The summary of what you are about to read is that having a man is an expense on a woman unless he is paying to make up for all that he costs you....Is this your mindset woman?
Monday, June 03, 2024
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Oh no
ReplyDeleteHandicap re oooo
As a successful professional and a business owner, I used to frown on women marrying for money when you can make your own until I experienced life. Today, I am still very successful but if I have a daughter, will advise her to never entertain a broke or work in progress man, never. You can marry for love but you don’t realise that your love may not love you forever or love you the way you want to be loved. I now understand why my mother who is so successful and my inspiration never wanted us to marry broke men. Our dad was nice but never loved her the way she deserved to be loved. We never caught him cheating but not cheating was not enough, despite being so rich, she was so miserable and we wondered why but now I know. I now understand why she cried and begged my very beautiful sister who could have any man she wanted not to marry her broke husband who almost 20yrs later is still broke and has not improved from when they started and has become bitter and emotionally unavailable because of his situation, he is not lazy, unfortunately things did not work out for him. My sister does not mind paying all the bills as she loves him so much but she is now miserable just like my mom predicted because she is not being loved the way she deserves and also now advising her daughter not to marry broke. I was not pretty enough to attract the money bags, settled with an average man and accepted life for what it is. For any young girl out there who has the opportunity to marry rich, I mean guaranteed rich that will not easily go broke tomorrow and the man is decent enough, please do not hesitate because I have realised that the only thing a man is good for in a woman’s life is MONEY. The butterfly romance over time only stays with you. Men and I mean all men of different colours CHANGE. Money helps to cushion the changes for a woman.
DeleteTrash. That's why there are some men who treat women so. Even men who have the money to do all written still see the women of her type in their true colours and so regard them . Most of the men hide under deep cover and only speak up when with tight lip friends and family.
ReplyDeleteThe story coming out of the USA musician's home stead is good proof. The women speaking out now stayed with him because of the money for all listed by this woman. Are they now being nursed back to saner lives by richer men?
Nawahh.
ReplyDeleteMarriage, marriage marriage.
I'm tired.😵
I think I get her point but that’s no way to live in my opinion. Because for how long will you continue this way.
ReplyDeleteGod abeg o
Stella I present to you the modern day mindset of women.
ReplyDeleteWelcome to the 21st century 😄😄
Not all women. Maybe "some".
DeleteVery true and i hate it that i agree with her. On top of it, most men are unfaithful, and the women, for one reason or the other cannot leave, at least instantly. So it is always easier with a rich man than a poor man.
DeleteThis is why they go after married men desperately... Work, have it own money, get these helps yourself
ReplyDeleteMarriage is a marathon not a sprint my dear, it gets tiring when money cannot solve some emotional problems-ask former Belinda Gates/Anita Oyakhilome.
ReplyDeleteLove the one you're with and trust God all the way.
PCX
Queue mindset. The standard keeps getting low.
ReplyDeleteSo you need to be mentally stressed cause you can afford therapy from your wealthy husband! E deh your body nne
ReplyDeleteEvery Mallam with his own kettle. Some rich married men do not respect thier wives as well since they are the sole providers of the home. My own opinion just up your game as a wife by being responsible and put your hands to work whether volunteering or earning cash just get busy. In all God is the greatest planner and helper. Marriage is not by calculating its a school you never graduate from.
ReplyDeleteWarped mentality. 🙄🙄🤨
ReplyDeleteIn my next life, i ain’t starting from the scratch with no man, i also want to be at the finish line. Afterall, the women that choose ready made men don’t have two heads. Most men, after u suffer wt them, wen they blow, they find u boring, old and unsophisticated. They end up going for sophisticated young women that would match their new status at the time. Mind u, i am also not a useless woman, in fact, i am a professional and doing well for myself.
ReplyDeleteNB: this is my opinion, if you don’t agree, you are free to also state urs, just not under my comment. I did not hold anybody’s hand from being bob the builder, in fact i pray for strength for u.
I love you so much Anon!!! Chop kiss!!!😘
DeleteThe owner is right but many women will form big girl ,Many of them envied Rita daughter when she married old man but many wish to be in her shoe ,she how she is glowing even other yeyebrity are looking for otondos
ReplyDeleteMake everybody do wetin Dem like ohh..... Our choices differs
ReplyDeleteher 2 cent and not mine.
ReplyDeleteJust do what works for you. There will always be those women who are team love of my life and those who are team material needs fulfilled. If you need your material needs to be fulfilled and have security above all other things then go for the wealthy man. If you need that grand love of your life that you still get butterflies after 60 yrs of marriage then go for love above everything else. If you can get a man that brings both then you have won the marriage lottery.
ReplyDeleteKnow yourself and find your fit and live in peace.
If you haven't been married before, you won't understand where the writer is coming from. In my next marriage, I will prefer what she stated up there. You don't even need to see any therapist because being married to a broke unavailable man is hell on its own. What is the point of struggling with a man and still living miserably? I prefer to marry a rich unavailable man and source out all my needs than dying with a broke ungrateful man in the name of love
ReplyDeleteI have never been married before but I have a close friend who married poor and she has seen what no one should see in suffering in marriage. It is through her that I understand how poverty makes a person a shadow of themselves, how it can negatively shape someone’s personality. And the experience of poverty does not necessarily make someone compassionate or empathetic to the plight of others. I realize why so many ppl who were once sufferers become rotten when their stories change, it’s almost as though they rise up to step down on someone else.
DeleteThose who suffer today and pray their fervent prayers should also pray to be good to others when they receive their redemption.
Thank you anonymous 18:14
DeleteEveryone should go for what works for them, some women have really suffered in their lives that they aren't ready to start another batch of surfferness with any man. Nigerian marriage is not easy on women it is well.
ReplyDeleteIf given the opportunity to come back the next life I will not marry a broke man. Is just unfortunate that I make the mistake 2 times.
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