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''My daughter wants to put me in a nursing home and take my money, but I have refused – I give her everything in life, NOW I GAVE HER THE BIGGEST LESSON EVER
Dear friends, let me tell you about my daughter who has seemingly lost her mind. She thinks just because I'm 90, I should be shipped off to some nursing home like an old piece of furniture. I have my own home; I still got plenty of life left in me.
So, I told her straight up, "If you don't want to take care of me, I'll take care of myself. I've got my savings, and I'll use them to hire a caregiver and stay right here in my own house."
Well, that made her madder than a wet cat! Turns out she was banking on getting her hands on my money. Now she's throwing a fit because her little plan ain't gonna work.
It has been more than a month that she hasn’t visited or called. And she made sure to tell me to not bother her until I am ready to take my a** to a nursing home
It has been more than a month that she hasn’t visited or called. And she made sure to tell me to not bother her until I am ready to take my a** to a nursing home
Imagine being 90 and having just one daughter. These days I kept thinking how God never gave me a son, or another daughter. Someone who would give some love to me.
I think Anne (My daughter) takes things for granted, so instead of her calling I called and then I gave her the biggest lesson in her life.
You won’t believe what I did to her, I know it is my own daughter, but after we spoke I invited her to urgently come as there are some big developments regarding my money.
You won’t believe what I did to her, I know it is my own daughter, but after we spoke I invited her to urgently come as there are some big developments regarding my money.
Not even the next day, the very same night she shows up, but she wasn’t ready for what was coming to her. She comes in all confident and bossy, but when she saw… Her eyes widened up and she was pale as a ghost.
The Confrontation
There, in the living room, stood a lawyer and my new caregiver, Mrs. Thompson, a kind-hearted woman with a sturdy resolve. Anne’s confident smirk faded quickly as the reality of the situation hit her. She had expected to find me weak and desperate, but instead, she found me stronger than ever, standing my ground.
The lawyer began to speak, “Mrs. Anne, your mother has decided to take control of her assets and well-being. She has legally assigned her savings and property to be managed by a trust, with clear instructions that ensure her comfort and care without interference.”
Anne’s face turned red with anger. “This is absurd! You can’t do this to me, Mother!”
I looked her straight in the eye and said, “I can and I have. You wanted to throw me away and take my money. Now you’ll get nothing until I pass, and even then, it’ll be on my terms.”
There, in the living room, stood a lawyer and my new caregiver, Mrs. Thompson, a kind-hearted woman with a sturdy resolve. Anne’s confident smirk faded quickly as the reality of the situation hit her. She had expected to find me weak and desperate, but instead, she found me stronger than ever, standing my ground.
The lawyer began to speak, “Mrs. Anne, your mother has decided to take control of her assets and well-being. She has legally assigned her savings and property to be managed by a trust, with clear instructions that ensure her comfort and care without interference.”
Anne’s face turned red with anger. “This is absurd! You can’t do this to me, Mother!”
I looked her straight in the eye and said, “I can and I have. You wanted to throw me away and take my money. Now you’ll get nothing until I pass, and even then, it’ll be on my terms.”
The Aftermath
The shock and disbelief on Anne’s face were priceless. She tried to argue, but the lawyer calmly explained that everything was legally sound and unchangeable. Anne stormed out, slamming the door behind her.
For the first time in years, I felt a sense of peace and control over my life. Mrs. Thompson helped me to my favorite chair, and we sat down to have tea. I knew I had done the right thing.
The shock and disbelief on Anne’s face were priceless. She tried to argue, but the lawyer calmly explained that everything was legally sound and unchangeable. Anne stormed out, slamming the door behind her.
For the first time in years, I felt a sense of peace and control over my life. Mrs. Thompson helped me to my favorite chair, and we sat down to have tea. I knew I had done the right thing.
My daughter needed to learn that love and respect cannot be bought or coerced. They have to be earned and cherished.
As I sit here today, sipping my tea and watching the sunset, I am grateful for the strength I found within myself. I may be 90, but I am still capable of making my own decisions and living my life on my terms.
As I sit here today, sipping my tea and watching the sunset, I am grateful for the strength I found within myself. I may be 90, but I am still capable of making my own decisions and living my life on my terms.
Anne and I have found a new understanding, and my home is once again filled with love and respect.
This experience has taught me that it’s never too late to stand up for yourself, to demand the respect you deserve, and to teach those around you the true meaning of love and family.
This experience has taught me that it’s never too late to stand up for yourself, to demand the respect you deserve, and to teach those around you the true meaning of love and family.
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ReplyDeleteItibolibo I’m sure you’re like her daughter instead of you to learn a thing or two or move on you must display your nonsense character here.
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DeleteI love the last paragraph. Good for Anne.
DeleteTrain a child in the way of the Lord and when he or she grows, won't depart from such teaching.
DeleteGiving children everything they desire at all times is like grooming wide animals.
This happens when you don't beat the spirit of greediness out of your child when she was little. Parents should teach their children how to be compassionate.
ReplyDeleteTrain up a child in the way he should go and when he's old, he will not depart from it.
Thank God that Anne didn't kill you.
Honestly
DeleteWow! Interesting read!
ReplyDeleteA part of me wants to blame her for raising a desperate and wicked daughter but then it occurred that Anne is an adult and should be responsible for the choices she makes.
So glad the 90 year old took control of the entire situation, glad this world has lawyers and legality.
Na waooo for the Daughter
ReplyDeleteShe never ever allow Mama to dead before she wanna bury her..
Not fair
Omo Death no no Age ooo
Let her just calm down and do what she can do for Mama
It is well with mama
Wishing her more years to come🙏🙏🙏
Hello iya boys
This is even worse than what is happening to so many elderly people who once thought having kids means having a secure old age, many of them are lonely and being taken care of by other people's kids, some even end up adopting before they get very old, many elderly people are suffering loneliness while some of their kids think sending them peanuts is good enough. Pray to have kids who have empathy or people who have empathy around you, be very nice to other kids because you never know and get a skill you can still do even if you're very old.
ReplyDeleteSome children hennn!
ReplyDeleteThis is why some parents like hiding things from their kids to avoid situations like this. Thank God she didn't ''off'' you.
Spoilt brat
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ReplyDeleteCorrect woman. No time for nonsense. Thank God for giving her good health. I know family that I am close to, they are all grown ups. Their father had about 3 houses, the woman one. The woman is abit aged now but the children kept stealing her phone, where pension and house rent is being paid so as to divert the money and she is not being taken care of . They are just after her money and property. May we not have children that are greedy
ReplyDeleteAmen to your prayers 🙏
DeleteIt's sad. Some children of nowadays lack empathy. The selfishness is out of this world.
ReplyDeleteVery nice move by the mother. Some children could be heartless.
ReplyDeleteEntitled, selfish, greedy and mean
ReplyDeleteIt's a good thing Mama stood up for herself. Thank God she had the lawyer and caregiver as witnesses, that her daughter for don think of bad thing for her.
ReplyDeleteHmm! Interesting.
ReplyDeleteSuch a greedy daughter.
ReplyDeleteNo love or compassion for her own mother.
Wonderment!😒
It's well
ReplyDeleteIt's so sad that many old folks d.ie lonely and heartbroken. May God help us all
ReplyDeleteSome people are so selfish/self-centered. You're right on your actions ma. If she doesn't care about you, she should not care about your money too. Let her work for hers. Use your money to make yourself comfortable until your final whistle blows.
ReplyDeletePray for kind children..
ReplyDeleteI just pray for kids until I met an old woman who has four sons abroad doing well but not taking care their mother..
Good for her.
ReplyDeleteI fear my daughter will not turn to this in my old age, despite the fact that we're raising her with love, and teaching her to be caring and selfless, hell no, she's very stingy, not caring and very selfish, i think she takes after her father because those are the exact traits of her father, we've corrected her to no avail, i just pray and hope she changes as she grow up.
ReplyDeleteMy dear you better save for the future and never disclose this to your daughter. As for me I work as a nurse and my husband is a doctor..after years of savings we were able to buy three houses but we told our kids that we are renting. We have money saved aside to take care of ourselves when we get old, and we also have a will with clear rules and conditions on how our estate will be split among our children. We give our children the best education and life. We travel around the world. We give them whatever they may need but we make sure that we let them know that we can afford this lifestyle because we work hard. We told them we will leave nothing to them even though once me and my husband die we will leave 1 million euros to each one of our 5 kids ( my husband comes from a very wealthy family). We came up with this plan after reading and watching documentaries about children killing they parents because of inheritance. Our children are humble, kind and well mannered but greed can change people, even our beloved kids. Let us all use wisdom in dealing with our life affairs.
DeleteJust keep praying for her, I have a sister with a very hard and strong mind but God is changing her gradually, please take necessary precautions and believe God for the best.
DeleteFast for GOD to nullify evil family patterns and remove heart of stone and replace with a heart of flesh
DeleteTo be 90 and have all your faculties intact, with he ability to chart your own course at an advanced age is the real story here. Not to mention sound financial health. I hope for good mental and physical health with sound financial health to the end of my days.
ReplyDeleteVery selfish and greedy daughter.
ReplyDeleteThank God the mum stood up for herself.
Hmm i thought ladies were more compassionate, especially to their parents in old age. Such a hard-hearted daughter, a very good lesson her mum thought her
ReplyDeleteToo bad for a child to wish the parent dead cos of wealth. May we not give birth to Omo ale
ReplyDeleteThis happened to my Uncle, his medical doct.or son allowed him to die of kidney problem even when he had more than enough for a transplant. Instead of encouraging the father to travel out for a transplant he resorted to doing rubbish just for the man to die so that he can inherit his wealth and that is just what happened, calling himself young millionaire now.
ReplyDeleteSome children of these days. Do they import these wickedness from mars because I am not understanding oo
ReplyDeleteOld age can be so scary at times. The way the kids that you did so much for cannot wait to get rid of you. So crazy
ReplyDeleteMay we not give birth to evil children and Parents should teach their kids Manners and Life lessons from the Cradle not when they are already Adults
ReplyDeleteThis is so embarrassing and humiliating! God abeg.
ReplyDeleteLicious babe