This is a very positive read!
Listen I know alot of women might be confused, angry, full of regrets and wishing things were just slightly different, I also know alot are going through hell and saying I'll do it for the kids , I'll suffer for my kids, I'll stay unhappy for my kids, I won't move on for my kids, I won't love again or marry again for my kids.
Oh well the twist is, you are not doing all these for your kids, as a matter of fact, you are destroying your kids and ruining their lives by having them watch you be miserable daily or want to please the world. LOL.
Your kids will be happier if you are safe and happy. Children are not happy when their parents are miserable. You have no idea the damage that might cause them.
The month of July was crazy tough for me, from real life issues to social media lies and trolls but guess what, the month of July was also the month I realized I have never made a better decision in my life and I'm soo proud of myself. I read so much bitterness from women and judgements of a life they have no idea of, but again, July made me realize the best decision I ever made was letting myself fall in love again and not just anyone , with a man the lord designed specially to love me as hard as I love others. Listen there's no mistake in allowing yourself to be loved again, it doesn't matter if you have been married before or have 10 kids. July was a realization that there's a man who is not going to be afraid to show you how much they love and care. Sisters there's a man who doesn't want to loose you no matter. If you already have that man, don't loose him if not, may you find him. Don't stop trolling me, it open my eyes more to see what a jackpot I hit."
Shalaye FC.
ReplyDeleteEnough already! Just enjoy your second marriage in peace.
She's saying nothing but the truth, however, I think those ones with kids stay because they don't have the finances.
ReplyDeleteAs a woman, there's an amount you will have that will make you say "I'm ready, I'm done, I'm leaving ".
I am beginning to like this babe. She makes sense a lot.
ReplyDeleteIf she'd found happiness again, then I celebrate her joy and success.
ReplyDeleteEveryone deserves to find love again after a disappointment but I'll advise, find people whose values align more closely with yours. Constant disappointment is nothing to be normalized.
Again, In just a split second, someone's story can change for good. I've seen that happened before my own very eyes.
Never look down on anyone or write them off in life, for you don't know the grace covering them.
© TEEJAY
Do what makes you happy my dear.
ReplyDeleteInteresting read. Good you've found true love again. All the best, Wanneka
ReplyDeleteTruth,but enjoy your marriage..
ReplyDeleteTrolls una don hear.
Congratulations and may your love last and pass the test of time
ReplyDeleteI like it when women learn to love themselves too..
ReplyDeleteCongratulations. May God is uphold this love. I wish you the best and I pray for all those seeking fr true love. May you all find that which you seek.
ReplyDeleteI am happy for that she found love again. You people don't know how scary it is to put yourself out there after being bamboozled by a deceitful partner. I pray I find love that is easy, and doesn't make me doubt myself ever again!
ReplyDeleteAmen 🥰
DeleteYou will find love again, Anon. 🤗🤗
DeleteI don't know why my eyes wandered to his 'uncle Bolaji'
ReplyDeleteGod bless you
ReplyDeletePlease Martinz and other BVs, I had a blog ID about 6 years ago which I stopped using.
ReplyDeleteMy account on blogger is still intact, I can still access it. But I’ve been trying to comment with that ID since, it’s not working .
I don’t know if I made sense…but please help
Congratulations
ReplyDeletePeaceful Marriages
ReplyDeleteHello iya Boys
Women. We are the enemies of ourselves.
ReplyDeleteGood for you waneka
ReplyDeleteVeekey James don pepper Wanee sotey she commot her husband from hiding.
ReplyDeleteChochocho. Make we no hear another story o
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