THURSDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Thursday Hailings

IN HOUSE MEMO

Hmmmmmmm everyone has what they like or do not like and i dont like what i dont like....I dont like people who do too much cho cho cho cho.....

Moving on..

I hope that your day is going on well? I am still looking to make small portion of chicken stew so as soon as i post in house news, i will drive off to look for waka waka chicken to buy....Chicken wey dem don pursue tire, wey get Guinness world record for hand.....i go enter one African shop check out their roasted parked chicken...

Those BVs who live in Germany how far? una dey enjoy UEFA? Hmmm we need prayers cos Germany is playing with Spain tomorrow and i dont know if we will win oh....na serious matter cos Spain cannot come to this we country and win us......

Those of you with rough faces or faces with folds, please buy Vitamin c serum and snail mucin..........

How is your day going?Any rain?

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ZEEONE THINGS

BV Simply Kritika, hmmmmm So Roshni and Siddart were gbenshing all these while that misha was dealing with them? She fainted and the doctor said she is pregnant.....I nearly spoilt my remote control...like seriously....

The Queen Giyatri i talked about yesterday is so interesting and i never see any mistake since i dey watch am....I see the latest Samsung screen and i know say Zeeone go fine for the screen well well..LOL

My writing zeeone here is just to show that i love to watch these kinds of things, please note that i am not stuck on zeeone at all...lol

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GIST

 Good day SDK,

 My sister, I for enter trouble yesterday oo but God turned it to my favour, 

Yesterday I was at the shop when this beautiful small girl came and sat down with me, her age no pass 13 or 14yrs old, so she kept calling this person, describing her location, I no talk ooo, then it started to rain, but there's particular number she was avoiding, the number kept calling, you need to see the big phone she had. 

Suddenly rain started, so we went inside my container , we sat closer, I noticed it was her mom, then she was texting the guy, I quickly read through a few of their chats,  she told the guy that the too many calls from her mom is breaking her apart, and she needs to go back, that she doesn't want to be the reason her mom died, that she will never forgive herself, this guy told her that the person he's taking her to will pay well, so well that any year she returns home, her mom will be grateful for the day she left.

So I begged her to borrow me her phone to make calls as I don't have airtime in my phone, she calmly gave me the phone, I copied the Mom's number and sent it to my number, i quickly deleted the conversation,

I sent the mom a message with my phone and she responded immediately, I told her to come with police, and told her where my shop is located with signs she would not miss.

 I directed her, as I was still writing, the boyfriend abi pimp came, that guy should be in his early 50's, she told him that she can't go into the rain, so they were both waiting for whom he called to come pick them up.

The mom texted me that they were near my shop and, I told them that I want to close up cos I want to go pick my kids from school, as they stepped outside, they crossed the road to take a shade inside a building and the girl's Mom and police surrounded them, come see beating, I rushed there, pretending to want to save the girl from the woman, the girl said Auntie please stop, na my Mama, i said ahhh sorry oo, na so them carry them go, the police man turned to the guy and said you again!!

 The police officer said the guy was arrested the other time cos a missing girl was linked to him, but he denied that he never spoke to the girl or saw the girl, he deleted all his chats with the girl- 

So it's possible that he is andrewing the girls, they all left with the police vehicle- 

The mom later called to thank me, I begged her to keep it a secret. 

Raising a girl child is hardwork but I pray God sees us through, a part of me is very scared that it might come back to bite my butt, I know I did something noble and I pray God to protect me for this one....

You did a good thing;may God protect you

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READ
-Didaskaleinophobia is the fear of going to school.
-The average woman smiles 62 times a day. The average man smiles only 8 times.
-Eventually you realize who really matters, who never did, and who always will.
-Giving up alcohol for just one month can improve liver function, decrease blood pressure, and reduce the risk of liver disease and diabetes.-
-Once the rain is over, an umbrella suddenly becomes a burden to everyone.
That's how loyalty ends when benefits stop.
-“Tom and Jerry” was a British slang term from the 1800’s, meaning “to fight and cause trouble”.
-Anyone can make you happy by doing something sweet but only someone special can make you happy without doing anything.
-The world’s most common eye color is brown.
-A Japanese zoo spent four years trying to mate a pair of hyenas before they eventually realized they were both males.

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SIGNS YOU ARE DATING AN ABUSIVE PERSON
Now when we talk of Abuse, a lot of us are quick to think that only m€n are Abusive. It will interest you to know that there are so many Abusive w○men too but most m€n conceal the abuse so they don't look weak to their Male counterparts.
Being Abusive isn't gender based rather it's character based.

The points below elicit some signs that indicates you are dating a Abusive person.
1. The person is controlling: they want to know your every move, who you call, who you are with, what you are spending your money on, where you go, what time you leave and what time you must be back, what business you do, how many friends you have and the list is endless. They want to be in charge of every decision you make and everything you do.

2. They are extremely jealous : a little bit of jealousy is okay in any relationship but when it becomes extreme, then it can lead to some dangerous actions by that person. If that person gets mad everytime someone calls you, pays you complements or shows aggression when someone admires you, you are dealing with a toxic person. If they aggressively accuse you of dating everyone you talk to, they are extremely jealous.

3. Possesive: they don't want you talking to anyone except them. They don't want you going out if it's not with them. They don't want you to have any friend at all. They don't want you associating with your family except their own family. They are extremely uncomfortable when you spend time with anyone who isn't them. They tell you if you leave them, they will k|ll themselves (when anyone tells you this, they actually mean the reverse so, run)

4. Extreme mood swings : One minute they are happy, the next minute they go into a rage over some thing minor. They are rarely happy and very fast to switch from excited to uninterested. They give you silent treatment once they swing moods.
There are so many signs 
If you notice any of these behaviors, leave that relationship. If you proceed to marry an Abusive person thinking you will change them, you are setting up yourself for premium pain.
An abusive person will always work hard to break a strong m@n or wom@n.
So many people are still struggling to heal from Abusive relationships, don't open your eyes and walk into one.
- by Adaeze Adanna

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MEMO TO MEN - WHY MANY WOMEN ARE NOT HAPPY IN THEIR MARRIAGES...

1. YOU DON'T APPRECIATE HER:

 Some men are perfect complainers and critics. They believe praising a woman will make her head swell and misbehave,  even when she s slaving to death,  they will rather attack,  abuse,  complain,  criticize than appreciate her. If you are that type of man, you can never have a happy woman under your roof. A simple "Thank you"," You are doing a great job", "It's great having you in my life" will do a great magic and turn your marriage around. Learn to appreciate your wife when she goes out of her way to please you. She will be happy and that gloom in your marriage will automatically disappear.

2. YOU DON'T LISTEN TO HER: 

We are communication beings. I mean women love to talk,  be listened to and well understood. When you are too busy to communicate with her, look into her eyeball and let her know she is the most important person to you after God,  you will have a frustrated,  depressed wife. We understand you can be so busy and needs time to unwind and think,  yes! We know but don't make a habit of ignoring your wife. She needs to talk to her daily.

3. YOU CHEAT ON HER: 

Double dating is not allowed in courtship,  if you cheat on her,  she will end it. Chasing side chicks,  having emotional/sexual chats with other women may make your wife lose her mind. No wife will ever be happy with an adulterer. Stop it now and work on your marriage or you may end up divorced.

4. YOU DON'T ADMIRE  HER:

Some men will look at their very beautiful wife,  acknowledge her beauty and attractiveness but to open their mouths and say it is big problem. Some men need to be taught how to admire their women. Learn to open your mouth and tell your wife she's beautiful daily. No man out there should do that for you,  it's your job. Admire her when she makes effort to look good for you. Admire her hair,  body and natural endowments. Admire her uniqueness. Open your mouth and tell her. Women need to hear this as often as possible. Any time hubby tells me I'm so beautiful,  well endowed and irresistible, I can't help blushing. My day is made!

5. YOU RUSH IN AND OUT KF S#X: 

Little or no foreplay will leave her dry and uninterested. Rushing in and rushing out of sex is a killer of sexual intimacy in marriage. Learn to be romantic. Be patient with her,  take things slowly till she is ready for intercourse. Do not roll over and sleep when it is over. Pull her in your arms. Let her sleep in your arms. There is nothing as blissful as sleeping in my husband's arms, let your wife sleep in your arms.

6. YOU DON'T ASSIST WITH CHORES

You sit in front of TV with remote in hand and a tooth pick in between your teeth while your wife is slaving in the kitchen,  changing diapers,  helping your kids with assignment,  answering phone calls from clients,  sweeping the apartment,  preparing for the next day work. That's very bad. Your wife works as much as you do if not more. Learn to assist your woman at home. Don't turn her to your maid,  don't watch her die of stress,  don't make her look older than you.

7. YOU COMPARE HER WITH OTHER WOMEN. 

That's a shame. If you love her the way those women's husbands love them,  she will be more virtuous than them all. Stop comparing your wife with women you don't know their weaknesses. If their husbands tell you their other side they have been enduring you will thank God for yours. The grass always look greener on the other side. Stop being covetous. Work on your marriage and have a better wife.

8. YOU CORRECT HER IN PUBLIC:

 Nothing embarrasses a woman more like her husband correcting or shouting at her in public. It is demeaning and very babyish. Every form of correction should take place in the house before stepping out and if at all you must correct as a matter of urgency,  call her aside and speak to her softly,  maturely and discreetly. You will earn her honour for protecting her image,  she will respect you more and be happy with you.

9. YOU LISTEN TO YOUR MOTHER AGAINST HER

This is wrong. You are not joined to your mother but your wife. You are not one with your mum but your wife. Some men don't understand the language of leaving and cleaving. You leave every form of emotional intimacy with your parents and bond with your wife. You should talk first to your wife not your mum when making decisions. Both of you should speak with one voice to your mum. Some men even leave the home running of their marriage to the mother and treat their wives like slaves in her marriage. No woman will ever be happy with you in that kind of arrangement -never!

10. YOU DON'T TAKE FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILIES

How can a woman ever be happy with a husband who spends all his money on himself and his extended family members and little or nothing on his wife and children. These men appear nice,  very generous,  philanthropic outside but inside,  the woman is suffering,  hungry and indebted. The rent is in arrears,  children are sent home for school fees,  debtors are harass to to bless him,  but the tears of the wife and children are cursing him. Your wife's curse will work faster than all the supposed blessings you expect from your eye service. Charity begins at home. Your wife and children are more important than others. Take care of them first before taking care of outsiders. When your family is happy,  well fed and clothed,  they will be happy and bless you. People will bless you for helping you. God will also bless you abundantly. 

Learn to put first things first. When your wife is happy with you,  your life will run smoothly,  doors of favour will open to you and you will increase in health,  wealth and prosperity.

Do not make your wife unhappy,  it will affect your marriage. 

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