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Stella, someone hacked my phone for the past 2 years, listening to my conversations and contacting my friends, saying all sorts about me all because i refused to be in a relationship with him cos i realised we will never workout,is it fair?
Now i am giving this nuisance fire fire fire and he is everywhere telling people i am are jealous of him and i have bad character. As how naa, I not fit date g#y wey dey do yahoo, how is this a crime?
I have never met this guy and I don't or didn't intend to do so cos of the way he behaves, he will come for me unprovoked and go insult my parents on his page, come back to beg and do same almost immediately so I ignored him.
I mean he later told me everything was a prank but can you believe this person has threatened to take my life cos I refused to settle with him and start commenting on his blog on instagram´? please who does this? He launched a smear campaign against me that i am mentally unstable and reached out to my friends including the elderly ones saying all sorts of fabricated lies, calling me barren and all sorts all because of a shortlived friendship which didn't metamorphose to anything serious.
You only see my outburst when i am tired without knowing what's going on privately. And his defense is that iam jealous and left cos he doesn't have money.
WOW...This is serious!!!!.......
At this point, I would suggest you make peace with him and move on.....If you retaliate to whatever he does, just stop it...If he hacked your phone, then stop using the phone or get someone to remove the bug, get a new simcard...Do everything you can to move on...Dont you know how to ignore someone?The way i see this, its either peace or war or ignoring him...Choose one..
You say he is one sided with his gender? Then why does he wanna date you? Or you mean that he swings with both genders?
Poster but true true you sound mentally I don’t want to use the word unstable. Hope I’m not gaslighting you
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You guys should keep going to dating sites until you meet a ghost
DeleteI can never date someone I've not met even if it's Facebook friends because our people always say " life a kpachata n' akuku ite na eso ite ana"
Do u not know that a guy or lady u met in dating sites or online can still return back to the streets tomorrow?
I thought the same too about being mentally unstable.
DeletePlease pardon my ignorance, can one's phone be hacked by a total stranger or someone you have never met before?
ReplyDeleteI am curious and want to learn.
Poster sorry about your predicament.
Have you tried keeping evidence to lodge a complaint against the individual
God bless you for this comment
DeleteReport him to police
ReplyDeleteJust wondering why it's difficult to change sim when it got to this level. Call him out on Twitter using his name and everything you know about him.
ReplyDeleteTake issue of threat to your life by him serious. So many weirdos walking around
The perils of online dating...
ReplyDeleteYou've never met him. How did he gain access to your phone and hack? Coz you can't hack without access someone. No be magic.
ReplyDeletePeople can hack into your phone without meeting you. There are different types of software and technology that can make it possible. Perhaps she received an email or message that she clicked on without knowing it was a spy. What if he sent her an attachment with a hacking software? It is also possible that he has seen her, but she has not seen him. I know of a case where the bug was planted via data because they were in the same place at the same time. But the victim was not aware. So, let us give people the benefit of the doubt unless we know otherwise for a fact.
DeleteChange ur phone please
ReplyDeleteStella if this narrative is true you forgot to tell her to contact the Police
ReplyDeleteYou never even met him and he has this much effect on you? I didn't know it was possible to bug a phone without physical contact!😳
ReplyDeleteAnyway, how are you doing? Do you have friends? Can you go to your network provider to secure your phone privacy? You need to starve him of attention. That is all you have to do. IGNORE HIM after you have secured your line. Do you have a happy, busy and engaging life? If you had, this would really not be an issue.
Poster this your chronicle is not complete or you are hiding some information about the whole gist. How comes he is fighting you this way if you didn't date or sleep with him? If is only friendship from afar this dude will not have so much information about you. How comes he was able to hack your phone without you giving him access?
ReplyDeleteThe way he has been spoiling your names shows that you both shared some intimacy, you git carried away and told him some personal things about you that he is using. You cannot tell me that a person you don't have something with will get your information and use it on you.
The guy is saying you are mentally unstable cos you kept on responding to him you gave him full attention like he is important or you cannot do without him. Why can't you just ignore him with all what he has been saying he will get fed up and back out. Now you have given him so much attention that he want to do more harm than he has already done to you. Please find a way to talk things over with hom and apologise just for peace seek, delete his number, block him on all social media and face front.
What happened that you didn't report this issue to thr right authorities, atleast they would have fish him out since he is a ya... person? You too didn't do well for not using that to pin him down. Make peace before he goes in a diabolical way to harm you. Such people will go any length just to shame someone.
Report him to the authority.
ReplyDeleteChange your phone and number na
ReplyDeleteThis chronicle is not adding up and how can someone hack your phone and then threaten your life and you are here writing us a chronicle? Police is your best friend in this case o
ReplyDeletePure narcissist. This is the definition of a narcissist.
ReplyDeleteIs his name Samuel? Pastor Sam?
I think someone can hack into one's phone or app when you send them a required codes
ReplyDeletePlease dear,move on for your sanity sake.How can a relationship be like a war zon?Change your line and possibly get a new phone if you can.its well.
ReplyDeleteThis poster is mentally ill...she is probably psychotic. I recognize the signs. I'm a psychiatric patient living in a psychiatric shelter here abroad. Poster see a therapist and if need be a psychiatrist.
ReplyDeleteAre you seeing what I’m seeing 🤐
DeleteFan Emmanuel
The Person no well ooo
ReplyDeleteYou better do fast and Report him to Police o..
This is bad ooo
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ReplyDeleteHmm....May we not meet unstable people. For the people that are saying something is missing and because it was just friendship, I pray that you don't meet a narcissist. I will like to share my story. A few years ago I was attending a church, A certain unmarried minister in church, in charge of the youth took interest in me. Wanting to know things about me, how much I earn etc. I thought it was just genuine concern as a brother in christ, so i was open. Over the years he had gathered a lot of information. This person A, later came out that he liked me and we started a friendship to get to know each other(Talking stage). Previously we were not friends and we only related on a spiritual leader to sister basis, and what this ensured is that I didn't know anything personal about him.
ReplyDeleteWe were only friends for 6 weeks and these 6 weeks were the most horrible i have ever experienced. He would castigate every single thing about me. From hair, to clothes, to phone, to my skin etc. I also found out that this person was jobless and had lied about what he was doing from the first week. It was just horrible. And on the 6th week, I told him I wasn't interested in the friendship anymore. This is where the real problem began. He reported me to everyone he could report me. And I was called into numerous counseling sessions. He admitted to everything he did, but the church elders still wanted me to go along with the relationship. Lol. This was a 30+ man who had not worked a day in his life. When I stood my ground, he would report me to another set of people and the cycle continued for almost a year, then the smear campaign and lies began. There was no information he knew that he didn't use against me. All because I said I didn't want to go into a relationship with him. Then he started saying the Lord said we were meant to be. So many hurtful words were hurled at me. Ultimately, I had to relocate and block everyone for my peace of mind and sanity.
I am writing specifically because of religious sisters. Please do not allow anyone force you into anything you don't want to do. Before, I left the church they started a sort of teaching that "God might give you someone you don''t like".....This is a lie from the pit of hell, spread by men who know some women are way ahead of their league and employ spiritual manipulation to get them. In my case, I have a thriving career and I am very comfortable. Now, i am not saying that you shouldn't go for who you want to be with if he doesn't have a job. But it should be with clear eyes and not manipulation. In my case I am turned off by people that don't have a zeal to better their own lives. But from the onset he lied that he had a Job. Please shine your eyes and don't let over spirituality make you fall into a ditch. As much as marriage is spiritual, marriage is also heavily physical. Look out for character traits like Kindness, Consideration, Effort, Respect, how he treats you, view on marriage, children, family etc.
May God help us all.
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DeleteThankGod For you oo🙏🙏
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Amen. Learning so much here, Stella God bless you for this platform you raised 🙏
Delete@anon 20.30 they just want to continue to use you to benefit their nonsense life . They will manipulate and bully you for their own selfish interest. I refuse to accept nonsense while they are throwing away their future, they still want to used me as their tickets meal. Good riddance to nonsense .
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