Hailings....
How is everyone doing?Honestly i was in a good mood until i read madam amebo corner and my mouth turned bitter.......I still that small lady with three abortions on my mind...
Stories like these just makes me thank God that i have only boys at home...i dont know how i would have coped having a girl and having to always check.....
A lady who is from Naija pinged me all thru the morning, she was taken to emergency last night, her blood pressure went high and she started having chest pain....What happened? Her 15 year old daughter has started going out and not coming back and the hubby is making big trouble and its police coming to their home every minute..She is at her breaking point and scared her daughter will be pregnant.....Meanwhile the little lady says she has not done anything when confronted....
I believe strongly that social media is adding to most of what is going on...My boys are not into social media at all, i didnt encourage it and even now i dont like them posting anything.....If i snap them they warn me immediately not to share it..A friend of mine saw my bigger Bambino the other day and was screaming cos hes over 6feet, and looks like a dream...lol..She was like if you post him internet will explode and i am like, why would i wanna do that? Please my people no matter how sweet it looks like, keep your kids out of every day social media life...it is dangerous to mental health......
Some of you who bring your kids photos will remember that i always say No until una insist..Please stop posting your kids who are maturing into teens...
I don tire for social media..
God, please save the World.....
Will post pone Zeeone gist to tomorrow......
Hisss!!!
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MADAM AMEBO CORNERStella, how things? You see this matter of househelps, e go long ooo......
this friend of mine came the other day to narrate what she's been going through in the hands of her help and it's nothing short of hilarious.
She said this girl fingers herself and doesn't hide it anymore, she does it in the presence of the woman's only child, when you send her on an errand, she will spend forever there and return when she likes.The other day she stayed till past 8pm, the lady's mom was around, so she pounced on the girl, started beating her, tore her clothes including her panty and sp'rm was gushing out of her jajaina....
She's rarely in school, she had begged my friend a lot of times that she doesn't want to be going to school again, that she's the oldest in her class but they are still forcing her to go and most times she ends her journey in a man's house.
So I decided to call the girl over and talk to her cos my friend is already tired of the girl, she said she's already struggling to raise her daughter alone and doesn't need more stress from anyone,
When the girl came to meet me, she looked so fearless, you could read from her face "Abeg madam talk your rubbish fast and free me to go", she looked more like someone on assignment.
I asked her what the problem is, why she's punishing her madam, destroying things especially the meats, carrots and stuffs she bakes with, I asked her if she hated her madam that much, she said no ooo, I don't hate my madam, I hate my mother, I just want my auntie to return me to her so that she go kuku finish my life, i asked her what she meant...
She said her mom watched her stepdad molest her almost everyday, that the man f#cked her at every corner even in her mom's presence, as a child and her mom didn't say anything, she said she doesn't have strength to raise her kids alone, so she should bear the man's excesses...
She told me that she so addicted to s#x at 17 that no day passes without her getting some, I come shock ooo, I asked her how she normally get it since she's living with someone, she said she knows her ways and their gatekeeper is ever-ready to give some side-sugar always, I asked her if she's ever gotten pregnant, she said no that she can't be pregnant because she was pregnant before by her stepdad, he took her to abort it, it went south and her womb was removed...
She said her mom watched her stepdad molest her almost everyday, that the man f#cked her at every corner even in her mom's presence, as a child and her mom didn't say anything, she said she doesn't have strength to raise her kids alone, so she should bear the man's excesses...
She told me that she so addicted to s#x at 17 that no day passes without her getting some, I come shock ooo, I asked her how she normally get it since she's living with someone, she said she knows her ways and their gatekeeper is ever-ready to give some side-sugar always, I asked her if she's ever gotten pregnant, she said no that she can't be pregnant because she was pregnant before by her stepdad, he took her to abort it, it went south and her womb was removed...
I didn't know when i burst cry, this girl wey her eye don strong started crying too, she showed me the scars, i became so weak...
I begged her not to return to her monstrous selfish mom, she agreed, but told me she doesn't want to waste her time going to school, so I asked which skills she'd like to acquire, she said tailoring...
I called her madam and narrated our discussion with her, she agreed, so once money comes now, she will be signed to acquire a skill, she came back with smiles to thank me, I educated on why it's important to abstain from s#x, I told her that pregnancy is not the only thing you get in having s#x, she can contract STD's too, she was so thankful , life is hard but protecting your child should be a priority,
It can only get better, don't destroy your child's life trying to protect some useless man or marriage, it's so wrong, this kids didn't beg to be born please..
This story has officially spoilt my day.....What you did was lip service, that child needs serious help...she wont stop the gbenshing up and down cos she is addicted, she will code it more now....She needs help ooooooo....Your friends husband is not safe, her daughter is also not safe...Even the place she is taken to for treatment, she might collect there.....
Tell your friend to focus on helping her or send her back to her wicked mother to see how she has damaged her child..
No womb at 17 years? JESUS CHRIST!!!!!
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--Foreign Accent Syndrome: A brain disorder that causes the sufferer to speak in a foreign accent, involuntarily.
--The fuller the fridge, the more energy-efficient it is.
--Pay attention to feet when you stand talking to someone. If their torso is facing you, but their feet aren't, they lack interest.
--Don't know whether to write "affect" or "effect"? Use "impact" instead.
--A morning text doesn't only mean "good morning". It also means "I think about you when I wake up."
--Vegetarians on average have an IQ five points higher than those who regularly eat meat, according to research.
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So, during my final project in school, in the Dedication part of my project book, I was thanking my Mum, Uncles, Aunts and my Siblings, that’s how naïve me wrote “I can take a bullet for you all” thinking I have written something good, that’s how during my defense, one of the panelist shouted, what do you mean taking a bullet for them? Are you a Cultist? Are you and armed robber? Who wants to shoot you? Omo that’s how all of them started laughing at me o, thank God I knew the head of the panel, that’s how I was given a second chance to rewrite that part, if not ehn… 😂
ReplyDeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)
LMAO 🤣🤣🤣
DeleteI understand where you're coming from bro.
Things like this doesn't require imputing your emotions on a certain mannerisms, next time keep emotions aside and be professional. You can easily be disqualified you know.
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DeleteGod save you,, who does that
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DeleteSome even put their bfs who they don't even talk to again 🤣🤣😅
OMG! I see my name up there for the giveaway. God bless you Stellz and Angel Star.
DeleteHello IHN, Hello Stella, trust your day is going well. Chai this giveaway pain me 😭. Anyways it is well! After all in the days of shoki shoki I never got anything, it seems I'm never lucky when it comes to giveaways.
DeleteMadam Amebo's story is heart-rending! It's going to take years of therapeutic talks, exercises of the mind, e.t.c before there would really be a change!.
Congratulations Jules. Who tf are the rest?
DeleteMiz sope you are crazy for that dumb comment
Yo! Shooter, come gimme some Sugar Baybay!!.
DeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)
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ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone 🥳
There's a stranger out there
who still thinks of you because
you were kind to them when
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I wish you all a fulfilling and fruitful day
Madam Amebo, you said what? That girl needs immediate therapy. Oh God! Her mother is a demon from hell, God forbid!
DeleteStella, that vegetarian tip I believe o, since I began eating more veg, my menstrual fever & headaches has lessened 👍 Congrats to giveaway recipients, God bless the givers 🙏
Good afternoon ndioma
ReplyDeleteI greet us all
Greetings Missy 💞💞 how's your day going?
DeleteCongratulations to the giveaway recipients 🥳🎉 God bless you abundantly SDK 🙌♥️
Ahhh! BV Amebo this story really hit me hard. That girl really needs help, pls also put an eye on her too😭
DeleteGreetings from Lagos island
DeleteIyalious boys with the kindest heart
God bless you ooooo
Hello In House News oo
Wellcome ooo💃💃💃
Will comment more when I reach house🏃🏃🏃
Hello iya boys
Excellent afternoon house ♥️♥️♥️ Enjoy the rest of the day!!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations
DeleteThank you @Blogbrity
DeleteThe Holiday for kids is upon us. We pray to God the Father in the Name of Jesus.
ReplyDeleteMay our kids dwell in safety. May no evil eye come near their dwelling. May God watch over their steps and guide them from oppressors of whatsoever kind. Dangerous thorns placed around environments will not come near them. Amen🙏🙏🙏
May God give to parents the wisdom and a discerning Spirit to know who to leave their kids with and who not to. May any form of wicked intentions from individuals towards children at this time be exposed and revealed and may they be put to shame. Amen. 🙏🙏🙏
Sorrow, losses and regrets will not come near our household. Amen. 🙏🙏🙏
Amen
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DeleteGood afternoon blogfam. May God help parents and guardians to bring up their children in the way they would be proud of in the future.
ReplyDeleteThis is not the life we are living in Nigeria.
ReplyDeleteHmmm no future.na only God go help us, good day blacky
DeleteAmebo, I would have said your friend should send the girl back home, but that's where all these nonsense started from. What if something bad happens to the girl in your friends house, what will she do. How will she handle it? The fuller the fridge, the more energy efficient it is. Full fridge in this regime. 🤣
ReplyDeleteExactly dear,full fridge what??? 🙄🙄🙄
DeleteThe fuller the "which fridge" lol
DeleteThat her stepdad needs to be disgraced in the public. May God help the girl to learn well and if she finds a man to marry, better.
So messed up
Lol, I know someone that packs enough sachet water in her freezer to make it full and retain ice long, so you can make your freezer full with water.
DeleteBB, my darling with how expensive foodstuff is, one should thank God for eating atleast one meal in a day.
DeleteMao Akuh, she is messed up. I hope she gets back on the right path.
🤣🤣🤣🤣. Taste bliss, abeg that one no follow o.
DeleteWow💃💃💃💃💃I am so happy right now seeing my name as a giveaway recipient ❤️ Abeg BVs should blow me some fan, I can't breathe 🥰. Thank you Stella for the gift.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to you.
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DeleteOya lie down, fanning you. Congrats
DeleteCongratulations
DeleteThank you ❤️
DeleteCongratulations
DeleteCongratulations 👏👏👏
DeleteThis one was once suspected to be the rat
DeleteOh no, that amebo gist just spoilt my mood 😔. How do watch your daughter being molested 🤷🏽♀️. I pray that girl gets the needed help fast 🙏.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to the enjoyment giveaway recipients.
I felt heart broken reading that story up there.
DeleteWhat sort of a mother will watch that happen to her daughter?
God will punish every chid abusers.
ReplyDeleteThe anger of God will forever be on their head,they shall be vagabonds.
Amen
DeleteAmen 🙏
DeleteAmen 🙏 😞
DeleteGod will punish every chid abusers.
ReplyDeleteThe anger of God will forever be on their head,they shall be vagabonds.
Amebo corner. Ì appreciate your input but that girl is a potential disaster to that family. I fear most f9r her madam's daughter, who ha
ReplyDeleteYou're right. That girl is vulnerable.
DeleteGood afternoon my people, thank you Stella, may God perfect all that concerns you amen.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations
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DeleteChai Madam Amebo God bless you....You don't just bring amebo alone but you help alleviate the matter join....Haaa that girl needs reorientation...Her parents failed her big time...Na NGO suppose handle this mata.....
ReplyDeleteVery useless adults everywhere destroying the lives of children...
Good afternoon good people of this wicked & sinful world....
Congratulations on the giveaway receivers...
That kind of man will be parading himself as elder, he needs to be disgraced.
DeleteTo raised a daughter is not a easy at all. May God help us parents
ReplyDeleteTo raise a child is not easy.
DeletePeople think raising a girl child isn't easy mostly because of unwanted pregnancy, but in reality, none is easy to bring up especially in a society like ours.
God will help me in raising my daughter, amen.
DeleteSM/woke system can mess up girls' life.
Prayer is always the key.
A brewery company was hiring a taster, Someone to taste the beers before they are taken for selling. So they placed adverts and one afternoon, a man walked into the manager's office asking to be employed.
ReplyDeleteThe manager tried to figure out how he could drive him away but couldn't come up with an idea, so he decided to give him a trial. He ordered his secretary to give him a glass of wine 🍷
He took a sip and said, "It's Red wine, Varietal, three years old, grown on rift valley, matured in steel containers."
"That's correct!" The manager exclaimed, "Well give him another one let's see." So he was given.
He took a sip again and said, "It's Guinness, a combination of barley, roast malt extract, and brewers yeast brewed around Thika road in Nairobi, Kenya 2 years ago"
"Incredible!" said the manager.
Now the manager went closer to the secretary and whispered to her saying, "Go get some of your urine in a cup let's see if he will get that."
So the man was given the cup of urine. He took a sip, turned to the manager and said, "Female urine, 26 years old, 2 weeks pregnant and if I'm not given this job, Sir I will tell your wife who is responsible for the pregnancy"
both the manager and the secretary fainted.
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Lol theirs problem manager go explain.
DeleteTruth is, some parents no dey try, na them dey spoil their children with too much pampering.
ReplyDeleteTry to correct some children and their parents will come for you.
As for that 13 years old girl that has already committed 3 abortions, the Devil responsible for that should be dealt with mercilessly.
Good afternoon everyone ❤️
ReplyDelete@amebo what that girl needs now is not even learning of skill but rehabilitation. She is a danger to those around around her, the lady should watch it.
It's hard for her to do away with this nymphomania only proper therapy can help her.
Oh my God thank you so much Stella. I really appreciate ❤️
Congratulations
DeleteThat house help need serious rehabilitation, her mental end emotional health is in shambles. All these kind of stories I read today are not pleasant at all, my heart just dey beat. God biko help parents.
ReplyDeleteOro festival! LMAO. Naija I hail thee.
ReplyDeleteIntentional mum. Stella I like how intentional you are about how you want your kids to grow. A lot of parents are so careless honestly. Sometimes am around them and their kids and they see their kids doing something they are not supposed to do and they don't even make any attempt to caution them. It's me that is not even related to them that will be bothered.
ReplyDeleteSometimes I spend time teaching kids around me how to read and write and their iddle mum has never for once considered it necessary to teach them anything reasonable for future purpose at all. It is well o.
Many parents are hustling what their kids will eat without getting to know the children, teach or training them we'll..
DeleteGood afternoon 🌞🌞
ReplyDeleteWhat social media is causing these days ehn... May God have mercy on us
I feel sex education should be introduced to children as soon as they can talk... And it should be done especially by mothers...
Have a wonderful rest of the day 💗
You see that social media menace is a big time problem. I have a friend whose child is two years old and she has never posted her anywhere not even on her birthday. She is that private.We need to protect them at all cost because the devil lives on social media now. You will see some little girls at 4years tweaking,it's what they watch.
ReplyDeleteKaikai,madam Amebo
That girl is so damaged and I fear for the madam daughter. She needs serious help.Some mothers don't worth being called one.
Congratulations to the giveaway recipients,God bless you Stella.🙏
Well, maybe it's just me sha, I really don't see anything wrong in posting my kids. Cos whether you post the child or not, he goes to school and other places. He meets people, so he must be exposed. You just do your best as a parent and pray. You no go fit come die say na parenting
DeleteBut I also get that everyone does things differently. So yeah...
Fidel you have said it all
DeleteEveryone's parenting skills is different
Same here. I see no issues posting on my social media but I’m not sure they would have theirs until a certain age.
DeleteIt is well with this end time generation.
ReplyDeleteStella this isn't gender based, whether boy or girl children now dey spoil oh.
I don't even know which gender is even worst, it is well Jareh.
That internet thing is very important, reason why it isn't advisable you expose your children too early using phones.
I tell you!! How many 6yr old, 5yr old boys have they caught in my hood then sleeping with their sisters? How many did we catch in the school I taught then bending down to look at girls just sitting? Weird! Kids these days ehn...
DeleteE just be say na girl dey get belle but ehnnn...
Fidel things are really happening....
DeleteMay God help us all to raise our children to the glory of God 🙏
Good afternoon y'all
ReplyDeleteDull day at work.
The blessing is more powerful than any force that’s trying to hold you back. The blessing is not cancelled out because of your background, how you were raised, your education, your contacts. It’s not stopped by mistakes you’ve made, by how long it’s been, by disappointments. The blessing is a supernatural empowerment, a divine favor that will thrust you where you can’t go on your own. You may have been through disappointments, things haven’t worked out, but I declare things are about to turn in your favor. I declare unexpected blessings. Good breaks that you didn’t see coming, promotion when you weren’t next in line, problems turning around when there was no sign of it.
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Thank you
DeleteOmg!! 17yrs old and no womb?
ReplyDeleteWhat is this world turning to like this.. that girl is completely damaged, May God help her
Congratulations to the recipients
Good afternoon gbogbo ile
Good afternoon beautiful Mercy, it's really sad
DeleteI keep having the feeling like i have seen oro before. One day, almost midnight in my father's house in mowe, I woke up from some noise outside. Then there was no fence. I ran to the window to peep. I know i saw crowd moving but didnt know exactly who they were and what they were doing but they were carrying lights.
ReplyDelete😂 they have scheduled Oro to prevent the scheduled protest 🤣🤣🤣
DeleteForeign accent syndrome is the disorder that I want to have😏
ReplyDeleteLike Stella said,there are times i am always happy that I have only boys..but other times when I see baby girls especially d ones that are nicely dressed or when I go to mkt to get wears for my kids..if u see fine fine baby girl clothes.. walahi to born girl go dey hungry u.
ReplyDeleteMay God help us in raising our kids... sometimes I look at my children and wish they dnt grow pass this age (6 years and 2 yrs old)bcos they still listen to instructions now..but it's not just possible...they will grow..
Amebo corner...dat house help is seriously damaged...she needs to be counselled...I pray she finds healing.
Congrats to d selected people...God bless u Stella...May Almighty God replenish ur pocket 🙏🙏
Good afternoon everyone 🥰😍
Both genders needs close protection and parental guidance. May God keep helping us.
DeleteE ma gba mi ke! opera and chrome dey show me shege!
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Yes Stella, social media is causing so much damage..that wanting to form woke syndrome.
ReplyDeleteThat 17year old girl story is such a sad one...
I don't post my kids online, at all even during any event... Someone has called me before and ask that she heard I have kids now and she has checked all my pictures online and not seen them, why.. I just told her I don't post my kids..
ReplyDeleteA female child is not easy to raise, I'm scared for them, they can be abused, molested, raped, which can turn them into a disaster....
Good day bvs,
ReplyDeletePlease which part of the feet is Torso?
Wishing us a blissful Thursday.
Torso ain't feet. Torso is the central part of the human body.
DeleteGoogle is your friend my dear. GOOGLE it
DeleteAlright thanks Candy.
Delete15:42 I knew that Google exists before I asked the question, you should also go to the FAQ post and tell any bv that asked a question that Google is their friend, isi aki.
DeleteThat foreign accent syndrome na him dey worry my oga SA whenever him see Chinese men. I don warn am tire. Chinese no dey give pass Green Tea.
ReplyDeleteE dey worry me too o🤦
DeleteMake I relax, dey speak my normal pidgin, the warri girl in me go come out. But small anger/argument, come and see me with accent! British accent for that matter, with proper stress😂😂
Ugborikoko geh like me o😂
Good day bvs, howz the go dey go, this Amebo gist has changed my mood, what a life, pls let hem report the step dad and mother immediately to naptip.
DeleteFidel you're a clown aswear 🤣🤣🤣
DeleteFidelia, Ugborikoko geh🤣🤣🤣you be case walahi 🤣
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ReplyDeleteYou think I'm mad abi? I'm not oooo..just laughing in advance of something wey I see for here ni oooo
How una dey now sef? Me wan start protest for Ibadan. Our own na to finish all these hungry house agents in Ibadan
Amebo corner I appreciate your input, but the tech is that girl has been damaged. It will take years of therapy and rehabilitation to get her whole again. A girl that openly fingers herself even when people are around is not good for a child/children to be around them.
ReplyDeleteAs such, she's a pending danger and disaster to that her madam's family especially the woman's daughter.
The best anyone can do for her is to help from a distance.
Either she rents an apartment for her or take her back to her parents.
Though renting a place for her is d best option.
I feel so sad for the girl. If there is a way to bring the stepdad and mother to book, kindly look into that.they can't do all these and be walking freely.
Thank you Fidel,Candy and Paris for your responses on SP. I'm off to download the series!!
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Thank you for saying thank you😑😪
DeleteYou're welcome. Enjoy. 🤗
DeleteGood afternoon,such a pity @that story,life is so unfair,I pray help comes speedily for her,what a mother!
ReplyDelete@Amebo story, this is so sad, how can a woman watch her daughter to be raped by another man mehn! what a world. Her daughter will hate her for life.
ReplyDelete@Oro festival is just a distraction, as far as it's a working day, but the fact is will the Protest be successful...will people come out considering the End Sars, how people lost their lives...
After she destroyed her daughter's life, she then sent her to live with someone else, so as to spoil the lives of those ones. I agree with stella, let them return her to her mother. Let them all enjoy themselves together.
ReplyDeleteThe mother really failed to protect her own daughter.
DeleteHello everyone 👋
ReplyDeleteMadam Amebo this your story is very heart breaking, at just 17 the girl has no womb all because her real mother wants to be a Mrs😭
May God punish that useless and shameless mother from hell, please let the girl get a professional help!
How I have begged my sister to keep her family off social media, she does as she wants. I won’t talk again, cause some ppl will always do their own thing.
ReplyDeleteThere is always a reason for the promiscuity. A child’s whose sexuality was turned on too young will behave in many different ways and have behavioural problems. This child was also not validated or protected by the one person who should have stood up for her. She needs therapy and a lot of it. I wish her all the best in life. May God give her a new story. Thanks for the little sex education you gave Amebo, sometime teaching someone how to protect themselves from harm is the best we can do for them in that moment.
Facebook brought me memories of one my write up from last year, it's written in prose form, first person omniscient and I thought to share. Please enjoy!
ReplyDeleteLET'S BE KIND.
I discovered series of attempted fraudulent activities on my bank account and knowing fully well that this posed a great threat to my sanity and finances I decided it was time to obstruct every access to all online transaction. It was clear it has become porous. However, the changes cannot be effected until I visit the bank and make a one on one request, so I jetted out to do the needful.
T'was such a sunny Thursday afternoon, festive season and I was trying all my best to beat the 2pm closure time. The security officer was kind enough to let me in despite using an handkerchief in place of a face mask, So I encountered no delay.
I entered the bank hall with ease and I stood shortly at the automated door, wondering my eyes round the customer service desk with the intention to figure out the most approachable cashier which I would often detect as the one wearing the most demure expression.
My gaze quickly met with a moderately dressed, dark and not so handsome guy who had a big smile so I proceeded. After I had explained, he calmly responded that he was no expert for my complain but wasted no time pointing me to another agent at the rear who is.
I walked over to her and she had no tag, making it quite difficult to address her by name provided it will evoke certain level of familiarity and softness from her end.
Likely in her 40s, chubby, black and beautiful, She wore a navy blue suit over a teal green camisole that caught my attention, Green is my favorite color.
I explained twice that I had a situation that I needed it to be rectified asap but she didn't reply. By the time I wanted to reiterate my statement the third time, she cut me abruptly and told me she was tired and hungry. It was then I looked carefully into her eyes and saw defeat.
She flipped through the bulk of office papers and told me these are previous jobs that accumulated. She pleaded with me to exercise patience while she sorted them and I nodded in affirmation.
She picked her snacks and wanted to munch but hesitated a bit. I told that it was OK to take them and also drink some water to calm the tension, I further pampered her with kind words and she was deeply grateful and illuminated.
At that point, all I could think about was; she obviously was doing her job but she was absolutely stressed at it. It was written all over her. She needed some air. Mental job is tasking and she wasn't exactly functioning optimally, there were piles of office papers in front of her and she was fagged.
Just glad that my "Sorry" "Thank you" "Take enough time" went a long way.
It was like something took hold of her, she briskly round up the files on her desk and attended to me and in no time, I was standing outside the gate.
Ideally, the conversations should be that "Ehn, Well, she is just doing her job", "After all she's been paid ".. Bla, bla, bla, bla...
but even at that, I think,
➡The most of us need a little pat,
➡Small things can often go a long way,
➡Everyone needs encouragement to stay strong.
This thing you posted is too long nau
DeletePls those that read should summarize for us 🙏
DeleteYou write so well!!
DeleteThose magic words goes a long way
Indeed everyone needs encouragement to stay strong especially in this hard time.
Oh my goodness, that girl is damaged. Hmmmmm, I have girls and I have started pep talk and sex education. God help me 🙏.
ReplyDeleteNice day everyone.
Finally finished watching Maharaj yesterday 😁. Nice and educative movie.
Na this one dem go see you😏
DeleteSince when everybody dey bring movie reviews, you quiet o. As Kev mention Maharaj, see Kritika 😏
GOD no go shame us 🙏
DeleteFidel leave me oh🤣🤣🤣. Which one do you want me to watch? Oya recommend fine movie😁
DeleteNN amen 🙏
DeleteCongratulations to the giveaway recipients ❣️
DeleteThe story of that 17years old girl really made me cry. I pray she find real help and her madam should also watch her back make she no suffer for someone else mistake.
ReplyDeleteA mother once posted the video of her teenage daughter that cooked some rice and she was mad at her because the rice wasn't well cooked. It was very obvious that the girl was leaning how to cook.
ReplyDeleteAnd this woman thought it wise to make a video of her teenage daughter that is developing breasts and this girl wore a very scanty top (how do I even describe it) the top showed the shape of her developing breasts. Someone with a verified Instagram account made a comment, and I quote "this small girl don already get breasts"?
That's how some mothers expose their girl child to paedophiles.
Most child molesters are not even on social media nor do they pick their victims from social media. I honestly do not see how one is exposing her kids to paedophiles just by posting them online.
DeleteSays who? How did you know that most child molesters are not on social media? Well, if "most" are not, at least, some are.
DeleteThe woman I talked about did not just post her daughter on social media but exposed her! That girl was not properly dressed.
I don't have a problem with parents posting their children on social media but make sure they are well covered. Protect them!
Eka, most child molesters are on social media. They get their preys from that space....tiktok, gaming sites, FB, IG etc! Girls plan blind dates on FB these days and some get r*ped or kidnapped/trafficked.
DeleteKids should stay off it.
Good afternoon everyone ♥️♥️♥️
ReplyDeleteWhat a sad gist, may God help us to raise our daughters well 🙏
Congratulations to the recipients 🎉
Ah Stella you choose that id jolly?
ReplyDeleteIs the rat o Stella iji kwa anya gi?
Anon 14:38, please don't ever refer to me as someone else.
DeleteAnon I swear, sometimes I no just understand Stella atall. Someone that just opened id this month u go dey dash her money
DeleteEven the iyalicious dey dere and so many others. Well,wetin I know sha
Good afternoon my good people of SDK blog. It's a bright day today.
ReplyDeleteI say Amen to the Meme up there.
Good afternoon SDK and BVs. God bless you SDK and congratulations to the recipients. It's only God I depend onto, to raising proper and well groomed children in this generation.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon fam,the weather today is very hot 🔥 may be about to rain later.
ReplyDeleteHmmm social media have done a lot more damage to our teeming youths.
A girl of less than 15yrs started to narrate me about some stuffs her friend did, almost same age,my God it's just too much. May God help our teenagers.
That girl in that gist is damaged OMG. Such a young girl 😭
ReplyDeleteI have daughters and I'm always scared for them. May God help us
Good afternoon beautiful people.🥰🥰😍
ReplyDeleteMy phone dey show me Shege Banza pro... This is the wrong time for me to be facing phone problem, I swear.
Anyhow, we move.
Numbers 23:23. Amen 🙏🙏😍😍💙💙😎😎
God!!! 😰😰😰 that gist up there is horrific. What's really happening in the world? Hian🤦♂️
ReplyDeleteI still want a girl biko. All this my beaury must be passed down to a mini me 😚
ReplyDeleteAmen
DeleteRecieve your beautiful girls Miss Aboki
DeleteThose thinking that it's only girls that get spoilt, boys too are abused sex#ally by either females or fellow males. The latter is the worse as they become homos.
May we receive the grace to raise our kids well. My daughters shall turn out well in Jesus name
Awwwwwwn 🤗😍❤️
DeleteNa me and you dey this table
Amen guys.
DeleteI think the reason why the girl child's spoiling is hammered on is because of pregnancy that is visible to all. If boys should tell you the amount of sexual molestation they go through ehn.
Cold 🥶 Thursday afternoon in Lasgidi.
ReplyDeleteBlessed day y'all
Some kids needs help, they are already damage right from their childhood due to negligence and bad parenting.
ReplyDeleteCongrats to all recipients
Good afternoon 💕
Good afternoon beautiful people ❤️🌹😍
ReplyDelete@Madam Amebo, What a sad and heartbreaking 💔 story. The girl is damage, she needs counseling and deliverance.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to the giveaway recipients
Good afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteIn house has landed 🛴🛴🛴
ReplyDelete@Amebo:I feel so bad for the girl,taking her back will be to finish her totally.She needs therapy,counseling and love to pull through this horrible phase of her life,it is well.
Oro festival?Noted
Every act(good or bad)will definitely be returned that's the law of life.
Enjoy the rest of the day😎
Good afternoon blog fam
ReplyDeleteThat gist up there just messed up my mind,I pray that girl finds healing.
Good afternoon everyone ❤️
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Stella. I really appreciate. May God bless you and replenish your pocket
Social media will be the undoing of many. Just yesterday, I dropped a comment about the woman who referred herself as 'celeb wife ' posting her teenager boy dressing like an upcoming Yahoo boy and even hailing him, not to talk about the popular actor whose teenage boy is behaving like a lady on tiktok and he was even telling his followers he doesn't care what anyone thinks of him,
ReplyDeleteIf it's not business, you can't find my personal life on the internet,not even WhatsApp status, strictly business
Good afternoon everyone, it's so sad when you read stories like this, the female child needs serious guidance and protection from evil men.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you abundantly SDK. I appreciate 🙏
ReplyDeleteThat Amebo gist is a sad one 😭. How can someone you call a mother watch her child being molested right in her very presence and do nothing about it. Kai!
Most people have no business giving birth. A 17 year old child is a teenager that needs a mother's love, care and concern not the opposite.
DISCLAIMER
DeleteI am not the person being referred to, and any claims or accusations made against me are entirely false and without merit.
I am a separate and distinct individual, and any attempts to link me to the said person are mistaken and defamatory. Please, please and please I'm not "Miliki" as an anon calimed this morning in SP this morning.
SDK this Jolly that you picked for giveaway just opened this blog id two days ago when you announced the giveaway and then locked the profile and applied. He opened the profile briefly yesterday, that was how I saw that it was opened this July.
DeleteThis is not fair on people who have been here for months, years.
16:08 on top 10k? Nne nawa o
DeleteThe Jolly's profile is opened and it says "July 2024"
DeleteBut 16:08 una get wahala sha
DeleteMiliki u wan collet giveaway? Ikwakwakwakwakwakwa just forget am, shingbain you no go see!
DeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)
Lol. That disclaimer is very necestri before them pour sansan for your garri. Sha do and send your details make Stella no change her mind.
DeleteI really don’t know the criteria that was used to choose this very very very new Id called jolly
DeleteCongratulations.
DeleteLmaoooo
DeleteStella's ways are not the ways of BVs
Jolly jolly, na your luck
Jolly who just got a blog ID some days to receive this giveaway is just so unfair to others who have been here before him/her.
DeleteGood afternoon Beautiful People 😍
ReplyDeleteThis story broke me ☹️ the mother and the step dad should be arrested, I just tire for this gender, and the useless mother that allowed this shit to go on, should be arrested too.
Good afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteMadam Amebo this your story is really a sad one😞
That girl is damaged 😔
No womb at 17years 👍
How can I unread this
Pls how can the girl gets help, which way forward for this young chap. How can save a life ( depravity) this is disturbing
ReplyDeleteThanks to you all that recommended medicine for my boil yesterday, I appreciate. I later applied shear butter to it after taking drugs and this morning when I woke up, it has busted and I felt relived.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon beautiful people.
Good day all. I like the weather today. it is a lovely one. Moving about today without muvh sweat. Gods blessings everyone
ReplyDeleteIn Switzerland, public restrooms are lit with blue lights so junkies can't find their veins.
ReplyDelete©️ Weirdfacts.com
Me: Eka joy is this true?
I’ve never really noticed. Will start paying attention
DeleteOMG 😲 😱. 17 years old without a womb 💔💔💔. The step father needs to be caught and punished and her mother shouldn't be exempted. She's supposed to protect her daughter. Mehn, the girl will need a lot of therapy
ReplyDeleteVery painful and sad to read. Her mother will suffer the consequences of what that girl went through. God forbid
DeleteNigerian proverb and meaning:
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Even if you put food for inside groundnut shell, person wey go belleful go belleful.
Meaning:
Do your best and leave the rest.
..this friend of mine came the other day to narrate what she's been going through in the hands of her help and it's nothing short of hilarious..
ReplyDeleteAmebo gist, do you know the meaning of the above that you typed?
What is hilarious in that 17yr old girl's story?
That story is very sad, even you later said you cried when she started talking, meaning you don't know the meaning of hilarious.
Pls Google words that you don't know their meaning before using them.
I pray she gets help
Truly, nothing hilarious about it!
DeleteCongratulations to the giveaway Winners.
ReplyDeleteIt's a rainy day here, vehicles are scarce so I'm trekking and pressing phone.
Let me keep it before they snatch it and speed off on a bike.
Oh dear may Almighty God help us to teach and train our Kids properly 🙏🙏🙏
ReplyDeleteSign out meme 👍👍👍
Hello iya boys
What did I just read up there?
ReplyDeleteShe fingers herself in the presence of the Madam's child?
She should be sent back to her mother pls. She will contaminate that little girl, children copy what they see other children do. Let her mother enjoy her handiwork.
Good afternoon all
ReplyDeletePls let us try and use salt and water to wash fruit before eating, anything that can not be washed or cooked before eating, don't buy at the road side pls and pls, especially cooked or roasted corn. This cholera is still serious, its because of protest that's why they stopped talking about it and they are now talking about protest everywhere.
Sickness is not our portion.
Good afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteGod dey good afternoon all lovelies
ReplyDeleteSometimes I feel really frustrated at what I see or read. What kind of a lazy mother is this. When we were growing up back then in Lagos you will see some mothers frying akara, roasting corn, plantain and so on training 5 children up to unversity level. Merely looking at them you will see that never say die spirit burning in them and Now this woman destroyed her daughter's life because she wants to stay with a man. You little girl may Christ send help your way Amen. I am really pissed
ReplyDeleteWow!!!! This is huge, my name is among the beneficiaries of the 10k gift. I am so grateful, God bless Stella and the angel.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to the recipients
ReplyDeleteNawaooooh, 17 years old damaged girl, she needs lots of love and care from people
This is why it is not good to assume and condemn.
Pls take that girl to a skilled man of God who will counsel and pray her out from the prison yard of rape and hate.
She needs to forgive her mum and step dad if not, she will still continue to sleep around.
That girl's step dad needs to be arrested together with her mom, and sentence to life imprisonment, because they both destroyed that girl's life, some people are monsters, sleeping with a minor and the one that even calls you dad, that's absurd.
ReplyDeleteThe comment I was looking for. Poster, report the step dad and her mum to the appropriate authority. The scar on her tummy and a scan of her reproductive system will serve as evidence of the wickedness metted out on that girl.
DeleteMadam Amebo Corner, the situation of that teen is indeed complex, and it’s commendable that you and your friend (Her boss) are trying to help her. But like Stella pointed out she needs more than the help both of you are willing to. Because in the heart of chaos, this teen's life has existed as a snamedhony of pain, a haunting melody that echoed through the corridors of her soul. But no matter how broken she seems I know that within her, a spark is flickering - a determination to rise above the shadows that threatened to engulf her if given the right rehabilitation.
ReplyDeleteYour narration shows someone whose world was shattered, as a porcelain vase hurled against a stone wall. Such tempest of rebellion, that danced on the edge of defiance. Fingers tracing secrets, she had defied boundaries, leaving chaos in her wake. Burdened by this whirlwind, I would suggest you speak for her with a 'youth-focused' NGO. Before her defiance tempest, becomes a deepening detour into oblivion.
This househelp bore scars deeper than the abyss. Her mother, a silent accomplice, watched as her stepfather devoured innocence on the premise of inexcusable reason. I can tell that when you looked at the girl’s eyes while you listened to her harrowing plight, it held stories - of stolen childhoods, of screams swallowed by silence. My heart ached reading this. To think that the girl’s womb, once a vessel of life, now lay barren - a casualty of betrayal. I can’t even imagine her recurring nightmares, mingling in tears, all in wet despair.
She has been through unimaginable trauma. It’s essential to approach her going forward with empathy and understanding. Acknowledge her pain and let her know she’s not alone. Get her professional help through an NGO, she needs counselling or therapy. She needs a safe space to process her experiences and emotions. And come to terms with her realities.
I appeal that she should not return to her monstrous mother. Her safety and well-being are paramount. She needs genuine parental love. She deserves love, respect, and a chance at a better life. Her past will not define her future if she can get the right kind of help. Healing takes time, but with the right support, she can overcome her scars and build a brighter future. The journey won’t be easy, but your compassion and guidance can make a significant difference. Her silent vow to be the lighthouse in this storm should be a concern for employers. She should be encouraged not to return to this abyss she only knows. Thoughtfully she has envisio d a different tapestry - a skill. Formal education seemed not to be her thing, a skill her preference. Acquiring practical skills like tailoring is a great alternative. It can empower her and provide financial independence through a better guardian. Or help her explore vocational training centres or apprenticeships where she can learn this tailoring. The needle’s dance could mend more than fabric; it could weave hope into her fractured heart. If properly groomed, with better reorientation and conditioning.
If we carefully peel back layers that highlighted and revealed her addiction - the hunger for touch, the craving for connection. She requires proper sex education that details safe sex practices, in the meantime. For better explanations of the risks of unprotected sex, including STDs, STIs and many dangers lurking in the shadows of life's naivety. She needs to be looked after and taken to seek medical advice and regular check-ups. She needs proper care after her traumatic experience. Her eyes are already a pool of vulnerability, being a teen lost to being unloved. With the right team, hopefully, she can absorb wisdom like parched earth drinks rain.
Poster, I thank you for the refuge your admonition gave her - a harbour against her life’s storms. Please you and her madam should rally allies, and paint her a canvas of compassion. Together, you all can give her hope to rewrite her destiny. She deserves good love, not just survival. So that in no time her
Madam AI it's been awhile. Lol
DeleteThe fact that you copy everything and paste is annonying. Can't you modify it?
DeleteMake Una no dey stress person. Mbok
19:58, how did you know that she copied it? Don't tell me you read everything. How can I read all that when it's not Amebo gist 🤣🤣🤣
DeleteKai that Amebo corner gist made me sad, a damaged girl @ 17? Alot is really happening out there. I hope she's able to get every help she needs.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to the giveaway recipients.
Enjoy your evening y'all✌
Stella it's a good decision you took by not bringing your bambinos to SM or encouraging them to do so. I don't know what parents of this days are turning to. The good, bad and ugly are on line but the parents don't care.Some mum even brag about it. God will protect our children for us. As per the adolescent girl in the IHN, she needs professional guidance and counseling. She needs to be followed up. Sending her to acquire skill is good but that's not the ultimate. I'm shocked reading the story at this age. She has become a maniac. The aunty should be careful otherwise, she will introduce this dastardly act to her children
ReplyDeleteThis house help gist is just so painful to read. I don't know why some mum are just so careless with their kids. That child will never be herself for the rest of her life. Terrible
ReplyDeleteVery touching story. I pray the girl get closure
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to the Giveaway Recipients
ReplyDeleteThat Amebo story is freaking Messed up. Her Stepfatjer and mother should be arrested for Child molestation and Enablement
Some women na only marriage Dey their head
All Child molesters, Pedophile should be castrated and dump in a bottomless pit of hell
That gist up is very touching,that girl is damaged 💔 😢 because of her senseless mother..
ReplyDeleteHmmm!!
She needs serious help.