Hmmmm....
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
DANGEROUS MINDSET
My family friends daughter lives in lagos alone.She hardly comes home even during the holiday ...
It was when she came last year I got to know why she stays away from home.
This young lady in her early thirties told her parents she has fibroid and the next thing her parents said was that it's people that have done abortion that end up having fibroids. They said they're sure she's been committing abortion and prostitution in Lagos hence the fibroid.
I just tire for them...How do explain this to them`?
WOW.......what kind of mindset is this?
Go to Youtube and show them what Fibrois is please...inorance is costly.
I just tire for them...How do explain this to them`?
WOW.......what kind of mindset is this?
Go to Youtube and show them what Fibrois is please...inorance is costly.
They need to understand that fibroid is not a result of abortion.
ReplyDeleteAlso advise the lady to be more closer to her parent.
DOZZYBEST.
I know two virgin spirit-filled Christian ladies who have fibroid, it’s not by abortion o
DeleteKaaaai. Ignorance shaaaaa. Biko, show them videos, let them learn.
ReplyDeleteSo unfair..
ReplyDeleteThis is why most kids stayed away from their parents when they can afford to..
What a wicked thing to say to ur child.. Even if they don't know about the illness can't they ask questions before accusing her..
Kai, see parents that are supposed to be her pillar and support.
ReplyDeleteO ma se oh. So sad.
O SE gan ni
DeleteVery painful
DeletePoster you can't really help those that are ignorant and choose not to gain information.....Their daughter staying alone should tell you that she needs her peace of mind than staying with people who don't care nor want to understand her predicament.....
ReplyDeleteYou can show them Youtube videos as suggested by Stella if not just leave them alone....
I pray God heals her completely...
Even if they change their mind, it is better for the lady to stay far away from that kind of family for the sake of her mental health
ReplyDeleteFan Emmanuel
It's rather unfortunate,that the people,she needs their prayers and support are judging her. God will see her through the fibroid ordeal. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
ReplyDeleteWhat a thing to tell your daughter. I see why she does not come home much, I wouldn't either with parents like that.
ReplyDeleteDo your best to educate them, but if ppl have this mindset in 2024 then you have your work cut out for you. They obviously have very little knowledge of human anatomy, biology, and no concept of hormones. May God guide you with wisdom of what to say to these extremely distasteful ppl. Even if they are ignorant, they don't have to be nasty with it. So many women with fibroids can't even enjoy or indulge in seck, so I don't even get their reasoning.
Nawaooo
ReplyDeleteAre they not exposed or what. Don't they have another child to educate them more? if they do then he/she should enlighten them, since it won't be coming from an outsider their mindset might just change
The things many parents say to their kids ehn! We are not ready yet for that discussion. Many of us had and still have very toxic parents. Na just culture and respect dey make many of us keep quiet cuz if na white people, dem for don kpai dem since. I hope this generation of parents will do better abeg, starting with me.
ReplyDeleteSeriously,some parents are just too toxic.Na religion and culture makes some of us dey keep quiet.The only thing that concern my mum and I is her monthly stipend. I don't call her because of my peace of mind.I will send my story to Stella one day.
DeleteIt's God that is truly helping some of us. Because most people won't even believe when you tell them what your so-called biological parents have said or done to you and they keep gaslighting you with the fact that they are still your parents, you cannot have another father or mother bla bla bla.
DeleteI agree with y'all💯, had it been my mum's still alive,I won't have anything to do with my dad at all. All I'm doing for him now is what my mum was supposed to be enjoying and I'm doing it as a form of consolation to myself.I've forgiven but,I can never forget because,the scars are still fresh in the memory.
DeleteI agree with y'all💯, had it been my mum's still alive,I won't have anything to do with my dad at all. All I'm doing for him now is what my mum was supposed to be enjoying and I'm doing it as a form of consolation to myself.I've forgiven but,I can never forget because,the scars are still fresh in the memory.
DeleteMaybe the parents no go school nau.
ReplyDeleteIt's only ignorance that will make anyone say such a thing.
They need enlightenment.
No ignorance will not make you accuse your grown child without talking to her
Deleteher parent don't know jack
ReplyDeletethey should visit hospitals and confirm how virgins also have fibroids
she has not seen women that are done with child bearing having fibroids.
she should ignore her parents and focus on the best way to manage it or take it out.
The way some parents think is pathetic, my cousin has stopped picking her mum's calls for 1.2 years now, her mum is my mother's immediate elder sister.
ReplyDeleteBefore the cut in communication, the mother was always asking her why is she not married or telling her that Shebi she knows all her mates are married and have kids now or she says how can an old woman like my cousin not have the knowledge or initiative to trap/keep a man. My cousin clocked 35 this year.
It got to my cousin's neck so she stopped picking her mum's calls because all the mum's conversations revolves around marriage/man/settling down. She later blocked her and she is still blocked.
There are some things we hear from outsiders that hurt but when we hear them from family members it hurts more, infact the hurt is usually like a stab in the heart.
She promised she'll unblock her on the 30th of this month.
Lol..
ReplyDeleteIt's even actually 'almost' the other way around
Ee yah, this is not fair on the lady.They are supposed to be her support system.Ty and explain to them if they will understand.
ReplyDeleteIs Obvious Papa And Mama no go School oo
ReplyDeleteEven they did not go to school can't they ask questions
Na waooo
It is well with Her🙏🙏
Hello iya Boys
The kind of sick mindset my mother in law has! Always believing rubbish and nonsense
ReplyDeleteMe that’s hasn’t had sex in years, no abortion, yet I have fibroid to be taken out about 7cm. The pain I go through is not here. It is well oo.
ReplyDeleteMay God heal you
DeleteI'm a virgin in my late 30s. Never kissed anyone or any other thing people do so it's safe to say I'm a primary virgin lol. I have fibroids and it was discovered 9 years ago. I told only my sister, the day my parent knew she started moving funny and I told her not to do it again. No one person has monopoly of moving funny.
ReplyDeleteHer parents are very ignorant and if she feels staying away will help her sanity, please she should. I'm a supporter of peace of mind, however, she should put a call across once in a while and visit them once in a blue moon.
Hmm... Sorry about the fibroid. May God come true for you
DeleteIgnorance is such a bad thing.
ReplyDeleteYou can get a health worker to explain to the parents what fibroid is, some parents are just not it chaaa!
Haa, my cousin who is a virgin had fibroid . What kind of parents are these people tori olorun
ReplyDeleteGod is good
ReplyDeleteNa waoooo for some parents oooo.
ReplyDeleteWhat a wack mindset! Family that is supposed to be are source of consolation are the ones adding salt to injury. So bad
ReplyDeleteInstead of blocking them, I will rather build a shock absorber to absorb their ignorance and sieze the opportunity to educate them.
ReplyDeleteChai ignorance is a disease. I feel so sorry for her parents but then she shouldn't stay away. I advised she visit and have a heart to heart discussion with her mother in particular. Sometimes they act this way because they don't know.
ReplyDeleteYou might be able to chest judgement from outsideers and call them jealous. In fact, when outsiders peddle certain rumours about you, you can decide to pepper them more. But when it comes from your parents or a parent... it's hard to get over. Anyhow she decides to express her hurt is very justified. Those are the people who were supposed to have her back no matter what.
ReplyDeleteIgnorance is such a terrible thing . They should consult a health worker just to be informed ... Poor girl 😞😞😞
ReplyDeleteWhat sort of mind set, do they have.
ReplyDeleteNo man have seen my laps before and after my fibroid surgery.
Even my mom wey no go school, have never thought of this. Chai ignorance 🤔
Pls look for a good hospital and take the monster out..
The parents are just ignorant, she needs you to be her shoulder to lean on, pls go ahead and fill the space the parents are supposed to fill in this trying times
ReplyDeleteIf she tries to let them understand the issue and they don't, abeg let her stay on her own
ReplyDeleteWow. Ignorance is not bliss at this point. What kind of backwards thinking is that?
ReplyDeleteParents from I don't know world
ReplyDeleteThe Most Complex B
It's well
ReplyDeleteIt is well
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