TUESDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

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Hello All......

The Madam Amebo segment will be posted twice a week henceforth so as not to put pressure on Madam Amebo, make she no come go begin manufacture stories like block for cement factory....She is not being paid for the column and she is not under any pressure to do it...She has been a beneficiary of the goodness of God via this Blog and decided to be sending it in as her own way of contributing...help me thank her and all other who comment, send in writeup and do various things to assist me to keep this place ging...I must tell you guys that it is not easy running a Blog, if you doubt, please start one.....(weyBV Oki sef? i wan ask am how far with her Facebook page)

If there is any day that in house news is dry, i will add Madam Amebo.

Thank you pinky, thank you Motherhood columnist, thank you Madam amebo and thank you to everyone else....

Today is blog visitor appreciation day and i appreciate you all.....

Why dont you appreciate a BV with nice words in the comment section? Thank you!!!

Enjoy the rest of the day.........

ZEEONE..

I was on my own jeje and saw that they were showing zeeone so i LOOKED!!!

Hmmmmmmthis Maitree and this snake story is beginnin to look worrisome. snake no gree die and e no fit kill her target...them don over use all their tricks, in fact nah my dey write script for them now.....nah so..

All i do now is look.......

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD
My new neighbourhood is normally quiet. Apart from Saturdays when I hear the neighbours' children playing, I hardly hear noises, since the holiday started it’s been totally different.
The number of times i have heard screaming and loud thumps is innumerable. Even the old grannies are not left out. They have their grandchildren around, and these once quiet women are always shouting.
The pattern is the children start playing loudly then one hears the parents/grand parents shouting their warnings and soon loud thump is heard followed by more screaming by the adults, then pleading and crying from the children that shows they are being spanked .....
Every time I hear all these, it takes me back to my childhood, sneaking to play with the neighbours kids, running around, watching others climb our neighbours guava tree (because I was too scared too and I was also scared of the snakes found on the tree).
Sneaking to eat my share of the guava loot and sometimes swallowing the seeds without chewing to see if it will grow in my stomach. 

During this long breaks was when most of my friends broke their hands or legs. The little fights we had among ourselves and little rival cliques.
I sucked at most games except from hide and seek and games where I had to stand still for a long time. Most hand games that involved several hand movements such as “ten ten”, “tinko tinko”, “our grandmother" were not my forte because I couldn’t keep up.
I loved the long school breaks as a child and still do because of the fond memories I have from then, I still get excited when school is closing for the summer break.

I used to love ''ten ten'' and that one you will draw boxes on the flower and throwing something on each and jumping with two or one leg to the next one..I cant remember the name it is called...I also remember skipping with ropes and cooking fake food with real fire using used cans of tined tomoatoes and milk....LOL...I was learning how to cook and using several leaves found in bushes.....I am sure most people have fond memories of growing up....

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FROM MONDAY CHRONICLES POST

Read it HERE

''If only Stella will post.
Comments from Female blog visitors are mostly stereotypical and tending to the insulting. Some even say an unmarried man at 40 is a red flag. If the same is said of an unmarried woman at 50, okay 45 or 40 or 35, what would you all say of her? Do we all have the same life journeys?
Again, here is why some male Bvs say that a man writing in for advice may not get what he seeks onblog if he is not discerning to sift the grain(s) from the chaff of cacophonous snide and sarcastic comments from female Bvs.

It appears we forget that a man at 40 may be getting into his first real romantic relationship due to his pathway in life. Instead of gently guiding him on, we talk to or on him based on our 10 to 15 years of unmarried serially broken romantic relationships or marriage experiences
A woman who seeks advice on how to cause a fight with her boyfriend so she can rely on that to go complete her already started marriage rites with another man is counseled in cool or jovial tones. But a man who asks for clarifying guidance from mostly women on how to handle a woman gets mostly insults.
A question for the married female BVs on this post: When was the last time you set a full dinner table for your husbands on a work day? Okay, what about a lunch/dinner table on a Sunday? A similar or related question was asked here recently on a BEP. We know the answers some of us gave that day. Yet you lampoon a man who stepped back when a woman sent him 6 pots of different soups on a simple request for home made food!

We should not forget that no chronicle tells the full facts of a matter. This chronicle is not an exception. The man only expressed his understanding of the vibes and non-verbal feedback in the relationship. He may be wrong or he may be right.
And yes. There is nothing wrong in a man seeking a submissive woman or in a man seeking to be the sole provider or major provider in his home or both. The real issue is what he does with the woman's submission or how he handles his duty of provision in the marriage. There are submissive wives who are the brain boxes of their marriages, and most of them will not even let anybody know they are the CinC of the marriage. There are men who provide all and still do more than some of your husbands you wear ranking trousers with in your homes.

Marriage has no unbreakable rules. What works for a couple to their fulfillment and in marriage and purpose in life is what is best for them.
Dear Poster, if you were my younger brother, here is what I would have told you -

You are old enough to know what you want in your matrimonial home or your life. Unselfishly go for it. All your concerns are valid. Resolve them in your courtship. That is the essence of courtship anyway. And Be prepared to pay the price on the tags on them. Nothing changes a man's life for good or bad as marriage. Luckily, you may be in a country where pre-nuptial agreements and other legal marital arrangements are permitted. It is better you make full use of all of them to secure yourself and to assure any woman you move on with.
Best wishes.
Mr. Mann''

Must the views of the women on the Blog align to yours? if they disagree and you agree, it balances, if it is the other way round, it also balances...Please live and let live ojare!!!!

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SUNDAY FACTS FROM WHATSAPP
---We do not recognize people by their entire face but from key facial features and their eyes.

---Sometimes trusting a friend is the hardest thing to do. Even the closest friends can become your enemies.

---Demure (adj):
The quality of being shy and modest; reserved

---91% people skip the first slice of bread, just because it's ugly.

---The clitoris is the only human organ known to exist solely for s#xual pleasure

---In 1996, a boy fell into a zoo enclosure. Female gorilla Binti Jua protected the boy from other animals, cradling him until he was rescued.

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