Thursday In House News....

 Hailings....

IN HOUSE MEMO

How you dey?

Hope your day is going well?,,My day is OK and i am doing just fine....What are you cooking today? I am not cooking today and getting food from ym fave chinese Restaurant......Yummy!

Is it possible that some people dont eat for days but still have money to buy data and post comments begging for food? I saw a post on Instagram saying they had not eaten for one week.....Hmm is there anyone like that here? I for like help oh...Let me think am..

Catch my hugs.

xoxoxoxoxoxox

No Zeeone today please, I have not looked, will do later.......

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PINKYS CORNER

WORD OF ENCOURAGEMENT.

I greet you all in here my people and hope this meet you well? 

This is coming from a place of love to the bv who posted this morning on SP/IHN, if I'm not mistaken about  his / her uncle who has failed to help.

I think it's high time we get down to reality and understand some basic phenomenon of life. that you have a rich uncle who is a governor either in Nigeria or in the diaspora doesn't guarantee your success / failure. Don't forget these people also has families and life issues and challenges that can be hidden to you. In life, if you want to move forward quickly, you need to stop expecting support mostly from family members who hasn't in one time or the other remembered you for good but only when they need to send you on an errand. It is funny to say that, unknown people render assistance to you even without asking and this assistance might be earned due to good character(trust, accountability,reliability and transparency) or through an undiluted grace  and mercy from your creator. Let me quickly say this to you, you will advance better in life if you focus more on developing yourself and doing what you derive joy in (passion).

I could remember begging one of my uncle years back to help me out few things(e.g, my studies, because i wanted to further more and also become a lecturer). I was denied but one day, i sat myself down and told myself that"'I can be whoever or whatever i want to be without any family member, all I need is just to be proactive, determined and focus". I began to lay my hands on different things and within a twinkle of an eye, i graduated from federal college of education then  i came across this blog through my sibling. One way or the other, God showed me mercy and i started my degree program before i open eye close am, i was done with it while riding a bike to support myself  coupled with the moral, psychological, and financial support from STELLA(she is my living reference). After this, i thought about my Postgraduate program before my marriage but it was not forth coming but i kept the hope alive and never allowed anything to discourage me. 

Here i'm today, the postgraduate program I have ever wanted has started easily and keeping the focus towards my Phd if God is willing because, I so much have passion for either to become a lecturer or a minister of education to reconstruct the educational policies that has been destroyed. Our educational policy is just making us to be a job seeker and not a problem solver.

This is to encourage you that, you can become anything in life without any help from your family only if you believe, have focus, determines and prayerful . Nobody wants to be associated with a failure, every individual wants to be relevant but we have forgotten that, failure is created for in other to re-strategies and plan appropriately again. What your family didn't see in you, an angel in form of human will and they will invest in you. all you need is to be consistent in  whatever you do. Stop pointing accusing fingers to any of your family members, let them be. Pray for success and work for iyt. They will look for you themselves and when you there, don't forget those looking up to you. Don't act like your uncle, don't do the same. be different in all your approach to life.

Well done Pinky......I pray you get what you prayed for...AMEN!!!

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LOVE AND POVERTY

Ladies love (marry) with condition but only men love (marry) unconditionally.
This is a hard truth, but you need to believe it. If the money a woman is enjoying is no more with you, the love
d!es. That's why you see a woman that will divorce a man 3 days after wedding, just because she found out that the man is not working in an oil company as he claims but he is a mechanic that comes to her with different cars, and he has many cars to be repaired in his compound.

She didn't divorce because you lie but because her dream of marrying a man that has good money is not fulfilled.
If you want to confirm what I just wrote, if you have a big oil company of your own, lie to your girlfriend that you work as a teacher in a school, if after wedding she found out that you are a CEO of an oil company, she wont leave because you lie....but if its the reversal. You know the answer
That woman telling you that she loves you more than money is dangerously lying to you.
For the right price every women is cheap, even your own woman will cheat and abandon you for the right price.
This is why you as a man can never find love without success, a man is not loved because he is a human being, a man is loved based on his accomplishments and success.
Life is in phases, but men are in sizes......
Your financial size will determine the level of love you enjoy from any woman.

When a woman with very high taste meets a wealthy man, she becomes very nice suddenly
Every lady has a price, they love whoever can meet their demand.

Money plays a huge role in relationships and marriage, brother you need it if not, you will see dust.
No woman will joyfully stay with you in poverty, its just a matter of time before she decamp to another man's camp.
Some of them can use you to move out of poverty, when she gather enough money from you, they will divorce you and leave to settle down with the man they really love who has money according to their hopes. Many are times that men they love don't really love them, he too will use them to get money from them and leave them to settle down with the lady he wanted

For you to be on the safer side, just have money so that .....
1. It will be difficult for her to dump you,
2. when she dumps you, you can easily find her replacement.
3. When you are very rich, your emotions d!es because you don't beg for love from any woman, ladies become toys that you play with 24/7. This is why you see many rich men that have many wives, they know that non of them loves him, he too doesn't love them, but he marries as many as he want, to enjoy himself like a toy.
A win win situation for you.
If you are lucky to find a wife that loves you at your lowly level, thank God specially for it, for "a good wife is from the Lord".

My brother, God just favour you specially because 95% of ladies can never marry you for who you are but for WHAT YOU HAVE. Only 5% can marry a man for who he is.
If you are privileged to have a wife from those 5%, thank God specifically

If a lady is crying because a man want to leave her or because the husband want to marry another wife, she is not crying because of love, she is crying because she want to be enjoying his money alone.
Most times, If the husband gives her two houses in her name, two shopping complex, a good and standard business, with heavy money in her account, she will permit the husband to marry any number of wife he wants, she will just face her children.
If not for money and material, 95% of ladies will not marry, that's why when most ladies have good jobs that pays their bills, they hardly think of marriage, many just hate men, because they see men as nothing. But no matter how many billions a man has, until he marries a lady to enjoy it together, he feels not fulfilled.

There is nothing that makes a woman to misbehave like when she makes good money. She will start remembering the things she doesn't like and those things disqualifies you to date her, or marry her but when a man makes big money, he doesn't care about your shortcomings.
The bottom line, guys stop falling in love without money, make enough money to throw around with ease, you will select who you love, if she messed up, you won't even run after her, you get another one.
Men, may you succeed in all you do. may you make it big, huge money makes a man a big man. May you make it in a huge way. 

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HOW ANGER ISSUES RUINED MY RELATIONSHIPS 

The primary reason people stay with you is not because of your beauty; there are more beautiful people than you. It is not because of your money; there are richer people than you.

 It is not because of your s£xual ability; there are more s£xually experienced people out there.people stay with you because of the way you treat andmake them feel be it in platonic relationship or an intimate relationship.I learnt this late in life and it has costed me so much.I used to treat people especially the ones that i was dating any how but yet still expect them to love me and be there for me which was wrong. It took me alot of time accept that i serious anger issues which needed my immediate attention. 

As an adult i was broken, angry and carrying around all kinds of baggage & this lead me to abuse of alcohol.I realized i needed to change & work on myself after losing a good relationship with someone who meant so much to me. If you met me on a day when i was angry you would think its not me you encountered. 

I used to be so disrespectful & honestly i didn’t even know that respect,submission and honor are vital keys in maintaining relationships and friends. 

The Bible says in Proverbs 21:19, that it is better to dwell in the wilderness than with a contentious, troublesome and angry woman. No person in their right mind would want to stay with the woman described in the above scripture. Your loved ones should not be the ones to experience the worst version of you. Simply because they tolerate you doesn’t mean you should continue behaving like that, you can change. It all starts by being accountable and admitting that you need help.

Contention and strife will push the people you love away from you. You should learn to talk over issues and not enter into verbal fights because you want to win an argument. Remember its not what you said but how you said. Sometimes its okay to let certain things slide its not everything you need to discuss.

I used to be a drama queen, who would throw a tantrum worthy of an Oscar performance.I had no self control and no emotional maturity.

I was always in a perpetual state of anger because i had alot of unresolved issues in my life and I would carry emotional baggage with me into new  relationships. My levels of anger were very destructive to an extent that I wouldn’t even remember the things I said or did everytime i was angry.

When i got angry, I would use my own mouth to destroy a relationship that has taken me many years or months to build. Such foolishness kept me in pain for so many years because i’d always find myself regretting and apologizing even when i wasn’t wrong.

My levels of arrogance grew because i kept learning and finding in comfort videos that would justify my bad behavior.I became too proud to honour and respect people and starting assuming that i was equal with everybody.

Pride always comes before a great fall. Nature has programmed people to gravitate in the direction of someone who honours them.you  may be educated or illiterate; it is of no consequence. If you  give people respect, you will eat of the good of the land. It quite sad to see a number of people make the same mistakes i made. Honoring people is not human worship.

One of the major reasons why I couldn’t bring peace to my relationship is because i had no peace myself. I was full of conflicting emotions which would steal my peace and happiness. Your emotions will always deceive you, never listen to them. Refrain from acting or speaking out of emotion because it will cost you relationships and people that mean alot to you.Remember you can’t give what you don’t have, it never too late to change, heal, unlearn and grow. 

Transformation is warfare. It may not be easy but the destiny that you desire can not accommodate this version of. If I managed to change, you can also change. #Copied

Is there anyone here reading this Blog with this kind of anger issues? Please dont say No cos the way some people comment sometimes is so scary....I get angry quickly but i dont have anger issues.....There is something i do, when i am angry i dont say a word to avoid using the worng word...I totally ignore and shut out that person until i am ready to interact but i dont open the door again...

Na wah..............And you?

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