Men are the simplest specie I've ever handled in my life. No man is difficult, ignorance is what makes it difficult.
If you want men to fall in love with you and your fiance/husband to treat you like the greatest treasure on earth, you must understand what makes a man a man.
The right buttons to click and how to enjoy a sweet, blissful, heaven-on-earth marriage with him!
MEN HAVE FIRST LOVE they are passionate about it and that is his work. A man must succeed. Not making progress in life is like being impotent, he feels castrated! You must understand this and give him space to succeed. This requires time, efforts, focus, sleepless nights. To demand he spend all his waking hours watching romantic movie with you is to turn him to a perpetual failure! Idle ladies who have nothing sensible doing with their lives except disturb their fiance at work per minute, per second to fill their empty life are a big turn off!
MEN HAVE EGO: he needs it to be the head of his home and succeed. You must distinguish between ego and pride. A man with a healthy ego will listen to you but firmly and lovingly let you know his final decision. A man with pride won't listen to you at all, snob you and treat you like trash!
A man with a healthy ego is not a dummy! Some women expect their men to take all their advice and follow all their instruction, that's not possible! He can't take everything. He will take the ones that makes sense and put aside the ones that will land you in trouble.
He is the head. You can't force your ideas on him, you can only advise, the final decision lies in his hand, shikennah!
MEN ARE MOVED BY SIGHT: it's so amazing so many ladies are ignorant of this. Look, if you don't want that guy to have s#x with you, COVER UP whenever you are with him. I don't understand how a sane Christian sister will go to her fiance's house with a mini skirt and your laps thrown apart right in front of him! You also wore a low neckline and each time you bend, your big mammalian glands are staring menacingly at him and you tell him not to...not to do what? I pity men honestly, the temptation they face daily, only the God of heaven Himself understands because women are refusing to understand!
In marriage, you must deliberately make your husband chase you around for s#x, just one look at some wives, all the sexual desire the husband has flies right through the window! Stinking mouth, bushy armpit, torn underwear, ragged pant, smelling wrapper, etc, etc. Yet the man is surrounded by sweet smelling, well dressed, tantalizing, head swooning babes at work! You must keep packaging and re-packaging! Get transparent bra that pushes the central focus forward, jaw dropping lingerie, sex triggering perfumes and blow his imagination off as often as you can (this is strictly for the married).
MEN WANT PEACE OF MIND: Nagging, criticizing, shouting, yelling, abusing and cursing can destabilize a man, you should minimize it as much as possible in fact, stop it all together.
Some men hate coming home early because the troublesome wife will nag life out of him till late in the night! Once he wakes up, she repeats the cycle till he leaves home! Men like that usually end up with mistresses or second wives! Men run towards women who give them peace not shatter them to pieces!
. MEN LIKE QUALITY FOOD: unless he didn't give you enough money or he likes it, concoction rice with ground pepper, onions, coconut oil and maggi is an insult to him! Watery stew that drops to his elbow while eating is a big bomb on his head! Egusi soup that looks as if garri is sprinkled over a pot of water is a big slap on his face! His money should reflect what you cook please! Maximize what you have, treat him like a king!
MEN LOVE TO BE PRAISED: candidly, I love praising men, praise of man is my natural territory! When I noticed it almost landed me in trouble as men kept giving the chase, I stopped it all together and focus on my husband.
If you are a man-praiser, you will never lack a man's love all your life! You will be pampered, loved and cherished! I've never met a single man who does not respond to praise!
Stingy, selfish, bitterly critical women who see nothing good in their men never have lasting marriages! Praise your husband silly! Appreciate his efforts in your life. Look out for his good qualities and his song in his ears daily!
I love praising my husband, it gives me deep pleasure doing so, he sure deserves it and he enjoys listening to it.
RESPECT HIM: Ladies who shout at their fiance, order him around and disgrace him in public because she has a masters degree in international marketing will stay a long long time as single before she finds an old man to marry! You must be humble if you want to be under any man's roof! Respect is the food of every man. Learn to respect your fiance, show honour to your husband. Saying "yes sir" when appropriate won't make you less of a woman! Learn how to talk to a man. Some women just don't know how to talk! Never correct him in public, don't send him on errand in front of his friends, stop making jest of him in front of the children, it's bad!!!
SUBMIT TO HIM: God states it clearly, "wives, submit to your husbands." Submit your body and other things when he needs them. If you have any trouble with that, ask God, not me. Why was Abraham madly in love with Sarah? She didn't allow her exceptional beauty make her proud, she was a very submissive, respectful wife who called her husband "Lord."
. SUPPORT: Men want women who can support whenever they need help. That is why lots of men are having affairs with colleagues at work because the colleague is eager to help when he needs it most while the one at home left him to handle his problems by himself. Why then did he get married? What is her role in his life as a HELPER?
. MEN GO THROUGH SEASONS: the season of little, the season of managing, the season of abundance! No man wants a gold digger who runs away when he has challenges only to show up when he has made it and has millions flowing in his account!
Men are not difficult at all. These and more are what makes a man tick, thrive and enjoy the woman he has vowed to spend the rest of his life with. Can you be that kind of woman?
The right buttons to click and how to enjoy a sweet, blissful, heaven-on-earth marriage with him!
MEN HAVE FIRST LOVE they are passionate about it and that is his work. A man must succeed. Not making progress in life is like being impotent, he feels castrated! You must understand this and give him space to succeed. This requires time, efforts, focus, sleepless nights. To demand he spend all his waking hours watching romantic movie with you is to turn him to a perpetual failure! Idle ladies who have nothing sensible doing with their lives except disturb their fiance at work per minute, per second to fill their empty life are a big turn off!
MEN HAVE EGO: he needs it to be the head of his home and succeed. You must distinguish between ego and pride. A man with a healthy ego will listen to you but firmly and lovingly let you know his final decision. A man with pride won't listen to you at all, snob you and treat you like trash!
A man with a healthy ego is not a dummy! Some women expect their men to take all their advice and follow all their instruction, that's not possible! He can't take everything. He will take the ones that makes sense and put aside the ones that will land you in trouble.
He is the head. You can't force your ideas on him, you can only advise, the final decision lies in his hand, shikennah!
MEN ARE MOVED BY SIGHT: it's so amazing so many ladies are ignorant of this. Look, if you don't want that guy to have s#x with you, COVER UP whenever you are with him. I don't understand how a sane Christian sister will go to her fiance's house with a mini skirt and your laps thrown apart right in front of him! You also wore a low neckline and each time you bend, your big mammalian glands are staring menacingly at him and you tell him not to...not to do what? I pity men honestly, the temptation they face daily, only the God of heaven Himself understands because women are refusing to understand!
In marriage, you must deliberately make your husband chase you around for s#x, just one look at some wives, all the sexual desire the husband has flies right through the window! Stinking mouth, bushy armpit, torn underwear, ragged pant, smelling wrapper, etc, etc. Yet the man is surrounded by sweet smelling, well dressed, tantalizing, head swooning babes at work! You must keep packaging and re-packaging! Get transparent bra that pushes the central focus forward, jaw dropping lingerie, sex triggering perfumes and blow his imagination off as often as you can (this is strictly for the married).
MEN WANT PEACE OF MIND: Nagging, criticizing, shouting, yelling, abusing and cursing can destabilize a man, you should minimize it as much as possible in fact, stop it all together.
Some men hate coming home early because the troublesome wife will nag life out of him till late in the night! Once he wakes up, she repeats the cycle till he leaves home! Men like that usually end up with mistresses or second wives! Men run towards women who give them peace not shatter them to pieces!
. MEN LIKE QUALITY FOOD: unless he didn't give you enough money or he likes it, concoction rice with ground pepper, onions, coconut oil and maggi is an insult to him! Watery stew that drops to his elbow while eating is a big bomb on his head! Egusi soup that looks as if garri is sprinkled over a pot of water is a big slap on his face! His money should reflect what you cook please! Maximize what you have, treat him like a king!
MEN LOVE TO BE PRAISED: candidly, I love praising men, praise of man is my natural territory! When I noticed it almost landed me in trouble as men kept giving the chase, I stopped it all together and focus on my husband.
If you are a man-praiser, you will never lack a man's love all your life! You will be pampered, loved and cherished! I've never met a single man who does not respond to praise!
Stingy, selfish, bitterly critical women who see nothing good in their men never have lasting marriages! Praise your husband silly! Appreciate his efforts in your life. Look out for his good qualities and his song in his ears daily!
I love praising my husband, it gives me deep pleasure doing so, he sure deserves it and he enjoys listening to it.
RESPECT HIM: Ladies who shout at their fiance, order him around and disgrace him in public because she has a masters degree in international marketing will stay a long long time as single before she finds an old man to marry! You must be humble if you want to be under any man's roof! Respect is the food of every man. Learn to respect your fiance, show honour to your husband. Saying "yes sir" when appropriate won't make you less of a woman! Learn how to talk to a man. Some women just don't know how to talk! Never correct him in public, don't send him on errand in front of his friends, stop making jest of him in front of the children, it's bad!!!
SUBMIT TO HIM: God states it clearly, "wives, submit to your husbands." Submit your body and other things when he needs them. If you have any trouble with that, ask God, not me. Why was Abraham madly in love with Sarah? She didn't allow her exceptional beauty make her proud, she was a very submissive, respectful wife who called her husband "Lord."
. SUPPORT: Men want women who can support whenever they need help. That is why lots of men are having affairs with colleagues at work because the colleague is eager to help when he needs it most while the one at home left him to handle his problems by himself. Why then did he get married? What is her role in his life as a HELPER?
. MEN GO THROUGH SEASONS: the season of little, the season of managing, the season of abundance! No man wants a gold digger who runs away when he has challenges only to show up when he has made it and has millions flowing in his account!
Men are not difficult at all. These and more are what makes a man tick, thrive and enjoy the woman he has vowed to spend the rest of his life with. Can you be that kind of woman?
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ReplyDeleteThat "men want peace part" is not nearly a general thing especially with so many boys raised in toxic environment who have different sick understanding of what a relationship should look like. Many of them who talk about peace, peace, peace, just don't want accountability. I have been there when I was dating and meeting my husband, I now understand the difference.
DeleteAs for respect, it's only fair to recognise that no gender of spouse desire or deserve more respect than the other. We all deserve and desire to be loved. We all deserve and desire to be respected.
And ladies, it's best to marry a man who's intelligence you trust. If you don't believe he is smart enough to make correct sensitive decisions that will affect your life and those of your children, you will NEVER be able to submit to such a man. You will always second guess him and take precautions and the society will see you as as not submissive, even the man will resent you for making your own decisions.
DeleteWell said ma!
ReplyDeleteYes. Well said provided there's no faulty foundation or an evil family altar someplace manipulating the men.
DeleteBaffles me how a family of 4 sons are all divorced and now keeping babymamas to strange women. Hian!
So true! Once you get all the bottons right, you are indirectly the boss
ReplyDeleteShe has Spoken Well
ReplyDeleteOver to Married women o
Hello iya Boys
Nice
ReplyDeleteWell said..
ReplyDeleteWhere is the lie?
ReplyDeleteAdupe ma🙏🏿
ReplyDeleteBeing a married Nigerian woman is very difficult. Tueehhhh
ReplyDeleteMtschew. Men this men that. What about the women. Rubbish advise. They think they know it all because she is a pastor.
ReplyDeleteMen this men that, m assuming she also does all these things she is preaching, even wt all of these, if u check daddy GO’s fone now, u wud see wonders of the world.
DeleteHnmmmm, we are waiting for women's commandment too, it ought to have been stated alongside,every day men men, women nko??
ReplyDeleteKings ' fangs on this blog will come up now and their necks raised up like ostrich!
Why are you so bitter though?
DeleteHave you not thought to yourself that it's probably because of your bad character as evidenced by your snide comment, thats the cause of your involuntary "singlehood"
Change before its too late.
On second thought, I think it is.
Foolish doctor,how do you know I am single ,FYI I am happily married and off the shelf,moron,what is good for the geese is good for the gander,you litter the whole place with your cursed comments, piss off and neer convulse under my comment in your life!! Efulefu!!!
DeleteThis DR E B you are rather harsh oh...easy please.....
Delete@Anon 17:13
DeleteHahahahhahaha.
My comment certainly hit home 🤣🤣🤣
Dr anything went anon too ! Hahaha obo monkey,educative Gambia, you can't even stand near my hubby and he appreciates women wella hence my write up there,know that I posted my comment with his consent.He believes women too should be appreciated an
DeleteA quick segue:
ReplyDeleteThis one and her husband are two medical doctors who are using religion to scam the gullible and desperate in the society.
Staging miracles and what not.
No wonder their offspring dresses like a Cowgirl from Texas with a little mental turbulence.
1 Peter 4:17 KJV
For the time is come that judgment must begin at the house of God: and if it first begin at us, what shall the end be of them that obey not the gospel of God? * And from there to the rest of mankind. Actually judgment has already begun for the believer.
Dr things,allow God judge,pls do not abuse them,state your grievance and move ,not calling them names,I am not a member of their church though truth be told there are a lot of wolves in sheep clothings but by their fruits ,ye shall know them.
Delete@Anonymous 16:18
DeleteDid I judge them or did I just state facts?
"Evil thrives when good men keep silent"
I know you just asked yourself "what makes this fellow thinks they are good?"
Now aren't you also guilty of the exact crime you just accused me of?
Sometimes, making judgments is essential for discerning right from wrong.
I only stated facts that this woman above with the chapped lips and her husband are religious scammers and pulpit bandits who use religion to scam the gullible and the desperate.
She and her ilk thrive because Nigeria is failed society cum Banana Republic where non-state actors have risen up to pretend to provide what the system has failed to provide.
Without "judgment" , we risk accepting harmful behavior or ideas without question, which can lead to negative consequences.
Its painful that the biggest religious scammers are highly educated people who should know better and contribute positively to society.
Imagine medical doctors staging miracles, A PhD holder in theoretical Mathematics (OG scammer Adeboye) who once claimed to drive a car with an empty tank from Lagos to Ibadan, changed winter to summer and other tales-by-moonlight miracles which cant be sunstantiated and are obviously fake, Or Olukoya (another PhD holder) with his fake, fall-down-and-die prayers.
A huge chunk of the new testament are letters of scathing rebuke and correction written by Apostle Paul (Corinthians, Romans, Thessalonians, Galatians, Ephesians, Colossians etc).
These babies arent above reproach. So if you have decided to suspend logical reasoning because of your religion, not everyone will fall under their "anointing" sorry spell.
Mr or Dr anything or whatever you call yourself, it's people like you that abuse MOG that God uses to set example, accep
DeleteCont'd I mistakenly pressed the send button
DeleteLet God judge ,you see a lo
Dr' anything", a lot of the fake pastors abound but there are the good ones even as the Bible has warned us about them concerning the end times but joining them together with the good ones is bad.
DeleteI have personally encountered miracles and God's touch in RCCG and MFM,God is real ohh in these churches, I do not joke with them rara! , your unbelief is an issue ohh
That you don't believe does not make you call them names. It's people like you that God uses in His vineyard later in life then you go know say khaki no be leather. "Kwantinu" ohh
So true God bless you ma.
ReplyDeleteIt's well
ReplyDeleteWell said
ReplyDelete"I pity men honestly, the temptation they face daily, only the God of heaven Himself understands because women are refusing to understand!"
ReplyDelete😐 😭
"Stingy, selfish, bitterly critical women who see nothing good in their men never have lasting marriages!"
CALL SDK FEMALE BVs WITHOUT CALLING THEIR NAMES 😁😂
"Saying "yes sir" when appropriate won't make you less of a woman!"
WHO REMEMBERS THAT ANON MAN THAT saidY SINCE HE STARTED DATING HIS WIFE, SHE USES 'SIR' WHEN ADDRESSING HIM NOT MINDING THAT HE IS JUST FEW YEARS OLDER THAN HER..
AS USUAL AMOTEKUNS ATTACKED, THAT'S WHY WE'LL ALWAYS HAVE CHRONICLES THO.. AFTER THEY SELF-DESTRUCT
"SUPPORT: Men want women who can support whenever they need help."
BE A WOMAN OF VALUE. YOU'RE NOT ADDING VALUE TO A MAN, ALL YOU DO IS WAHALA AND DRAMA BUT YOU WANT TO BE LOVED? HIGHEST FORM OF DELULU.. BUT IT'S WHY WE HAVE CHRONICLES SECTION THO.
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MEN ARE THE EASIEST SPECIES IN THE WORLD, VERY EASY TO DEAL WITH
THERE'S NOTHING SHE STATED HERE THAT I HAVEN'T SAID BEFORE, SHE MIGHT BE A FAN SEF..
Seriously I didn't bother reading all. I am tired of all them teachings of how a woman should live for a man. So who looks after the woman? It's even worse when it's coming form fellow women who should look out for their own. Worst is Felix Adejumo wife, I understand the place of respect and help to your husband but to think we should dedicate our live only to please a man is most cruel. To be a married woman in Niger is like loosing your self entirely and that is very exhausting. All these kind of teachings makes some men to think all there's to a woman is them. Abegi
ReplyDeleteYou said it all,God bless you
DeleteWord! 👍
DeleteSomeone give Royale a chilled bottle of Heineken....once I see these kinda posts ,if u see the way I scroll past it ..
DeleteThey would never disappoint, mention men boom they come out stringing different scenarios emotionally disturbed people letting off through blogs.
DeleteMama has spoken
ReplyDeletethank you ma for sharing
God will help us all to do the best we can and leave the rest to God
Well said 👌
ReplyDeleteShe has a point. However, you will do all these things, and some men still will nzuzu
ReplyDeleteNever tolerate a mans bad behavior because it will get worse if you don't respond. Life lesson 101
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