WHATSAPP GROUP BROUHAHA
Hello my fellow bvs. How una dey?
So my husband and I belong to this sales WhatsApp group, I no kuku know the type of love that made me add him to the group..
He was working in a company's marketing department back then and as a good wife, I thought he might need to advertise on the group to help his career but thinking about it now, I should have advertised on his behalf instead of adding him.
Meanwhile, he no longer works in that company and doesn't need to advertise anything anymore.
So we all buy and sell on this group, different vendors abound. Sometimes, one will buy something on the group, the seller will acknowledge your patronage, other members will see it. I would buy something, oga will use it to talk later like "you don't have money? sebi when you have small change, it is rubbish you will use it to buy".
So we all buy and sell on this group, different vendors abound. Sometimes, one will buy something on the group, the seller will acknowledge your patronage, other members will see it. I would buy something, oga will use it to talk later like "you don't have money? sebi when you have small change, it is rubbish you will use it to buy".
My sisters, is it a crime to pamper one's self once in a while?
That one no even pain reach.
I will chat and exchange jokes on the group, oga will still use it to talk later, he may say "time you should use for better things, you will be laughing and chatting on XYZ group".
He did another one again recently and I have decided to tell the group admin to remove him from the group. The admin is my customer but doesn't know that he is my husband. If I tell her to remove him, she will do it, after all, he doesn't participate in anything, not even a good morning.
I have learnt my lesson.
That one no even pain reach.
I will chat and exchange jokes on the group, oga will still use it to talk later, he may say "time you should use for better things, you will be laughing and chatting on XYZ group".
He did another one again recently and I have decided to tell the group admin to remove him from the group. The admin is my customer but doesn't know that he is my husband. If I tell her to remove him, she will do it, after all, he doesn't participate in anything, not even a good morning.
I have learnt my lesson.
If he is removed from the group, he will know that you are behind it....If he is removed he will see who removed him and call the person...So you are in a tight spot.....
let me tell you what to do....Ask the admin to remove you from the group and tell him that you are tired of being there for now, after some days ask the admin to remove him as well and ask to be readded to the group...I hope he has not befriended anyone from the group that will tell him if you are readded..
Good luck oh
Follow SDK advise
ReplyDeleteBadoo SDK😂😂😂
DeleteNaa best advice Stella give you oo
DeleteSdk na real badooh... Lol
DeleteTry this and wait for the outcome.
DeleteHope it helps.
Nice advice from Stella, but won't the husband wonder why he was also removed 😁😁
ReplyDeleteYou have better leave the group. And don’t make the mistake of going back . He may Anne made friends who will tell him you’re there
Delete15:04
DeleteHe will know it was orchestrated by his wife.
TELL THEM TO ANNOUNCE THAT THEY ARE REMOVING NONE ACTIVE MEMBERS AND REMOVE HIM AT ONCE!!!!
DeleteAND DONT EVER TRY THAT NONSENSE AGAIN TO ADD YOUR HUSBAND TO WHATSAPP GROUPS;I AM SURE IF THE ADMINS KNOW ITS YOUR HUBBY THEY WILL SAVE HIS NUMBER
Good advice. Poster follow Stella's advice.
DeleteI made the same mistake. In my case, I just stopped participating. I was removed from the group during a clean-up and refused to be re-added since he was still actively there.
💕😍 Thank you.
DeleteIf it's me,I will exit the group.
ReplyDeletePoster you would have given this your chronicle title ,' see finish '.
ReplyDeleteWisdom will not kill you Stella 🤣😂, sabi blogger!!
ReplyDeleteThey should remove him let him cry
ReplyDeleteStella you have sense o lol
ReplyDeleteStella nailed it
ReplyDeleteNice
ReplyDeleteSDK said it all
ReplyDeleteyou should try that method and have peace of mind in your home.
Just remove him from the group after all you were the one that added him.
ReplyDeletePoster please go with Stella advise
ReplyDeleteRemove you. Remove your husband later. And go back. All these and we think the man will not decode. Women always are smarter than the men they marry. Wait O! Why do women always choose men they are smarter than?
ReplyDeleteAnybody married quickly finds out that outsmarting a spouse is better than being transparent in in the marriage.
by the way, why is the husband complaining about the self-pampering spendings.
Start there instead of all these remove him, remove me, add me and hide.
Ostensibly, you and your husband's phones are locked from each other's access.
Otherwise, he would still see your whatsapp groups membership anytime from looking at your phone, right? Wrong - Marriage no reach that side. Hence this marriage thing should be fully contractual as it actually is and be stripped of all the love wrap and emotional icing some use to deceive some.
Your husband would know you got him removed and would think you did it to ease other things.
ReplyDeleteMadam Stella's response is on point today. Nothing to add more.
ReplyDeleteWhat an annoying fckr you have for a husband. While I like Stella’s advice. I say just tell the admin to remove him in a month or a couple weeks, whichever feels more fitting to you. He serves no purpose in the group anyway so he has no reason to be there. If he asks you anything just say they are cleaning up the group.
ReplyDeleteIf you see anything you like chat the seller privately
ReplyDeleteNice advice from Stella
ReplyDeleteStella's advice today is giving copy and paste 👌.
ReplyDeleteIts the audacity you ladies have thinking because you put someone you have right to remove the person.h3 is an adult for christ sake.imagine you being tricky just to go back.you uave a bad character and most won't see it.
ReplyDeleteNa men wey dey take women serious I pity
Yimu
Delete@ 17:58, bad character over this little issue??? Na waoooo. Guy man is no longer relevant on the page. Why is he still there in the first place?? I guess he has plenty of time to monitor his wife over whst she buys to take care of herself. Nawa... Poster pls take Sdk's advice.
DeleteIts the audacity you ladies have thinking because you put someone you have right to remove the person.h3 is an adult for christ sake.imagine you being tricky just to go back.you uave a bad character and most won't see it.
ReplyDeleteNa men wey dey take women serious I pity
Lol @17:58
DeleteIt seems you are unhappy and feel judged for what you did out of good thought for your hubby. You can always call him aside, tell him how those words make you feel and tell him to respect your choices. Read in between the lines, your hubby doesn't really care about the group. It seems he doesn't approve of how you manage your time and money simple! It could as well be a religious group, complaints will still be made.
ReplyDeleteListen to the concerns, ask him for suggestions, if you think his suggestions are good, incorporate them. If not, discuss and find a middle ground with love and respect. He might be bothered about something and transferring it towards you, find out.
That plan of taking him off the group is so short term and open door for further accusations. Besides when he's off the group, (since love has cleared from your eyes na), who's to say what things you will be buying since they sell everything there.
Is there financial strain,? Small issues like these can lead to deep seated resentment and ultimately kill the love between you both.
Cracks, "I don't want your opinion on how I manage my life", "dey your dey let me dey my dey", different social media groups, different friends, different lives, then one day one will be wondering what happened to our once peaceful happy home.
A wise woman builds her home, a foolish woman with her hands tears it down. Chose your actions carefully.
PCX
"you don't have money? sebi when you have small change, it is rubbish you will use it to buy".
DeleteThe man is crying out of financial strain.
But How many women you think want to hear your preachment.
Hmmm please for peace in your home leave the group
DeleteNobody is asking what madam is buying that oga is not happy with but women supporting women if it is men now na men are scum will the anthem ,it is well
ReplyDeleteThe issue is most wives do not support their husbands in running the family's bills - kids education, rent, feeding, utilities etc. All the burden is on the husbands - he hardly buys anything for himself cos of the family expenses. But the wives have money to buy clothes, shoes, bags on a regular basis. That is the lot of most men now and therefore some resentment for their wives. Very selfish lots.
ReplyDeletePoster you cannot take his phone when he's sleeping and exit him from the group?
ReplyDeleteSDK you are hitted the nail on the head
ReplyDeleteLol SDK brought my story here 🤣
ReplyDeleteThey have removed him already, when he asked why he was removed, they told him he was inactive, he pleaded to be readded, they told him that they will add him to group two as group one is full, our group has one and two. He said he would rather not be in anyone than be in group two.
Yeye man, he wants to be in group one so he can monitor me 🤣🤣🤣
He is presently not in any of the groups again.
They cannot remove me as I'm very active..
To those saying yeñ yen yen, IAM a business owner and I contribute to the running of the home
Face him with his accusations.
ReplyDeleteYou have the right to live too, being in the group is part of life too.
Tell him to stop already and let him know you will have him removed from the group
Sdk is too wise oooo. I like the advise
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