He stated that his son had told him about the upcoming marriage 7 months ago, and also told him that she was pregnant and wanted them to get married as soon as possible.
This made him contact Wofai's father and the two of them were still talking about the wedding before he got blindsided with his son's wedding invitation, and he was shocked when he found out his son had printed wedding invites.
He further noted how Taiwo was summoned to the palace alongside the elders, but he only apologized and went on with the wedding preparations.
He also decried the fact that his son was just 30 years old while the actress is 38.
Congrats Wofai,hold am well!!!
Did he attend the wedding
ReplyDeleteBaba Cole, age is nothing but a number and the girl is pregnant sef. You should be proud of your son who wants to do right by her and his baby your grandchild
DeleteNo, the father didn't. His mother did. The parents are separated.
DeleteAccording to him, he isn't against the relationship. He said in the leaked audio that his son met her 7 months ago and while he wonders why the hurry, he asked that the marriage should follow the right process.
He made sense by contacting the lady's dad and the dad asked that the man should wait till May before they speak again only for him to see the wedding online.
The guys dad alleges that his 30 years old son already has a 5 years old son in London that is being taken care of by everyone in the family except the person that should be responsible for the child and that they as a family are still dealing with that.
Long story short, good luck to Wofai.
Stella, there's nothing to hold here. Wofai is hardworking and lovely. She doesn't need this ish.
Trust me.
Nope
DeleteHe actually said they should wait till she gives birth in September/October and get married afterwards, the reason why they went ahead to do their thing.
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ReplyDeleteTake it easy on the name calling dear, no parent will like to be shrugged aside by his/her child during a time like this.
DeletePapa just need to be winner over with love and patience and not by gra gra
😂😂 Stella this your response nawa. Sounds like an una never see anything 😂😂
ReplyDeleteAh, the sacrifices that women make. I was wondering why she didn't look as fine as she usually does. The pregnancy news explains it.
ReplyDeleteThey should allow them,enjoy their marriage 💑 and support them.
ReplyDeleteI don't understand all this back and front concerning the couple ..
The Father inlaw should support them,nothing serious here..
Shameless Father. See how you carried your family name and put in the media for the wrong reason
ReplyDeleteYou are the shameless and immature person. When you become a father/mother and your child sidelines you for such an important life's activity, then you will understand the pains of his father - a responsible father at that.
DeleteBorrow wisdom before typing. The father in law is saving this lady from the horrendous red flags of a dead beast father and Bully.
DeleteThis guy has blindsided his father for no reason and would one day expect his wife and child not to return the favour. Who is he kidding?
What do you mean by hold am well?
ReplyDeleteIs it not best they settle or issues amicably.here you encouraging a lady to hold on well on a shaky foundation.wisdom oh
Don’t mind Stella when alarm blow she won’t be around to support the lady oo
DeleteThe only thing that would settle the guy's family is if wofai agrees to leave the marriage.They would never settle for anything less.He even age shamed wofai.
DeleteYet some Gwegs will say "Men are not the price".
DeleteI have never heard a man being advised to "hold a woman well"
You for kuku kon pour concrete put nau! Amebo
DeleteAkin to cutting he nose to spite the face
Delete@22:37
DeleteBookmark this post for tomorrow when they start again.
"Try men of other races" in the Atlantic ocean.
Nigerian man out of all men naim we wan dey hold well na.
Ironic.
Put stock on a woman's mouthed words at the loss of your peace.
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Anon 22:37 never mind ehat they ssy here, if you kmow what they go through just to have the title married, you would never believe these lying women.
DeleteShuo!!!How only me come boldly comment with my ID wey anons they cry war against Stellz dey shocket me.
DeleteDD, some of us don't have IDs. Some of us don't even know how to get one.
DeleteOmo Marriage wey never start don dey get wahala Laidis. Wofai shine ya eyes oo. If the guy loves and wants to spend the rest of his life with her, they should just let them be. 30 Yrs is old enough to know what he wants Abeg!
ReplyDeleteBut not old enough to fend for his 5 years old child by another woman?
DeleteBut not old enough to feed himself and his child. It is the same people pointing this facts out that will be told to come and sign online petition tomorrow.
DeleteDrama everywhere.. congratulations wofai
ReplyDeleteIt's better she settles with her in-laws, you can't sideline them, no matter how bad they are, they contributed to his life.
ReplyDeleteSome battles are not won through fights or social media, make peace with them even if you don't need them.
Hnmm,men love hardworking women,I pray for God's presence in their marriage,if they can commit their ways in His hands and ask for mercy, pray hard in one accord, broker peace with sides at war,surely He will hear them.
DeleteIs he suspecting the pregnancy might not be for his son? DNA DNA DNA!
ReplyDeleteThis is not the real reason. It’s not reason enough for a disclaimer.
ReplyDeleteI'm going to say it. What business does a 38 year old woman have with a 30 year old man? Was the fear of the almighty 40 a cause for the rush?
ReplyDeleteOn the best of days, marriages are tasking enough. Why start your marital journey on the bad side of your in-laws as a woman? This lady will regret this for sure.
Her father is alive. Who did the young man bring to stand for him at the traditional wedding? Did he go all alone? Doesn't a form of mutual agreement exist between families before dates get fixed?
This lady has just set herself up for pain and endless attacks. The husbands family won't forgive her for this. For her sake I hope the young man she married has the maturity and the emotional quotient to handle the coming storms.
I think this is a marriage that needed not to have happened. With the public disclaimer the husbands family did, that was rubbing mud on the wife's people.
Both husband and wife will need to step up in every way. They really have their work cut out for them.
Dogwhatever, if you are afraid of 40 doesn’t mean everyone is….. you should pray you get to 40 instead of being afraid of it….. please learn to advice with respect.
DeleteThis is just Part 1.
ReplyDeletePart 2 is the white wedding,
Part 3 is DNA test.
This drama still long!!!
If I speak, Stella wont post it. So I will rather not speak.
ReplyDeleteYou for talk nau. She still fit post am. Hehehe hehe hhe
DeleteWell said. Person whey dem still Dey take care of him 5 year old no fit get strong enough mind IMO. The families hate each other now for sure. They should have done the right thing, this is not American film.
DeletePlease Stella Nwanyioma, eine frage,sei nicht böse,hast du gerade deinen eisprung? Cos this your support dey emotional and wears iron pant.
ReplyDeleteWell said.
DeleteThey should settle themselves, no be every thing needs settling on social media.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to them jare
ReplyDeleteHope the lady doesnt come back to cry
DeleteWofai should hold herself well. Cos it might end up in premium tears. No be Nigerian Yoruba man again? She should just make sure she settles herself incase of any emergency
ReplyDeleteEvening newspaper trapping young men.
ReplyDelete😂 But for now the man is enjoying the trapping, abi no be the man give the woman belle?
DeleteWhich kind childish father is this, so it is a crime and abomination for a woman to be older than her husband.
ReplyDeleteYou are myopic and not seeing the real issue in all of these - it is not only the age issue.
DeleteNo she isn't myopic @ anon, He boldly talked about the age thing as a major factor.
DeleteGo and listen to the voice note and you will know his concern was mainly the age difference....
DeleteSir , please allow this two mature adults be,they know what they want.
ReplyDeleteGive them your blessings and wish them well.
Congratulations
ReplyDeleteVery wrong start.🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteCome to think of it, the father has no say in the life of the boy cos he divorced the mother 27 yrs ago when the boy was 3, this shows that he is a man with Ego (feeling funky) who doesn't care about human emotion. In as much as the mum is present, he can go crack some rock with his teeth, nobody cares... FIL That wants to control the life of a full grown man all in the of a son
ReplyDeleteDivorce that is constantly advised here? Is such a bad act? Learning by the day.
DeleteAnon I have been reading your snide comments on all the posts. If the comments on this blog, and the women of this blog annoy you, why are you always here disparaging women? No be by force nau. You sef gettam for body. No need hiding under anon, get an ID so we can know you better.😂
Delete09:17
DeleteBrilliant. Even without ID, you decoded. It has been said Bvs are very good at that here. Now I know.
Just attempting to ask if there are other sides to matters than the usual. Questions are the only way of doing it. Unfortunately, some times it must sound "snide". Example is the divorcee status of the father of the man in issue. What has that got to do with his disclaimer. Men and Women divorce daily. Is every divorcee the bad person in a marriage? In some cases divorce may even be on difference in life goals. She wants to japa on full scholarship for PG and assured employment a road. He says no because they agreed no japa, but did they know the economy would turn this way. Should she stay? What would be said of the man here if she sends in a chronicle? You already know. Don't you. Okay, you can guess with 80% accuracy 😁.
No beef against women whose comments are more here. Just finds them stereotypical. Hence comments from Bv SMH, Ronalda, Mainland, PCX, and similar comments are eagerly looked forward to.
All told, your points are taken in good sports. Style would be changed to see if you would catch on again or like that. Here to learn and improve at writing like some fine BVwriters here
Thank you and have a good day
🤣 you dey worry sha. All I'm saying is try to be objective in your analysis, go beyond gender. As I dey so, I have met very good people, men and women; and very bad people, men and women.
DeleteThe couple should try and settle the matter with the guy's family. War in marriage does no one any good, especially the woman.
ReplyDeleteYou are a wise lady - one of the few objective, calm and reasonable female BVs here. Most lack deep thought and wisdom - blindly supporting women's "rights" even when wrong.
Delete3:25 your sweeping generalisation of women on this blog, shows you are not wise and you lack deep thought. You that is always attacking females on the blog, like you are doing. I have addressed you above. Receive sense and stop supporting your gender blindly. Even on a post where women largely condemned the action of their gender, on another post you still went saying same o same o, that women were supporting women on that post. Your problem is deep. Fix it instead of troubling people jare.
Delete09:25
DeleteHope you are so vocal when women and blog visitors are out for ALL men or even a whole tribe in their comments on one man's action or inactions on the blog.
11:50 if a woman or man, or group etc does what is good, I will applaud. If they do what is bad, I will highlight it. If they do both, I will speak for both sides. That's just me. Don't worry, I promise to try not to disturb you again.✌🏾
DeleteAnon 11.50 pls ignore Anon 9.24, for her lack of comprehension. I never made sweeping generalisation of women on this blog- I said "a few" are still objective and Cynthia is one of them. Most female BVs here are myopic and lack deep thoughts on issues. It is either they blindly support an action taken by a woman or support any position taken by Stella.
Delete13:44 you didn't make sweeping generalisations, yet you emphasized yet again that 'Most female BVs here are myopic and lack deep thoughts on issues. It is either they blindly support an action taken by a woman or support any position taken by Stella.' Anyway na you sabi nau. Continue ooo.
DeleteIs "most" same as "all"(which is sweeping)? You lack basic comprehension of English language and it is sad that you still fail to see it. I leave you to your fate.
DeleteYou don't agree that using the word 'most' is a sweeping generalisation? Then you definitely lack basic comprehension of English Language. So I leave you to your own fate. You do not know even a fraction of the women that comment on this blog to make such a generalisation. So take your own advice and go learn. You are the sad one with your sad generalisations of women. Put a sock in it!
DeleteSo he should abandon the woman he impregnated because of your ego?
ReplyDeleteThe father raised the issue of the 5 year old who the groom is not being responsible for.
DeleteWhatever rocks their boat.
ReplyDeleteThe show of shame is not necessary at all, even if what's written up there are true, the family could still have settled it amicably. I wish the new couple well.
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ReplyDeleteMy only issue is with his haircut.
DeleteLike did he fight with his barber and the replacement he found didnt do freedom and was perhaps a carpenter before?
Meaning?
DeleteIs that not a direct insult on the woman who agreed to be impregnated by him and agreed to marry him despite apparent opposition to the marriage?
Well, that may be the reason she is bent on the marriage.
They should leave them, they're both adults, it's nothing serious. Marriage is between two happy people, all they need is prayers once they're happy with themselves.
ReplyDeleteThey should be ashamed , see how they are so petty and wicked parents. They should let the love birds live in peace.
ReplyDeleteWofai and husband congratulations o and please hold God tight cos I don't trust these kind of inlaws, na juju dem sabi.
Yet, they raised him and have been caring for his son. Don't assume that every family is like yours that knows juju.
DeleteThis is just Part 1
ReplyDeletePart 2 is the white wedding.
Part 3 maybe DNA testing.
This drama could end up being a series.
30 years old Man wey him family dey feed him 5 years old Pikin na adult.
ReplyDeleteWho go feed Wofai Pikin. Mrs. Wofai Cole?
If to say his Baby Mama send chronicle before this marriage we know wetin we for talk about the man and Nigerian men.
Wofai hold am well o.
Any slip up him family, him baby mama, and your frenemies go laff oo.
I tell you. He is an irresponsible man. His child that is being taken care of by his family, they will stop taking care of him. They tell him to cater for his son since he is now bouyant enough to impregnate another person and marry stubbornly.
DeleteI hope Wofai is aware that she will now be responsible for the child he had before, her own child(ren), the man she married plus her own self.
The height of desperation sha
Oh my! This is serious! So Mr cole can't take care of his son? How then would he care for his family? Wofai has to be really strong ooo, if this is true.
DeleteI think this whole thing isn't about the couple alone,if what is stated above that the father divorced his son's mum years back and she went ahead to represent the family without the fathers consent,then this is the root of the problem.Him bringing it to social media and issuing a disclaimer was his form of retaliation.Oh well,that's what is a major issue for them at the moment.Meanwhile people are hungry,fuel scarcity,power scarcity,people are in hospitals,bad roads,wars in some nations,the innocents getting killed,the list is Endless.So this talk that they are talking na child's play.
ReplyDeleteNow you are talking! This is the main issue. His father is still alive and not a deadbeat, why will his son get married and he won't be there? It's his mum that is no longer with him that represented his family? That's not right. Make we talk the truth when we seem am.
DeleteLike I said, the couple should go and settle with the guy's family. Marriage is too much work already, why complicate things the more? In-laws can be sweet but you don't want to see their other side, I dey tell you.
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DeleteWhen I said earlier that one BV was myopic about the issue being raised by Engr Cole, you Disco Dancer, disagreed and said age was the major factor. Now you are eating your words. A lot of you young BVs on this blog just express your immature and inexperienced behaviour here, not knowing who is making comments and/or not having deep thoughts on the issue. Go and sin no more.
DeleteCynthia, I eulogised you earlier on this post and will do it again and again - God blessed your husband by giving you to him. You are a wise woman and I repeat, you are ONE OF THE FEW WISE FEMALE BVs on this blog. Most of the others are ....... (the rest of you can fill up the space). I rest my case.
Delete🤣 ya case is with yasef. Abeg rest am.
Delete🤣 ya case is with yasef. Abeg rest am.
DeleteHe told you 7monsths ago. 7months is not enough time for you to decide what ever?
ReplyDeleteImmature and myopic mind. I really don't blame you. Don't know if you are male or female but you are definitely a young person and can't comprehend the issues.
DeleteThis matter Don tire me already
ReplyDeleteMy dear the thing tie wrapper. May God give them wisdom.
DeleteThey will be alright eventually, everyone of them.
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