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Saturday, August 17, 2024

Saturday In House Gists - The Final Breakup And Moving On

When did you realise it was time to leave the marriage or relationship...
What steps did you take to leave and what was your partners reaction....

Let's gist!!!



43 comments:

  1. Greetings my lovely people
    Here to read up and learn

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  2. I was ready, he wasn't. We just separated no big deal. The annoying thing now be say ever since no one comes close. I've seen love in its purest form, now dating people and being in a relationship is just transactional.

    Anyways I just locked up after the separation, love emojis and communication reduced sha. We laid his mom to rest recently, no he hasn't moved on.

    Me I no do again. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. Everybody will be fine last last.

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    1. You are still in love,why give him 2nd chance,anything can happen.
      It is well.

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    2. @Stella Maris, being in love sometimes isn't enough. Being at peace with one's self should be the ultimate goal. Let's ditch all this fantasy we store in our heads that being in love conquers all. Life no be like that most times.

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  3. We were having the discussion about the number of kids we wanted, and he wanted a lot. When he saw we had different views, he kept trying to force his desires on me. Even though we didn't want the same number of kids, I still believe in compromise. So if he had suggested reaching a middle ground, I would have obliged, but he wasn't having it. Every other discussion we had till that point, his decision was the only thing that mattered.

    Then he said, "let's break up," and I said, "no problem." I have always had a different perspective on breakups, so I was unfazed, and he was in shock. He later called back in the evening and said he didn't mean it when he talked about breaking up, but got upset because I was telling him what to do.

    That statement he made about me telling him what to do instantly put me off, and I couldn't ignore how it sounded. How could he utter such a thing, knowing fully well we were having a discussion about something that pertained to my life as well? Besides, all I was doing was simply airing my views (the same way he aired his) about the number of kids I wanted(which I had the right to do, same as he).

    I told him I was done. He pleaded, sent friends and his siblings, but I had lost interest already. I realized his wife would never have a say in the marriage when it comes to making decisions that involve her life because, to him, when she does, that translates to her "telling him what to do." And I didn't want to be in such a marital union.

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    1. I don’t understand why some people still want to have plenty kids in this current world of high level of depravity and moral turpitude

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    2. Nice one
      No time to waste time on a narcissist

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  4. Let me come & learn more, Stella thanks for your useful topics πŸ™

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  5. Sometimes you have to leave, not for ego but for self respect.

    © TEEJAY

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  6. He stopped opening car door for me. Me it’s princess treatment or nothing. So I left. He thought it was a joke. Lol. My dad still open doors n pull out sit for my mom n I 30yrs down. I can’t settle pls.

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    1. You go wait tire.

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    2. Hahahaha car door ? Humans can’t be the same your dad is a different man from him, same is also your mother and you. If he was good in other areas , you should have compromised.

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    3. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚God have mercy! Your Prince will find you soon.

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    4. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚God have mercy! Your Prince will find you soon.

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    5. Princess airhead. Marry your fada na.

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    6. @ Stella you didn't inform us that you have clowns here. @anonymous 16.37 I just fainted because of your comments.
      The Most Complex B

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    7. After opening the car door, he can as well carry you inside like a baby also😁
      Aswear Princess you are funny.

      Licious Babe

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    8. Airhead, I no u are a guy.

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  7. I will be in The comments Section
    Reading and Learning ..

    Hello iya Boys

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  8. I don't have any say whatever. His decision is alpha n omega. He prefers low cut so , i went on low, he buy all the. wearables whether I like them or not . Whether they fit or not. Lots of things I couldn't wear cos they were over sized. Tiny Me !! When the ultimatum came for me to relocate with My daughter to Villa (My father's house) While My parents and everyone dey Lag here,That was the last straw that broke the Carmel's back.. Nne Eeeeehn...

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    1. Hope your self esteem is in a better cloth now.
      I'm trying to imagine a man buying me over sized cloth and Jericho sandals and me wearing because I want to please him and appear like wife material....
      Or commanding me to leave my job. 🀣🀣🀣🀣
      And I just buahahahahahahaaaaaaaaa like a wild hyena.
      Me?
      Me wey get far more than 'a touch of crase'? 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

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    2. Do you tell him you are S.U
      Why buying Over size cloth for My Sexylicious NK
      Abeg he should go jaweee

      Hello iya Boys

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    3. Anon 19:19, Can really see the werey you 🀣🀣🀣

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    4. Lols 😁 that over size got me laughing. Low cut with over size clothπŸ˜ƒ

      Licious Babe

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  9. Seperated for 4years now. He just stood up around 4.00am and walked out till today.

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  10. I loved and cared for my ex so much. I gave her my all but she dumped me for guys that made more money. It has been Three years that she dumped me but she is now sending her friends, siblings and our mutual friends to get us back together. I have told them that it is not possible.

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    1. Do not go back to that girl. She will do it again. Guess she put money over you.

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  11. His life has not Improved in 5years of relationship. He has no hustle bone in his body. He just wants to call me mummy and collect my salary with sob stories. Lazy lazy all he knows how to do is suck pussy. I am tired. 30 years old now ans I deserve better.

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    1. Better will surely come to you

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    2. My belle o - I don die o!!!!!🀣🀣🀣🀣plate washer extra-ordinaire! But na real work him dey do with the pussy sucking. Anyway, another more buoyant woman wey like that thing go don engage amπŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„

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    3. No darling ,it is YOUR life that has not improved in that thing you call a 'relationship'.
      Your salary is the payment for all the 'plate licking'.

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    4. Some guys just feel that oral sex is a game changer for every lady, not knowing that some of us no even send am.

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    5. πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜€ @ 1:39 what's tthis nah

      Licious Babe

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  12. The lies and characters assassination was just too much for me to handle, he lied against me in the streets infact everywhere. He used me to hide his demonic attitude. No respect for me at all. I kept my distance , our discussion reduced, I lost interest in him. I focus more on my well being and happiness. I withdraw totally from him, am done..

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  13. When he slapped me for the third time. That was it. He begged and begged. We neva marry u dey slap me. Fast forward to 15 years later. He got married and is now divorced. What caused it? Domestic violence. He beat her so badly. I thank God I left. I am married with 2 kids. Hubby has never hit me.

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