In the meantime, Mabel has moved out courtesy of the younger politician lover she isallegedly dating who got her somewhere temporary to stay...She left their two daughters with AY when she moved out....
He posted...
''Many people believe that staying silent simply means that one is incapable of dealing with issues. Projecting a negative narrative against someone who is not struggling to defend himself doesn't mean he is weak. Some of us are just logical enough to understand the difference between opinions, values, beliefs, and facts.
The personality and ability that I possess simply confirm that i have reached that stage in my life where I can not be entertaining the public with deep personal family issues. They just might be too much to handle concerning the individuals involved. Not even when I have a grown-up daughter who has access to social media. Her mental health needs to be protected from seeing things she can not be proud of online.
Yes! Without compromising my family, i have found myself doing some things that i am not proud of today. It is one thing to watch my friendship/ marriage of 20 years slip off my hands, but it's another thing for the parties involved to understand how to appropriate the blames in a space that is designed for most women to always play the victims and win. I can tell you for free that no one is completely INNOCENT enough to cast stones.
Presently, i am loving the way that lies about me in all these blogs are traveling faster than the truth. But my painful truth will eventually beat away all the lies''.
The personality and ability that I possess simply confirm that i have reached that stage in my life where I can not be entertaining the public with deep personal family issues. They just might be too much to handle concerning the individuals involved. Not even when I have a grown-up daughter who has access to social media. Her mental health needs to be protected from seeing things she can not be proud of online.
Yes! Without compromising my family, i have found myself doing some things that i am not proud of today. It is one thing to watch my friendship/ marriage of 20 years slip off my hands, but it's another thing for the parties involved to understand how to appropriate the blames in a space that is designed for most women to always play the victims and win. I can tell you for free that no one is completely INNOCENT enough to cast stones.
Presently, i am loving the way that lies about me in all these blogs are traveling faster than the truth. But my painful truth will eventually beat away all the lies''.
"Left their two daughters?!"
ReplyDeleteNa that one off me. For that she fall hand.
DeleteHard to please the world. If she carry them, he will start crying online that she is using the children to get back at him. He is their father, he should take care of them
DeleteThis their marriage wahala no be today something sef. They should go and rest, dem don too drag am.
DeleteNothing will make me to leave my children for any one to maltreat. That is the height of irresponsibility
DeleteImagine!
DeleteI can't leave my kids for any man. Anyways she has her reasons.
if he's a rubbish husband does that also make him a terrible father? ..she knows him more than we do so yes she felt her kids are safe even though she is done with him
DeleteThe children are not that young anymore, so why move them, besides maybe they want to stay with their dad, that’s also stability for they, who knows before college.
DeleteThe second child is a toddler. Not even five yet.
DeleteI was hoping that I won't see this story here. I don't know what happened but I feel that they have been through a lot for their marriage to end, but then this marriage institution has no manual. I honestly wish both parties PEACE!
ReplyDeleteShe really must have been head to toe level of fed up to move out of their home in this manner eh|! I hope when he moves on with a twenty years old, as na so naija men dey do, the tory no go wor wor o.
DeleteMe, leave my kids behind? For what exactly please?
ReplyDeleteNa una sabi, marriage is still beautiful.
Sluttychic.
Very beautiful my sister.
DeleteShe can’t take the kids to be with another man she’s not married to,exposing them to things there’re not supposed to see.
DeleteI will never forget when they lied against Stella and claimed fumigation.
Fan Emmanuel
Exactly. Why leave her kids behind? I mean it's not like she won't be able to take care of them.
Delete@Fan Emmanuel, you are making a lot of sense here while other are just flapping their gums.
DeleteYou guys are funny, don't the kids belong to Ay too
DeleteIf a woman goes with her kids, nsogbu
If she leaves them behind, nsogbu!!
Me I cannot leave my kids behind o, but i hold nothing against any woman that decide to leave theirs behind.
Gifty
First time an anonymous is agreeing with me 💃 today is my lucky day 😂
DeleteFan Emmanuel
dont mind the idiots running their mouths. she is not a fool and she knows they wont suffer
DeleteSome of you think it is all children that are comfortable with other men smooching their mum. And people think kids don't experience trauma when their parents marriage falls apart. It is a terrible thing when marriage falls apart, and it is so sad that a lot of people are happy with that in our society and they will be throwing theory as if they live with the couples. I wish the children caught in the middle peace and ability to pull through this traumatic experience. And to home wreckers out there you will always eat the fruits of your doing one day. I hate men who tries to date married women with passion.
DeleteAnon calling people idiots because they have different opinions from you shows your upbringing.
DeleteWahala dey oooo!!
ReplyDeleteNa real wahala
DeleteWow! I thought it was cruise.......
ReplyDeleteIt is well.
So sad for the children.
DeleteBut they just had child dedication few months ago. Nawaooo
May God give you two the wisdom to handle your differences, the wife left their two daughters with him not a good one at all. She should have walk away with her daughters.
ReplyDeleteMarriage of 20 years❓
ReplyDeleteWith grown up kids.
This marriage institution is becoming scary.
One grown up and one toddler.
Delete20 years of friendship and 16 years of marriage, they got married in 2007.
DeleteI remember the Fumigation days that year. Now Fumigation is over. It's well.
ReplyDeleteHehehe,badt anon.Elephant brain,😁.
DeleteThey are doing another fumigation.
DeleteWhattttttttt this Monday morning 😠
ReplyDeleteMay the Lord rebuke the demon 😈
Licious babe
AY you are not new to celebrity palaver so I think you shouldn’t have said anything, let people say whatever their want cos no matter what you say people must talk.
ReplyDeleteIn Ebuka’s voice, good luck to all of you.
Fan Emmanuel
Two useless people who married themselves.
ReplyDeleteThis is what happens when one person cheats and the other party decides to cheat in revenge.
Exactly what happened. Bros didn't expect his wife to cheat back talkless of moving on.
DeleteChaos everywhere. If he didn't step out, they'd be managing themselves very well. But he decided to play the away game.
Omo, see sweet story o
DeleteShe gather mind o, come leave her children behind, obi siri ya ike!! What?
I love it!!
Gifty
The husband must be blamed as usual.
DeleteFirst anon. Great comment.
Delete@Anony 10:26
DeleteWhere was the husband blamed?
Do you have comprehension challenges?
It is well with them ooo
ReplyDeleteOh my! I'm just speechless.
ReplyDeleteAfter a whole 20 years!
ReplyDeleteIt's quite unfortunate
Allegedly moved on with her politician lover😁
ReplyDeleteWho probably is a MARRIED MAN😁😂
"Leave a cheat, to being the cheat factor in another"
I love the hypocrisy of women
Na here we go see you
DeleteIf she's not jumping into fire, cos the politician's late wife committed suicide. Hmmmmmmm
DeleteThe two aren't pure jare.
Anonymous please jist us na who is the politician? You may not say the full name
DeleteDid u say the politician's wife committed suicide? I think I know d person. Hmmm she for dey manage AY
DeleteAnony,anony abeg na,give us tea.@ Anon 09:26. Avor🙏.
DeleteFor those saying she probably cheated back cos AY did fess,. If AY put his hand in fire, would she do the same?
DeleteMake Una better sharrap..
Na ahewo all of Una be..
Make Baba sha go do DNA cos it'll be worse for him to find out that the kids left with him to train wasn't his at the end..
DNA is a must!
@Dante, I dey always hail you say you be man! You don burst dia bubble here again dem no go like you at all. She claims to leave a cheating husband but moving on with a married man, lol.
DeletePosting this comment again as Stella refused to post my earlier comment.
DeleteThe politician is Tayo Ayinde, (chief-of-staff to Sanwo-Olu).
His wife (from Ojora family) committed suicide in 2022 due to her husbands philandering ways.
E day pain you as she upgrade to better person
DeleteJesu! Anonymous the man is old and very ugly, I remember reading how his wife kpai last 2yrs or so because of the man’s shenanigans. This one is from grace to grass na
DeleteFan Emmanuel
11:20, keep deceiving yourself.
DeleteShe upgraded to a better person....”someone’s husband” some of you truly don’t have sense.
Sluttychic.
Ann 11:16 the man is not young now 59 is not young biko she fall hand but if this gives her joy so be it.
DeleteOnly you helped to add 'married' to the story.
DeleteYet another BV added that his wife is ldead and has been dead for a while but you didnt retract your statement.
You truly are a one track minded womenh8r azen!
He’s been living with the Ayoku girl for a while. What happened to them? Isn’t that why his wife killed herself?
DeleteIt is well
ReplyDeleteNa lie o no mind them.
ReplyDeleteDoes he have any upcoming project because they always have issues whenever he is about to release a movie(PRthings)but if that's not the case.I wish both of them peace.
ReplyDeleteMay God give them peace as they move on in life. It's not easy.
DeleteComment of a simp. Please!!
DeleteLols women are beginning to change the suffer head narrative in marriage and I’m loving it, she even left her kids with him !
ReplyDeleteE sweet me o, I feel for the kids but for her to take such decision eh
DeleteGifty
Keep loving it.
DeleteLike having sex with random men in the name of "cheating back" is something to be proud of.
No be your "privates" go pain you?
The void in your life will never be filled up, if you like, cheat with 1 billion men and say its in revenge.
11:17 you can wail from now till next year on top matter wey no concern you if you like.
DeleteGifty
Suffer head narrative? Y’all play too much. You live your husbands cos of cheating and end up with another woman’s husband, lmao.
DeleteWhat happened to the solidarity movement “women support women”
At the end of the day, most of you that claim to be smart and woke don’t know jack.
Sluttychic.
@Anon 11:40 aka Gify.
DeleteKeep advocating for cheating back.
Na your body go pain you.
Anon 12:07...if it's the rumoured man, he isn't married right now, just that his story and his precedents are not good.
DeleteMabel fake woman. She no fine like that pic frl o. I've seen her before
ReplyDeleteShe’s decent enough though.
DeleteI wish both of them peace
ReplyDeleteBut why did Mabel left her two kids behind? Hmmm
Hi Paris, whenever the verb "did" appears in a sentence, the subsequent tense must always be in the present state. E.g. Why did Mabel LEAVE her two kids behind?
Deletego and ask her and if she did not say then shut up. her older kid is big enough and what if he refused to let her take them? why shouls she kill herself when the kids would be well taken care of....if he was wicked to the kids and she feels they will suffer she would have.. everything a woman does na to dey judge her like wetin.
DeleteIt is well with them.
ReplyDeleteKai!
ReplyDeleteBest wishes to both of them.
So sad 😔
ReplyDeleteI always wonder like if you can stay with someone for 20years why will there be a break up, I thought they must have known how to tolerate each other except if it on this type of allegations sha.
ReplyDeleteThis is not good. Mabel please don't leave your daughters.
Sometimes people change. So he or she might not exhibit some traits at the beginning or it's some they can no longer hide.
Delete20 years doesn't mean they can't have serious issues that can lead to separation. Sometimes sef, they fall out of love 😁😁
"Nigeria women do this, do that so your men will not cheat" Nigeria men and Nigerian women deserve themselves. After a generation of cheating and oppressing your women,you expect them not to behave badly, yimu, make una dey marry and share STDs amongst yourselves! Despicable society!
ReplyDeleteThe Nigerian men who cheat on their wives,
DeletePray, tell me. Who do they cheat with?
They cheat with ghosts? their fellow men or with aliens?
When you people make blanket asinine statements like this, please, I know its hard but try to engage your reasoning faculties first.
Not Surprised. E don tey, wey dis foundation don dey shake.
ReplyDeleteAbidoshaker things
Jesus take over the wheels 🙌🏻
It is well
ReplyDeleteIt's well with them
ReplyDeleteHmmm. But na she know wetin pursue her, but common why did she leave her daughters behind?? This doesn't speak well of her at all, what kind of mother does that? Oh, she wants to leave the baby girl lifestyle without the children disturbing abi? Those children you left behind are your tomorrow my dear
ReplyDeleteWhat if her life was at stake and the man is using the kids to manipulate her? Na who dey alive dey be mother o
DeleteI don't know what happened but I can't just assume she left her kids behind cos she wanted to live the baby girl lifestyle. She sef don see life na.
Thank you Fidel, I want to like this your comment twenty times
DeleteHmmm, Fidel you might be right. But me wey me mother hen , I no fit leave my child for anyone o
Deletejudgemental mofo shut up...speak well of her before idiots like you? does she owe you? you people dont know the full story and will be running your stupid mouths all over the place
DeleteLet her live the baby girl life she also deserve it. It is comment like this makes a woman rather die been a Mrs. than leave cos she cant handle the kids alone outside marriage.
DeleteThank you Fidel. Some men will tell you to leave the kids if you want out. Using the kids as a manipulative tool to keep a woman in a toxic atmosphere.
Delete11:53, just check Fidel comment up there and check yours, despite having different point of view from mine, see how she laid her comment, that's how you know someone from a good background,a well brought up person that knows how to converse. Please direct your anger to the right channel, if they're still alive ask them why they didn't train you properly. Thanks
Deletethe way single mothers advocate for break ups on this blog ehn?? Lmaoo… misery indeed loves company.
DeleteAre they not his daughters too?
DeleteOsinachi was in misery
Delete20years of marriage
ReplyDeleteWhat a wawu
It is well with the both of you
How could a mother leave her children and run out of her marriage when she was not chased? I can still remember what Snow White Kayode acted because she was denied access to her children, and another woman left a marriage without her children willingly
ReplyDeleteShe is real Ojukokoro and believes her beauty will see her through
I come in peace oo
you must be deeply retarded if you do not know the different scenarios with all the names you mentioned. judgemental idiots....since you have no sense, carry a pen and start analyzing the these two people.....why marriage crashed, age of kids, husbands attitude etc.....maybe you will get more sense...you do not know the full story so keep you opinion in the bin....
DeleteSMH at She left their two daughters with AY when she moved out....Maybe he didn’t allow her take the kids with her. Some men are like that. You can go but leave my kids with me. If that wasn’t the case, a big red flag for her. They are both cheaters anyway, no biggie.
ReplyDeleteThe kids will be well taken care of with their dad, sometimes no be every time one drags kids with their dad. If the kids are well off with their dad and you have access to them please woman leave your kids with their dad.
DeleteMakason see how you’re dying to lure more women into this your lonely single mother life. Lmao
DeleteAnnoy you are very stupid for saying that
DeleteDear married women if you like die on top MRS and this foolish person up here opinion, if the man is not ready to do his bid in the marital vow you both took do well to leave him and enjoy your life.
Leave with the kids if he is highly irresponsible to them but if he is responsible to them leave them with their dad no be only you born them.
I left with mine cos of the level of irresponsibility in him and i am not ashamed to say so.
Oya Annoy come and beat me.
Makason if you like die as a single mother in the name of enjoying your life and crying in the night, envying other women while feeling rejected, your kids will still leave you for their partners. Leave married people alone.
DeleteI'm speechless
ReplyDeleteAll the best to them.
All of you “how can a mother leave her kids?” Yenyenyen na una dey put una selves for box o. Where is it written that only mothers should live with the kids after separation? The person she left them with, is it not their father? Suffer head no go let una breathe. Na she fit to dey juggle two kids while A.Y gallivant Lagos with BBN girls? Let him be a father too 🤷🏿♀️
ReplyDeleteHmm, because I know what children whose mothers are not around go through, their eyes dey see shege banza, it's only a mother that knows how to back her baby o. If I tell you wetin my eyes see, you go know say I suppose carry my child like hen up and down
DeleteDaddy duty calls🤣
DeleteGame mistress agreed. The people I know it happened to they were bitter about their mothers like forever. These people are women not even men.
DeleteThis is not a good one at all. After 20 whole years? aaahhhh.... na wa ooo
ReplyDeletelas las marriage is 100% God or is empty
It is well with them
ReplyDeleteWomen no wan gree again for men
The students have learnt and are surpassing the teachers
DeleteThe students have learnt and are surpassing the teachers
DeleteAnd I'm here for it😎
DeleteHmmm.this is serious!
ReplyDeleteI am not here to apportion blames, if she has decided to leave then go with your girls, they are girls & very fragile......me i cannot leave my children for anybody, No....No....mbanu...
ReplyDeleteShebi you people said kids, especially girls raised by single mothers are a menace to the society? Oya let the single father have them and show them that super fatherly figure
DeleteLol
DeleteHaa! My dear! I no fit leave pikin for anybody o! Especially one below 10 years. Hopefully they agree to share custody
DeleteAm sorry, but I knew this is going to happen one day as their marriage don get k_leg for years. Mabel I hope you are coming back for your kids? Because even 100maids and nannies can never take care of your kids as you the mother would. It is well with all of you.
ReplyDeleteWho told you, I have seen women whose maid took care of their kids better than them, being able to have kids doesn't automatically translate to being a good mother else most kids with living mums in the orphanage wouldn't be there.
DeleteSome people are crying for marital settlement while some are bailing out on marriage.
ReplyDeleteLife no balance at all
DeleteNa so life be
DeleteAyinde of all people. From frying pan to fire.
ReplyDeleteIt's long over due since the day of fumigation. Marriage can never work with the efforts of one party.
ReplyDeleteThe home must be built by two people who have the same vision & are willing to make continuous effort to ensure that their union works
The most complex B
Something stinks with this narrative, the man is appearing to be a saint in this version
ReplyDeleteThe bar is in hell for men that's why
DeleteShe's very strong to leave her kids, especially the small one. I won't even sleep well if it were me
ReplyDelete