THURSDAY In House News

 Hailings!!!

IN HOUSE MEMO

Greetings to everyone!

I hope that your day is going on smoothly? The heat today is something else,OMG!!!!.....It is hot!

Please BV Fidel, can you send me a mail? Thank you.

BV Papa Chucky i saw your hilarious comment in Thursday morning spontaneous post and you are indeed enjoying your Blog fame.....It is OK to enjoy it but please know that some people do not understand the way you comment to know whether you are joking or not......And you have what we call bad mouth!

I say make i trend you small again inside in house news since e dey sweet you...... please show some love here....

Candy no vexs, na play papa chucky dey play...Thanks to all the women fighters who stood up for Candy, the love here can be so warm most times.....

I love the community spirit and how some of you have bonded and even become real friends outside of this Blog, please keep it up but still be careful oh

On my part, i will do my best to show love as much as i can and show the opposite whenever possible.....

Please those of you where it is raining, can you send me rain videos on whatsapp? looking at rain calms me down and who knows i fit dash you SONTIN.....(I didnt say money)

Enjoy the day and may God bless you......

I am still thinking about that rich man that unalifed himself......cant deal!!!..I would have said someone did it but he made goodbye calls....na wah!!!

Lots of hugs

xoxo

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GIST GIST GIST

Good day Stella,  this girl came to my shop, she asked if she can sit down and wait for someone,  I allowed her, and after like 30mins of pressing phone, it started to rain, she said Auntie can i talk to you? For my mind I don prepare wetin I go tell her (how I will tell her no with capital letters), but she said 

Auntie i am married with kids, four of them (Ahhh with this your young over fine body? Wow),  she said her husband is everything and more but that he suddenly changed and became someone else in their home, always too busy for her or the kids, hardly communicates, no longer spends on them, so she decided to snoop cos it was becoming too much...

She did and found out that her husband is dating this old lady and she has wrapped her husband around her fingers, she went to cele church, they undid what she did, they also told her to beware of envious friends, Her friend is insisting they should go and beat up the woman cos they got details about her, so she was actually waiting for this friend to come.

I told her to forget about the fight, work on herself, check the things she did wrong and right them, I told her that most of the prayers we pray that 70% of those prayers should be answered by ourselves not God,  do your part and leave the rest to God, she thanked me, then the rain became more serious, we started chatting about a lot of things, we even exchanged contacts, when the weather got better, she left.

So this morning she called me and was screaming on top of her voice, I told her to calm down so I can hear her, she told me that she decided to reach out to this woman as she didn't meet her friend as planned so they can fight her, she decided to nicely call her to stay away from her husband,

The woman calmly listened to her and promised her that she will stay away from him, that it was her friend (the same person that wants to follow her to go and fight) that contacted her, she was also the person that brought the man's picture and undies, took her to the native doctor that prepared the charm, her anger was that she wanted more out of the relationship but she insisted that it must be the 60/40 thing or deal will be off the table, that lady knows everywhere cos na she still carry this girl go the cele church, she de cut her knife, de blow her breeze on top.

After the woman promised to stay away from her husband, she said, i don gain plenty things, i no lose, so i go free your Oga for you no fear, she dropped the call, called her fighter friend to ask her about what she heard, the friend said "you're very stupid to be mocking me for being single, na only for my front you and your stupid husband de do PDA, do family values, who be fool, abeg gettaat" she dropped the call, Omo my jaw fall finish, I come shock , like how do you do that to your own friend? How?

I told her to thank God for everything, work on herself and work on her marriage and never to hold it against her husband after all na she bring the friend wey almost destroy her marriage, she thanked me tearfully and dropped the call...

If you have an envious friends around you, there's no way you won't notice, from the little things they do, you must notice, please stay away from such friends, desperation can push them to do regrettable things, they don't change, they get worse.... 

This is the major reason married women do not befriend single women and they dump their single friends when they get married...Just imagine!!!...I am sure the mocking she is talking about may have been a simple joke between friends oh......WHAT!!!!!!

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THINGS THAT CAUSE REGRET AT OLD AGE

1. Marrying the wrong person
When you're young, check your motives for marrying. Don't marry to copy your peers, or for social standing or out of pressure. Marry for love and companionship, marry the right person, marry your best friend. For if you marry the wrong person or for the wrong reasons, you will have to put up with that person the rest of your life. Things might get worse between you two; then depression, physical abuse, affairs, pain, shame, court cases, bitterness will define your mid-life years all because you chose the wrong one. Things will get worse when children are involved. Make the right choice of a spouse when you are young.

2. The opportunities you did not seize
When you are younger many doors will open, you will get many chances. Many young people let these opportunities go because of fear, laziness, or pride; yet well younger and with more energy is the best time to start a venture and a name for yourself. Some think the opportunities are too big for them. Take advantage of them or one day when you're older you will want to go back and grab those missed chances.

3. The bridges you burned
When we are younger, we care little for relationships, what most think about is getting money and moving up the ladder of success at all cost. Many use and trample on people to progress, they take relationships for granted, messing up bonds, sleeping with people for personal gain. But these bad actions will catch up with you ahead. When you will realize how empty life is without love and friends. When you will have success but no one around you or no one to trust you.

4.The child you aborted
You are a young lady, you get pregnant and you are scared. You take the aborting option quickly thinking of that moment then. But when you are much older, you will look back and wish you kept that baby. When you will be rich and successful you will wish that child you gave up on would be around to enjoy the fruits of your hard work. Being a single mother doesn't mean you can't make it in life or you can't find a man in future.

5. The child you rejected
Young man, you impregnated a woman, she told you she's pregnant with your child. You rejected her and the baby and ran. But years later when you're 50 something, you will wish you were responsible, you will wish you manned up and became a father to that child. You will see that child excel and become an adult but will have no claim to that grown child who you rejected from the beginning. You will regret being a Dead Beat Dad by choice

6. The marriage you destroyed
So you get married to your good fiance; the first months in marriage were good but shortly after, with your money and charm, you started having affairs. You became unfaithful. Your spouse begged you to stop, your children started hurting, your marriage was collapsing. One day when you are older, it will hit you how foolish you were to destroy the good marriage you had began to build for mere temporary thrills in affairs that did you no good. You will realize the damage you caused to your children and spouse.

7. The God you disowned
When you are much older you become wiser, God becomes more real as you see life in a more meaningful way. But don't wait to get older to start enjoying a relationship with God. Know God when you are young, build your future with God. Don't be a young rebel who runs back to God when age catches up.

8. The body you messed up
You have only one body to live with all your life. The cigarettes, the alcohol you are abusing, the drugs you are taking, the unhealthy food you're consuming; all that will destroy you slowly. When you are 50 and lifestyle diseases catch up with you, you will wish you took care of your body when younger, that you exercised more; but now the damage is done.

9. The time you wasted
The time you are wasting when younger in worry, wrong relationships, laziness, being a couch potato, giving excuses and pursuing meaningless things; you will never get it back.

10. The dreams and talents you shelved
Are you talented when young; are there things you love to do and you are good at them? Nurture those talents, exploit them, don't give up even if you encounter set backs, don't give up on your dreams. If you give up, when you're older you will look at your peers who stuck to what they love and made it and think to yourself, "That could have been me". Pursue a career, study a course you love. Don't waste years of your life in a field that doesn't fulfill you.

11 The name you defamed
When you are older, a legacy is very important, the value of your name is crucial. You will ask yourself what is your reputation, what are you leaving behind? Your legacy is a sum total of your actions since youthful days. We write our biography by how we live life everyday. When you look back your path and you see the mud you threw at your own name, the shame you attracted and the little value you have added to the world; you will regret.

12. The wealth you threw away
Are you riding on good money during your productive years? Earning good money? Don't throw away that money in clubs, reckless living and wasteful shopping. Invest with that money, widen your revenue stream, make that money work for you and keep it safe to take care of you in your older years. Leave an inheritance for your loved ones so that you will never say "I wish I knew better"

13. The good love that got away
Is there that great person in your life loving you good? Don't push that person away, or else that person will walk out your life and you will never ever find someone that incredible and who connects with you all your life. It will torment you to grow older with thoughts of "What if I was still with that person?"

14 The parents you despised
When younger, it is easy to show contempt to your parents; what do your parent's know? They are old-fashioned, shady and small -minded. But your parents are still your parents whether you agree with them or not, whatever their style. Don't let your parent die or age separated from you, reconcile and make up. When you get older, you will realize why your parents wanted to be close to you. The older you get, the more you see the value.
Thanks for reading

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