This is an update from Sunday June 30, 2024 Chronicle
''Thank you everyone for taking our time to advice me. I saw your comments and wish to state the following.
-. I married an over pampered man. His sisters and parents overlooked his arrogance as a child because he is an only son. They allowed him have his way in all things and he grew with it.
-. He does not take anyone's advice. When the issue of property sharing came up, I advised him. Involved my elder brother to speak with him yet he did not listen. His mum pleaded with him. He did not listen. He had the backing of greedy umunna.
-. Father in-law left 7 buildings scattered in different places. My hubby took four. Gave the ladies two and gave his mum one. When the issue became tensed, the mum gave her share to her daughters they sold theirs too and came to demand more from my husband.
-. All the properties are sold. Both ours and the once given to his sisters. Four of them got married. 3 are divorced and came back. One died last year
Everyone is struggling.
-. As per my health. I am hundred percent negative.
-. How will this people level this wicked accusation on me at this trying time of my life.
Thanks again to everyone.''
-. I married an over pampered man. His sisters and parents overlooked his arrogance as a child because he is an only son. They allowed him have his way in all things and he grew with it.
-. He does not take anyone's advice. When the issue of property sharing came up, I advised him. Involved my elder brother to speak with him yet he did not listen. His mum pleaded with him. He did not listen. He had the backing of greedy umunna.
-. Father in-law left 7 buildings scattered in different places. My hubby took four. Gave the ladies two and gave his mum one. When the issue became tensed, the mum gave her share to her daughters they sold theirs too and came to demand more from my husband.
-. All the properties are sold. Both ours and the once given to his sisters. Four of them got married. 3 are divorced and came back. One died last year
Everyone is struggling.
-. As per my health. I am hundred percent negative.
-. How will this people level this wicked accusation on me at this trying time of my life.
Thanks again to everyone.''
it's well with you at this junction.
ReplyDeleteyou guys need family deliverance at this junction
no good record from all what you said
something is wrong somewhere, your sister in-laws took their frustrations on you and your husband
May God give you the strength to stand strong.
Thank you for acknowledging the need for family deliverance. The devil needed you all to be at each other's throat then he attacked and is winning. It is best to repent and go for deliverance because he is not done. All these for material wealth what about your soul.
DeleteI follow up with your story, sorry about all that but permit me to say, there are things beneath those properties papa left for them.
ReplyDeleteLife sometimes is like a movie
@ King Jerry, papa didn't bury anything. Inheritance money is B.S. it will give you temporary respite and then back to square 1. The best form of inheritance is improve more and get beyond what you inherited. If you can't, am sorry to say, na groundnut and roasted corn you go use an chop finish! Do your findings and come and thank me later.
DeleteAs a wise woman you should have called them secretly and tell them see eh! Don't mind your brother I have talked to him he refused, you should have pretended to stand with them secretly!
DeleteSee eh! This life okwa faking ka eji ana defence!
And u seem like a cool person, us wey be weyrey no dey fake bcos a di ata nti anyi ata.
But let me remind you, you go still see shege unless God intervenes
Dear poster, gonf9rndeliverance in MFM Prayersl city, you and your children. After then Burry your husband quietly and change location. That's the best advise, you are changing location to start a new life. Use a long spoon when it comes to associating with inlaws
ReplyDeleteDear poster, gonf9rndeliverance in MFM Prayersl city, you and your children. After then Burry your husband quietly and change location. That's the best advise, you are changing location to start a new life. Use a long spoon when it comes to associating with inlaws
ReplyDeleteMFM prayer city*
DeletePlease do not got to MFM Prayer city if you love yourself dearly. with all the bad press that church is getting lately ........! Do your dry fasting and prayers at home
DeleteI'm just here wondering how you all sell properties and still remain so low financially. In this country? Do you all eat with both hands?
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry but I don't like your chronicle. It's freaking annoying!
Probably jazz money
DeleteThere’s no one replacing the man in what he did maybe he didn’t tell them. The properties will get retrieved.
It’s a spiritual thing.
They can’t sustain it , if they are not doing the expected conditions to sustain it
The same thing took her husband
Took their mother
Took one of the sisters
Is still looking for people
It’s not satisfied
Madam however you will do it hold God by his blokos at this point.
The uprising and disagreement in the family is a breeding ground to sustaining what is going on
It will thrive on you all ignorance
Pray…..
Save your life and your children
Hold God by his blokos kwa. Una uncouthness no get limit imagine
DeleteChaii
DeleteIt is well with you ooo
Hello iya boys
16:20 old God by his blokos 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteSorry for your loss. Be prayerful
ReplyDeleteIt is well with you dear, that is one of the dividend of marrying into a bad family.
ReplyDeleteI must include that I was 100% upset with your first chronicle.
As a woman who came from an only female children woman who had terribly greedy siblings (who God later punished) it rubbed me the wrong way.
At this juncture, be strong and be courageous, you don't really owe that family much since there's clearly wars (both physical and spiritual) involved. Invest in your kids henceforth and don't look back since your husband is now late.
God be with you and the kids. Amen.
This looks like a spiritual problem,I hope your father in-law didn't build those properties with other peoples tears/sweat.
ReplyDeleteThere is a family I know,there wasn't even fight concerning their late fathers properties,everyone got something but out of 6 children,four died within space of few years leaving only two,out of the two left,one lost a child too.
Like I said yesterday,you need a spiritual checkup,fight for yourself and children spiritually,May the Lord see you through.Thank God you're negative.
You guys need deliverance. A lot of prayers is needed.
ReplyDeleteSee the negative patterns he is dead, his sister dead mother dead under the space of how many years.
But when you guys were dating he must have shown you his negative traits of being over pampered.
He didn't start to exhibit that character after marriage it has always been part of him that should have given you clue of what marriage with that kind of person will look like.
OP, I don't know how grounded in God you are. There is a strong negative spiritual aura in the family you married from. You didn't indicate whether you have children in your marriage. If you do, do everything you can to shield them from the family they've been born into. As for the properties, don't drag with them. You can't afford to be a victim.
ReplyDeleteWhat's the meaning of "OP"?
Delete16:23, OP=. Original poster. Used to address sm1 that sends in a story where people drop their comments.
DeletePls where can anyone drop the link to the first chronicle?
ReplyDeleteGo to yesterday’s chronicle. Abi na charge and bail for you dey use🤣
DeleteJust be prayerful.
ReplyDeleteAll the properties are sold, yet none of them prospe out of it? Wow
ReplyDeleteThis is deeper than what you think.. U need God
Poster I'm sorry for judging you wrongly.wishing you Divine intervention and God's directions, sending you ❤️🌹🥰
ReplyDeleteThis is why parents don’t want you to sell sometimes even when in distress
ReplyDeleteThey feel if you hold on it it can continue feeding you for life even if you don’t become extra rich
I’m sorry poster. This is tough situation but I’m very glad you are negative
Una still got broke after selling 4 buildings? Is it mismanagement of funds or what? Maybe the properties were not clean. Anyway just engage in serious prayer cos that family is war. And move far away with your kids after burying the man
ReplyDeleteI cannot believe that the entire family became worst off after this inheritance saga. Not one person prospered or knew how to handle the inheritance, and recipients dead. Whew. And they still looking and fighting, not seeing that something is deeply wrong at the core. Three divorces in a matter of short time and everybody back to square one. Yet, all their eyes are blind that they are trapped in something. What kinda bondage story did be.
ReplyDeleteLike someone else said up top please look to relocate if possible. You are obviously located on a spiritual desert. Nobody gonna grow. Get out and save yourself and your children. Let them keep whatever they desire cause it is bringing destruction anyway. Don’t look to keep nothing from that place to where you are going. I know times are hard and you saw deep suffering before but for the sake of life and peace, leave all behind. Do not keep any property for your child or nothing. Let them have it and seek for a way to get ahead. Tinubu has all kinds of things going on. You are also a widow so check with the women’s affairs dept in your state. If your husband had a pension then you should be able to collect it. Please go see what is out there and how you can get help. Look to God and get out of that desert.
Dear Poster, I totally sympathize with what you're going through.
ReplyDeleteLike I said the last time, I can only imagine what you have faced, that will make you lose weight drastically. I have been there before, so I understand.
Kindly ignore the rumours from your sisters in-law about your health and also the earlier commenters who called you names without hearing more from you.
For now, your focus should be on burying your husband with your limited resources.
You're in my prayers 🙏
Hmmmm,this is more spiritual than physical,you must draw near to God poster.
ReplyDeleteThank God that everybody when problems like this comes see them suggesting MFM prayers ,churches etc am happy even though many of them attack pastors and churches they still recognized that the church of Christ still reign over the devill🙏🙏🙏🙏
ReplyDeleteWhen you don't know the worth and effort put in something, you will never value it.
ReplyDeleteA man has seven buildings, when he passed, none of you respected the legacy and hardworking and kept even one of the buildings. You sold all and used it carelessly, fought among yourselves for a property you didn't sweat for. This is a character issue. It is also a learning experience for all to invest in their children as much as you invest in wealth. Teach them how to build their own wealth and teach them contentment. Teach them not to marry strange men and women.
That is why I don't blame some billionaires that bequeath their wealth to orphanages or pet facilities to avoid issues like this. If there is no wealth to fight for, they will face their lives.
It was greed that culminated into confusion that destroyed your family. Your husband could have shared the property equally. He refused to listen to the mom or anyone .You made a mess of a man's hard work and activated some curses.
However, it is not late. Go to God, repent and ask him for mercy. Forgive your sister-in-laws and accept Jesus as your Lord and saviour.
Truly Me
It's possible along the way there must have been cases of mismanagement of funds, but 7 properties all gone within a short time frame is something to ponder about. This appears more spiritual to me.
ReplyDeletePoster, at this juncture, draw nearer to God, secure the future of your kids (if any) through prayers and righteous living. You're going to be just fine, stay strong
I can tell you is mismanagement.
DeleteThe area(newly developed area) I live up to 5 streets were owned by a family aka family land. They kept selling plot by plot to eat till they sold all. No body was investing.