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SERIOUS FAMILY ISSUES
I have been married to my husband for 9 years, and we have three beautiful boys together. Recently, I stumbled upon a family secret that has left me worried and unsure of how to proceed.
During our last visit to his village, I noticed a hushed meeting between my husband and his family. They kept quiet immediately I entered the room. I quickly collected what I wanted to collect and Left the room. They continued the meeting this time in a low tone. It got me worried. I triied to eavesdrop but heard nothing.

 I asked my husband what they were discussing he said it's about his late brother. My spirit did not take the answer. I became worried. I stylishly asked his mother what they were discussing she said it's about there family land. This answer got me more worried. Someone is lying and something does not seem right. 

I decided to put my ears on ground from that day.

However, I later discovered that he was born out of wedlock, and his family has been keeping this secret from me.
The truth is that his biological mother left him with his grandmother, who raised him as her own.
He told me his grandmother is his mother which was a lie. His grandma had an only son (his uncle) who died leaving his young wife and underaged children. My husband became the only breadwinner and matured man of the family. He took responsibility of their needs from primary to University level.

The discussion that day was that his brothers children, who are now grown, want him out of the family house, and out of their lives. They want him to look for his dad and leave them alone claiming he's the reason their father died and that his presence is hindering their progress as children born out of wedlock hinders the progress of the freeborn in a family.

Their father started building the said house before he died and my husband completed it and also added a BQ. Their mother is instigating the children against my husband.
Things have been great between them before now. My mother in-law (his grandma) has been like a mother to me. His biological mother died few months before our marriage.
I confronted him about this findings and he said now that I know what do I want him to do? He has been keeping to himself since then 

 How do we get out of this entanglement?.
I'm torn between supporting my husband and understanding the complexities of his family problems.

Madam mind your business please, if you are not told, dont interfer.
If you are invited,, dont invite yourself,
if you are not asked, dont bring solution.
They were in a hushed family meeting, leave them to find solution and then you can support whatever decision your hubby makes.....