EVIL NEIGHBOUR
Fellow Bv's. I need your urgent input on this issue.
I left my slippers by my door step when I came back from shop last month. The next morning I asked my son to get the slippers for me to clean and wear. He went outside but did not see it.
I searched everywhere in my house but the slippers was no where to be found. I was too sure I left the slippers outside. I knocked at my neighbor's door to ask if they saw it. Everyone said no.
How can my slippers be missing?.
The compound has four flats.. It has a gate and gate man. The security man and his wife said they did not see it.
I could not take it so I decided to see a prophet who told me my close neighbor took it. This neighbor is close to me. She is my gist partner. She is married with kids while I am a single mother.
She and her husband are working while I am a trader. I called her on phone from the prophet house telling her I am ready to go to any learnt to find and deal with who took my slippers.
She advised me to take it easy and still search for it. I came back that day and saw my slippers at the back of my house.
I made so much noise in the compound that day. Cursing anyone that took that slippers. She did not say a word throughout.
She came knocking at my door the next morning and I ignored her. She called me on phone and I did not pick.
A day after she saw me and greeted me, I did not respond. Her daughter plays with my son. She is the only playmate he has here.
I have warned my 4 years son not to allow the small girl into our house again. He still calls out to the girl each time she passes with her parents.
I am not always around.
My son's school is closer to our house, He comes back from school before me, eat, bath and does his homework before I come back . How do I save myself and my innocent boy from this evil people...
If you are sure of what you are saying then ask her why she did what she did......leaving your boy alone at home is now not advisable at alll......Instead of stopping outightly to talk to her, you should have scared her very well by telling her scary things about what will happen to the person who took your slippers unless the person confesses....
As it is now, send her a message asking her what she did with your slippers when she took it
For me I will advise you not to wear the slippers again..that was how I washed my polo and spread it outside before I came back I did not see it again.. after asking everyone in the Compound they denied that they did not see it.. after 3day the person brought it outside and hang it back for me I just kuku set it ablaze.. dont use it again.
ReplyDeleteHow sure are u that she took ur slippers?
ReplyDeleteU didn't see them with her, will u just accuse someone base on what ur prophet told u without evidence?
I think u wrong her.. Honestly even if what ur prophet told u is true, why not just adjust and stop telling her things about yourself not by not answering her greetings..
Hope u didn't wear the slippers again and since u don't trust her again why leave ur son at home with them?
Poster I would advise you take the battle in prayer and stop keeping malice and causing issues knowingly. A prophet told you about her taking it, you should thank God you had the foreknowledge of it, just free your neighbor and be a hello hi fellow to her but no close friendship again with her that's all.
DeleteGoing to prophet for ordinary slippers?? U must be a very wicked person urself. Suwah!!
DeleteUna get dog for compound?
ReplyDeleteYou sure say no be dog run that operation?
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 no be lie. Especially if you wicked the dog
DeleteMy question is who minds your 4yo when he comes back from school, when he baths, eats till you return home?
ReplyDeleteI understand that you live in a seemingly secured environment cuz of the security man and few tenants but baby boy is a child.
Please protect your son.
Commit yourself to fasting and prayer.
Don't use the footwear again
I was shocked at this part. 4yr old!
DeleteMy dear, I'm also worried for the boy, a 4year old doing all that? By himself? Wonderful
DeleteAS in ehhn I weak . A 4 yr old . This mother is highly irresponsible. Instead of looking for solution to a real problem like child endangerment and neglect she’s seeking advice on kontagura slippers of 1k.
DeleteNot only do you leave your 4yo to come home alone, he stays unattended to without a minder for hours .
DeleteYou are gradually teaching your son to keep malice.
What is the little gal's offence?
You have separated your son from the nebor's daughter, what will keep your son engaged/occupied while he's home alone for several hours before you return?
What if there's an emergency while you are away.
I am trying to imagine your utterances in the compound after the revelation from the Prophet.
Your nebors will probably not look at you same way again given the level of words her to stay away from you for your behaviour towards his wife and the innocent lil oneou poured out and avoid you since you dey suspect them.
Our nebors are our first family.
If you have an emergency,who will come to your rescue before your family members.
If you can, apologize to all your nebors, maintain a cordial relationship with everyone.
Except you intend to move away from the compound,you may not get the same setting again.
What exactly is ur plan?
If I was that ur nebors husband,I will advised
I am the poster. I have a maid. Thanks.
DeleteThat’s when I decided she is telling fibs… how can a 4 year old go home by themself, eat, bath and do homework themself… what homework does a 4 year old have… so the poor child is left in the house alone??? That’s even risky
DeleteThat's what I came to type eeee, just saw the comment saying she has a maid, I wanted to come yab you well before.
DeleteI'm glad you have a maid o
Deletei hope you did not use that slippers again after the whole story behind it. Please leave innocent children out of your drama, do not put hate in your son's mind. Their daughter also did not do anything to you so please free both children.
ReplyDeleteYou should have confronted that woman since you are sure the prophet knows who took that slippers. No need to keep malice with her even if she is the one that took your slippers. Do not stop greeting her but just stay far from her. Stop keeping your slippers outside your house, is very wrong.
If she was so close to you as you described;why do you think she needs the stress of getting your slippers to hurt you?
ReplyDeleteWhen she has direct access to you,your child and probably food or snacks she gifts your child?
What does friendship mean to you?
Why make friends with people you can't trust?
I would still tell my friend to calm down if for instance he calls and tell me he would go any length to repay evil with another evil because of slippers.
That's why I advice people to just be good with your neighbour,but don't allow the proximity of allowing visits and all,cos a lot of people are looking for who to blame for whatever is happening in their life.
You and your pastor are not good people;that woman needs to avoid your family,for accusing/judging her even when you are friends with her,without evidence and without hearing any side of her story.
@MARTINS
please how do i get a blog ID
Delete@Martins, the Bible says your enemies are within your household.
DeleteMatthew 10:36
Delete[36]and ‘a man’s enemies will be those of his own household.’
Martins, you have a valid point but in this case, I believe the neighbour woman is guilty. I have had such experiences several times when people I least expect because they seem to be doing better in life turn out to be deadly enemies. I believe the prophet and the woman acted guilty as narrated.
DeletePoster, please greet your neighbours and stop getting too familiar with neighbours in the future, it hardly ends well. Do you really leave your 4 year old son to come home by himself and stay alone???😳😳😳, I hope that was a misinformation, don't allow him play with the girl again since her parents can't be trusted.
You could have listened to her, she probably wanted to confess or tell you she mistakenly took it, it's also possible that the children played with it and she wanted to explain to you how it got to her.
ReplyDeleteNo matter how upset you are, please try to give listening ears, it's a level of maturity.
I thought of this too, may be the children or anyone took the slippers to her side, or she even picked it for you from any side of the house. I don’t like friends like you abeg.
DeleteI knocked at her door to ask if she or the children saw the slippers and she said no
DeleteNigerians we hail thee so religious but still rule by fear and deceit .
ReplyDeleteAll I saw is the part where you implied you leave your 4yr old alone @ home. Pls stop! If I were you I would simply return back to sender by prayers and burn up the slippers but something tells me she probably just kinda stole/borrowed them and was only too ashamed to admit it.
ReplyDeleteI’m wondering if she ment 14yrs cos I can’t even leave my almost 7yrs old alone 😳 abi na me dey dull
DeleteFan Emmanuel
Thank you. I had to go back and re-read make e no be like say my eyes dey deceive me. I understand things are hard for you but he is too young to be left by himself. You could be arrested for this and your son taken away in some countries-please Sis find an alternative.
DeleteHe is all that I have. I don't leave him alone. I have a maid. She picks him from school. Attend to him before I come back.
DeleteThat's the shocking thing in this whole gist. My almost 8 years old, I can't allow him go to school alone and the school is not far from home. Poster, please pay more attention to your son.
DeletePlease for now once your son closes from school he shouldn't be allowed to stay alone at home look for somewhere safe for him to stay till you're back home
ReplyDeleteNigerians we hail thee so religious but rule by fear and deceit ,how are you sure your prophet is not a liar ;anyway why didn't you call her since she is your friend and tell him what the prophet told you or even take her to the prophet,so that the man can tell her by himself;
ReplyDeleteYour 4 years old son comes home eat and bath by himself 😱?. Or was that a typo?.
ReplyDeleteI think she meant to type 14.bcos how? A four year old bathing, eating,doing his homework and staying all alone at home?madam u just pissed me off.haba,dat is so unfair of u.human rights should look for u for jail term.cant ur son stay with u in d location u trade?
DeleteWas surprised too. Pls Mama, that child needs a caregiver. On the other hand, you could have listened to your neighbour's side of d story. Maybe she borrowed it or was a lost and found thing.
DeleteWe live in an evil world,where everyone is a suspect.
ReplyDeleteDon't include the kids in your battle,they can play in the compound instead of anyone's flat.
The way this new generation parents are carefree over their children beats my imagination.😩
ReplyDeleteIf she is close to you, then ask her. And what if the prophet is wrong about who took the slippers, what next??
ReplyDeleteLol this happened in the compound. My dog took the neighbours shoe and played with it. Neighbour came and said it was something fetish. Africans and our dark minds
ReplyDeletePls did the dog take the two shoes. I am the poster pls
DeleteWhat if she took it to rock it for a while or indirectly claim it? Some people don't understand boundaries in friendship. It happens a lot to people who live in hostels and they are not accused of witchcraft. I am not trying to trivialise your concerns (which are valid BTW), but relying on the words of your prophet is foolhardy.
ReplyDeleteSometimes follow your instinct
ReplyDeleteNot every time you give people benefit of doubt
Your heart is really pained cause this is like the biblical story of the man that had a lot but took his neighbors only thing.
It hurts for someone to do that.
Exactly...some people can have the whole world yet will be resentful of the cup of garri in your hand. Note them and avoid them immediately.
DeleteHa, this one strong. What would she have carried it for. Don't too believe any prophet. A lot of them are just liars causing problems for people
ReplyDeleteWhat makes u think ur prophet is saying d truth?
ReplyDeleteReason I dnt like visiting all dis prophets...u go just dey fight and look innocent people with bad eyes.
I am not saying all prophets are fake oo...but d truthful ones among them are not many
Hmmm, Madam, the way you are angry, hopefully you will take out time to be extra patient when reading these our responses here so that you don't miss out on important information.
ReplyDeleteThe fact that you are still living in that compound please, try as much as possible to greet and not keep malice with anyone regardless of if you have issues with anyone or not.
How are you sure that your prophet is right? Don't be so sure unless the Holy Spirit told you who stole the slippers
When you see the slippers don't wear it again, stop keeping your slippers or things outside
Remember that your son and her child plays together, do not stop them from playing together, especially if you are going to be leaving your son alone in the house when you are in your business place, more reason why you can't be having malice or fighting in that compound.
Person wey get children no dey fight with neighbors oh, I have a lot to say but let me send these ones.
For the sake of your child at home, no fighting even if you are sure it is her who took it
Poster don't use the slippers again,I will advise you talk to your neighbor and know why she's calling you.
ReplyDelete🤣🤣🤣 Na wah o
ReplyDeletePoster you mean your 4yr old boy comes back from school all by himself, as in 4yr old o! Nne na wa o.
ReplyDeleteAnyways, stay far away from that your neighbor or better still move out.
Tomorrow when something happens to your 4yr old with this level of carelessness you will start running around to fake prophets to help you in pointing accusing fingers at innocent people.
ReplyDeleteI don’t even know if religion is to be blamed in this type of mindset you have or illiteracy but in all I avoid people like you in my life.
Imagine having time going to prophet on top missing slippers but you will leave a 4yr old alone at home Everyday for hrs to feed and bath himself.
Creating enabling environment for unfortunate incidents.
It’s people like this poster that wake up one day and collude with their pastors to call their mothers a witch .
DeleteYvonne honestly I'm shocked I'm not even undermining the fact her slippers is missing but the extent to look for it and instantly calling the neighbor to attack, you ll left a whole child all by himself even if he is 14 without supervision, and this time around you re nit talking to anybody cos of slippers.
DeletePoster stop patronizing these kind of prophets pple that will tell you that your mum is a witch, besides since you re not always at home I think your immediate neighbors should be your nearest type of family',
This your attitude will make your neighbors to avoid you if there is emergency everyone will look away, if anything is happening to your son.
Be t peace with your neighbors even if it's hello hi you even want to stop your son's friendship with them be wise ,be careful with them but don't be enemies,the world is just a small place, take things easy
Burn the slippers
You have no proof she took your footwear for now because if you confront her with such allegations,she will deny.instead pray and cover yourself and family with the blood of Jesus Christ.let your attitude towards her speak for you.keep her far away.you really do not have to keep malice but be wiser now and never draw her close to you again.
ReplyDeleteI am more worried that you leave your 4 year old unattended. See the way you're talking about 4 year old like he's 14. If the same neighbor didn't harm your little son you leave practically alone at home, so it's your slippers she will collect to harm you?. Take care of your son, he needs your attention!
ReplyDeleteImagine ooo. She doesn’t not know how else to harm you but to steal slippers. You are a horrible human
Deletethe woman is a stark illiterate and a religious fanatic. nonsense story she told. reason i avoid very religious people, their sense is backwards
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DeleteI don't leave my son alone. I have a maid that attends to him.
Anon 19:04. The fact that I decided to own a shop does not make me a stark illiterate why the insult
There is something called enemy within, I like that you're very catious. Be very careful, bad neighbours plenty, I wish I can write my experiences with you concerning neighbours that will laugh,eat,gist with you and still stab you. I am just worried about your son,make sure u find a solution to that and I wont forget to add that, please don't involve children when it comes to adult fight.
ReplyDeleteShe can play with your son but there should be boundaries, like entering your house and all should stop.
What did prophet told you she did with your slipper? because this prophecy is incomplete. seriously people like you should be avoided.
ReplyDeleteYou can afford to leave a four yrs old all alone, but so mindful of your slippers what a mother you are. When you tell tell people to mind their business gossip and busy body will not allow them.
ReplyDeleteAnd na Dunlop slippers o.
DeleteJoyfully, I don't leave my son alone. We have a maid.
DeleteAnon 19:50. Yes it's Dunlop slippers. It's mine. That is what I can afford and I am proud of it.
Thanks
nonsense story, nonsense talk from an illiterate and imaginary prophet and neighbor. fool
ReplyDeleteBe clamming down. Not everyone that owns a shop is an illiterate.
DeleteShooter gyal
Delete21:35, is everything alright with you?
Deleteplease ask your prophet Nigerians fate in the hands of tinubu, fool
ReplyDeleteI’m not mad at you about leaving the child alone
ReplyDeleteIt’s not like you left him to go play
You are hustling to feed him
But for your sake and his sake try to find another way asap. You are playing with fire if you’re leaving a 4 year old alone
No matter how mature a child is he will still display a child’s way at some point
I can't deal biko! What nonsense, Prophet this, Prophet that...no wonder Africa is trailing behind! Always on the look out for enemies...claiming to be Christians yet ruled by fear!
ReplyDeleteAbegi
DeleteNot all are fake
She knows why she believes him
Americans also have psychics and prophets
Me and God have agreed from the day my mother gave birth to me that I will NEVER visit any prophet or soothsayer for any reason. Anyone holy spirit did not reveal to me in prayer is not for my knowledge.
ReplyDeletePoster. Your prophet might be right, , he might be wrong. Your slippers was taken and returned. Use prayer to cancel anything you think was the reason they took your slippers.
Keep it at a hello, hi relationship with your neighbor. Not picking her calls or answering her greetings was wrong. Anyone that wants to harm you will go to any learnt even when you don't greet them. Hand your fears over to God. Be more careful with your belongings in the compound. Don't spread cloths outside.
Prophecy is a gift of the spirit according to the Bible anyway
DeleteSo if you reject prophets that’s on you
Me and God have agreed from the day my mother gave birth to me that I will NEVER visit any prophet or soothsayer for any reason. Anyone holy spirit did not reveal to me in prayer is not for my knowledge.
ReplyDeletePoster. Your prophet might be right, , he might be wrong. Your slippers was taken and returned. Use prayer to cancel anything you think was the reason they took your slippers.
Keep it at a hello, hi relationship with your neighbor. Not picking her calls or answering her greetings was wrong. Anyone that wants to harm you will go to any learnt even when you don't greet them. Hand your fears over to God. Be more careful with your belongings in the compound. Don't spread cloths outside.
Nothing musa no go see for gate, may we not live a life of prophets help me check, keep browsing you go still see waitin you the find
ReplyDeleteNa waoooo
ReplyDeletePls do not wear that Slippers again oo
Put Anointing Oil and burn it ooo
It is well ooo
Hello iya boys
Do you say 4 years old son, mbanu this is so wrong. Change his school to where you dey sell things after school pick him, let him stay with you till you close or better school discuss with one of the teachers to go home with him when you close you will come and pick him. Till you do the needful I will now advice you.
ReplyDeletePoster, this scenario has happened to me and after the third day, the slippers miraculously appeared under my bed after I went out and returned home on a rainy day. It was placed expertly close to my boxes at the edge of my bed, so all I needed to do was be fooled and then drag it with and wear. Slippers that I searched all
ReplyDeleteOver the house for. The people
Sitting outside when I left it and went inside all disappeared when I came outside to wear it.
Listen if you put your foot in that slippers, you are in trouble and I’m sure you know what I mean. That slippers does not belong
To you anymore. Do not touch it and make sure you burn it with psalms and prayers and back to sender. The person who took it is watching and waiting.
Poster, don't you think you should have a talk with your neighbor and hear what she has to say since your ''prophet'' confirmed she took it. Do not teach your young child malice, it is wrong.
ReplyDeleteAnd please desist from visiting soothsayers, it is wrong as well. The devil doesn't give free gifts ohh
Bible has nothing against prophets
DeleteIn fact most of the greatest in the Bible were prophets
Where are you guys getting this anti prophecy gospel from?
Poster the attitude you displayed over this woll definitely make your neighbors to avoid you..
ReplyDeleteAnyway don't use the slippers again.
May I never come across people like u. U must have a bad mind for u to instantly imagine the worst. A prophet?? For slippers?? May God save us!!
ReplyDeleteWhy do some pretend that they don’t know many Nigerians are evil? They even advertised unprintable wickedness disguised as “help” on that toxic Instagram blog, the reason I rarely went there before it folded up! “ Buy this to attract any man”, “to get contract”, etc The devil has no free gift & there are no shortcuts to those things.
ReplyDeleteVoodoo is all over the globe, Haitians, Cubans, etc are into voodoo, many African countries & most ethnic groups are into local wickedness. My late uncle’s slipper went missing on his visit to the village, for decades. He was a CAC pastor with his own church back then when mammon was still identified as the real enemy. Decades later, the “slipper thief” went to ask him who his God is, he served the living God.
I know someone whose wedding ring got missing, she looked all over for it in the house where she was staying with family while waiting for her husband to process her papers to join him abroad, decades ago. She suddenly found it days later & made the mistake that marked a turning point in her life by wearing it. You do not have to believe it but her hands “withered”. She got here & of course after running tests, regardless of the spiritual, there must be a diagnosis. She was diagnosed with an autoimmune disease where the body cells “automatically destroys itself”, incurable. She never was able to work or have any children because of the condition & meds. I did not read it, I heard from the victims & in the case of the ring, I know the person very well.
One of my staff when I was in Nigeria went with her family to their home town for Christmas, her sister’s shoes went missing, she was a teenager then. They never found it. She is over sixty now & never got married or had children to my knowledge. Shoes are linked to marital situation & my sincere hope is that this poster never wore that shoe again & if she did she should go to prayer city. The devil doesn’t care how educated or sophisticated you are, in fact he likes you to deny that he is capable of being his wicked natural self & pretend he has no agents among men. God has agents. The devil does, as he loves to counterfeit, that is what threw Lucifer down from his former place of glory as choir leader in heaven. Be sober, be vigilant. You should move from the house. To those pretending to be more westernized than westerners, they have them here.
Attend a Dr Olukoya mfm crusade in the US & see how many Nigerians are waiting daily to be prayed for. White Americans attend & testify too after intense prayers to God in Jesus name as it is written. No shortcuts. There is wickedness in the heart of many. Poster, I hope & wish you never wore the slippers. Stop going to “prophets”, have a relationship with God through Jesus Christ. One of the reasons many like Dr Olukoya’s ministry is the DIY (Do-it-yourself: Pray for yourself method). They will teach you the Bible, guide you, make you pray but nobody will see vision for you, God will reveal it if he wants to. I have seen Caucasian 🇺🇸s testify in mfm here during a program or after using Prayer Rain with their Bible.
There is only one God & One Mediator between God & man. That mediator is Jesus Christ & even Jesus said “this type does not go except by prayer & fasting”. Many are running their life race on deficit & suffer from birth to old age because some evil agents in their household or some generational curse has done havoc since they were born. God saves, heals, blesses and delivers even today & in all countries. To those who comment before reading prior comments, she leaves her 4-year old with a Maid, not alone. Move from that house if you can afford it & avoid malice & unforgiveness because “we wrestle not against flesh & blood”. No need to be friends but good neighbors. 🇺🇸s in the suburbs say “ never get too close to your neighbor”, it’s not easy to sell & move if you have serious differences so they keep it at the polite block party level✌🏾
Dear poster,
ReplyDeleteWe live in a wicked world and I understand your fears.
Pls don’t wear that slippers but don’t just throw it away. You have to pray and return back to sender. Annoint the slippers and burn it. Use your mouth to pray on it. Do not take that slippers back to that prophet.
Do not take it back. That is what I am led to tell you. It may be too late.
Let’s take a look at the situation with your neighbour for one instance. To uh are justified if your prophet is right. But imagine for one second that your prophet is wrong, and imagine the damage and rift you have caused to your friendship.
You think your neighbour too has no prophet? Imagine if her own prophet accuses you of trying to kill her too, you are not? Are you?
Imagine if tables were turned and she believed you wanted to harm her and suddenly stopped talking to you and keeping her daughter from your son.
As I have said you have no proof except your prophet. Your prophet is not God oh. Take it from me who have had several prophets tell me stuff that were not true.