I work in a domestic violence unit and I have something little to say. 1. Please, never you marry without a stable source of income. Please. No matter how loving and sweet the guy is. In 100% of cases I have attended to 80% is cos of financial weight on the man
2. Both of your names should be inclusive in any property acquire. If you helped in acquiring those properties, have prove. Make it through transfer. This is applicable to both gender.
3. As a woman, please give birth to the number of children you know your income will be able to train. That 100k your husband gives as monthly allowance, when una break up, he will propose to give 10k monthly.
4. Leave if domestic violence is involved. Save as much as you can and could. Please, save. I repeat save.
Thanks for sharing. We have been saying these things on the blog for years. I also tell women to log incidents and take photos and to never keep DV a secret, tell someone. Have someone who can backup that you told them about it.
And any man trying to separate you from family and friends is trying to isolate you for full manipulation and abuse without interference from those who truly love you
Don't love blindly Men don't really joke or jest Any attempt or comment to pull you down, make you feel inferior, affect your self esteem while dating
But sister ma, didn't you see warning signs before you agreed to marry him? If you had paid attention and acted accordingly, all these talks would have been averted
Having a supportive family helped you tremendously. So many women were not lucky enough, some tried to leave and were told to manage and that ‘God hates divorce’. They are unfortunately no more in the land of the living. Let all family members develop a supportive stance in matters of domestic violence, recognizing how toxic it is for the woman and children to live under such conditions and be willing to help their loved ones when they cry out for help to them.
Nobody seeking escape should ever be told to just “manage”, “look what you are doing and fix it” or “God hates divorce”. These are not things to say to anyone who is looking to save their life!
The sign is usually there. It might not be too obvious but we ignore most times when we're in love thinking your partner will change. When you're in the lion's den😃the monster in him will start showing. I'm speaking from experience so I'm in a better position to talk about it.
MARRY KIND PARTNER. See that she did not say kind husband though she was telling about a man. Only experience reveals this.
As an aside, children belong to mothers. Why do they find it so difficult to raise their sons as good husbands seeing that almost all women want good husbands.
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Na the caption dey me me laugh.
ReplyDeleteWho send you before to agree?
Some men are wicked.
DeleteWho would willing marry an animal pretending to be a man?
DeleteThat's the key word, pray for a kind partner. e get why
ReplyDeleteI work in a domestic violence unit and I have something little to say.
ReplyDelete1. Please, never you marry without a stable source of income. Please. No matter how loving and sweet the guy is. In 100% of cases I have attended to 80% is cos of financial weight on the man
2. Both of your names should be inclusive in any property acquire. If you helped in acquiring those properties, have prove. Make it through transfer. This is applicable to both gender.
3. As a woman, please give birth to the number of children you know your income will be able to train. That 100k your husband gives as monthly allowance, when una break up, he will propose to give 10k monthly.
4. Leave if domestic violence is involved. Save as much as you can and could. Please, save. I repeat save.
💯💯💯 very important
DeleteThanks for sharing. We have been saying these things on the blog for years. I also tell women to log incidents and take photos and to never keep DV a secret, tell someone. Have someone who can backup that you told them about it.
DeleteNice one
DeleteAnd any man trying to separate you from family and friends is trying to isolate you for full manipulation and abuse without interference from those who truly love you
DeleteDon't love blindly
Men don't really joke or jest
Any attempt or comment to pull you down, make you feel inferior, affect your self esteem while dating
Run o
If you have not been there don't say anything because it's not easy🚶🚶
ReplyDeleteThank God you left, some people prefer to die a mrs. A kind partner💯
ReplyDeleteTrue, marry a kind partner.
ReplyDeleteBut sister ma, didn't you see warning signs before you agreed to marry him? If you had paid attention and acted accordingly, all these talks would have been averted
Pure nonsense talk. As if people don't change. Mitchew
DeleteChai God abeg o, thank God you are out of the "lion's den" a kind partner is everything.
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ReplyDeleteMarrying a Good partner and Kind partner is The Key word..
THANKGOD for You ooo🙏🙏
Hello iya boys
Funny caption 😄 🤣
ReplyDeleteThank God you came out with your life intact..
Things are really happening, God abeg o
ReplyDeleteU for post d man pics , so that innocent girls no go fall for am , think say na human being.
ReplyDeleteThat's my everyday prayer, to get married to a compassionate man.
ReplyDeleteMay god help us not to marry our enemies in disguise
ReplyDeleteInukwa. Crying was your daily bread? God forbid bad thing. Thank God you've left the son of Nebuchadnezzar.
ReplyDeletePray for a kind partner 💯
ReplyDeleteMere looking at her alone, will give you a glimpse of what she had to endure.
ReplyDeleteGod help us ooo.
DOZZYBEST.
With a kind partner, you are blessed for life.
ReplyDeleteMay the single sisters never jam nebuchadnezzar or his sons.
Kindness can never be over emphasized, i want me some kind man!!
ReplyDeleteSome men are victims too not only women. Thank God you give yourself brain to run.
ReplyDeleteGetting married to the wrong partner can make one age on time..
ReplyDeleteWawu
ReplyDeleteLol@ Son of Nebuchadnezza
We thank God you are alive. When there is life there is hope
Pele dear,she went through hell and back.
ReplyDeleteMarriage is a boxed gift.
ReplyDeleteWhat you see is what you get.
Just pray to get the right gift
Having a supportive family helped you tremendously. So many women were not lucky enough, some tried to leave and were told to manage and that ‘God hates divorce’. They are unfortunately no more in the land of the living. Let all family members develop a supportive stance in matters of domestic violence, recognizing how toxic it is for the woman and children to live under such conditions and be willing to help their loved ones when they cry out for help to them.
ReplyDeleteNobody seeking escape should ever be told to just “manage”, “look what you are doing and fix it” or “God hates divorce”. These are not things to say to anyone who is looking to save their life!
Marriage!!!🤨
ReplyDeleteShe left early,good!
ReplyDeleteBut you look good at your 3rd picture. Se fine geh. But what happen. Abi na your bad character no allow you stay
ReplyDeleteLook at his friend!
DeleteThat 3rd picture was after she left the Nebuchadnezzar
The sign is usually there. It might not be too obvious but we ignore most times when we're in love thinking your partner will change. When you're in the lion's den😃the monster in him will start showing. I'm speaking from experience so I'm in a better position to talk about it.
ReplyDeleteMarriage will either make you or mar you. Pray to marry your own destined partner.
ReplyDeleteThank God you left. .
ReplyDeletegood you came out alive to tell the story. Some men are wicked
ReplyDeleteMARRY KIND PARTNER.
ReplyDeleteSee that she did not say kind husband though she was telling about a man.
Only experience reveals this.
As an aside, children belong to mothers. Why do they find it so difficult to raise their sons as good husbands seeing that almost all women want good husbands.