He said, “Monogamy doesn’t work. As a powerful man, you must have the support of numerous powerful goddesses. You know, women that are in your life because the ancestors want to put them there. You share with them.”
He added that his late father and Afrobeat pioneer, Fela Anikulapo Kuti, had over 100 concubines despite marrying 27 women in one day.
Despite having this mindset and encouraging other men to have multiple women,,Seun Kuti is publicly known to be married to one woman and has not had any scandal about having any sidechics or concubines...
Seun on the ‘Bahd & Boujee’ podcas
Seun if the man wey produce that podcast dey think of gathering women like commodity ,you for no see podcast wey you go use they disturb us with your head like chicken . when it is time to fight to defend those women like your ancestors hope your thin legs will not scurry away.
ReplyDeletePolygamy is EVIL & SENSELESS
ReplyDeleteI wonder the mental frame of women who accept to be second, third, or fourth wife! How do you bring yourself to that state where you open your legs for a man with multiple sex partners (wives and side chicks) and allow him sleep with you unprotected knowing that the man did the same a few hours or days ago with another woman?
Polygamous women should, please, explain their thoughts process and how they cope.
To polygamous and adulterous men:
How do you joggle multiple sex partners in the face of numerous sexually transmitted diseases? How do you process your thoughts to rest assured that your women are not getting dirty with other useless men outside your home and relationships?
We know the likes of people like you with sugar daddies sponsoring your life style yet you jump to condemn others. Swear with your life say u never double date before make u sleep this night no wake up. Una go come online come they form holy holy. Taa
DeleteI believe just as some are tall, some short, some are brainwashed, brainless, brainfull ......
DeleteDear Proudly Foodie,
Deletewhile I cannot condemn your opinion regarding polygamy either from your generic view or from personal experience. Critiquely inasmuch as your comment raises several valid points, but the language and tone could be refined to promote a more constructive and respectful discussion. To foster a thoughtful and respectful dialogue on the topic from your view point, for those who want to support or disagree with your position. Avoiding judgmental language and ensuring the questions raised by your response are posed in a considerate manner.
I found your choice of words and wording very condemning and derogatory. In all honesty polygamy is a complex and controversial issue, even though I don't agree with it practice. As someone with a first hand experience from families or friends who were born into a polygamous settings. Or who came from one of such, I am curious about the mindset of women who choose to become second, third, or fourth wives. How do they reconcile with the reality of sharing their husband with other women, knowing he engages in intimate relations with multiple partners, including concubines?
It would be insightful to hear from women in polygamous relationships about their thought processes and coping mechanisms.
To polygamous and adulterous men:
How do you manage multiple sexual relationships in light of the risk of sexually transmitted diseases? How do you trust that your partners remain faithful and that your relationships are not compromised by infidelity?
@Anonymous 14:00
DeleteStop being emotional. Answer the questions to help me overcome my ignorance.
I am a married man, and proudly so, to one woman.
@Anonymous 14:35
The senseless ones are people with multiple sex partners.
How do people joggle multiple sex partners considering sexually transmitted diseases?
@Ebony Ego:
DeleteThanks for your comment.
I will work on my approach next time, although I dare say that my provocative methods work just fine.
Are Multiple unmarried heterosexual partners exempted from this polygamy discussion.
DeleteThose unmarried women who keep their body eggs in different baskets.
Those unmarried men body testing to get the best.
Are they outside the scope of polygamy.
Here's not a case for polygamy. But are we allowed to be polygamously single, and then turn around to point fingers standing on the shoulders of a monogamous marriage ?
Tomorrow, the politician numbered wife will post or be posted. Some of us will tap and awwwww. But the Actor will post or be posted, and we will tueh. Does money and assured full inheritance change the colour of polygamy?
And lastly, most chronicles on marital reggae and blues on this blog are from monogamously married men and women.
A bad marriage is - whether monogamous or polygamous. The wahala of some monogamous husbands is more than that of 12 co-wives. Just as the trouble of some monogamous wives have wrecked not only their husbands but also the husband's paternal families.
Many Nigerian women will stop ay nothing sinister to become a seventh wife to a rich man. It is not about love but survival.
ReplyDeleteOh well! Anything said on the "Bahd and Boujee" podcast no kuku make sense.
ReplyDeleteBeing senseless is prerequisite for getting invites to the podcasts. It would have been the eighth wonder of the world, if they actually make sense.
DeleteOmo B, that podcast is 👎👎👎👎
DeleteChai! Omolara take it easy on him. Chai!
DeleteThis one go smoke Igbo finish ,open mouth waaa
DeleteOh yeah,sleeping with multiple women,is a sign of a powerful man?🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteHe is married to one wife and he is advising others to go for polygamy? Did he huff toilet fumes the last time he was locked up by the police?
ReplyDeleteI am certain he had many concubines during the course of his marriage.
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ReplyDeleteNa them sabi🥱. Let them do whatever makes them happy as long as they are not hurting anybody. Anybody who want to marry women should make sure he has PLENTY money to provide very well fir them. They are marrying you for provision!. Provide well!
ReplyDeleteSome women marry for children or connection trusting themselves to finish work after.
DeleteAnybody that wants to engage in polygamy should please go ahead, as long as I'm not among the the wives, it's okay by me, i don't have strengths to be fighting for any attention from a randy man in disguise of polygamy.
ReplyDeleteI watched the podcast. All I can say is that Seun Kuti wants to f*ck Tolani. He made it clear that he and his wife enjoy threesome, and I have this strong feeling that he is going to proposition her for a threesome. Seun doesn't respect his wife. She was in the studio but he kept drooling over Tolani. I swear of that guy no get am for mind to f*ck Tolani,make I bend.
ReplyDelete😂
Deleteas long as it extends to the woman to. Hope she's allowed to have multiple partners.
ReplyDeleteThis fellow gets on my damn nerves 🤮
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