Tuesday In House News

 Hailings!

IN HOUSE MEMO

How is everyone doing? I hope that your day is going well and it is not too hot where you are?Germany is very hot right now oh.....If you get winch and fit send rain, please send some to cool Germany down...Abi your winchraft nah only to go use press people for night? use am do better thing........You fit magic money enter person account with your winch? Please do better...LOL

I wan talk zeeone matter oh.... hissssssss..Make i forget1

Abeg make i face front

Fidel and co how far? Please if you people want to suggest movies,, spare those of us still under zeeone spell...I CAN NEVER EVER WATCH A NEW ZEEONE SERIES OR NEW BOLLYWOOD MOVIES......

Please send in your Chronicles eeeeeeeeh..

send in your Omugwo stories

send in your labour room drama

send in whatever needs to be sent in...

Thanks to all the business owners who have sent in updates...May God bless and prosper you all....

I am hungry oh.......

LOL

XOXO

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD
Growing up, anytime my siblings and I fell sick, we were usually given a cocktail of antibiotics. Every of the symptoms we complained of was hurriedly bombarded with a lot of drugs without proper tests being taken just to avoid going to the hospital.
The most common thing we took antibiotics for was cough and catarrh ( which was not needed because most cough and catarrh in children are caused by viruses and antibiotics do not work for them).

Now that I am older and a mom, I am learning how dangerous it is to abuse drugs, especially antibiotics in kids. It can lead to the body building resistance to antibiotics, and when it’s now needed it’s no longer useful for the child.
I was once sick in the university and test were carried out and the doctor told me that my test results showed that the disease in question was resistant to all the known antibiotics he could think of, as a result of years of antibiotics abuse and it took longer to find an antibiotics combination that would work for me.
Our children’s organs are growing and sensitive. We should be careful administering drugs, and if possible, we should totally avoid self medications for our kids. If I should try to write instances that I have witnessed the damages self medication as caused in children, I would write a whole book.

Please let’s seek proper health consultation for our children from the right medical personnel instead of self medicating.

Self medication is horrible

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TESTIMONY

My kid sister got married and it was a big deal, a very big testimony in my family, 

Each time we call this young man (this her husband), it's been from one excuse to the other, you'll hear things like "I love her oo but I can't marry her, she's this, she's that", yet he was not letting her go.

 This relationship started since 2018, at some point I told him that both of you have been together since this years without fights, nobody has come to settle for you people, you can as well get married, for where!

After my meeting with him, he told me that he doesn't have money, then went home to tell my sister, that he can only marry her when she's pregnant (maybe he feels that at 35 she can't conceive anymore), at some point, the same person that told me that he doesn't have money, did his papers and moved abroad, everyone in my family were okay with it except me cos it was a pattern they were not seeing....

Men can date us, love us as girlfriends but don't see us as worthy of being wifed, I shaa made them know that i was not okay with it....

I called my elder sisters and we engaged in a fervent prayers, one day I met this old woman, she came to buy something from me, she told me to come and meet her in some church that she has something important to tell me, I said okay, the next day I went there, I was not okay with the place because na white garment church, the woman told me that my kid sister is already pregnant and the guy has left her as usual, she said she is ashamed and might hurt herself if nothing is done...

She told me a lot of things including the fact that, the person who has vowed that none of us will be married is my Dad's younger sister (story for another day), that she vowed that this my younger sister will give birth at home and join the queue,.

 I didn't believe her or anything she said even though i know that this my Aunt is evil, I was eagerly waiting for her to call the amount so that I can happily walk away, but she prayed for me, called the  other woman to write some things she named...

She said when we buy them, that she wants to see my kid sister, mind you that I have not seen my sister in months cos she's been avoiding us (maybe because of the pregnancy), but I called her to come, she came, I saw my sister and tears filled my eyes, I talked to her about it and she said she already knew cos she went somewhere too but they told her to bring 300k, to cut the story short, we bought the things (about 45k stuffs), prayers were made,  extra dime we no pay, suddenly he started calling her again..

The month of June, from nowhere, this guy landed, he called our elderly siblings and told them that he will be coming with his people to ask for my sister's hand in marriage, and on the 28th of July, God did it, they're happily married in grand style, according to Isaiah 60:22, the trend of having kids at home is broken.

Some people will say it's because una lack self control, no it's not, there comes a time in a relationship when you will trust so much and let your guard down, and once it happens, the man will disappear, you go come de carry your suffering alone...

I am too happy to explain this story well, but I still have a 46yr old elder sister who is not yet married, has two kids from two different men, I am 38yrs old with 3kids from 3 different men, it was not normal to me and even God said NO, my instincts were right.

I want you all to rejoice with me, the yoke has been broken, God has triumphed after all, please help me pray that God should extend the grace to me and our elder sister, I still believe in his mercy.

Marriage is not everything, wait till you are taunted by everyone who is supposed to respect you including the women who are married into your family. 

On that marriage day, I went to where the single ladies were sharing their money to collect my own as tradition demands, they jokingly told me it's for single women not for mothers, I shamefully walked away, i felt really bad but that was me telling God that I am still single and hopeful....

I bless God for breaking this long standing yoke/ancient gate, God is still the greatest...

I attached some pictures and videos on Whatsapp for your eyes only...

WOW!!!!!.... cpngratulations!!!! we look forward to celebrating you too but let me ask you...Is there a Nigerian man that will marry you knowing that you have three children for three men?

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What Men Should Know About Marrying Women Over 40

Women after 40 have seen a lot. They've worked so hard, given birth to children and bringing them up.Fighting to make sure their children stay healthy and harmless.

They have tried several businesses, had several challenges, and battling with their own kind of inflammations. 

They have gone through emotional stress from men. All they want to do after 40 is rest. 

They don't want a man who will stress them. 

They don't want noise or argument. They just want peace. If you read most of the profiles of women above 40,all they mention is no stress relationship. They want a man who will not stress them. 

So if you are about to propose to a woman above 40, be wise. 

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DO MEN REALLY NEED WOMEN IN THEIR LIVES?

I hear a lot of men say they don't need a woman in their lives to be happy, they don't need a woman in their lives, they are better off without one, to those men who think that way, are you sure?

Women play a very significant role in the life of a man, it is difficult for a man generate happiness by himself but its very easy to generate happiness when he has a woman.

A Man's world revolves around a woman, the man needs a woman like he needs the air he breaths, everything the man suffers for is just for the woman, a woman's role in a Man's life can't be disputed.

From when a child is born if a woman who is his mother is not with him, there is always a vacuum no one can fill in his life, a child can survive without its father but its very difficult for a child to survive without its mother, even when he becomes an adult, a man needs his wife to be fulfilled and happy.

A man needs someone to take care of him, manage his needs, take care of the home, fix him food, be there for him, a man needs a woman to satisfy his sexual needs and so on, no one plays the role better than a woman, a Man's life is never complete when a woman is not in it.

Behind every successful man is a woman, its not that a man can't be successful without a woman but when he has a woman, not just any kind of woman, a good woman instead of chasing success, success would be the one chasing him. Everyone needs someone, so does a man need a woman. 

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