Hmmmmm......
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
IN LOVE WITH MY COUSINS COUSIN
She is the Paternal cousin of my maternal cousin.....Would we be allowed to get married and make babies? Is this right or wrong....Even though we are in love, I have no plans to marry her but i think she may be pregnant and I dont want an abortion, I want my baby to be born.....
So let me explain it again...My mother's sister's son has a cousin that is his fathers brother's daughter and i am dating her..... we all used to hang out together as one family till we all relocated to the diaspora where we became lonely and started this thing.
Please i need advice...would a child from such union be labelled or not..
HUH´????I dont understand at all abeg...
Why get involved in the first place? Since you're cousins, your child will be what now? 🤔
ReplyDeleteNo he is not cousins wt her. He is related to a cousin from his mother’s side, then that cousin he is related to, on her father’s side also has a cousin, this guy is dating her, so pls how is he related to her?
DeleteThey are not cousins na?
DeleteLol
ReplyDeleteShe's not related to you
You can marry and make babies, only wondering why you are knacking her but don't want to marry her, smh
The end
DeleteThere is no blood connection so this is a nothing burger
That is there is no issue here
Also to help you this lady is the child of the brother of your Aunty’s husband
If them look well sef na small pikin write this chronicle. Person way suppose dey read books to pass for an exam. Mtcheeew
ReplyDeleteNa person wey just gain admission for university
DeleteHaaahaaahaa... you might be right. Omokekere write up dabbling into married people's cake. No shame
DeleteU funny jooor oo. After him don knack finish him dey catch feeling.
DeleteThe things some of you do though. You knew you guys are blood related and you went ahead.
ReplyDeleteI wish you what you wish yourself.
© TEEJAY
They are not blood related Tee, it’s just like saying you are in love with a girl from your cousin family. The family where your mummy sister is married to, that is a cousin to your cousin.
DeleteRead again, they are not blood related.
DeleteCalm down and read again. This time slowly and to understand.
DeleteTeejay, abeg how their blood take relate?
DeleteThere is nothing wrong with it as you guys are not related in anyway. Though some families may kick against it, but that’s their own personal prejudice not that there is anything wrong with it.
ReplyDeleteBut how come you have no plans to marry her even though you love her as you claim? And you were even chopping her work? So you want to make her a baby mama ehn kwa?! Also why didn’t you ask all these long long questions before you allowed the devil to use you as his tools of trade? You better marry that girl.
Please tell your parents, I think they will be in a better position to advise you
ReplyDeleteFan Emmanuel
I think u are good to go..
ReplyDeleteU guys are not related at all..
Talk to ur mom about it and see what she thinks..
Just listen to yourself talk. You have no plans to marry her. You are stylishly blaming loneliness for your corrupt action.
ReplyDeleteStop whatever you are doing with her! The fact that you are worried shows that both of you are doing the wrong think.
Stay away from her but if she's already pregnant, take full responsibility .
It's to tell you how self centered this men children are.
DeleteTechnically, you are not related by blood so it shouldn’t be a problem. However, the bonds are a little closer than some would like and make other’s say something. Folks talk anyway and if you are already at it, then it has past the point of no return.
ReplyDeleteIf you love her as you claim then marry her if she is indeed pregnant. Do not put her into a position to be ridiculed and leave her alone in it. You must both be united and move as one unit to be respected as a couple.
Poster this is incest now...Even your conscience pricks you that what you are doing is wrong...I suppose you are from the Northern Nigeria...
ReplyDeleteChildren born in incest usually have developmental problems which is lifelong... Don't let a child come out from this...
Na wa oh
Not all is the best respectfully
Na wa for una!!! Go and look up the meaning of incest before using the word. Abi you don't read to understand?
DeleteI believe you are smart. Please read again, this time slowly and to understand.
DeleteIncest bawo??? e no dey hard una to speak big English wey una no know the meaning...🤣🤣
AI don fall Phoenix hand!
DeleteThis is not incest. Let me explain to you and Stella and others who don’t understand….
DeleteFor example, You, Phoenix, you have some cousins from your mother’s side and also cousins from your father side. These cousins are not blood related, their only link is through you. So let’s say, your cousin from your mother side is marrying your cousin from your father’s side,… that’s what is happening here.
Phoenix no naah. Let’s assume he is feom northern Nigeria like u insinuate, u think he would write in this chronicle? Of course not because it is perfectly acceptable up there.
DeleteSecondly, read again, this time Without the urge to reply but to understand u would know that he is in no way related to her.
Are you related to ur cousin’s cousin?
Like when ur maternal aunt gets married, her husband’s side, ofcourse ur cousins (her kids) would be related to their father’s side, are you also related to them (those relations like her husband's nephews and nieces)?? I dnt think u r, think again.
Prophet Saint. Na u Biko
Delete@Miz Sope you must be very silly to say that I use AI. Don't ever come under my comment to say nonsense again and make false accusations.
DeleteAnonymous 17:31 thanks for the explanation
It's the fact that you know you don't want to marry her but you went ahead to have sex with someone that is supposed to be your 'sister'. To make matters worse, you didn't even use protection to avoid having a child that will be labelled. I don't know where you people get your orientation from but left to me, you both should be cast out into the darkness where you will gnash your teeth. Another single mother for your fellow men to discriminate against and make mockery of, and later you wonder why we have so many damaged women about. Mtchewww.
ReplyDeleteIkwakwakwakwakwa 😂😂😂😂 no be small cast out into darkness. They are not even related and the poster is obviously a man child.
DeleteDo you people even reason whether the girls wants to marry him? 2 non married adults decide to have coitus what is your business having expectations for them pls?. Do you know them?
DeletePoster casually ask your mom or dad, or an elder in your family.
ReplyDeleteThere lies the answer.
These people know your culture and what's obtainable
I am here still trying to reason the cousin, cousin relationship using my own family to understand better😁
ReplyDeleteThe explanation sef dey turn my eyes
DeleteIt took me time before I understood this write up. It is just a cousin to your cousin from your maternal side.
DeleteJusty lemme try see if i can help u out.
DeleteIf ur aunt from ur mom’s side gets married and have kids, those kids are ur cousins, then their dad (ur aunt’s hubby) has a brother, who also has his kids, u see ur cousins (ur aunt’s kids) have those their dad’s brothers kids to be their own cousins but nth concern u wt them. Cos na ur aunt’s hubby’s ppl.
@lora it sure did turn my eyes.
Delete@anon, thanks. I understand now.
Ive seen this kind of relationship before. You guys are not related nah.
ReplyDeleteI don't think anything is wrong
ReplyDeleteAsk your family Sha
Cousins cousins... you are related as long as you can trace that you are related. When have such an intimate relationship with your sister? Why didn't you write a chronicle before it got to this stage? In this part of the world , I think it's not accepted, except you are a Fulani....you might need to let your parents know since she might be pregnant..
ReplyDeleteSister ke?? Did we just read same chronicle?
DeleteThey are not blood related, and I believe they can get married if they want.
DeleteSo if ur aunt gets married to a man, and he has a brother who has kids, would you also be related to them? Note that it is ur aunt that is married to them oo.
DeleteFor the fact that you sent for advice means that you knew the relationship is wrong but free kpekus didn't allow you to see road and more importantly you don't want to marry her (which I believe she didn't know),best of luck if you succeed but there is problem ahead better stop free kpekus before it stops you
ReplyDeleteYou don't want to marry her, but you wanna make her a baby mama? Hahahahahahaa... why are you so wicked? Ontop of it, ya'll are relat3d somehow. Your are one sick muthafucker though.
ReplyDeleteYour situation cannot be redeemed. I mean, why having intimacy with her repeatedly if you have no intentions to wife her. She's someone from your lineage and I think that's a good match. But your mind is damn corrupt. God save the women from wrong choices because this is unfair and all shades of emotional abuse. May you find what you are looking for. And may the pregnancy stay. Iseeeeeeh🧡
ReplyDeleteAssistant god wey know all women mind, doh o
DeleteMy mum and her sister are married into same family so I don't see the problem here.
ReplyDeleteYou're only making up an issue cos you've already made up your mind not to marry her.
Gbam
DeleteCorrect
DeleteYou guys are not related,but some family won't let you guys tie the knot because of the closeness.
ReplyDeleteYou guys are not related,but some family won't let you guys tie the knot because of the closeness.
ReplyDeleteIt is selfish for you to be nacking, when you have no intention of marrying her. It is selfish, wicked and very unkind. You say you love her or are in lust with her???
ReplyDeleteIf you love her like you said up there, you will want the best for her including thinking of how to protect her should she get pregnant. Obviously from your narration, that's not the case. It means you don't love her.
Love is not when you are feeling butterflies in your stomach, it is a decision to stand by one who has captivated your heart.
In otherwords, you lusted after each other and are doing the do. Does she know how you feel about her not wanting to marry her???
Young man zip up, and do unto others as you would like them to do unto you.
Tomorrow, you will be the one discussing how loose and how you enjoyed her. Very unfair.
Think about it and retrace your steps.
Chisos. So you know the girl's mind, na wa, naija women sha, SMH!
DeleteYou know from the onset that you weren't going to Marry her but went on eating free food. Hope she's aware of your intentions abi you want someone wey go swear for you . I pity the lady !
ReplyDeleteDepends on your family Poster.
ReplyDeleteIn my part of Yoruba land, you won’t be permitted to marry each other even if she’s pregnant.
You can’t marry from / into the family where your sibling or cousin has married from/into either.
But his sibling or cousin is not married into the family. It is his aunt that is married into the family.
DeleteYou are distant inlaws and can get married if you both desire to. You are not blood relatives.
ReplyDeleteSo, go on and enjoy the privilege of an era were a man can decide not to tied to a woman he debauched. You have the yam and the knife.
This is taboo my brother. But they say love conquers all
ReplyDeleteNa WA!
Delete😂🤣 you guys, what is happening?
DeleteLolll. Wake up from your slumber?
DeleteWhich love?
The love is the lrnfht6sbd breadth of the pen_is.
Dont blame the guy.
They will always think like dogs.
It us the stewpid woman I pity.
You think having a child is like going to buy noodles?
You gon' learn.
You are not related by any standards... Y don't you intend to marry her?
ReplyDeleteYou aren't related. You just share a cousin.
ReplyDeleteNot related in any way, but a little too close for comfort...but stop already if you have no intentions to make a noble lady out of her...I do not blame you, but blame her too...not nice!
ReplyDeleteC.A
ReplyDeleteFrom your write-up you're guys are not related
ReplyDeleteYou can marry no blood connection. My marital family have this alot. Anambra state. My mil and her sis like that.
ReplyDeleteSame with mine. I'm related with most of my cousins in both ways-maternal and paternal same time, same person.
DeleteAnambra people too love marry from their family sha.
You are not in anyway related. Just have relations who are related.
ReplyDeleteJust imagine, does this sound fair to you ehnn poster? You don't intend to marry her; meaning she's not fit to be your wife. So, you been ''in love'' with her is just so you can do whatever you want with her and leave the left over for who exactly🙄. Nawaooo some men sha
ReplyDeleteWahala
ReplyDeleteOk oooo
Good luck ooo
Hello iya Boys
I can't believe that a lot of people find it difficult to comprehend this story.
ReplyDeleteAsk your dad or mum, and the fact you said you don't want to marry I was just shaking my head for the girl sef that's is doing hide and seek with you, girl wake up o na only child he wants he no want you in this una kukere turning narrative
ReplyDeleteSome story you read here sef, he dey get as it be. You are sleeping with someone you have no intention to marry. You need to be flog with koboko and yet you did not use protection.
ReplyDeleteWithout protection o. Later the poor girl will take the blame.
DeleteStylishly ask an elder in your place, I don't think it's wrong. My first cousin from mother's side married my second cousin from my father's side. They are not related.
ReplyDeleteYou don't love her, you just want to knack and you've already made up your mind not to marry her. .. so why asking us questions?
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