FRIDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

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How una dey?

Ehen!....The stuff i post about men and women and relationship are not sent in by any BVs, i see them around on facebook and with permission, bring them here...Abeg make una no dey complain, entertaining traffic is not moin moin at all...If you see the topics and disagree with them but still wanna engage fine....If you agree and still wanna engage fine...It is brought here to entertain you and not to cause fight or discredit one gender for the other....

The five names posted in Thursday in house news have not received their alerts because I have not done the transfers cos i was waiting for the account details and i got the last one this Morning.....Will send it before the day is over and they can confirm tomorrow morning...We will round up the giveaway between Saturday and Sunday....

The five persons are...

-Lily Angel

-Mide

-Poshscents

-Rhapsody

-Adaoluchi

The Sun is too hot but we are expecting rain on Sunday...

BVs in Australia, whats the weather like?Winter?

Ehen before i forget, I got about 50 applications from BVs, I nearly fainted oh...I told some outright NO cos they sent in their CV and it intimidated me oh....Hehehehehehehehehehehehe I no go fit fight them if dem ANGRY ME na...LOL

The person who asked if BVs can work for me and remain anonymous, the answer is YES.......Two very very active BVs work for me and nobody knows,even if you guess and get it cos they may have cho cho cho, I wont cofirm.

Another BVdiot commented that i like to know people details so that if they annoy me i will have what to drag them with....So you wanna work for me and i wont knw anything about you?But you wanna chop my money? DEY PLAY!!!....If you come to work for me with the intention of fucking me up, do you also wanna dictate how i react?NAH!!!

From my side, its always love until it goes South oh...I am human, petty as fvck but always allow God to redirect me...

Enough preaching, I am on my way to buy chinese food, i am not cooking and hubby no get wahala...*rolls eyes*

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MADAM AMEBO CORNER
Big Stella, kedu the way? Kedu ncha bu Omo??
E get one prophetess for my area, you see for this life eeh, no be every person suppose know your problem, especially this so-called pastors, sometimes hide yourself small..

The way this prophetess carries herself, the way she brags eeh sometimes it feels like she co-owns this earth with God.
Her very troublesome kids will fight in the area, this woman will come there, brag about what she will do to the child and their parents, the child go come de fear. everybody is scared of her, them de avoid her and her family like plague around here.
E get one woman, she and this prophetess used to be quite close, the woman is those kind of people that likes prophecy, she believes the whole world is after her life and madam prophetess is helping to safeguard her life, including that of her kids.
This nonsense continued to the extent of prophetess carrying this woman's 3kids to the river to bathe them cos some people wants to steal their gifts...
Na every eke market day this woman de go river go throw things cos according to her, it makes her business thrive...

The friendship was going well until she heard from somewhere that prophetess told the woman that her friends children were all possessed and she should be careful with them mingling with her kids, that she took them to the river and she knew what she saw there, so the woman told her to be weary of the prophetess, so she came back, called me and told me.

 I told her to keep calm and let the issue go, i told to keep her distance from the prophetess, i told her it was wrong to expose her innocent kids to such lifestyle but she should let the matter go and learn from this mistake, she took my advice.

Yesterday, she said a bird flew into her balcony, she tried sending it out but bird no gree go, so she called her latest spiritualist, he told her that it was sent to listen to her private discussions as they no longer knows things that is happening in her life at the moment, he told her that first person she will see the next morning is the person that came as a bird, and once the person's eyes jams hers, that the person will run back.
So this morning, na prophetess she jam around 6am, prophetess see am come go back inside house, so she enter house, wore short nikka and quarrel started, at first the prophetess wss calm but immediately she said some secrets, Prophetess responded, the argument became heated.
The exchange of words continued for a long time, they said a lot including the fact that it was prophetess that gave her the otomokpo that drags plenty customers into her shop.
As prophetess come de expose too much, the woman jumped on her and fight start, people separated them but she later went and arrested prophetess.
She called me to bring food for her cos the both of them were detained for two-fighting, I got there she was narrating what happened to me, I asked of prophetess, she said her BP went so up and she has been hospitalized, they said it's over 200 and she was convulsing, I tried to bail her but the police said the person in-charge of their case has gone, and they need to know the outcome of the woman in the hospital before anyone can take her on bail, i come go back to my house oo.
Wahala no good and if person confide in you about the secrets of her life, try and keep them still a secret even when the friendship is no longer there...

By the time that woman is out eh, I dont think she will have customers again oh...

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ABEG READ HERE
--Listening to your favorite song before bed can help you sleep better, wake up easier and enhance your mood for the upcoming day.

--Good relationships don't just happen. They take time, patience and two people getting through all the hard times together.

--The United States is actually the serial killer capital of the world.

--In 2007, a married couple divorced after realizing they were cheating on each other in an online chatroom, with each other.

--Challenges are what make life interesting. Overcoming them is what makes life meaningful.

--70% of guns found in Mexico are from the United States
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HOW TO WIN AS A COUPLE

1. Cover each other's weaknesses

2. Celebrate each other's strengths

3. Have no topics that you cannot talk about. No judgment. Openness will open your mind to solutions

4. Consider each other's opinions and contribution

5. Be 100% in. Full commitment

6. Make incremental progress. Seek growth, not perfection

7. Develop a culture of reviewing your relationship; are we doing OK, and where can we improve?

8. Accept correction, be humble

9. Work on yourselves to be the best wife, the best husband

10. Have joint goals

11. Support each other in your individual goals

12. Keep each other as a priority even as you have friends

13. Thank God together. A thankful couple is a powerful couple

14. Don't compete with each other, accommodate each other

15. Bring whatever lessons or opportunities you learn out there into your marriage. Learn together

16. Be patient. Some wins take time

17. When you fall whether as a couple or as individuals, pick each other up

18. Protect what you have built together. It is very easy to lose it fast

19. Control your tempers. A lot of bad choices are made in moments of anger

20. Don't copy other couples. Create your testimonies.

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9 ESSENTIAL QUALITIES FOR A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE

To build a strong and lasting marriage, it's important to embody certain qualities and principles. Here are 12 essential qualities you need to portray for your marriage to work:

1. Don't Listen to Outsiders:
Protect your relationship from outside influences. Value the opinions of your spouse above others and avoid letting external voices create unnecessary conflict.

2. Be Patient; It's Not Everything You Respond To:
Patience is key in any relationship. Not every issue requires an immediate response or reaction. Take the time to understand and approach situations with a calm demeanor.

3. Protect and Defend Your Spouse:
Stand up for your partner, both in private and public. Defending your spouse against negativity or criticism reinforces trust and unity in your relationship.

4. Leave Room for Mistakes:
Understand that no one is perfect. Allow room for mistakes and focus on forgiveness and growth rather than dwelling on errors.

5. Accept Your Wrong:
Acknowledge your mistakes and apologize sincerely. Taking responsibility for your actions shows maturity and helps to resolve conflicts more effectively.

6. Be Available When You Are Needed:
Make sure to be present for your spouse, especially during times of need. Your availability and support can strengthen your bond and show that you truly care.

7. Believe in Your Spouse:
Have faith in your partner's abilities and dreams. Encouragement and belief in each other foster a supportive and loving environment.

8. Spend Quality Time with Your Spouse:
Dedicate time to be with your spouse, away from distractions. Quality time helps to deepen your connection and create lasting memories.

9. Have Just a Few Good Friends:
Surround yourself with a small circle of trustworthy friends. These friends should respect your marriage and support your relationship. 

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