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Yes oh.
ReplyDeleteCos some people sabi hide their bad side until after marriage.
And there is a big difference between to tolerate someone and to understand someone.
And you think they can't hide their bad character while living with you till after marriage?
DeleteNo i would not advise them.
ReplyDeleteReason: purely on religious grounds. I’m a muslim and Allah says in the Qur’an, don’t go near zina(adultery n fornication) He didn’t say do not commit it, He said don’t even go near it.
Yimu
DeleteCapital NO.
ReplyDeleteReason is that, it's against the will of God and fornication is a SIN.
NO!!!!!. Everything against the word of God.
ReplyDeleteYes,go for weekends and see,if you really enjoy each other's company. Plus those little details 🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteHell no
ReplyDeleteNo
ReplyDeleteI 🏆 preach/advise you about what I don't practice.
I did not live with my husband before marriage and to the Glory of God 18yrs now and many more years to go by the special grace of God
No oooo
ReplyDeletePerson can still hide character when living together ooo
Even after marriage self
After some years you will now see the real thing...
Hello iya Boys
You never really know a person until you live with them.
ReplyDeleteI will advise while courting, spend weeks or even a month, two or three at a stretch together so you know who you're dating.
You should actually be worried if anyone says they love you and want to marry you the moment they meet you. It is insanity!
You can't love whom you don't know.
When someone doesn't love you, they don't love you. No two ways about that.
You can’t negotiate genuine desire.
© TEEJAY
My bf showed up in Nov, sent his ppl by Feb the ff year, they fixed our wedding for june. I never went to where he lived, not for a day, we are 11yrs married and counting. When you say u commit to God, u learn to surrender to Him in full. And also obey Him, dnt choose the one u like and still want Him to come thru for u fully.
DeleteTj u can’t be wiser than God and today that is why we hav an influx of baby mamas, most of them were promised marriage, they either move in or visit for wkends and most of them accidentally end up pregnant and for some reason the marriage plan fails so she ends up a baby mama.
DeleteSecondly, that is y we now have more men dragging their feet not wanting to commit because why buy the cow when they can get the milk for free?
Nope..
ReplyDeleteWhen someone have something to hide, live with them for years, u won't still find out..
Yes I would. Even if it's just weekends. I was once engaged to a guy I was introduced to. We met just once when I went to his city for something. After our meeting, he came to my city the next month and engaged me. The upper month, it was introduction. All in 2 months. My mum.suggested that I go.to.his place to spend time with him because everything was happening too fast. We hadn't even missed. Omo I planned to.stsy.fof 2 weeks. I don't even spend up to 5 days, I japa. So many unsettling things that my hands cannot type. I thank God I listened to my mum.and took the bold step
ReplyDeleteDid you fuck him why you stayed with him?
DeleteBig No
ReplyDeleteZina or fornication is a sin before God and he said that we should flee from it
NO, fornication is a sin. God frowns at it no matter how we want to paint it nice
ReplyDeleteIf we're in the abroad, i will say Yes but if we both stay in this our 9ja, its a big No for me.
ReplyDeleteI would rather visit, spend quality time at his cripp, weeks, a month or two thereabout and go back to my condo before tomorrow he tells me he is tired of the whole thing and how i am the one trying to rope him into carrying him.
Na there see finish take dey start..
*marrying him
DeleteYes o
ReplyDeleteTo know if he snoring
Since it is a personal choice based on a number of variables, it is neither here nor there. There are no two entanglements or engagements that are same. Both parties should make the decision based on what seems appropriate for them, taking into account their relationship dynamics, values, and past experiences.
ReplyDeletePersonally, I say "yes." Not necessarily at either home, but once a month weekend getaways to a neutral place, if feasible sponsored inequitably to share the cost. Perfect for attempting to understand a potential spouse, especially for those who desire long-term relationships. And these are my reasons.
*Living together can help people see the other side of each other's habits, routines, and mannerisms beyond what they are used to. Which can be crucial for long-term compatibility.
*It offers a chance to observe how successfully you resolve disagreements/conflicts and deal with difficulties/challenges in a shared living space. It somehow test your tolerance to peculiar issues.
*Sharing expenses and managing finances together can give a realistic picture of how you both handle financial stress as a unit.
*By fostering a closer bond and understanding before entering into a lifelong commitment that one may not easily back out of, can improve the relationship decisions.
On the other side of the coin, the fear, is the ease of surrendering to untamed fornication. But there are a few more drawbacks, such as:
*Personal, cultural, or religious views regarding living together before marriage.
*Living together without the commitment of marriage can cause see-finish-syndrome, which may lead to a show of unseriousness.
*Living together without the legal safeguards of marriage can occasionally put one at danger of being taken advantage of or duped, as well as cause issues in the event of a breakup. Particularly for those who view commitment as a cruise.
The older I get the less I have strict rules against stuff. Life is short find your peace and happiness.
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