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Tuesday, July 16, 2024

Boredom Eliminating Post

 

43 comments:

  1. Yep. I have regretted dating someone. He was an a&&.

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    1. Same here. My worst dating experience ever. And the fact that it didn't last long makes me wonder what would have become of me, if it last longer than it did. Hian🀦‍♂️

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    2. Same here
      I still ask myself sometimes, what has gotten into me πŸ˜”

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    3. My dear, thank God it didn't.πŸ€—πŸ€—

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  2. Yes, especially heart ♥ matters

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  3. Had a chance to relocate to another country bt that would mean separating from my spouse for about a year. My sponsor didn't like the idea,neither did I. I'm still in Naija. I wish I had convinced my sponsor.

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    1. A year, if this would have been a life changing journey then your spouse is wicked except he/she didn't know the implication. This is why we should marry someone with low mental capability they will drag you down with them knowingly or unknowlingly

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  4. I regretted dating my first boyfriend... It was a just waste of time

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  5. Yes, I have regretted speaking hurtful words.

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  6. My mum and I fought some months before she died. I went home around May and told her I would be having my baby in warri, so I can rest and she can help me with both my kids. She said "fide this my body nor strong. Una just dey see me dey struggle, the body nor strong"... I was pissed. "Mummy na leg dey pain you na. Onos(my bestie) mama get the same arthritis. Na she dey look Onos children!"
    My mum "I nor strong. dey with your mother inlaw"... I went back to ph angry. We talked everyday like we normally do. But she knew I wasn't happy. Around August ending, she started asking me to come back home when she saw how stressed I was. "come make I manage body look you my pikin"
    Me stubborn goat!!!😭😭... "Nor worry only me go take care of myself"... She died September 18th!
    I hate myself for not going home. I really hate myself for it. Maybe she wouldn't have traveled to Benin where she died because she would've thought that "oh my pikin get belle for house. make I nor go"😭

    I regret that awful decision I took.😞

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    1. Thanks for sharing this painful episode in your life. We can all learn from what you shared, so thank you and know that she loved you to the endπŸ™πŸΎ

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    2. Chai 🀦‍♂️🀦‍♂️🀦‍♂️....... Keep staying strong, Fidel.

      May she continue to rest in peace.

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    3. Don't beat yourself too hard dear, what will be will be, mama would still have gone to be with the Lord as at the time it happened if it's the will of God πŸ€—.

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    4. Ehya,
      Kai I really do feel your pain dear @Fidel.
      Pls learn to forgive yourself

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    5. Hmmm, Fidel, pele! It is well.
      I don't know what to say to you but it is well.

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    6. πŸ«‚ with time you'd be able to let it go.

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    7. πŸ«‚ with time you'd be able to let it go.

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    8. I regret not telling my late mother I LOVE YOU enough!
      When my kids hug, kiss or tell me they love me, I just console myself and pretend that I am the one telling her those words, and then it make me feel better.

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    9. So sorry Fidel ...pls don't blame urself.

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    10. Sending you hugs babe. πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—.

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    11. So sorry about your experience. I can understand your regret cos I had kinda similar experience too
      Even though in my own case, it was my elder cousin who fell seriously Ill and I refused to go visit despite plead because she neglected me one time I was younger and a lil sick too but instead was watching movies

      I travelled, I was there when I received the news of her passing. It hurts so much that I regret not voicing my grievance to her about what she did
      Since then, no matter what you do to me I say my mind and keep it moving

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    12. πŸ₯ΊπŸ₯ΊπŸ₯Ί it's well dearest, please don't blame yourself too much πŸ€—πŸ€—

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    13. It is well Fidel,thanks for sharing,I learnt something from your experience..
      The Good Lord is your strength...

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    14. So sorry Fidel, don't beat yourself up, with time you will be fine
      Sending you lots of hugs πŸ€—

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  7. I regret dating my ex, that guy made me cry so much.. I have enough sense now 😁

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  8. So many,but I believe it all worked for my good and helped me make better choices.

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  9. So many but the most painful one is the federal government job I rejected because I just got married and did not want to leave my husband ( I will have to relocate). I thought I would get another job fast but here I am today. In all I bless God.

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    1. Lolllll. Me leave job or money for man??
      Man????????
      LMAOOOO.
      Man that will fling you aside like soaked pad if he gets half the chance?

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  10. Splendor creations are you me ? Haaa you just saved me the stress of typing except that I teach now in a private school. Also got a PGDE.

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  11. I regret not pursuing a serious relationship with someone who seemed lovely years back. It ended at 'hello'. I didn't put in enough effort for the friendship to deepen because I felt I wasn't God enough for you. I was struggling in so many areas of life, then. Thoughts of how to better my life and be a responsible human being burdened my mind.
    Now, I am seriously ready, but most I have met so far do not seem to come close.
    I think of 'what ifs' all the time. If I had put my inferiority and inadequacies aside. Just 'what if'. To think you never crossed my mind until this year when I decided to look back and reminisce on my past.
    If we meet again, and we are both still single, and I discover we are a perfect fit that God approves, God knows our love would be amazing.
    If I knew what I know now, I would have boldly chased after you because you shyly tried to, etc.
    Maybe it wasn't meant to be, which I have finally accepted. Then, I believe God has the best one for me, and it just isn't you. The one he has for me, I know he would make our path cross soonest. And the love we would share will make me understand why it has to be just the both of us and not me with anyone else or you. And I will look back and laugh at myself for regretting I missed out on you.

    Even at that, I pray you are alive, hale, and hearty.

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  12. I regret not pursuing a serious relationship with someone who seemed lovely years back. It ended at 'hello'. I didn't put in enough effort for the friendship to deepen because I felt I wasn't God enough for you. I was struggling in so many areas of life, then. Thoughts of how to better my life and be a responsible human being burdened my mind.
    Now, I am seriously ready, but most I have met so far do not seem to come close.
    I think of 'what ifs' all the time. If I had put my inferiority and inadequacies aside. Just 'what if'. To think you never crossed my mind until this year when I decided to look back and reminisce on my past.
    If we meet again, and we are both still single, and I discover we are a perfect fit that God approves, God knows our love would be amazing.
    If I knew what I know now, I would have boldly chased after you because you shyly tried to, etc.
    Maybe it wasn't meant to be, which I have finally accepted. Then, I believe God has the best one for me, and it just isn't you. The one he has for me, I know he would make our path cross soonest. And the love we would share will make me understand why it has to be just the both of us and not me with anyone else or you. And I will look back and laugh at myself for regretting I missed out on you.

    Even at that, I pray you are alive, hale, and hearty.

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  13. Oh yes I have. My first boyfriend show me shege banza promax. Not a good memory at all.

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  14. I regretted not traveling to Canada for study in 2004,my dad was ready to sell one of his cars so I could go but I was scared,I could be sold into prostitution due to what I was watching on NAPTIP program back then and we also didn't have any family or friends in Canada as at then.....by now I would have being a Canadian Citizen.

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  15. I have a couple of them.
    I regretted not relocating with the NGO I did my industrial training with, I wish I had someone to advise me then.

    I regretted resigning from my job in PH because I fell down on my way to work while pregnant with my son, I sustained injuries though, husband said it's a bad omen, if it had been Lagos, honestly I wouldn't have resigned, but it's a place I don't really know the terrain then, so I agreed with him, here I am back in Lagos with no job yet.

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  16. Yes o, I wish I never gave birth for dis useless man, I wished I aborted back then and moved on with my life, now I've used all my savings
    I'm so ashamed πŸ˜₯

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  17. It is well with me.
    So many experience..
    I regret not staying back when I travelled to lagos..

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  18. A lot of times. I wish I started pushing japa plans since

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