HAHAHAA.... Nigerian Netizens ohhhh.... Does food keep a Marriage.? I have the same mindset with her..
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Monday, August 26, 2024
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Lol..
ReplyDeleteI love the internet, you'll see these people come and make mouth, I can never all this and that in my marriage,. If he or she won't do these let them go!,. I can never beg a man/woman,. I cannot cook and serve a man, I cannot wash a woman pant,. I can never call my husband sir blah blah blah..
They'll finish making mouth, log off and start doing the opposite ππ
Na people wey dey take internet people advice dey lose.. I no go pity them sha, as them no gree get sense to think for themselves
Even if her mouth talk true.
DeleteWetin she wan cook for kitchen wen Baba neva chop.
Person wey suppose to dey use fone co-ordinate sites, time zones for transmission, and good vacation?
One woman go read this one go raise shoulder for husband.
She no go first ask hersef -
Who her Papa be ..
Weda she be Adaora
Who her husband be for her life and in my Papa house
Wetin her pikin go chop if ..
Wetin she fit take her hand do..
How much she eva see before I marri
Where job dey for her
Oda kweshions.
Marriage na one by each o
Dat was how that young woman lose better Boyfriend/Fiance come back to cry here say WE mislead am with Bvs comments not to help man.
And WE, the Female Bvs, shout back: Na lie! We no send you message
Man laf tay dat day.
Believe internet relationship and marriage advice (oops, opinions) at own peril.
No be about papa na womanhood and children.
DeleteWhose duty is it to cook for a husband? I can understand when a woman can't cook all the time for her man but saying you won't cook is a madness taken too far and its only remedy is getting a second wife.
ReplyDeleteBelieve women like this at your own risk. Forming voltron online but humble and submissive at home.
© TEEJAY
Makes me wonder if the man is handicapped that he can't cook for himself. Cooking is not gender role, it is a survival skill everyone should possess irrespective of the gender. So, if food is all it takes for a man to go astray, he was never serious in the first place. If cooking can't mend a broken relationship/marriage, then it shouldn't be a deal breaker.
Delete@Teejay...your life should be worth more than your belly..nobody is,arguing about whose duty it is to cook or not, in this day and age..The many sins of Esau, selling his birth right for a morsel .don't be like Esau pls!
DeleteMarriage is essentially an arrangement of gender assigned roles.
DeleteWomen recognise that fact very very well on the husband providing even if solely and abundantly, but they want to always reject any role assigned to them as wife.
The State institutions also recognise the roles assignment hence mothers are generally granted custody of children lower than 16 years though there are fathers who are better equipped to do custody jobs than mothers..
@Anon 13:00, who assigned the role, you, society, God or the ones involved in the marriage? Are men actually the sole providers in this 'woke' society, Abi, haven't you heard what do women bring to the table? Keep living in a cave!
DeleteYou guys are not getting her point. She never said she won't cook. Someone advised her that another woman will take her husband if she doesn't cook for him.
DeleteThe question is;
Will she be making his food everyday? Me and you have no idea of her work schedule or her study schedule. So the guy that came to propose to her already knows if she will be able to meet up with that or not and she knows the kind of man she's married to and what kept him to the extent that he came to marry her. That's why she can confidently say he should go if her inability to cook will be a problem. Yes, she already knows that cooking is the most irrelevant of the many reasons he found her worthy and wifed her. And she's very sure that her man is not in the category of men that will pick offense if she didn't enter the kitchen in a day.
In all, understand your partner, everybody is not thesame so no need fighting over irrelevant issues.
Feminist BS. Stop imitating people and policies that attack the family system.
DeleteAll this na poverty mentality when professional chefs full ground for her.
DeleteI know a man whose wife does not cook at all. But she runs all his businesses and makes sure they are solvent. She is even in charge of all their pension plans and investments. They travel a lot and hire a private chef from a concierge. Her value to him is more than food as her brain dug them out of poverty.
DeleteNigerian
ReplyDeleteDo what makes you happy. Marriage is a beautiful thing.
ReplyDeleteWe are all individuals wired differently by our Creator . Therefore, no two persons are the same not even twins.
No marriage is the same anyways.
Perfectly said π
DeleteYou just got married Nne....Somethings are better left unsaid...Hmmm na wa
ReplyDeleteExactly, why would she say he can leave, as if he was the one that gave her that advise, na you go still cry pass if the bobo leave.
DeleteMarry what you want. Is that simple?
ReplyDeleteππ€£π Abi o, he can go if it's food that will make my marriage not to work, Nigerians too do abeg nawa o
ReplyDeleteThe way they give these men moral is alarming.
Swearugad!
DeleteAnd na those men with empty bank accounts dey always shout this thing oooo.
DeleteA Man That wanna Stay will Stay ooo
ReplyDeleteIf nah your own Man the One And Only God Has Ordained for you Food cannot make he leave o
I Like Her She no Send kwanu ππ
Hello iya Boys
I think the advise is only for broke partners shaa,
ReplyDelete'Woke' men wouldn't mind...I mean with the number of caterers and chefs we have in town.
GoldenTulip ✍️π️
Not so.
DeleteSome richer men even get their wives to resign from good paying jobs to do their food.
Some men do not eat food prepared by another woman apart from their mother or wife.
Some men only eat food prepared by a man.
Some men do not eat food prepared by their wives during certain times in each month.
Some men do not eat food cooked or prepared by another person.
Some men do not eat outside their homes at all.
Ask around you will here well and confirm all said above
There is no one measure in life. That is why Madam Adaora's post is hers only.
Nigeria netizens and overconsumption of other people's lives. Mtsheeeew π
ReplyDeleteIf food is what will make a man cheat..then truly he can leave..because he is as cheap as f**c**k! Inukwa!!
ReplyDeleteMechie onu gi. Go and marry.
DeleteIt all depends on the man and how they view having home cooked meals. Some men are big on meals and food is a major part of their life. For a man like this, it would add value to the marriage for a wife to cook regular meals. Not every man is food focused, so those not getting regular home cooked meals is not going to care and no woman will beguile them through food.
ReplyDeleteAll well said. She knows the man does not care. That is why she is about it. She may not even be a good cook and the man valued other qualities in her. Yet she wants it to appear ...
DeleteWhat about women who say marriage is not their game and did not marry. But she married. Na only food she no fit cook or no wan cook in marriage.
Most opinions on how life should be lived are valueless to other people.
Her choice
ReplyDeleteLovely response from her
ReplyDeleteThey should rest already
And what would the man have to do in order for hos wife not to be "snatched"? Or she doesn't deserve to be kept?
ReplyDeletePeople and sophomoric mentality should just sit this one out.
Do what works for you o!
ReplyDeleteIf you follow people's mouth, you go enter fireπ₯.π
no be small thing.
ReplyDeleteGender wars unlimited
ReplyDeleteBele ministry dey very important
ReplyDelete