MONDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Hailings.....

IN HOUSE MEMO

How is everyone doing? I had Zeeone withdrawal Symptoms over the weekend so i just decided to finish the series I am watching now instead of just dumping it......Not like i am explaining to anybody oh...ehen!

BV Simply divine come oh...Roshni and siddart have broken up becos Roshni go do police report on Misha...Please what is going on?Update me ahead.

Thnak you to the BVs who went on Instagram to defend me, I dont know most of your IDs but i know some people here will catch a grenade for me......One celeb sent me a link today where they were arguing about me and she said i should read comment to see something,i dont like to read comments but as i scrolled i saw Eka Joys comment yesterday saying my gists are 80 percent true, i just laughed, Madam wetin do the remaining 20? LMAO......

Una well done...........let me get some lunch cos i wont have dinner....My meal time has change to 0-1-0 cos of the weather.....

Those of you with Chronicles, please send them in...Thank you

waitwait wait...Do you know that you can disagree with someone without insulting them? You can do it nicely and there wont be any altercation with words...try it...

xoxo

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GIST GIST GIST
Good day Stella, you see this man character of blaming a woman for everything, that attitude is bad, I won't lie.....
The other day we were at shop when her husband drove their kids to her, he practically threw them out of his vehicle, from the children's faces you go notice say hand don touch them, she tried to know what happened at home but both the husband and the kids, none said anything, so she bone the matter.

She came the next day and told me that the silence attitude even continued at home, though her kids later told her that they spoitd their Dad's phone, so all her efforts to speak to her husband didn't yield any response....
Later her husband called her family and told them that he's tired of the marriage and wants to walk away, they asked him if their daughter is misbehaving, he said no that his wife is not the problem but the kids, he said he married his wife because she's calm and quiet, but she gave birth to 5 ruffians and he can no longer continue living in the same house with them.....
The woman's family begged him to please forgive and reconsider but he refused, so the family told his wife, who in turn called her MIL and reported her son to her, so Mother in-law came yesterday, I don laff belle scatter I swear....
He was so shocked to see his mom in his house, then the mom further revealed that the children are displaying his every attitude, that he was stubborn to a fault, infact that at some point, she thought someone had cursed her child, she told him to calm down cos they just started and he should not stress his wife cos na him de display so....
He now calmed down and apologized to his wife, but my question is, so if to say him mama no come, so he was ready to walk out of a 12yr old marriage, leave his 5kids just because them spoil him property? Like how do men think?

Hahahahahahah go where`? This mentality and the question that you are asking belong to most Nigerian men........They think the when the kids are bad or troublesome, its for the women and when the kids make headline, its theirs....

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GIST FOR TEEJAY FROM SPONTANEOUS MORNING POST

Tj, your mindset I'm taking about is that you allow your emotion becloud your sense of judgement. When dealing with women, keep your emotions aside and make a clear decision.

Forget all these "real man" talk of Ladies.

My 1st marriage crashed because I wanted to be a "real man". I assisted in doing all the house chores. I helped in cooking, washing the dishes, doing the laundry, sweeping etc. What did I get in return, she always tell me how I'm easily deceived. She will shout at me and later will cry and apologise and I will be the understanding husband and forgive.

One day during her shouting, I told her that if she push me too hard that she will see the ugly side of me. She said that she wanted to see every side of me.

The day I made up my mind to end the marriage was the day she walked out from my elder brother who visited.

What happened that day was that we went out to have drink and my elder brother visited. I told her let's go home early so she can prepare dinner. That's how problem started. She said she is not going anywhere. I told if she wants more drink, that we can buy and drink them at home. She stood up and stormed out of the bar.

When we got home, my brother said "wife how are you doing" she ignored him and walked into the room.

She started quarrelling me, that she expected me to tell my brother that I will be back late , that I went out to have fun with my wife. I didn't say a word. She dragged me and said why am I keeping quiet, that I should say something. I still maintained my cool.

As God may have it, she was travelling the next day to her family house for a function. As she travelled, I packed all her belongings sent it to her and called her parents and told them that the marriage was over.

On my friend side, I tried to advise him but he ignored my advice and went ahead and married a lady who her mum and her siblings beat their father.

His wife told him that what she will do to him will be worse than what her mother did to her father.

My friend called me that night and told me that he and his wife travelled to the village for a marriage and his wife was sick and tested +ve to an STD. She started shouting at my guy that he was the one that contracted the STD and infected her. My guy went to run a test and the result came out -ve. She changed it for my guy and said it was the hospital that my friend took her to when she gave birth were the ones that infected her. Her mum too called my guy and was insulting him.(Is that not a clear evidence that she was having an extramarital affair)

My friend said he is fed up with the marriage.

I told him that night that I can go over to his place in the morning and pack all his wife's bags and waybill it for him and he should separate from his wife for sometime.

He said he will call one of his boys and inform him that I'm coming.

In the morning, story changed. He said they have settled. That she cried and begged him. That she said she doesn't know what always come over her.

I told him that his soft heart will be his greatest undoing.

He asked me if the STD can be cured. I told him that I'm not a doctor and can't say for sure if it will be cured, but I'm sure it can be managed.

I told him that day will be the last day I will interfere with his marriage , since he enjoys the verbal abuse and also he should learn how to bear every humility she will give to him in future.

Last week, he called to tell me that he is scared of his life, that his wife threatened him with knife. He said he seriously needs my help on how to send her home, I told him that when he is ready to send her home, he will find a way and do it, that the only thing I can tell him is to try and manage the marriage.

Tj, the stories are much but I tried my best to summarise them.

I'm married again now and it has been 4 years of bliss and more to come.

The truth is that the "real man" ladies talk about, they don't appreciate it. They see a real man as mumu with time.

I'm not saying you should be wicked to your woman.

All I'm saying is that you should keep your emotions aside when dealing with women and don't go extra mile for them.

Do your part as a husband and let her do her part as a wife.

Try and provide 100% for her and the kids financially. Let her use her money and do whatever she want for herself. As in, don't let a woman feed you, whether she is your wife or girlfriend.

Ladies love principled men and not real men.

Talk less and let your action speak louder.

Men still experience domestic violence but hardly talk.

Not all women that rush out to accuse their husband for something are innocent.

WOW:.....NA WAH OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
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FROM THE COMMENT SECTION
My cycle is 27 days and my period lasts 3 days. I downloaded this period and ovulation tracker but it’s telling me “low chances of pregnancy“ what do I do pls. I really want to have my own child I’m 39.

Low chances of pregnancy how? for that month or forever? Please someone should come and help her put...I pray you fall pregnant soon.

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15 WAYS TO AVOID PROBLEMS WITH YOUR IN-LAWS.

1.Be close to your spouse. Both of you should agree on how to relate with your in-laws. In-law relationships are so delicate. You need wisdom to relate with them and have a blissful relationship with their son/daughter.

2.Don't visit your spouse's family without his/ her approval. He knows them more than you do. All the secret visit, gifts and bribe may backfire one day.

3.Relate with your in-laws the way your spouse advises you to relate with them. They understand their parents and siblings better. One woman lamented she advised her husband not to be too close to her siblings, he took her advise with a pinch of salt and got extremely close to her siblings, he died an untimely death shortly after. The woman claimed her siblings killed her husband so he won't inherit the property due to her that her deceased father left for her as the first born. Take to simple warning. If your partner warns you consistently against his family, be very careful. There is fire on the mountain!

4. Do not advise your spouse to be close to any family member they don't want to be close to. He or she knows what they are seeing or experiencing. They may not give you the details to save their family name. Get the hint and swallow your advice.

5. You and your spouse should be transparently honest with each other and act as one. Don't say A when your spouse is telling your in-laws B, always agree.

6. As a wife, respect your husband before his people. Don't call him names, shout at him and treat him like a slave in front of his people.

7. As a husband, show your wife love, respect and honour in front of your people, they will treat her the way you do. The way you present your wife is the way your people will address her.

8. Do not report each other to your in-laws, seek counsel from godly counsellors instead. Families are prone to take side with their son/daughter either in your presence or absence. Blood is thicker than water.

9. Agree on the amount of money to send to your parents monthly.

11. Respect, honour and have regard for your in-laws.

12. Encourage your spouse to help their people when the need arises but if they don't want to, please, don't push it, they have their reasons.

3. Take care of your spouse and children first before taking care of in-laws. Don't starve your children, go into debt, owe rents and school fees because you want to take care of your parents and siblings.

4. Respect your brothers and sisters-in -law.

15. Pray for wisdom on how to handle your in-laws.

You don't have to encounter problems and conflicts with your in-laws. As long as you walk in wisdom, you can enjoy heaven on earth in your marriage and have excellent relationships with your in-laws. Take note of the 15 rules, add yours and live in paradise forever.
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