He said;
“I stayed out of marriage after the first one crashed. I stayed out of marriage for like 12 years before I remarried. I remarried in 2008. Not that I gave up on marriage, I was just really confused about getting the right person.
“I got into so many crazy relationships. Both the ones that were good, crazy, and bad I have seen all. That year, 2007. I cried to God and said ‘Father Lord I have had enough can you just give me a wife’. I said just find me a wife. I remember I cried.
“And then I went to a wedding and I saw this beautiful woman. I asked my PA to get her number but he came back because he was scared. Julius Agwu and I were the MCs at the event. It was Don Chi’s wedding. And Julius Agwu said ‘My brother dey look for wife o’. When I sat I went to meet her, collected her contact and then invited her to a dinner. That is how it started. The rest is history.
“We are sixteen years in marriage now with three lovely kids. She is a lawyer. She is also my legal adviser.
“When that happened to me in 1997 I kept quiet. I did not say anything. I just let it go. Till date I said nothing and I do not want to say anything. I do not want to discuss anything about it. It happened. The shit will always happen. Everybody has a closet.”
“I got into so many crazy relationships. Both the ones that were good, crazy, and bad I have seen all. That year, 2007. I cried to God and said ‘Father Lord I have had enough can you just give me a wife’. I said just find me a wife. I remember I cried.
“And then I went to a wedding and I saw this beautiful woman. I asked my PA to get her number but he came back because he was scared. Julius Agwu and I were the MCs at the event. It was Don Chi’s wedding. And Julius Agwu said ‘My brother dey look for wife o’. When I sat I went to meet her, collected her contact and then invited her to a dinner. That is how it started. The rest is history.
“We are sixteen years in marriage now with three lovely kids. She is a lawyer. She is also my legal adviser.
“When that happened to me in 1997 I kept quiet. I did not say anything. I just let it go. Till date I said nothing and I do not want to say anything. I do not want to discuss anything about it. It happened. The shit will always happen. Everybody has a closet.”
- Interview WithChude
Wise man,very good legal council.
ReplyDeleteVery mature adult, he was indeed in love with Ann Njemanze( bad girl vibes).
DeleteI think it was STD that scattered that marriage, promiscuity
Yes the days of Prime People. The STD and promiscuity accusations were splattered all over.
DeleteSee matured celebrity here,I didn't even know this side of his personal life,I wish the others can learn from him,but I guess most of them do it for the gram.
ReplyDeleteSaid here several times. A man should keep kwayet. Guilty or innocent, or only half so. It is the woman's story we want to hear. Hers is always sweeter than agbalumo and more believable.
ReplyDeleteNo
DeleteSpeak don’t speak it’s your choice
No option is better or worse
Hear you 🤭
DeleteRead comments upstairs 🖕🏽
Unless you have Dna results, Dem no dey telling person.
Talk and learn.
😁
I remember the gossip columns then claimed he abandoned Ann after her accident that left her wheelchair bound without certainty that she will walk again. She used to be so beautiful. I thank God for her life, for helping her through those years of healing and being able to walk.
ReplyDeleteThis submission isn't right. Ann's popularity got into her head, after the Domitilla movie, and that influenced her decision to walk out of the marriage. Segun wasn't perfect, but he loved her. The accident happened after their divorce)separation.
DeleteThe accident happened after their divorce and not while she was still with him.
DeleteMaturity
ReplyDeleteThis line got me ,.......... "
ReplyDelete“I got into so many crazy relationships. Both the ones that were good, crazy, and bad I have seen all. That year, 2007. I cried to God and said ‘Father Lord I have had enough can you just give me a wife’. I said just find me a wife.
Why is that some men will be ' flirting ' with different women, when it's time to settle down they will begin to search for a wife???
The people they’re flirting with are not their specs.
DeleteHe was married. Ostensibly looking for a wife. It is relationships that develop into the longing to marry a woman/man. At least that's the classic way.
DeleteCorrect man 👍
ReplyDeleteIt's been God and also both partners being intentional about their marriage.
ReplyDeleteAs you pray,you both also put in the work to make it a success.
Matured man with wisdom.
ReplyDeleteThis is a sound, wise and matured response. Not that Mr International African Superstar with a blabber mouth.
ReplyDeleteYou can say your truth without opening mouth waaa.
When will Black Arrow get back on TV. I loved his show back then NO HOLDS BAR
So sorry to say this. One thing I've noticed about this man is his humility but he is sleeping with small girls...my friend started dating him years ago when she was 23 now she's 29... He housed her with one of his side chick. Most Lagos men are messed up.
ReplyDeleteMen!!!
DeleteAnon, He housed two of his Sidechick together and they were living peacefully…
For Real?
Wow 😯
Your friend knows he is married. Yet she has given him 6years of her life, ready to give more, and living with another woman who is also giving her time to him.
DeleteDoes all make sense?
Can you blame the man if the story is true?
Anon 22:21...just imagine a young lady giving a married man the best years of her life, later she will start crying, is she thinking he will abandon his wife and marry her?
DeleteNo need casting aspersions.
ReplyDeleteAlways a waste of time telling the story. Those for who it is important, know the truth even if they refuse to accept it. Eventually, time tells the story better.
ReplyDeleteMatured interview..
ReplyDeleteHe is always on his lane,doing his own things quietly.
Sensible man. We don't need to know all that happened. It is in the past
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