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Happy Friday to you all.... 

The Weather is too hot to handle and its unbelievable.... Inside is cool though but one cant hide indoors all day nah and here the higher you go the hotter, so the upper part of the Maisonette is hotter.

Those who rent flats at the top always pay cheaper but they wont understand until summer comes....Eggs go dey inside fry boil dey wait you...LOL

Someone advised that i should hurry up with the next giveaway and that it is depressing to come here and read giveaway comments...Na wah oh, so you wan teach me how to manage my traffic? If you think that the giveaway is not OK and you cant stand the comments, then stay away from any post that you know will contain giveaway comments OK?.............

I wanted to ask what 5k can do in these times but fear no let me.......

I just want to advice anyone depressed for any reason whatsoever, to please look for someone that they can talk to...Please dont come to me cos i get really sad knowing anyone is depressed and it dampens my mood...let me ask does all dperession come from being broke or being heartbroken? Cos i am still thinking how someone who has love and money will unalife themself......Are you depressed? tell us why under anon and tell us if you have sought help for it....

If your depression is because you need a pot of stew foe Sunday rice, then indicate.....I will some and God will bless.

Moving on quickly before that anon complains...

BV Simply Diving please come in here......

I am officially tired of zeeone.....I wont be watching it again as from Monday and will rever to my Amercian movie stations.....No no no no noo......

When watching zeeone, eyes will turn you cos the camera angle is not the same at all.. And the mumu behaviour has gotten to me.....I cant deal..

Bye bye to zeeone from Monday (side eyes)

XOXO

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GIST GIST GIST

I was in hopsital recently and while I was therel, this woman was rolled into the hospital, she was admitted into the female ward, obviously pregnant, one nurse came and checked her, said she was not dilating well, the woman looked so lean like say blood no dey her body, 

The doctor said she needs to be operated on immediately as she was at the hospital the previous week and she was booked for surgery as her babies (not one of) were breached, 

The husband said lailai, he said when they came last week, that the doctor said she won't be able to have any form of contractions but now she had dilated 2cm, that it was his Daddy prayers that made it possible, and this pregnant woman was dying slowly, them no gree remove her apron sef,  the husband held his own apron and kept shouting "oh God of my pastor, come and show yourself", the wife screamed at him and told him that if anything happens to her that her family will not forgive him, immediately he stormed out, my belle was already boiling, like i was pissed  

The woman requested for a phone to call her family, she never talk finish before I gave her mine, she called her brother (you needed to see how unkempt this woman looked) and he quickly came, looking so fresh and smells of plenty money, he came, signed the necessary papers and they moved her in for surgery.....

She was delivered of a beautiful boy and girl, cute looking kids, they rolled them out thereafter,  they were taking care of her and the so-called husband switched off his phone.

The next morning, Oga landed with his lemon apron, saw the kids and screamed that the God of his pastor is mighty, that he knew that he will do it, everybody kept quiet, immediately this man noticed the children's gender, he became upset, started screaming at the wife, asking if there was any other deliveries yesterday, that God through his pastor told him that the children were two boys not a boy and a girl, 

Stella at this point, everyone in that ward was bitterly angry, this was a man that abandoned his dying wife and has not noticed that she was operated on, na him de find ways to accuse people, he even said his wife has lost her mind by removing her apron, whether she wan make the God of her pastor depart from her and then she becomes prey to the enemies? 

He was still there talking, the woman's brothers walked in, come see treating of fuck up, them panelbeat am go outside, they beat him till he started vomiting , the hospital security threw him out, the woman's older brother drove to their house, packed her few things to his house, he instructed never to allow the man into the hospital again.

The woman was still there when I was discharged,  she looked too malnourished, lost a lot of blood but was recovering fine, I asked her if she would go back to her husband, she said "God forbid", she said her husband was not like that when they met but changed drastically when he became a member of that church, e come be like say them carry him battery for the church come make am  cray-cray....

They wear Apron in a church or what? Abi i no understand this gist?There is a church in Nigeria that they wear apron as a sign of ones faith?WOW!!!

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MISTAKES MEN MAKE IN MARRIAGE
Lots of Men are making mistakes in their Marriages, this is making life difficult for their wives and Children. We need to examine this and tutor all Men to behave better.

1) SLAVE-WIFE MENTALITY: 

It’s not funny to know that lots of Men see women as slave, servants or something close to that. They believe women are good for nothing but sex, baby making, house chores and cooking. They operate with that kind of mentality with their wives. Many believe a wife should only be seen not heard, it’s really funny the way some men treats their wives.

2) PUTTING FAMILY OVER WIVES:
Lots of African Men are fond of this, they put their extended family first, they even make their wives to slave for their extended family members. Some beat or even divorce their wives because of their siblings. This is totally wrong. It’s madness to allow your family Members who are in their own Marriage to destroy yours, it’s high level of foolishness to allow your siblings to take over your marriage.

3) SPERM DONOR MENTALITY: 

Lots of men are more-or-less sperm donors in their marriages, apart from getting tingling their wives pregnant they have no other roles in Child bearing and rearing. Whenever babies cries, It’s very common to hear men saying, come and carry your baby, don’t you hear your baby is crying?,most of the time only women attends Children parties in School,only mothers attend PTA meetings and many other events in School, Men thinks they are too busy to do that what a mistake?

4) CLASS TEACHER ATTITUDE: 

Lots of Men believes their wives have nothing to offer, they believe they are wiser, stronger and better than their wives. So they develop Class teacher mentality, whereby they are only ready to teach, lecture and tutor their wives. To them their wives should not advise them. This is very wrong, God planted your wife into your life to complete you. 

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SIGNS OF IMMATURITY IN MARRIAGE FOR MEN:

1. Rejecting food when there's an issue:

Mr husband, you gave your wife money for

food and after it was prepared you refused

to eat because you are angry. It's one of the greatest signs of immaturity, it's time to grow up! You should not even abandon your home for any reason. You could go somewhere when angry but ensure that you don't allow it to linger unnecessarily because that is enough for the devil to build on even though some women can be really troublesome.

2. Telling your wife severally that you are the head:

 May I let you know that even when your wife disobeys/ disrespect you she still knows that you are the head. You need not shout or scream it daily. Or do we need to get you a slot on CNN? It's important for you to know when and how to be firm and put your feet down over issues, however don't become a nagging husband just to prove that you are the head.

3. Issuing threats: 

beating, verbally abusing

your wife, issuing threats of divorce or

bragging about marrying another wife does

not make you a man. An EMPTY barrel makes the loudest noise. Your strength is in your ability to tame your tongue and control your fist. When she is acting her "childish woman" part, play the "matured man."

4. Reporting your wife to friends and family: 

When your wife offends you, correct

and talk things through. You don't have to tell everyone about her mistakes, that will paint her black and sell her cheap such that you will not be able to redeem her back.

By the way, are you a reporter answer my question ?

5. Keeping malice: 

is it not funny to know that some men keep malice? Some of them even nag, criticise, abuse and call their wives names in public. It may make you look like a "big boy" who's in control but you are not going to gain anything good from it, your home will only be a den of insults and confrontations.

6. Not helping with house chores: 

I must say here that it is the sole responsibility of a woman to tend and manage a home when she chooses to be a full time house wife.

However, it's not a bad thing if a man lends a helping hand when necessary. Watching football with newspaper in your hand every evening, not caring how stressful the house chores are will only increase the pressure on your wife and if you truly care you'll help, just checking on her while busy could encourage and sooth her, this also makes you a good example to the kids especially the boys. Some men don't even say "thank You" to their wives after eating, all they do is compare her with other women. It's a shame that after having 3-4 kids some men cannot change a simple diaper 

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