence, and most importantly, how little you’re willing to tolerate nonsense. That’s what earns you respect. Not the size of your bank account, but the size of your self-respect.

So next time a woman tries to test you, asking for expensive gifts or fancy dinners, look her in the eye and tell her, “I’m not that guy.” Let her know that your value isn’t measured by how much you can spend on her, but by the man you are. If she’s worth it, she’ll stay. If she’s not, let her go—and be glad you dodged a bullet.
Real men don’t buy respect. They command it. Know the difference.

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Never say never Eeeeeeeeeh...

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