Some people are wicked and heartless..... I dont want to believe that anyone can do this but i also know that it is possible....
''A wife was crying in my consulting room, she had no idea about her new hubby mental illness. Her SIL was consoling her and then wife goes to attend to husband. Na so SIL and BIL burst laugh, said shey she wan marry, she never start to cry. SIL calls other family
Making fun of the wife of their brother. Laughing at her and talking about how they have successfully removed their brother problems from their hand. I just sit down there with straight face dey shout Omo for mind''.Post on X by Doctor Ify
Can you imagine.
ReplyDeleteThe wickedness of the wicked.
Didn't she notice it before marriage? Something like this can't be hidden as long there's communication between them. It's very difficult to hide such a thing. Except she was brought from the village
ReplyDeleteAs for the sister and brother in-law, they are senseless.
In ala Igbo, there is something called iju ese or iju ajuju. (Ask questions). Before you get married either as a man or woman, your people will go behind to ask questions about the family of the person you intend to marry.
ReplyDeleteIf you did not ask questions. Collect whatever you see.
This iju ese is a very important step before marriage. Well rooted families don't joke with it at all.
DeleteMy people travelled to my husband's village to ask questions without me or the intending family-in-law's knowledge. It was afterwards that the talk reached them about how some people have been asking questions about their family.
Nowadays people don't carry out the iju ese thingy or when they do and were told the real deal, it's either they ignore or term it jealousy.
DeleteThere was this family friend that someone from my place was asking for their daughter's hand in marriage. They came to my mum and she told them the truth..guy has mental problem. His first wife left because of it. My mum didn't hide it from them,even though the guy's mother was her cousin. Do you that they still went ahead with the marriage plan. When they saw shege, nobody told them before the girl picked her slippers and ran.
Some people have sold their conscience
ReplyDeleteStella e dey happen well...It is called RISK TRANSFER....When they cannot cater for their siblings any more, they treat them as liabilities that marriage can help resolve....When the inlaw starts crying, they say just endure; that is how marriage is.....
ReplyDeleteExactly my case scenario. I no know say na iron condemn I marry. The guy is highly irresponsible and when I began to complain,they made it look like it was all my fault and I was being incoherent. Thank God I am out and with each passing day,I realise that his family actually knew their son was highly irresponsible and were only looking and hoping marriage would cure him
DeleteIf this story is true, then that family is wickedness personafied.
ReplyDeleteIt's so common in some places. They want to free themselves from the burden and let the wife carry it.
ReplyDeleteNah really the lady won marry they are 100% correct with that statement. If she like's let her don't get her ass out of that marriage and family before she runs mad too. Such family usually go for arranged marriage for their brother with a low life girl who is wilIing to settle for less in the name of marriage. They can't try this with an established lady who has something going for her self never.
ReplyDeleteMayben she was married from The village
ReplyDeleteAnd Her Family might know about The Hubby situation
But they use Money cover the family of the girl eyes..
But come to think of it ooo
The man no come by himself to pay bride price
Abi someone stood for their Brother?
What A Wicked SIL And BIL
Hello iya Boys
That is the world we are living in right now but them forget say its a matter of time she go know & take decision that is why I tell ladies don't be at the mercies of any man, work hard & trust God to help you make your own money. If rhe load is too heavy, carry am down abi them gum the load for your head or na you make the person mad...who know whether na them take their brother down something
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This is bad
ReplyDeleteWhattttttttt!
ReplyDeleteI'm speechless 😳
See wickedness oh
ReplyDeleteSome will know and still chook head, some family will know that their son is not okay, but will be desperately looking for a wife for him, so that the wife can carry the burden, even some men that are irresponsible and lazy, their family will be encouraging them to get married, they know that some women are very desperate to get married and don't mind settling for less.
ReplyDeleteAnd no family will prop up their sick family member and build them up to be something special like when they are trying to get the burden off their hands. A relative had a son living in a different country and he built that son up to be so wonderful to a very respectable church sister from a very good family, well-educated, who had nothing in common with his son, but because she respected him so much as an elder she believed every word he said. The son is not bad looking, so that was a bonus in her eyes and even if he was not polished, she trusted that because his parents were older folks and in the church they raised him well. It was only after wedding concluded and she now had to live with him, she discovered he was a full-time weed head, the grapevine said he even laid hands on her and her daughter, then under 7yrs old. The marriage was to serve a practical purpose from which the parents who built him up to be an angel of heaven would personally benefit from, and it served it. They ultimately got what they were after through the marriage. After the divorce, the son remarried as low as one can go with getting a spouse, and the parents are tied to a family that is generations deep in diabolism who they must now call in-laws. The used first wife received universal justice. No one hits the gavel like the Almighty does!
ReplyDeleteYou better do your own findings and don't trust half of anything that you are told. Look at these laughing, mocking and jeering a woman in distress. I hope God has no mercy on them when it is time for payback.
That is ehn...laughing at her instead of helping and encouraging her, mentally unbalanced people can live good lives if well managed.
DeleteMy sister used to work in one hospital in lekki,she used to gist us of how good looking guys with flashy cars and all used to come for psychiatric treatment! Not all that glitters is gold.
ReplyDeleteThe heart of man is desperately wicked...
ReplyDeleteWicked family, just imagine they are rejoicing, na wa oh.
ReplyDeleteIt's the order of the day. It was even acted in jenifa's diary
ReplyDeleteYes o
DeleteThat bipolar Dayo of a fiance