Same here. My worst dating experience ever. And the fact that it didn't last long makes me wonder what would have become of me, if it last longer than it did. Hianπ€¦♂️
Had a chance to relocate to another country bt that would mean separating from my spouse for about a year. My sponsor didn't like the idea,neither did I. I'm still in Naija. I wish I had convinced my sponsor.
A year, if this would have been a life changing journey then your spouse is wicked except he/she didn't know the implication. This is why we should marry someone with low mental capability they will drag you down with them knowingly or unknowlingly
My mum and I fought some months before she died. I went home around May and told her I would be having my baby in warri, so I can rest and she can help me with both my kids. She said "fide this my body nor strong. Una just dey see me dey struggle, the body nor strong"... I was pissed. "Mummy na leg dey pain you na. Onos(my bestie) mama get the same arthritis. Na she dey look Onos children!" My mum "I nor strong. dey with your mother inlaw"... I went back to ph angry. We talked everyday like we normally do. But she knew I wasn't happy. Around August ending, she started asking me to come back home when she saw how stressed I was. "come make I manage body look you my pikin" Me stubborn goat!!!ππ... "Nor worry only me go take care of myself"... She died September 18th! I hate myself for not going home. I really hate myself for it. Maybe she wouldn't have traveled to Benin where she died because she would've thought that "oh my pikin get belle for house. make I nor go"π
Thanks for sharing this painful episode in your life. We can all learn from what you shared, so thank you and know that she loved you to the endππΎ
Don't beat yourself too hard dear, what will be will be, mama would still have gone to be with the Lord as at the time it happened if it's the will of God π€.
I regret not telling my late mother I LOVE YOU enough! When my kids hug, kiss or tell me they love me, I just console myself and pretend that I am the one telling her those words, and then it make me feel better.
So sorry about your experience. I can understand your regret cos I had kinda similar experience too Even though in my own case, it was my elder cousin who fell seriously Ill and I refused to go visit despite plead because she neglected me one time I was younger and a lil sick too but instead was watching movies
I travelled, I was there when I received the news of her passing. It hurts so much that I regret not voicing my grievance to her about what she did Since then, no matter what you do to me I say my mind and keep it moving
So many but the most painful one is the federal government job I rejected because I just got married and did not want to leave my husband ( I will have to relocate). I thought I would get another job fast but here I am today. In all I bless God.
I regret not pursuing a serious relationship with someone who seemed lovely years back. It ended at 'hello'. I didn't put in enough effort for the friendship to deepen because I felt I wasn't God enough for you. I was struggling in so many areas of life, then. Thoughts of how to better my life and be a responsible human being burdened my mind. Now, I am seriously ready, but most I have met so far do not seem to come close. I think of 'what ifs' all the time. If I had put my inferiority and inadequacies aside. Just 'what if'. To think you never crossed my mind until this year when I decided to look back and reminisce on my past. If we meet again, and we are both still single, and I discover we are a perfect fit that God approves, God knows our love would be amazing. If I knew what I know now, I would have boldly chased after you because you shyly tried to, etc. Maybe it wasn't meant to be, which I have finally accepted. Then, I believe God has the best one for me, and it just isn't you. The one he has for me, I know he would make our path cross soonest. And the love we would share will make me understand why it has to be just the both of us and not me with anyone else or you. And I will look back and laugh at myself for regretting I missed out on you.
Even at that, I pray you are alive, hale, and hearty.
I regret not pursuing a serious relationship with someone who seemed lovely years back. It ended at 'hello'. I didn't put in enough effort for the friendship to deepen because I felt I wasn't God enough for you. I was struggling in so many areas of life, then. Thoughts of how to better my life and be a responsible human being burdened my mind. Now, I am seriously ready, but most I have met so far do not seem to come close. I think of 'what ifs' all the time. If I had put my inferiority and inadequacies aside. Just 'what if'. To think you never crossed my mind until this year when I decided to look back and reminisce on my past. If we meet again, and we are both still single, and I discover we are a perfect fit that God approves, God knows our love would be amazing. If I knew what I know now, I would have boldly chased after you because you shyly tried to, etc. Maybe it wasn't meant to be, which I have finally accepted. Then, I believe God has the best one for me, and it just isn't you. The one he has for me, I know he would make our path cross soonest. And the love we would share will make me understand why it has to be just the both of us and not me with anyone else or you. And I will look back and laugh at myself for regretting I missed out on you.
Even at that, I pray you are alive, hale, and hearty.
I regretted not traveling to Canada for study in 2004,my dad was ready to sell one of his cars so I could go but I was scared,I could be sold into prostitution due to what I was watching on NAPTIP program back then and we also didn't have any family or friends in Canada as at then.....by now I would have being a Canadian Citizen.
I have a couple of them. I regretted not relocating with the NGO I did my industrial training with, I wish I had someone to advise me then.
I regretted resigning from my job in PH because I fell down on my way to work while pregnant with my son, I sustained injuries though, husband said it's a bad omen, if it had been Lagos, honestly I wouldn't have resigned, but it's a place I don't really know the terrain then, so I agreed with him, here I am back in Lagos with no job yet.
Yes o, I wish I never gave birth for dis useless man, I wished I aborted back then and moved on with my life, now I've used all my savings I'm so ashamed π₯
Disclaimer: Comments And Opinions On Any Part Of This Website Are Opinions Of The Blog Commenters Or Anonymous Persons And They Do Not Represent The Opinion Of StellaDimokoKorkus.com
Pictures and culled stories posted on this site are given credit and if a story is yours but credited to the wrong source,Please contact Stelladimokokorkus.com and corrections will be made..
If you have a complaint or a story,Please Contact StellaDimokoKorkus.com Via
Sdimokokorkus@gmail.com Mobile Phone +4915210724141
Yep. I have regretted dating someone. He was an a&&.
ReplyDeleteSame here. My worst dating experience ever. And the fact that it didn't last long makes me wonder what would have become of me, if it last longer than it did. Hianπ€¦♂️
DeleteSame here
DeleteI still ask myself sometimes, what has gotten into me π
My dear, thank God it didn't.π€π€
DeleteYes, especially heart ♥ matters
ReplyDeleteHad a chance to relocate to another country bt that would mean separating from my spouse for about a year. My sponsor didn't like the idea,neither did I. I'm still in Naija. I wish I had convinced my sponsor.
ReplyDeleteA year, if this would have been a life changing journey then your spouse is wicked except he/she didn't know the implication. This is why we should marry someone with low mental capability they will drag you down with them knowingly or unknowlingly
DeleteI regretted dating my first boyfriend... It was a just waste of time
ReplyDeleteIt was just a waste of time
DeleteYes
ReplyDeleteHello iya boys
Yes, I have regretted speaking hurtful words.
ReplyDeleteMy mum and I fought some months before she died. I went home around May and told her I would be having my baby in warri, so I can rest and she can help me with both my kids. She said "fide this my body nor strong. Una just dey see me dey struggle, the body nor strong"... I was pissed. "Mummy na leg dey pain you na. Onos(my bestie) mama get the same arthritis. Na she dey look Onos children!"
ReplyDeleteMy mum "I nor strong. dey with your mother inlaw"... I went back to ph angry. We talked everyday like we normally do. But she knew I wasn't happy. Around August ending, she started asking me to come back home when she saw how stressed I was. "come make I manage body look you my pikin"
Me stubborn goat!!!ππ... "Nor worry only me go take care of myself"... She died September 18th!
I hate myself for not going home. I really hate myself for it. Maybe she wouldn't have traveled to Benin where she died because she would've thought that "oh my pikin get belle for house. make I nor go"π
I regret that awful decision I took.π
Thanks for sharing this painful episode in your life. We can all learn from what you shared, so thank you and know that she loved you to the endππΎ
DeleteAwwww
DeleteChai π€¦♂️π€¦♂️π€¦♂️....... Keep staying strong, Fidel.
DeleteMay she continue to rest in peace.
It's well π«
DeleteDon't beat yourself too hard dear, what will be will be, mama would still have gone to be with the Lord as at the time it happened if it's the will of God π€.
DeleteEhya,
DeleteKai I really do feel your pain dear @Fidel.
Pls learn to forgive yourself
Hmmm, Fidel, pele! It is well.
DeleteI don't know what to say to you but it is well.
π« with time you'd be able to let it go.
Deleteπ« with time you'd be able to let it go.
DeleteI regret not telling my late mother I LOVE YOU enough!
DeleteWhen my kids hug, kiss or tell me they love me, I just console myself and pretend that I am the one telling her those words, and then it make me feel better.
So sorry Fidel ...pls don't blame urself.
DeleteSending you hugs babe. π€π€π€π€π€π€π€π€π€.
DeleteSo sorry about your experience. I can understand your regret cos I had kinda similar experience too
DeleteEven though in my own case, it was my elder cousin who fell seriously Ill and I refused to go visit despite plead because she neglected me one time I was younger and a lil sick too but instead was watching movies
I travelled, I was there when I received the news of her passing. It hurts so much that I regret not voicing my grievance to her about what she did
Since then, no matter what you do to me I say my mind and keep it moving
π₯Ίπ₯Ίπ₯Ί it's well dearest, please don't blame yourself too much π€π€
DeleteIt is well Fidel,thanks for sharing,I learnt something from your experience..
DeleteThe Good Lord is your strength...
So sorry Fidel, don't beat yourself up, with time you will be fine
DeleteSending you lots of hugs π€
I regret dating my ex, that guy made me cry so much.. I have enough sense now π
ReplyDeleteSo many,but I believe it all worked for my good and helped me make better choices.
ReplyDeleteSo many but the most painful one is the federal government job I rejected because I just got married and did not want to leave my husband ( I will have to relocate). I thought I would get another job fast but here I am today. In all I bless God.
ReplyDeleteLolllll. Me leave job or money for man??
DeleteMan????????
LMAOOOO.
Man that will fling you aside like soaked pad if he gets half the chance?
Them plenty oo.
ReplyDeleteSplendor creations are you me ? Haaa you just saved me the stress of typing except that I teach now in a private school. Also got a PGDE.
ReplyDeleteI regret not pursuing a serious relationship with someone who seemed lovely years back. It ended at 'hello'. I didn't put in enough effort for the friendship to deepen because I felt I wasn't God enough for you. I was struggling in so many areas of life, then. Thoughts of how to better my life and be a responsible human being burdened my mind.
ReplyDeleteNow, I am seriously ready, but most I have met so far do not seem to come close.
I think of 'what ifs' all the time. If I had put my inferiority and inadequacies aside. Just 'what if'. To think you never crossed my mind until this year when I decided to look back and reminisce on my past.
If we meet again, and we are both still single, and I discover we are a perfect fit that God approves, God knows our love would be amazing.
If I knew what I know now, I would have boldly chased after you because you shyly tried to, etc.
Maybe it wasn't meant to be, which I have finally accepted. Then, I believe God has the best one for me, and it just isn't you. The one he has for me, I know he would make our path cross soonest. And the love we would share will make me understand why it has to be just the both of us and not me with anyone else or you. And I will look back and laugh at myself for regretting I missed out on you.
Even at that, I pray you are alive, hale, and hearty.
I regret not pursuing a serious relationship with someone who seemed lovely years back. It ended at 'hello'. I didn't put in enough effort for the friendship to deepen because I felt I wasn't God enough for you. I was struggling in so many areas of life, then. Thoughts of how to better my life and be a responsible human being burdened my mind.
ReplyDeleteNow, I am seriously ready, but most I have met so far do not seem to come close.
I think of 'what ifs' all the time. If I had put my inferiority and inadequacies aside. Just 'what if'. To think you never crossed my mind until this year when I decided to look back and reminisce on my past.
If we meet again, and we are both still single, and I discover we are a perfect fit that God approves, God knows our love would be amazing.
If I knew what I know now, I would have boldly chased after you because you shyly tried to, etc.
Maybe it wasn't meant to be, which I have finally accepted. Then, I believe God has the best one for me, and it just isn't you. The one he has for me, I know he would make our path cross soonest. And the love we would share will make me understand why it has to be just the both of us and not me with anyone else or you. And I will look back and laugh at myself for regretting I missed out on you.
Even at that, I pray you are alive, hale, and hearty.
Oh yes I have. My first boyfriend show me shege banza promax. Not a good memory at all.
ReplyDeleteI regretted not traveling to Canada for study in 2004,my dad was ready to sell one of his cars so I could go but I was scared,I could be sold into prostitution due to what I was watching on NAPTIP program back then and we also didn't have any family or friends in Canada as at then.....by now I would have being a Canadian Citizen.
ReplyDeleteI have a couple of them.
ReplyDeleteI regretted not relocating with the NGO I did my industrial training with, I wish I had someone to advise me then.
I regretted resigning from my job in PH because I fell down on my way to work while pregnant with my son, I sustained injuries though, husband said it's a bad omen, if it had been Lagos, honestly I wouldn't have resigned, but it's a place I don't really know the terrain then, so I agreed with him, here I am back in Lagos with no job yet.
Yes o, I wish I never gave birth for dis useless man, I wished I aborted back then and moved on with my life, now I've used all my savings
ReplyDeleteI'm so ashamed π₯
It is well with me.
ReplyDeleteSo many experience..
I regret not staying back when I travelled to lagos..
A lot of times. I wish I started pushing japa plans since
ReplyDeleteSo many. ..
ReplyDeleteBut it's well