Speaking in Yoruba during a recent Instagram Live session,she said, “No matter how bad your husband is, don’t leave your matrimonial home because you won’t see a single man to marry you. Just be begging and buying condoms for him if he’s cheating.”
Ladies , do you agree to do this?
I would have a lot, but respect your elders right. They need to stop these nonsense talk. The fact cheating is not a deal breaker for you, doesn't mean it's not for others. If you wanna stay with a cheating partner, stay. But don't tell another person how to behave, and stay with one. Imagine sayinf if he cheats, you should be the one to beg him, and buy him condoms. Because he is my lord, abi a prize.
ReplyDelete🤢🤢🤢 Mama wetin be this now....Abeg e get some things wey you no suppose chook mouth abeg.....This is 2024 now!! What's with this gatekeeping....Abeg Abeg
DeleteI was taught to keep quiet when I have nothing good to say.😱🥹
DeleteMommy,this advice is not for me and my sisters.🚶
Hahan! Mama, what kind of advice is this?
ReplyDeleteToh! Afi suru fun awon agba orisirisi
ReplyDeleteYou want to be Yoruba so bad ehnnn.
DeleteWho is this miserable little thing???? I was born and bred in a Yoruba area, speak more Yoruba than Igbo and I will keep speaking it! Why will anyone in their right senses not originally Yoruba want to be Yoruba? Why? Seems they swore for u with restlessness abi
DeleteHmmmmm, suru logba ooooo Eka Joy
DeleteAhhhhhhhh
ReplyDeleteThis kind advice is deadly oo
So if the man keep giving the wife like serious infestion she should stay
Oti oooo God Forbid bad things...🏃🏃
Hello iya Boys
All the old things and talking nonsense this days....
ReplyDeleteI personally believe that whether you are a man or a woman, if you are cheating and your partner takes it in stride and stays with you, then they are also cheating in return; you just haven't caught them yet. I have always reasoned that it takes a cheat to be this tolerant and understanding of another cheat. Because how can you not be disgusted?
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Well, I don't expect much from someone that is popularly known as "ashewo to re mecca". It would have been the eighth wonder of the world, if someone like that actually give good advice.
ReplyDeleteOver to the married peeps, dem say make una make una husband condom brand ambassador. Eku amu mora🫢
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DeleteChai!!! Lol Amu na bia!! 😂😂😂
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DeleteLicious Babe
What is this !!
ReplyDeleteThis advice is dangerous
ReplyDeleteMama you don't even consider the deadly diseases he might bring home to the wife
This advice no go work for me ooh
Total Rubbish
ReplyDeleteCheating is not just an ordinary issue,that giving condom to ones husband will help you keep the home.Cheating can destroy a family in so many ways.
ReplyDeleteBuying condoms for him indeed
ReplyDeleteOro rirun
E ba ma ti f'agba yin wole now. Agba la de n pe yin o 😙
ReplyDeleteMotigbetional speaker isonu 😒😒😒
ReplyDeleteI'd have said the talk is as useless as the speaker but because I have respect for elderly ones lemme keep quiet.
ReplyDeleteOver to our married brothers/sisters...
Na old age dey worry this woman, I don't blame her though, she was born during the time when women dey die for inside marriage.
ReplyDeleteThe Bible says no adulterer will enter heaven, it wasn’t gender specific. So continue encouraging the men
ReplyDeleteBut men don't like using condoms. Only one of my ex bf had it in him, the rest you must ask before they do.
ReplyDeleteThis cheating thing is something I don't like talking about...very touchy topic.
She meant well when she said you shouldn't leave though everything has limit.
Many married men will cheat at one point of their marriage, so should the wives park off once it happens??
And many women most especially refuse to see the holistic view of this, there are way too many women outside compared to marriageable men, who will marry all those ladies?? Men will continue to cheat and women will continue to enable. Until we agree on a system that can work!!
The chances of a married man cheating throughout the lifespan of his marriage is high but we women will never be realistic. That's the problem I have reading some of these comments, yes, no one wishes for their man to cheat but it happens.
ReplyDeleteThough I do not think all men cheat, because I have truly experienced a faithful man, but if he does, I lose no sleep over it, what I can't tolerate is lies and deceit but I guess that's what many women prefer... Ignorance is bliss.
It's well
You commented twice, so let me chip in.
DeleteThe women who are upset with the post - maybe they strongly believe they would be blessed with the ones that do not cheat after all it's their fellow woman who are married to those ones and not spirits. The faithful ones won't marry themselves. So, may their faith in God to bring them those kind of men, sustain them and may it happen for them according to their belief. I also hope they are living the kind of life those kind of men they desire to marry, are attracted to.
The same way you don't like lies, Maybe these women prefer peace of mind, loyalty over stds, HIV, shame, illegitimate children scattered all over the place, low self-esteem etc
The ones married to cheats, do you know what they go through daily? Was it not here recently a woman said she discovered her husband is about to sleep with their church member who they always give a ride to church every Sunday. They were sending pictures of their organs to each other and exchanging explicit messages while making her look like an idiot? She said something in her died, I think. What that statement of hers should tell you is that, not everyone have shock absorbers.
Didn't you say it up there that majority of men do not even use condoms? Isn't that enough to scare these women or anyone who values their lives? Was it not here one woman who was cheated on by her husband confessed she killed her husband sidechick, Another cut of the man's manhood, another wanted to slowly poison the man to death?
If people say they don't want or can't withstand something they should be understood and thanked for being true to themselves rather than making it look like they are intent on being delusional. Because some women stayed with a cheat doesn't mean others will. Everyone have their limits and deal breaker just like you have yours which you already indicated and people who fall short in those areas will be wise enough to avoid them and settle for people who don't mind.
If a man lives an immoral life before marriage, he is bound to continue after marriage except he encounters Christ. It's that simple. A ring on the finger won't automatically put his organ in check. A man truly in Christ is what women should desire. If he is doesn't have a problem with fornication right now when you are not his wife, then don't expect too much from him later, no matter how disciplined he appears, someday he could slip. He has done with someone else before and with you so why not with somebody else down the road - who is also not his wife?
Ps. And you are very right, not all men cheats, My friends don't cheat too. Men who are disciplined and morally upright to stay with just one woman all their lives exists on this blog and outside of it.