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Dear Stella Nwayioma and BVs...
I need tips on how call off a marriage that is about to hold before the year 2024 ends and i mean this as an emergency..I cannot state the date or month of wedding because i dont want anyone to decode this as it could/may cost me my life and anything ele dear to me...
I dont want to go ahead with the wedding cos the rich man i am about to marry lives a double life that no one knows about....I just found out a very very shocking secret that i cannot pretend or live with...
Let me quickly explain..
My man is presently out of town and i went to his place to effect changes on some things and could not leave that night so i stayed over and decided to look around when i could not sleep because of what i was going through...I cam across a phone that was on but put on silemt mode...It was also unlocked and i went through the phone and saw lots of chats but could not open them cos he would know i touched the phone as i am the only one who has a spare key to his room in the big mansion.
I saw some videos of my about to be husband swinging with his gender,i saw lots of videos and none was with my gender, all different people of his gender...I cannot marry someone like this and i will not dare confront him or tell anyone else..I just need a solid reason for him to be the one to break up the engagement and i will behave as if i am broken hearted but happy to move on...
I cannot go on with thi pretending i dont know despite all the wealth that wil come to me only IF I MARRY HIM...Yes, there are conditions attached but i did not know why, now i do..
I will not let anyone use me to hide such thing.....
Please help me out with tips..I could not save the videos cos it would show i sent
them to my phone.
Remember i dont want advice for confrontation and i cannot tell someone else.
'Hmmmmmmm what could you possibly do that would piss him off well enough to call off the wedding?Whatever reason you give him, would be what he would tell anyone who asks him so be careful of using your own hand to staining your own white......Honestly i do not have any advice to give to you but becareful cos people like this would unalife you than have their secret out...
You can't marry him because he is not straight. Simple. Why don't you want to confront him sef??
ReplyDeleteSomeone that is willing to marry to cover his gender preference is the man you want her to confront? A wealthy one at that. It's better she leaves him besides heaven and hell was meant to be occupied. It's high time humans realized we can change anyone to conform to one's set of norms.
DeleteDid you read Stella's response???
DeleteDown low men are very destructive and dangerous
DeletePoster pick post graduate form and relocate for a masters
DeleteBlock him and move on
"Why don't you want to confront him sef??"
DeleteIt is because the relationship is gbenshinized and monetized.
This is the third chronicle in as many months of women wanting tips on how to force their boyfriends or man friend to break up their relationship and to carry the can for it.
I no do again is always hard for a woman "who fears God" and has so much of the man's earned money in her hands/life and or in her family's lives.
Now she has to feign madness, or cheat, or confess to being possessed by evil spirits or being married to a jealous spirit husband, or fake evil prophesies, etc. Lol.
A Simple matter that her family could have handled as said @16:26 is made not too simple by pre-marital gbenshing and collection of money or money's worth for it. Even family members who could have helped say the "simple NO" may also have been moneytized.
Poster,this is a dicey situation. Most of those men are cultist and very dangerous. I fear for your safety already. I will suggest you forge,a venerable disease report and share with him. 😒😒😒
ReplyDeletePoster go home and tell your mum and your siblings, don’t forget to tell them you also found out he’s a ritualist. Then you start acting mad, let them chain you and take you to psychiatric home and your family will inform him the thing has started again. If he ask,your family should tell him it’s been happening since your teenage days let them pretend and tell him they thought you must have told him. You if he comes to visit act really mad oo, I’m sure he will run but the problem is he will run to his next victim.
ReplyDeleteFan Emmanuel
This isn't a good advice. It will stain her mentally and drive away future suitors if the news hit the public even though it's a prank.
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🤣🤣🤣🤣 Fan Emmanuel...Nwanne!!! Lol this is hilarious mehn....
Delete🤣🤣🤣I don kill myself for here what!! I think this one makes sense🤣
DeleteThis one no follow oo. Why give herself a stigma for nothing? Future suitors will hear this during 'iju ese' and they won't believe it was a stunt to escape a false marriage
DeleteNne Ogini kwanu 🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteThis one too much ooo🤣🤣🤣
Hello iya Boys
Na wa... mental health is still very stigmatized, this plan will make her have a diagnosis she will struggle to clear off health records.
DeleteHahahahaha 🤣 🤣 🤣
DeleteOP, don't take this advice. Matter fit escalate pass wetin you plan. I would have prefer you confront him but you gave valid reasons you can't. I can't think of any other options.
You better not take this advice otherwise na you go suffer am later.
DeleteProud of you....many Abuja ladies are aware of this demonic acts by their husband but still choose to drive benz
ReplyDeleteThis one na gwo gwo gwo ngwo...Poster my advice to you is to disappear, relocate to another location for about 6 months. Find a new SIM and tell a trusted friend or family member that you are away, that you are fine, you weren't kidnapped then throw away the SIM.
ReplyDeleteAll the best
I think this Is a good idea. Hope he's not so big to trace anyone sha
DeleteThis is easy now. 1st things 1st, I hope you took that phone. get a charger for it. Don't turn it off incase you can't turn it on due to password. Find a way to go to ibadan and find pinky or Martin on this blog these guys will help you download all the info and keep it safe. If you have enough money, travel out and never look back. Block everyone including your family members bcos hardship will make them think backwards. Gay men will go any lent to delete an individual. I understand your not confronting him so let him be. God keep and protect you.
ReplyDeleteJust come out straight to him and tell him you don't feel like it anymore. Tell him there's a guy you had oath with on marriage and would want to fulfill it.
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Wow o boy!! Let me think first, this one is deep o 🤔
ReplyDeleteHmmm, I'll come back to read comments.
ReplyDeleteMadam, I am fairly sure he left that phone strategically placed so you could find out his 'secret'.
ReplyDeleteJust tell him you had a divine revelation that you should NOT proceed with the marriage and he is not the man for you. You are not lying, you had a divine revelation when you saw the phone. No one needs anymore explanation than that. Many will come to sway you and beg to know what the revelation is, you can simply say that you are not ready to talk about it or it is not time to talk about it. Anybody coming to sway you and telling you to rethink your decision, tell them to go marry him themselves if they want, but you will not be proceeding with anything and the case is closed.
She can say the revelation is that one of them will die if the marriage holds and you don't know who in particular. So you don't want to die and most certainly don't want him to die. You think it's best to be apart. Cry very well as you narrate it as if staying apart will kill you. You can act this film with your mum or sis if either one can keep the secret!!! All the best!
DeleteThing is poster is even scared of who she is dating. You're scared of who you're dating?
DeleteTell him u are still in love with ur ex..
ReplyDeleteOr that u are sick.. Serious sickness.
Tell him u have one incurable disease..
This Advice make sense ooo
DeleteYou can still tell him you are sleeping with your Ex that you just find out you are pregnant
Rather tell him Your Pastor saw Vision that you both can't be Together
Rather You Relocate ooo change your contact
It is well with you as you Embark on the Journey 🙏🙏🙏
Hello iya Boys
This might not work cos he doesn't really care. He jugado wants to marry to save face.
DeleteLet me go anonymous and advise you.
ReplyDeleteIf you are sure you want out, then start cheating on him and let people who would tell him see you. When he confronts you with evidence, cry and beg, find out the people who told him and send them stinker messages. They will ensure he doesn't marry you.
BUT...
1. You don't sound in love so why does it bother you that he is bisexual?
2. I am sure you were also attracted to the rich life and he is the indulging and generous type so why are you giving it up now?
3. He is bisexual and so what?
4. Being an adult is about making difficult decisions that will produce a long term gain.
5. If this is the only issue you have about marrying him, please go on and marry him cos there are worse things many are enduring in the shoes they all wear.
Bye.
Thank you!
DeleteI'm married now ooo.
But to be honest when I clocked 34 and I was still single, I was ready to have this sort of arrangement if the guy is VERY VERY Rich!
The kind of rich where I don't have to work for anybody but set up my own business and live very soft life!
My dear, if he's not the very jealous type, please get yourself a sugar boy by the side!
Simple!
Dear coded anonymous, marriage is a life time thing. No need to pretend, she said she just found out. Some people have deal breakers. She will die before her time if she marries him.
DeleteThe knowing that when he goes out to hang out is with men, besides there is no guarantee that things won't go south.
Better to opt out now.
See me shaking my head for this post. Una get mind sha o. Pls don't marry him o. Is high time the govt puts a rule that men who feel comfortable sleeping with other men should let their partner know. Alot of men in nijia especially the Rich ones are sleeping with their fellow men. The hypocrisy in that country is killing us on a daily.
DeleteAll the photos on his phone were of men. This means he is probably gay not bisexual. He needs a beard which is why he is marrying her.
DeleteThe poster is not interested in marrying a man who is into men. I knew a woman who divorced her husband because he wanted an@l seck from her and that was something she was not willing to do, so she divorced and found peace. I think it is fine for a person to have their boundaries. Yes, there are many women who have entered into marriages based on an arrangement, whatever that arrangement is, but the poster is not interested in it, she doesn't want that kind of marriage irrespective of the perks she would access and that is perfectly fine.
DeleteHe is likely a full homosexual and wants to parasitically use her as beard and womb. It is toxic and after you have been used, you will be discarded.RUN and don't look back.
DeletePoster please go with the above advice that you had divine revelation not to go ahead with the marriage. Stand your grounds on this.
ReplyDeleteRemember to come back to gist us how it goes any decision you take
ReplyDeleteI don't even know the advice to give. But here's what am gonna say. Try selling a story to him though any of your siblings that you are having a mental crisis. While at it, check into a mental facility on pretense and let them book you for sessions. You know that feeling of being mentally unstable right? No one wants to associate with a mental flea. Just sit back at the psychiatric ward and watch him call of the wedding itself. Thank me later.
ReplyDeletePoster, never use an illness as an excuse for anything.
DeleteWake him up at night and start crying, tell him you're scared of loosing him that there's a sacrifice he needs to perform before he married you else he'll die, arrange a phone call with a fake babalawo to tell him a heavy sacrifice like sleeping in midst of the dead or in burial ground before he can proceed to marry you, na him go use him own hand block you
ReplyDeleteAbi o😂😂
Deleteposter you can use your phone to film the videos from his phone - you dont have to send them to yourself or download. i cant advise you, because I dont think it is right to lie. just tell him the truth.
ReplyDeleteThis matter no hard now. Aunty find a way and cheat so that he gets to know about it. The normal male ego will not be able to stand that. Do it in such a way that he will be humiliated.
ReplyDeleteBut if after all that, oga still wants your hand in marriage, OP it is not only flee town you will engage in. You will need to flee country.
This one na wahala don catwalk come your house so o. Before you know im go invite trouble and kasala make dem come join am.
Team snoop, Team snoop. We dey warn una, una no dey hear. Now you don snoop sotey you find out say na brokkos wey dey chop shit you dey chop all this while.
Don't cheat
DeleteGhost him and disappear
I am not interested anymore in this relationship full stop through text
Block and lock up
You nobody any explanation apart from I have changed my mind
Pray and fast for long against attacks
Don't cheat
DeleteGhost him and disappear
I am not interested anymore in this relationship full stop through text
Block and lock up
You nobody any explanation apart from I have changed my mind
Pray and fast for long against attacks
I don't understand. What do you mean by "Now you don go snoop sotey you find out" Do you mean you would prefer she didn't find out?
DeleteThis man is a full homosexual, he won't mind if she cheats; infact he would love it.
Delete@DOG so you think it’s better not to snoop and to be married to a gay man and to get infected with HIV, herpes, syphilis and the rest?!?! Ridiculous 🤦🏿♀️
DeleteUse your phone to take pics and videos as evidence and give it to your parents or a trusted person who wont OUT the man. Make sure you tell your parents of the new development and let them inform his family that you cant marry him anymore. if you have a lawyer sign a written affidavit with copies of the evidence as insurance for your LIFE. DL MEN KILL women who expose them so make sure the people you tell wont expose him provided he doesnt harm you.
ReplyDeleteHmmm learning everyday
ReplyDeleteMy husband is gay. He told me that we should get married to cover up his style. I agreed. He is so grateful that he practically left his assets to me. We don't mate but he can eat me out like ice cream, in turn I peg him. Yeah we have kids via assistance. I rather he cheats on a man with me than my gender. My gender are too mean to each other and ready to break homes. But a man won't dare break my home, my husband might delete any man who dares. Call me sick but I'm living the life I so dreamt about. I'm content, as this man worships me for keeping his secret from his family. Yeah, it's safe with me.
ReplyDeleteMadam I am very proud of you o. The same mouth he use to lick another man's anus is what you allow him put inside your Vijay? Maybe you should tell your husband that you honestly what to watch him and his partner do the do so that you see the things that are done for real. After watching that act from start to finish, come back and type this your message again. Lol
DeleteYes you are very sick. Do you think of eternity at all?
DeleteThis is strange and disgusting! I mean, is he impotent, what does it take penetrate you even if he is gay that you both need to have children through assistance? so, he would rather penetrate the anus of another man than you vjay.
DeleteYou are living a devilish life, and I have no doubt that you will divulge his secret when the money vanishes.
Well I must commend your husband for his honesty from start, and didn't deceive you. So you made an informed decision and obviously enjoying it.
DeleteI hope every other person with any form of secret will be kind enough to inform their intended partners, or look for people of similar interests to cover each other's tract.
Okokobioko!!! Ovoko!!!!
DeleteSo you have a marriage based on an arrangement. While most of us could not journey the road you are happily on, you knew upfront what you were getting into and accepted it. You could have spared us the tawdry details of your other room life.
Delete...the life you dreamt of?...tueehhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!
DeleteGod will really punish poverty oo chai
18: 13 where do you think they do the do? Hahahahaha. We have a 5bedroom duplex and yes I watch sometimes. Our kids are boarders in varsity. No be today we start. So chill. Afterall women still rim men everyday and still use that mouth on their husbands.
DeleteThe bondage on you and the children, it's an evil foundation
DeleteMan will not dare break your "marriage " you are naive, very naive
The bondage on you and the children, it's an evil foundation
DeleteMan will not dare break your "marriage " you are naive, very naive
Here are some 😊:
ReplyDelete1. Tell him you have a spirit husband that torments you every night, and you need to go for deliverance.
2. Tell him you recently found out that you have HIV or some other serious STD.
3. Tell him your Prophet had a vision that he will die if you guys get married this year. You have to postpone the wedding and both of you should go for cleansing to avert the tragedy. Remember to use Prophet, not Pastor ooo.
4. Tell him that you had an affair with your ex and got pregnant. You cannot live with pinning another man's child on him.
5. Tell him your father wants to complete his house in the village before you get married. If your father is dead, find one story and pin it on your wicked uncle.
Goodluck 😊
Poster, start being aggressive towards him. Be intentional in your rudeness and aggression. Take it a notch by insulting his mum. No man can take that 😁. Definitely he will get mad at you and call it off unless you apologise. Ghost him afterwards.
ReplyDeleteSide note: Don't insult his mum to his face oo. Do it over the phone when you pick a fight with him. Make person no give you dirty slap on top coded plans. After una quarrel finish, tell your family the REAL reason you went that far, so that nobody will 'pursue peace with all men'.
Pray to God to change his mind towards marrying you,he will be the one to break up with you.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, God really loves you. Pls make sure the breakup happens this month. Don't wait to set him up and be d victims. That might never happen. This is bcos, he will be very tolerant with you, Co you are just a cover up. So Do something that will make him angry to the point of immediate cancellation pls.
DeleteDelay is Dan.gerous ooo.
Ask GOD to scatter it as it is not from HIM
DeleteThat prayer 🔥
Very good advice. Ask God to make him loose interest in you. It really works
DeleteThis is very simple, bring a guy home to your matrimonial bed and pretend having sex with him and let him see you.
ReplyDeleteTill the guy she brings tries to rape her or blackmails her, pray for GOD to scatter it, GOD will
DeleteTill the guy she brings tries to rape her or blackmails her, pray for GOD to scatter it, GOD will
DeleteAnd make sure you do not tell anyone ooo. Including your family members. These days, some family members can betray you. ND REMEMBER, if one person knows, it's no more a secret. pls change location after d breakup ASAP. Start making plans now so you leave immediately after d breakup. Move to another state or country if possible
ReplyDeleteThe evidence to break up is already there; what else do you need? And please, for your safety, inform your family members and, if possible, the police, because once he finds out you know his secret, he might want to "unalife" you.
ReplyDeleteHas it occurred to you that he probably wanted you to find it? Maybe he wants you to break of the engagement too. Who was charging the phone battery when he travelled?
ReplyDeleteIn another angle, he must have forgotten the phone there. And maybe he travelled few days before she found out
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ReplyDeleteStella why you enable this okpo
Deletelol
DeleteSee all the lies you lot are encouraging her to tell , why cant she confront this man and see she can not go ahead with the wedding, even tell him what she found out? Isnt your society the reason for such wickedness?
ReplyDeleteYou think it's everybody you tell certain things blatantly? You don't know how much these guys look out for each other. If it were to be only him in the act, I would have advised her to tell him just the way it is but in this case, she really needs to device a good tactics so her family won't get hurt.
DeleteGet out of this situation immediately, keep evidence. The advice of divine revelation given by other posters as an excuse is the best.
ReplyDeleteBe careful! Some of these men will do anything to cover up, including having a dead fiancee to explain why they are unmarried for years.
And some will still say don't snoop!!!
ReplyDeleteWow. This is very deep. Start picking offence with everything he does. Maybe he will get angry and call it off
ReplyDeleteCan't you use another phone to snap those evidence you saw in his phone for a start? Do that first incase...
ReplyDeletePoster, come clean to God as ask for forgiveness for every sun you have committed then go and praying and fasting spree, He will step in and dissolve it. Everyone will go on their way peacefully.
ReplyDeletePlease don’t tell anyone not even family.
Please don’t cheat.
Please do not confront.
He might attack you or anyone else involved in your plan.
Talk to God in all humility and honesty, He will come through for you.
Pray to God for courage and break up with him nicely, preferably where you are safe and in an open, public space. All hide and seek and sneaky actions will make him suspect you. Also, inform your family that you do not intend to continue and would appreciate that they respect your decision and not try to change your mind. This will enable them stand for you in the event of any appeal from him. And if you can afford it, change your location for a while. Get busy with other things to improve yourself. DO NOT USE ANY UNFORTUNATE SITUATION LIKE SICKNESS, EVIL SPIRIT TORMENT, PROPHECY OR OTHER UNTHINKABLE CALAMITIES AS EXCUSE. At the end, every body will be alright.
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