Hmmmmmm
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
ADVICE NEEDED
[05/07, 00:59] ##: U actually know how to get at me
[05/07, 01:00] ##: Thanks for d wishes , pls allow me to settle down then I will get in touch . If I talk to u now I will lose it all .
[05/07, 01:01] ##$: Ur influence in my life is super powerful
[05/07, 00:59] ##: U actually know how to get at me
[05/07, 01:00] ##: Thanks for d wishes , pls allow me to settle down then I will get in touch . If I talk to u now I will lose it all .
[05/07, 01:01] ##$: Ur influence in my life is super powerful
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This is the message I got from my boyfriend because I sent a happy birthday message to him after ghosting me cos we had an argument . I'm yet to reply, please what do I say? Though it's been 3 days and he's not contacted me back
Hmmm, at this stage whatever you say will fasten the breakup hanging in the air already, so please just reply with OK since you left his chat hanging for three days without replying....Why did you keep him quiet for three days and waiting for him to get back to you?is this a new relationship? looks like you both are trying to prove a point... Has it occurrred to you that he might be looking at his phone everytime for reply...Just reply OK and archive his chat, it might take a long time to get back to you....
This is the message I got from my boyfriend because I sent a happy birthday message to him after ghosting me cos we had an argument . I'm yet to reply, please what do I say? Though it's been 3 days and he's not contacted me back
Hmmm, at this stage whatever you say will fasten the breakup hanging in the air already, so please just reply with OK since you left his chat hanging for three days without replying....Why did you keep him quiet for three days and waiting for him to get back to you?is this a new relationship? looks like you both are trying to prove a point... Has it occurrred to you that he might be looking at his phone everytime for reply...Just reply OK and archive his chat, it might take a long time to get back to you....
He ghosted you because you had an argument. What happened to talking about stuff?🙄. You decided to wish him a happy birthday, meaning if you hadn't reached out to him, he wouldn't ba. My dear, just respond with OK,.
ReplyDeleteAll this children in relationships
ReplyDeleteIt is well.
ReplyDeleteYes go the okay route for now and see his reaction or next step. Don't just talk much now
ReplyDeleteFor me, if you are the person that apologise mostly and didn't apologise this time and this ghosting happened, just say OK and archive and advised by Stelz. However, if he's the one that usually apologise and he's just fed up of always being the bigger person, then it's time for you to call him. 📞
ReplyDeleteHave an open heart. Remove emotions for now so that whatever is the outcome of getting in touch won't hurt too much. All the best.
ReplyDeleteWhat does he mean by losing it all if he talks to you? An OK is fine. Wait and see what next.
ReplyDeleteShortest chronicles ever. I am hungry
ReplyDelete🤣🤣
DeleteOmo see time him message oh. Are you sure no be married man? Na dem dey do this late night kini o.
ReplyDeleteIf no be married man, then lose no sleep. No time for man child
He's not based in this country.
DeleteWhat is this
ReplyDeleteIt depends…. What type of argument was it? Did you do something wrong ?
ReplyDeleteSaying happy birthday was the right thing to do per my principle. I’ll always reach out on birthdays unless I’m completely done with the person
Na fight no be die
3 days? Common sense hasn't shown you that you're the SC?
ReplyDeleteMay not be
DeleteHe may be upset
She should say why then one can evaluate
Na for social media una dey talk all the things. Yet deep down, you know what happens in your relationships.
DeleteSmall quarrel that she didn't even give the full details and the guy didn't insult her. Una don de advice her to break up.
When she loses this one, shey she will go to the tree and pluck another man.
Just reply OK and see his next reaction first...
ReplyDeleteCommunication in a relationship can never be over emphasized..
If you need any serious advice, then you should tell us what went wrong before the ghosting..
ReplyDeleteE.g:
You cannot embarrass me in public and then wish me happy birthday the next day and expect me to just heal, he is mature enough to respond to you in this respectful way,. You should have replied him since acknowledging his message and wait..
Whenever you do something stupid, you should know you'll get punished for it..
PS: as I no reply anybody comment, make nobody come reply nonsense under my comments, make you no dey unfortunate
Always fighting with yourself….. hmmmm… so you had to assume the poster did something stupid? Why you are still on this blog is what I don’t understand….
DeleteLol 😀
DeleteBreak up in the air. Guard your heart and be ready for the worse. Goodluck.
ReplyDeleteTwo childish beings in relationship.😏
ReplyDeleteIf only you have another boyfriend that’ll keep you occupied
ReplyDeleteWhy not just ask him how u are influencing him.. Why all this suspense, do u have forever to wait, are u both a child?..
ReplyDeleteTell him to stop ghosting u, that it killing the relationship.. U guys should learn to talk things out..
I hate stress.. Relationship is meant to be enjoy...
U better know where u stand with him.
Wetin I just read? baby reply ok and stay calm to his reaction.
ReplyDeleteStella thanks for posting. I've been checking sp didn't know you lifted it as a chronicle, I know I'll get enough responses this way. Thanks alot.
ReplyDeleteRelationship otilo😔
ReplyDeleteLolll he ghosted you before his birthday?
ReplyDeleteIkwawawawawawa 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Who gon' tell her though??
Don't worry my love. You gon' learn either way.🚶♀️
You get it! I wish I had superpowers to save people around the world from future wahala, based on my own experience. The flag is RED.
DeleteLoll Gbam, she will. Wasting her youth on a man that doesn’t give a damn and has someone else. Poster you better give yourself sense and move the hell on. He ain’t that into you and he’s getting some steadily especially you said he’s not in the country. These men ain’t loyal and can hardly be faithful. Unless he’s a real Christian/disciplined man of course. In your case, I doubt it. Goodluck.
DeleteIn my honest opinion? You don't have a man, this bf doesn't completely belong to you. Because which man ghosts his babe and then comes to talk about influence bla bla? Oh! You said he's not even in this country?? He doesn't belong to you sis!
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