TURSDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 I salute!!!

IN HOUSE YARNINGS

I salute everyone today....

Its a cloudy cold day and I am thankful for Gods love.....

Like play, Easter is already around the corner!

Like play its already a year my dad died (March 3rd)

Like play the year is moving so fast......

Baba God we thank you!

Sometimes things i see and hear and things in the Bible sometimes contradict and confuses but i have since resolved to try my best and do good and do what gives me peace.

Easter party loading somewhere....

Ehen Zee one...

Queen Salima and the other guy are free from the accusations but Rukaya set up someone and escaped it and it looks like she wants to posion that Mahamangags housegirl cos she says as long as this person is alive she is not safe.......

I am tired of salim as a small boy, he is too wicked already to his mum. They should try and fast forward to adulthood or do i need to follow him thru the years?

I dont really like watching the salima part again like that...

Dem don arrest sherrifuddin papa, he planned the kidnapping of the kings son.

What next?

Roshni wants to enter cooking compeition but she cant cook water....hisss....

Yesterday was all boring scenes but i still enjoyed it (side eyes at non zeeoners)

what is the next scene? thank you so much for all the tips...i go soon begin pay you sef...hehehehehehehehehe

Hugs to everyone who cares for one!

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UPDATE ON GINA FROM MONDAY IN HOUSE NEWS:

Thank u for posting the previous story ma'am.

So yesterday, My daughter came back and updated me that Gina came to school with Rice and Okpa. As the story goes: When she cried because my daughter didn't give her food last week, It was reported to the teacher who in turn confronted her aunt and she said that she didnt know that she was supposed to give her more food to carry to school after giving her breakfast and Gina never complained. She promised to start giving her foods.

I asked my daughter how she knew, She said that it was the teacher that told them in class.

I was disappointed that the teacher made it open but I thank God for answering my prayers.

I feel so relieved.

Have a beautiful day everyone.

Thank God for the way it ended.

Someone already reached out to me and wanted to pay for the food but i have told her its been sorted and that she can gift another BV the money if she wants to.....

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOHERHOOD

When my princess was three months old I wanted to start training her to sit up as tradition says. In my culture you start sit training the girls at three months and the boys at four months. I never questioned it because the boys sat up easily without any special effort, they had good neck control from birth.

Now when it was my princess turn, the first time I tried to sit her up she cried and kept pushing herself back to a sleeping position.
Someone I respect a lot ( my big Sis) warned me to leave her alone and allow her sit at her own pace.
It was then I decided to do a little research about when to help a baby sit and it turned out it wasn’t gender specific and it’s best to let babies go through this milestones at their own pace.
The pressure was crazy, grandparents, random people who would give unsolicited advice when they notice she wasn’t sitting up herself. So some days back at six and half months, I tried to lift her off the bed and I noticed she was trying to prop herself up .I left her to it and she sat up on her own .
I was excited and of course I announced to everyone that she was sitting on her own. The very next day I got a call from one of our relatives saying “ so when will she start crawling “.
At that moment I paused and realised that this is how the society, culture and other things starts putting a person under undue pressure and standard and if one is not strong enough to stand up for oneself, one will be caught up in an unending rat race.
The scriptures says The race is not to the swift or the battle to the strong, nor does food come to the wise or wealth to the brilliant or favor to the learned; but time and chance happen to them all.
Do you!! Do you at your own pace and let the world adjust.

Keep this beautiful mindset concerning everything that concerns you and yours and you wont have the headache of being pushed around

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PINKYS CORNER

Women are our everything. They are our mother, our queen, our princess, our all in all but one thing I find difficult to understand is why God created Eve while Adam was asleep. May be na wetin make us no understand them too well like that.

A woman is married to a gentle and caring man but she keeps frustrating this man. Last week, I don't know what transpired between the two but the man came to me and explained all he went through in the hands of his boss. 

He is a driver to regional manager of a company. This man is fond of slapping and cursing him whenever he is driving, e.g, he said they went to ekiti for a seminar and he had accelerated to 100s/m and suddenly, the boss saw a pretty lady and asked him to stop but it wasn't that easy for him , so he had to move forward a bit then slow down then the boss slapped him saying " are u mad, I asked you to stop and you are still moving", he said he tried explaining but he didnt listen. They took the lady and the story ended at the hotel when they got to ekiti. The same thing happened at Ibadan, on their way to Iwo road, he was parking behind a car at a supermarket and they were done with what they went for. The car had been hooting to signify that, he wanted to drive out but his boss was busy discussing with a lady who walked up to him to advertise landed properties.

He tried reversing to excuse the car but his boss gave him an hard knock(a married man of 40years ooo, no be say na 20years old boy ooo). He said he was mad but still kept calm and tried to explain but he ended with raining curses on him. 

They left and he refused returning back to the place. The wife on the other side works at a bank. Since the husband has stopped working for just a week, the wife has been victimizing him. I asked him if he explained everything he has been enduring and he said yes. Ok. He was busy looking for another job and the wife sent him a message to go see one of her boss that, she has spoken to him.

 On getting there on Wednesday, he realized the wife asked the boss the give the husband a driving job in the same bank where she works(what an insult), a driving job of #35k..oga ooo. He was so mad and he came back and explained everything to me. I asked him if he has any savings and he said no. Why sir? He explained a lot that I can't really write up here. Before now, the wife has been making us understand that , she is the one footing 95% of everything at home which means, the man is totally useless because 95% is a way too much.(She said this when they first had an issue last month and I had to come in. So, when I was discussing with her. She said this to me in presence of my wife and we stylishly looked at ourselves).

So, with the above, I began to ask him questions, and the man was so confident of what he told me and also showed me receipts all he has been sending to his wife's account even when he is away for months or weeks due to the driving job. He said, he has never given his wife cash after 3years of their marriage, he prefer sending to her account for record purpose (their marriage is 11years now). I asked him why such decision then he replied saying, his wife has been acting funny ever since she got the bank job and keeps telling her family that, she is being the one taking care of the home and he has to do so for record purposes. Several receipts saved on his mail box. Now, baba has left home to lagos.

 He picked few things and left. I called him 2days ago to ask him why and he said, he doesn't want to misbehave because his wife is becoming something else. I asked if he has a plan. He said he is gone to work out things and make money.

After church service yesterday, the wife came to my place to report his husband for traveling without her knowledge, that, she has spoken with her boss at the bank to help him . Then I asked what kind of job? She said driving(he be ur boss driver).

 I just smiled . Wanted to ask her how she feels after saying that trash but I just kept mute. She made a statement, she said, for him to have gone without notifying her either to look for job or anything, she won't call and she is not even bothered if he comes back or not.

Let me shock you, after our discussion yesterday, she sent a message to the house fellowship group on Whatsapp reminding us of yesterday's house fellowship but we didn't bother to attend because to me, it's wrong when we don't practice what we preach. I can't continue going for house fellowship in their house where love , communication and tolerance doesn't exist. I have planned sending her a message this week to tell her, if she can't calm down to settle dispute with her husband then I'm done with that house fellowship. This is a woman who act like God's P.A but I swear, she is just something else and when you see her holding the mic to sing or pray at the church, fear Go catch you.

What I studied from her is, she is an authoritarian, and believes she is strong enough to be herself without her husband. I later got an information that, the bank job was a slot from the husband's family to her husband but he gave it to his wife and he was busy with fishery but everything collapsed when errosion took away all the fish and it happens the same month he got a loan of 3million from the bank to expand the fishery business. This was the beginning of his downfall. 

What kind of advice should i give this man now?

It's ur naughty boy Pinky

Ire oooooo

First and foremost, try to mind your business when it comes to husband and wife quarel, dem go settle and later table all the advice you gave them to see which label to place on you......

Tell your friend IT IS WELL.

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BY BV GIFTED FROM TUESDAY SP

One customer almost removed my eye with blow yesterday

He came to me and told me his customer has made a transfer of 10000 to my pos account (Opay). Meanwhile when I gave him my account number the previous day, I already told him how much I charge.

I now checked and saw it, gave him 9850, I removed charges of 150.

Note that my mates charge 200.

This man thew the money at me, told me to remove only 50 or at most 100 , that after all Opay charges less than #20 for any money that enters POS account. No be small thing, he almost gave me blow on the face before they held him.

Last last he collected the money like that after people almost beat him up, telling him that others charge 200 and that he does not have the right to calculate my profit for me as he doesn't know my running expenses.

This my business na dangerous business o. Na so I for collect better blow

Sorry oh!!!!

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From weirdfacts

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