Heavenly Father, we thank you for another beautiful Sunday morning. Lord as we embark on another week, protect and guide our actions ,words and thoughts in Jesus name π. May your love towards us be a testament to your grace and Mercies Help us to understand that your ways are far greater than our ways and your thoughts far deeper than our thoughts. Thank you for surrounding us with favor as a shield. We give you praise and honor for your ways are righteous and true in Jesus name π GOOD MORNING MY SDK FAMILY.
"You’re His sanctified tabernacle today. He sanctified your vessel, your body to become His house. You’re God’s dwelling place; He literally lives inside you. And because He lives in you, He speaks through you and walks in you (2 Corinthians 6:16). He manifests Himself in and through you."
"The great God of glory lives in you today through the Holy Spirit. What a blessing! Always honour the Spirit; fellowship with Him often. He’s all you need for a life of the miraculous and the supernatural every day."
Prayer!!
Dear Father, I thank you for the presence of the Holy Spirit in me; I’m filled with God. Therefore, there’s no room for sickness, disease, anger, jealousy or anything of darkness in me. I’m full of light, and I light up my world. I’m never alone because the Holy Spirit is forever in me and with me; He’s my ever-present help in time of need! Hallelujah!
Our distinctive threads weave across time to create a distinct pattern that is exclusive to us in the tapestry of life. Life is a path of self-discovery and growth, filled with a wide range of events and obstacles. Many people find comfort and direction in religion along this path, but faith is fundamentally a very personal journey that is not subject to external imposition or direction.
Fundamentally, religion is a light of hope that provides consolation and purpose among the uncertainty of life. It gives moral advice for managing the difficulties of human existence as well as a framework for comprehending the mysteries of the universe. But religion's real beauty is found in its capacity to speak to each person's soul and profoundly and truly touch their hearts.In a society where inflexible ideas and religious dogma can obscure the core of faith, it is crucial to recover the sacredness of individual conviction.
Every person is born with the intrinsic ability to search for meaning and truth and to delve deeply into their own spirituality free from the weight of other people's expectations. We must nurture our own spiritual journey and allow our hearts to grow in the light of our own truth, just as a flower unfolds its petals towards the sun.
Choosing to follow a personal faith means going on a voyage of self-discovery and exploring the depths of our own souls to find meaning and purpose. It's a journey of reflection and introspection, a holy search to find the divine spark that lives inside each of us. Although doubt and confusion may arise along the road, it is precisely because of these difficulties that our faith is put to the test and strengthened—just as gold is polished in the furnace of adversity. However, let us remember the value of tolerance and respect for the beliefs of others as we travel this journey of personal faith. We must respect the variety of religious expression that exists in the world, just as much as we value the opportunity to explore our personal spirituality.
Because real enlightenment is found in appreciating the intrinsic dignity and value of every single being, not in forcing one's beliefs on others. Religion is the common thread that connects us to something bigger than ourselves in the tapestry of life.
However, it's a thread that needs to be knitted with attention and care, respecting the individuality of every voyage. Thus, let us honor the beauty of our individual faiths while respecting the views of others as we walk this holy path with humility and grace. Because, in the end, what matters are the profound moments of connection and meaning we find along the route, as much as the journey itself.
I read the comments under my post yesterday and i sincerely apologise to Stella if any of my post weren't acknowledging the source. This is due to the fact that, i get daily motivational quotes sent to me which i find inspirational enough to share on this platform.
It's never my intention to create any unnecessary trouble here as it would defeat the purpose of visiting this blog.
I would post my own writeups going forward and the "INVESTIGATIVE BV" can keep up the good work by making sure there is no case for plagiarism.
P. S: About disappearing, only shallow and myopic people think that way.
hey anakin thanks for not disappearing like that sdk pyschologist, you na CORRECT MAN. your orginal writeup is even sweeter than the ones you copied...... thank you for being you... Abeg no fight the invesitgative BV, nah my interest dem get at heart...hehehehehehe
Oh Allah, on this day, help us with its fasts and prayers, and keep us away from mistakes and sins of the day, grant us that we remember you continuously through the day, by your assistance, O the Guide of those who stray May Allah answer all our sincere devotions and fulfil our heart's desire , Amin ya Allah π€²
Good morning to y'all on here and π happy Sunday to you too. Gearing up to go all out to Coza in a jiffy.
Quick One Are you a front sitter in church or you prefer to sit at the back for reasons best known to you? Are you one of those that don't listen to ushers and ignore the heck outta them to go sit anywhere instead of the seat assigned to you? Isn't that disobedience or some sort of pride if you look at it critically?
Last night, I had some collections of blues played till 12am before I slept off. It brought back old memories. I remember an ex I had loved so much with every breathe of mine.
It was very emotional to think I gave my ALL to her and still lost out.
Well, I don’t miss her. I miss the illusion that she sold me. I tell you something guys, you can feel it when someone is not being real with you.
Energy never lies.
Someone who truly loves you will give you the attention. But then, you must first understand your value in order to appreciate anyone else. There is a limit to how long you can stick with someone if you feel they're stringing you all along.
Don't make excuses for anyone. People invariably know what they're doing. When they show you who they're the very first time, believe them. When you see those red flags, please make a bold statement by throwing such person away in your life.
Marriage never changes anyone don't be deceived. Rather it emboldens what anyone has always being in the relationship. Even if it does, it's a slim percentage not up to 5%
Better to marry late and rightly than marry a bad partner. For that's something worse than being single.
SO YOU LOVED HER THIS MUCH EVEN THOUGH U KNEW SHE SOLD YOU A LIE OR U STOPPED LOVING HER AFTER YOU FOUND OUT? LET ME SURPRISE YOU..... IT IS ONLY THE LOVE U FELL FOR YOUR KIDS THAT LASTS FOREVER AND FOREVER AND STANDS THRU TIME DESPITE LIES AND WHATEVER.....COPY THAT
Respect is what women call love, when they respect you, they submit.
Women are not capable of loving men. Women only love their kids, and that's because of the sacrifices they have made for them..
I have said it times and times over again.. Let her make sacrifices. That's what she's loyal to. Her sacrifices which translates to her feelings.. - you know, they are loyal to their feelings and not your sacrifices. Don't let your commitment come cheap.
I can give a girl all my money and properties for nothing or let's even say s£x,. But you are my commitment-.. she has to work for it.
They think they're wise when they bill men, they don't know they're playing themselves, the cheapest thing a man can give a lady is money.. But you see that commitment ehn, you must sweat for am.. you must show workings, you must show you can submit to me, you must show respect that I'm your Lord, you'll show me you're domesticated and reserved as I no fit carry wild animal put for house, you must show modesty, you no git go dey twerk for IG or dress almost naked showing your n!pples all around town,.
The women are always kukuma at fault. I'm sure even the imaginary one, wey you no use let us hear word months back, is/was at fault for "carrying her load and packing out of your imagination". Pele dear. You "wee" be alright las las.
People who understand u don't need words to know how you're feeling. They listen not just with ears but with their ❤️, for they understand the dept of ur soul without having to say a word. If u have such people in ur life, then mention them and thank them for being so understanding.
Happy Sunday and good morning great people, Rainy Sunday over here, it has been raining since yesterday night and I couldn't go to church this morning, Wishing us all a blissful Sunday.
Happy Sunday beautiful people How is the network interruption at your end? Not pleasant but we move regardlessπ Have a blessed time in God's presence wherever you are. One love y'all ❤❤❤
It is an aberration for a man to marry a woman older than he is. Everybody reading this knows this. We can decide to pretend not to. A man is built to be above his wife on all fronts- age, experience, wealth, education, spirituality, et al. That is why a woman always seeks out a man richer than she is. That is why the average woman stops respecting her husband when she has more financial buoyancy. It doesn't make her a bad woman. That's nature, bro. Before a woman tells you "yes", she don xray you in and out (rightly or wrongly though). Women past their prime tend to be more open to marry men they are older than because time isn't their pal anymore. They can decide to tell themselves otherwise, but the average woman wants an older man as a husband. A man is advised to always develop himself at every stage if he wants to retain his wife's respect. Your wife can't be developing herself while you remain the same. It will never work. Sooner or later, she'll lose that respect she has for you. Love no dey for this one. Lastly, as a woman, endeavour to marry as early as possible to avoid unnecessary complications. You have a lot of options when younger. You're valued more. You can't begin to scramble for a husband in your thirties or forties without making dire mistakes. This is the point t men use your heart to play ludo, knowing so well you have fewer options. Forget what wokeness tells you and face reality. A woman's natural negotiating power lies in her youthfulness and also her chastity.
When you say 'Women' are you saying African women or women in general? Because from where I am standing there are women in there prime who have married men they are way younger than, I don't know about Nigerian women though...but women from other countries..who actually find younger men sexier...Perhaps I need more education on how women from your 'area' reason.
Don't mind them, later they'll be living a deceitful life, lying about their age and body count π
Me I sha won't be with a lady because of her condition..
Telling me I have a wrapped mentality because I say women don't respect a guy they're older than in a relationship. It's something I have experienced, and she was only few months older than me,. Then you come old finish you won come twist script say age no matter, dey play.. aunty would you have said so when you were 25 and I was 22?ππ
My friend, you better carry that your nonsense talk and go and tell Ezege bikoππ
Which one stray bullet come hit me where I dey. Wetin I do naaa?
I think women know that very well. A pretty bv here turned down my relationship request here on the basis that she's older than me. I think it is a difference of two years.
When I asked her why? She boldly said knowing that she's older than me will make her not to respect me. I was shocked hearing that.
So I think and believe what Ceased said to be true.
Make una no vex oh, Balogun Caesar and all "Fault finding men who have decided to always lump all women as one", based on their myopic view of women and based on the kind of women they have met, have around them, have had relationship dealings with, abeg, shey dem forbid men, especially una, to marry early? Dem forbid una to be chaste? Why seek what you don't have to give,yourself? If una like, make una come begin cry for here, especially that one that must always be abusive and the one that is anywhere belle face, na una sabi.
So you finally accede that there is nothing like virginity but chastity. Before, you would have replaced Chastity with virginity in your last paragraph. Well, I see you are learning. It shows you are teachable!
Moving on, I hope you know that a truly chaste woman does not pray to be joined to a man with a filthy lifestyle or past. A man who thinks living a holy life before God is below him isn't attractive to her. She won't want to be one with a man to whom chastity is an alien concept.
A man who is too weak to be pure yet shamelessly revels in his (stunted) virility is not a match for her. She won't rate nor respect him... In her eyes, he is a weakling, besides No one wants to be polluted. Even the Bible is against it. Doing so is like putting your gold ring in a pig's nose. Be guided!
You are not the only one looking for something good. If you, in your state have such an unreasonably high standard, how much more is someone who has held herself to such a standard? A chaste woman does not care about a man's money, that isn't her number one priority, or else she would have vanished her chastity on the bed of vanities and materialism with men who would spend anything to have and impress her.
I see you... You're the anon the other time we talked about chastity and virginity. Nice reading from you.
Let me ask you, how do you think marriage between two chaste people will look like? Won't that be boring? I'm just imaging that.
Beside I see nothing wrong a chaste woman marrying a man that's not chaste and vice versa. What if it's a cross from the Almighty on them to bring the the other person closer to Him?
Two chaste people, boring? But not too long ago even Ceaser came here writing an ode while fawning over two people who seemed to exemplify chastity. Case in point, Marie and Moses Bliss. Do you find them boring? Well, I don't and they are such a delight to watch. I doubt he finds them boring too. Besides, being boring has to do with personality and not your moral standards.
I understand your point but you can't heal someone who does not even think they are sick in the first place. Someone with a warped sense of entitlement to sin founded on the excuse of his gender alone; who believes his masculinity is deeply rooted in sowing his wild oats and him being a man automatically exempts him from the necessity of living a chaste life in the eye of God, is a task too heavy to take on.
I don't think that is a cross any sensible woman would like to carry or God will push his beloved daughter to embark on. That is why the Bible says, "Do not be unequally yoked with an unbeliever" (being a believer goes beyond going to church) God gave that warning to protect the peace of his children who are already living chaste as he commands.
Yes, God cares about the other person who doesn't desire to be chaste and hope they change but still, he doesn't want their burden on his children also remember, Iron sharpens Iron.
A typical situation, My cousin wanted to date my friend but he wasn't right for her. He doesn't believe in waiting till marriage and she does. They have different lifestyles and I knew he would pretend to wait for her while he goes out to sleep with other ladies till marriage if she agreed to date him. Well, I told her he wasn't right for her and I told him to back off. I love my cousin, he is family but I also love my friend and I know she deserves better.
I would like to think God is like that too and he won't give someone who is chaste to someone who will never feel the need to be, except he knows there is a chance for that happening sooner or later but I knew my cousin won't change because just like some men he feels men can cheat and women shouldn't, so...
Moving on, didn't Ceaser talk about a man being more than a woman in everything, right? Well, doesn't that give credence to what I have been trying to say all along? Going by his assertion, then he and every other man who supports his beliefs must agree that; If you want to be the head of and lead a chaste woman, you must have more NOBLE qualities and be someone she looks up to morally, her Teacher. Otherwise, you won't gain her respect because to a chaste woman, even if you have money, if you don't have Godly virtue and morals(chastity) you are an incomplete man.
I believe it is a different case if the man or woman is remorseful and can humbly admit they do not live a chaste life and are striving to be, then a chaste person marrying such shouldn't be an issue, because they are already halfway there and the Holy-Spirit is already convicting them. I think that is what your last paragraph was trying to shed light on.
Now, If you said all these due to the case of Hosea who was commanded to marry a prostitute in the Bible, I need to let you know that was just an allegory of the undying love between Christ and the Church. It wasn't about God using Hosea to change the prostitute herself but about God using Hosea's life as an analogy to pass a message across and paint a clearer picture to the people of Isreal about his relationship with them back then.
Off to church! This akara that I made was very sweet. I ate it well with pap, now I couldn't wear the fitted gown that intended to wear. XP thanks once again o. I will send pics to Stella when I finally make that lumpy egusi and get it right. #proudfoodie
Bonjour Blogfam ♥️ I usually don't like it when you are house hunting and you keep hearing ; I don't want a Muslim or somebody attending Celestial church, it is so wrong, God shines the sun on both believers and unbelievers who are we to judge? The Lord is near all that call upon Him π When my hubby was still job hunting in a foreign country some years back,His brother sent him some money, and on his way from collecting the money, He heard a voice, he just finished 7 days fast at that time, The Spirit told him to give the money in his hands to His servant, He asked God which servant? And the Spirit showed him an Imam sitting in front of the Mosque, He was nonplussed, he heard the voice again, but he obeyed, and sowed the seed, My baby said not only did he get a good job, he received a huge financial blessings he has never received in His life that month. I just wanted to share this, knowing God is a deep mystery.
BV BABONI are you a spirit? i am asking cos you are beginning to scare me oh....you have an example of every story in the past and in the future, you are even in the present....This week you said you hubby was in his 70's and that shocked me cos i had a different view...your kids are both adults and teens and babies.I am sorry but i dont mean to put a question mark on your make anyone suspect you of anything but please are you like a ghost? A spirit?
Please if anyone is a spirit on this Blog, please be a good one and help those suffering..If you are a bv that was addicted to this blog but you have passed on and still commenting here, please dont marry anyone here ooooooooooo.be good here please.
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Heavenly Father, we thank you for another beautiful Sunday morning.
ReplyDeleteLord as we embark on another week, protect and guide our actions ,words and thoughts in Jesus name π.
May your love towards us be a testament to your grace and Mercies
Help us to understand that your ways are far greater than our ways and your thoughts far deeper than our thoughts.
Thank you for surrounding us with favor as a shield. We give you praise and honor for your ways are righteous and true in Jesus name π
GOOD MORNING MY SDK FAMILY.
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DeleteHis Sanctified Tabernacle!!
ReplyDeleteJohn 14:17.
"You’re His sanctified tabernacle today. He sanctified your vessel, your body to become His house. You’re God’s dwelling place; He literally lives inside you. And because He lives in you, He speaks through you and walks in you (2 Corinthians 6:16). He manifests Himself in and through you."
"The great God of glory lives in you today through the Holy Spirit. What a blessing! Always honour the Spirit; fellowship with Him often. He’s all you need for a life of the miraculous and the supernatural every day."
Prayer!!
Dear Father, I thank you for the presence of the Holy Spirit in me; I’m filled with God. Therefore, there’s no room for sickness, disease, anger, jealousy or anything of darkness in me. I’m full of light, and I light up my world. I’m never alone because the Holy Spirit is forever in me and with me; He’s my ever-present help in time of need! Hallelujah!
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ReplyDeleteOur distinctive threads weave across time to create a distinct pattern that is exclusive to us in the tapestry of life. Life is a path of self-discovery and growth, filled with a wide range of events and obstacles. Many people find comfort and direction in religion along this path, but faith is fundamentally a very personal journey that is not subject to external imposition or direction.
Fundamentally, religion is a light of hope that provides consolation and purpose among the uncertainty of life. It gives moral advice for managing the difficulties of human existence as well as a framework for comprehending the mysteries of the universe. But religion's real beauty is found in its capacity to speak to each person's soul and profoundly and truly touch their hearts.In a society where inflexible ideas and religious dogma can obscure the core of faith, it is crucial to recover the sacredness of individual conviction.
Every person is born with the intrinsic ability to search for meaning and truth and to delve deeply into their own spirituality free from the weight of other people's expectations. We must nurture our own spiritual journey and allow our hearts to grow in the light of our own truth, just as a flower unfolds its petals towards the sun.
Choosing to follow a personal faith means going on a voyage of self-discovery and exploring the depths of our own souls to find meaning and purpose. It's a journey of reflection and introspection, a holy search to find the divine spark that lives inside each of us. Although doubt and confusion may arise along the road, it is precisely because of these difficulties that our faith is put to the test and strengthened—just as gold is polished in the furnace of adversity. However, let us remember the value of tolerance and respect for the beliefs of others as we travel this journey of personal faith. We must respect the variety of religious expression that exists in the world, just as much as we value the opportunity to explore our personal spirituality.
Because real enlightenment is found in appreciating the intrinsic dignity and value of every single being, not in forcing one's beliefs on others. Religion is the common thread that connects us to something bigger than ourselves in the tapestry of life.
However, it's a thread that needs to be knitted with attention and care, respecting the individuality of every voyage. Thus, let us honor the beauty of our individual faiths while respecting the views of others as we walk this holy path with humility and grace. Because, in the end, what matters are the profound moments of connection and meaning we find along the route, as much as the journey itself.
- ©️Anakin
I read the comments under my post yesterday and i sincerely apologise to Stella if any of my post weren't acknowledging the source. This is due to the fact that, i get daily motivational quotes sent to me which i find inspirational enough to share on this platform.
DeleteIt's never my intention to create any unnecessary trouble here as it would defeat the purpose of visiting this blog.
I would post my own writeups going forward and the "INVESTIGATIVE BV" can keep up the good work by making sure there is no case for plagiarism.
P. S: About disappearing, only shallow and myopic people think that way.
Thank you
hey anakin thanks for not disappearing like that sdk pyschologist, you na CORRECT MAN.
Deleteyour orginal writeup is even sweeter than the ones you copied......
thank you for being you...
Abeg no fight the invesitgative BV, nah my interest dem get at heart...hehehehehehe
Just wondering why this Anakin reply sounds like Ali B writeup to meπ€
DeleteHappy Sunday children of The Most High.
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May Allah answer all our sincere devotions and fulfil our heart's desire , Amin ya Allah π€²
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Quick One
Are you a front sitter in church or you prefer to sit at the back for reasons best known to you? Are you one of those that don't listen to ushers and ignore the heck outta them to go sit anywhere instead of the seat assigned to you? Isn't that disobedience or some sort of pride if you look at it critically?
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Sitting at the middle role already
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DeleteSecond or third row
DeleteMiddle or back, sometimes I dont listen to ushers.
DeleteI have never sat in front before, me I usually sit at the back..it depends on how the usher addresses me.
DeleteUnder fan is where I target either in the front, back or middle
DeleteGood morning everyone and a happy Sunday to us all!
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As-Salaam-Alaikum!!
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Good morning and happy Sunday Sweethearts π
@ XP... This egusi kpurukpuru is similar to the one Ngwa people call Akpuruakpu Ngbam.
@ BV Emerald... GOD is your strength, you will be fine ok! π€
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Delete@ Nnukwu, I like the Ngwa version of Akpuruakpu mgbam...mgbam meaning moulded Egusi in Ngwa and Mbaise dialect...I am from Mbafive.
DeleteAkpuruakpu Ngbam bu ebe ano.
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DeleteGood morning SDK and BVs. Happy Sunday.
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DeleteGood morning amazing one. Happy Sunday π
DeleteLast night, I had some collections of blues played till 12am before I slept off. It brought back old memories. I remember an ex I had loved so much with every breathe of mine.
ReplyDeleteIt was very emotional to think I gave my ALL to her and still lost out.
Well, I don’t miss her. I miss the illusion that she sold me. I tell you something guys, you can feel it when someone is not being real with you.
Energy never lies.
Someone who truly loves you will give you the attention. But then, you must first understand your value in order to appreciate anyone else. There is a limit to how long you can stick with someone if you feel they're stringing you all along.
Don't make excuses for anyone. People invariably know what they're doing. When they show you who they're the very first time, believe them. When you see those red flags, please make a bold statement by throwing such person away in your life.
Marriage never changes anyone don't be deceived. Rather it emboldens what anyone has always being in the relationship. Even if it does, it's a slim percentage not up to 5%
Better to marry late and rightly than marry a bad partner. For that's something worse than being single.
A Blessed Sunday to you all.
© TEEJAY
SO YOU LOVED HER THIS MUCH EVEN THOUGH U KNEW SHE SOLD YOU A LIE OR U STOPPED LOVING HER AFTER YOU FOUND OUT?
DeleteLET ME SURPRISE YOU..... IT IS ONLY THE LOVE U FELL FOR YOUR KIDS THAT LASTS FOREVER AND FOREVER AND STANDS THRU TIME DESPITE LIES AND WHATEVER.....COPY THAT
You're right Stella about the love for one's kids. I stopped loving her when I found out.
DeleteSometimes, I am tempted to think if love is an illusion but then, seeing the good people in my life that loves me, I feel otherwise.
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DeletePele Teejay
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Stella i think he got to understand better after she left, sometimes, we tend to learn better from our experience.
DeleteShe didn't respect you bro.
DeleteRespect is what women call love, when they respect you, they submit.
Women are not capable of loving men. Women only love their kids, and that's because of the sacrifices they have made for them..
I have said it times and times over again..
Let her make sacrifices. That's what she's loyal to. Her sacrifices which translates to her feelings.. - you know, they are loyal to their feelings and not your sacrifices. Don't let your commitment come cheap.
I can give a girl all my money and properties for nothing or let's even say s£x,. But you are my commitment-.. she has to work for it.
They think they're wise when they bill men, they don't know they're playing themselves, the cheapest thing a man can give a lady is money.. But you see that commitment ehn, you must sweat for am.. you must show workings, you must show you can submit to me, you must show respect that I'm your Lord, you'll show me you're domesticated and reserved as I no fit carry wild animal put for house, you must show modesty, you no git go dey twerk for IG or dress almost naked showing your n!pples all around town,.
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Blessings π
Your last sentence got me laughing.You're absolutely right. She didn't respect me like you said.
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The women are always kukuma at fault. I'm sure even the imaginary one, wey you no use let us hear word months back, is/was at fault for "carrying her load and packing out of your imagination".
DeletePele dear. You "wee" be alright las las.
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DeleteGoodmorning Stella.
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Day 77 of 366!!!!
Faithful God,Awesome God, I am that i am.
Thank You Lord
Good morning Stella and bvs ♥️
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Happy Sunday Lovelies
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Have a nice time in His presence.
DeleteHi Stella Maris, good morning.
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DeleteHappy glorious Sunday πΊ
ReplyDeleteSame to you dearest π
DeleteBest wishes for a joyous Sunday to us all..CHEERS.
ReplyDeleteYou too Doris
DeletePeople who understand u don't need words to know how you're feeling.
ReplyDeleteThey listen not just with ears but with their ❤️, for they understand the dept of ur soul without having to say a word.
If u have such people in ur life, then mention them and thank them for being so understanding.
Happy Sunday and good morning great people,
ReplyDeleteRainy Sunday over here, it has been raining since yesterday night and I couldn't go to church this morning,
Wishing us all a blissful Sunday.
Woow thats interesting, enjoy the weather.
DeleteGood morning everyone
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DeleteMy baby do you know you are still no. 1, but girls just wanna have FUN.
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ReplyDeleteHappy Sunday beautiful people
ReplyDeleteHow is the network interruption at your end?
Not pleasant but we move regardlessπ
Have a blessed time in God's presence wherever you are.
One love y'all ❤❤❤
Happy Sunday everyone.Ramadan day 7, Alhamdulilahi π
ReplyDeleteIt is an aberration for a man to marry a woman older than he is. Everybody reading this knows this. We can decide to pretend not to. A man is built to be above his wife on all fronts- age, experience, wealth, education, spirituality, et al. That is why a woman always seeks out a man richer than she is. That is why the average woman stops respecting her husband when she has more financial buoyancy. It doesn't make her a bad woman. That's nature, bro. Before a woman tells you "yes", she don xray you in and out (rightly or wrongly though).
ReplyDeleteWomen past their prime tend to be more open to marry men they are older than because time isn't their pal anymore. They can decide to tell themselves otherwise, but the average woman wants an older man as a husband. A man is advised to always develop himself at every stage if he wants to retain his wife's respect. Your wife can't be developing herself while you remain the same. It will never work. Sooner or later, she'll lose that respect she has for you. Love no dey for this one.
Lastly, as a woman, endeavour to marry as early as possible to avoid unnecessary complications. You have a lot of options when younger. You're valued more. You can't begin to scramble for a husband in your thirties or forties without making dire mistakes. This is the point t men use your heart to play ludo, knowing so well you have fewer options. Forget what wokeness tells you and face reality. A woman's natural negotiating power lies in her youthfulness and also her chastity.
When you say 'Women' are you saying African women or women in general? Because from where I am standing there are women in there prime who have married men they are way younger than, I don't know about Nigerian women though...but women from other countries..who actually find younger men sexier...Perhaps I need more education on how women from your 'area' reason.
DeleteDon't mind them, later they'll be living a deceitful life, lying about their age and body count π
DeleteMe I sha won't be with a lady because of her condition..
Telling me I have a wrapped mentality because I say women don't respect a guy they're older than in a relationship. It's something I have experienced, and she was only few months older than me,. Then you come old finish you won come twist script say age no matter, dey play.. aunty would you have said so when you were 25 and I was 22?ππ
My friend, you better carry that your nonsense talk and go and tell Ezege bikoππ
Boss,
DeleteWhich one stray bullet come hit me where I dey. Wetin I do naaa?
I think women know that very well. A pretty bv here turned down my relationship request here on the basis that she's older than me. I think it is a difference of two years.
When I asked her why? She boldly said knowing that she's older than me will make her not to respect me. I was shocked hearing that.
So I think and believe what Ceased said to be true.
© TEEJAY
Make una no vex oh, Balogun Caesar and all "Fault finding men who have decided to always lump all women as one", based on their myopic view of women and based on the kind of women they have met, have around them, have had relationship dealings with, abeg, shey dem forbid men, especially una, to marry early? Dem forbid una to be chaste? Why seek what you don't have to give,yourself?
DeleteIf una like, make una come begin cry for here, especially that one that must always be abusive and the one that is anywhere belle face, na una sabi.
So you finally accede that there is nothing like virginity but chastity. Before, you would have replaced Chastity with virginity in your last paragraph.
DeleteWell, I see you are learning. It shows you are teachable!
Moving on, I hope you know that a truly chaste woman does not pray to be joined to a man with a filthy lifestyle or past. A man who thinks living a holy life before God is below him isn't attractive to her. She won't want to be one with a man to whom chastity is an alien concept.
A man who is too weak to be pure yet shamelessly revels in his (stunted) virility is not a match for her. She won't rate nor respect him... In her eyes, he is a weakling, besides No one wants to be polluted. Even the Bible is against it. Doing so is like putting your gold ring in a pig's nose. Be guided!
You are not the only one looking for something good. If you, in your state have such an unreasonably high standard, how much more is someone who has held herself to such a standard? A chaste woman does not care about a man's money, that isn't her number one priority, or else she would have vanished her chastity on the bed of vanities and materialism with men who would spend anything to have and impress her.
Anon 10:56,
DeleteI see you... You're the anon the other time we talked about chastity and virginity. Nice reading from you.
Let me ask you, how do you think marriage between two chaste people will look like? Won't that be boring? I'm just imaging that.
Beside I see nothing wrong a chaste woman marrying a man that's not chaste and vice versa. What if it's a cross from the Almighty on them to bring the the other person closer to Him?
© TEEJAY
Two chaste people, boring? But not too long ago even Ceaser came here writing an ode while fawning over two people who seemed to exemplify chastity. Case in point, Marie and Moses Bliss.
DeleteDo you find them boring? Well, I don't and they are such a delight to watch. I doubt he finds them boring too. Besides, being boring has to do with personality and not your moral standards.
I understand your point but you can't heal someone who does not even think they are sick in the first place. Someone with a warped sense of entitlement to sin founded on the excuse of his gender alone; who believes his masculinity is deeply rooted in sowing his wild oats and him being a man automatically exempts him from the necessity of living a chaste life in the eye of God, is a task too heavy to take on.
I don't think that is a cross any sensible woman would like to carry or God will push his beloved daughter to embark on. That is why the Bible says, "Do not be unequally yoked with an unbeliever" (being a believer goes beyond going to church) God gave that warning to protect the peace of his children who are already living chaste as he commands.
Yes, God cares about the other person who doesn't desire to be chaste and hope they change but still, he doesn't want their burden on his children also remember, Iron sharpens Iron.
A typical situation, My cousin wanted to date my friend but he wasn't right for her. He doesn't believe in waiting till marriage and she does.
They have different lifestyles and I knew he would pretend to wait for her while he goes out to sleep with other ladies till marriage if she agreed to date him. Well, I told her he wasn't right for her and I told him to back off. I love my cousin, he is family but I also love my friend and I know she deserves better.
I would like to think God is like that too and he won't give someone who is chaste to someone who will never feel the need to be, except he knows there is a chance for that happening sooner or later but I knew my cousin won't change because just like some men he feels men can cheat and women shouldn't, so...
Moving on, didn't Ceaser talk about a man being more than a woman in everything, right? Well, doesn't that give credence to what I have been trying to say all along? Going by his assertion, then he and every other man who supports his beliefs must agree that; If you want to be the head of and lead a chaste woman, you must have more NOBLE qualities and be someone she looks up to morally, her Teacher. Otherwise, you won't gain her respect because to a chaste woman, even if you have money, if you don't have Godly virtue and morals(chastity) you are an incomplete man.
I believe it is a different case if the man or woman is remorseful and can humbly admit they do not live a chaste life and are striving to be, then a chaste person marrying such shouldn't be an issue, because they are already halfway there and the Holy-Spirit is already convicting them. I think that is what your last paragraph was trying to shed light on.
Now, If you said all these due to the case of Hosea who was commanded to marry a prostitute in the Bible, I need to let you know that was just an allegory of the undying love between Christ and the Church. It wasn't about God using Hosea to change the prostitute herself but about God using Hosea's life as an analogy to pass a message across and paint a clearer picture to the people of Isreal about his relationship with them back then.
Happy Sunday, Teejay.
Dante and Ceaser, why are you not yet married? What are you waiting for?
DeleteThanks Anon.
DeleteJust reading this now. I truly appreciate the response. It was a good read. Once again, thanks.
© TEEJAY
Off to church!
ReplyDeleteThis akara that I made was very sweet. I ate it well with pap, now I couldn't wear the fitted gown that intended to wear.
XP thanks once again o. I will send pics to Stella when I finally make that lumpy egusi and get it right.
#proudfoodie
Good morning everyone
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Happy Sunday
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Bonjour Blogfam ♥️
ReplyDeleteI usually don't like it when you are house hunting and you keep hearing ; I don't want a Muslim or somebody attending Celestial church, it is so wrong, God shines the sun on both believers and unbelievers who are we to judge? The Lord is near all that call upon Him π
When my hubby was still job hunting in a foreign country some years back,His brother sent him some money, and on his way from collecting the money, He heard a voice, he just finished 7 days fast at that time, The Spirit told him to give the money in his hands to His servant, He asked God which servant? And the Spirit showed him an Imam sitting in front of the Mosque, He was nonplussed, he heard the voice again, but he obeyed, and sowed the seed, My baby said not only did he get a good job, he received a huge financial blessings he has never received in His life that month.
I just wanted to share this, knowing God is a deep mystery.
BV BABONI are you a spirit? i am asking cos you are beginning to scare me oh....you have an example of every story in the past and in the future, you are even in the present....This week you said you hubby was in his 70's and that shocked me cos i had a different view...your kids are both adults and teens and babies.I am sorry but i dont mean to put a question mark on your make anyone suspect you of anything but please are you like a ghost? A spirit?
ReplyDeletePlease if anyone is a spirit on this Blog, please be a good one and help those suffering..If you are a bv that was addicted to this blog but you have passed on and still commenting here, please dont marry anyone here ooooooooooo.be good here please.
Stella, you're so funny ππ. How can a spirit still be commenting on the blog?
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DeleteStella,no go kill person. A spirit Kwa?
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DeleteStella you are right . The love I have for my kids is undiluted . If you loved me , love my children.
ReplyDeleteDo not rush into marriage. Marry at any time you are financial okay. Happy Sunday to Stella and to us the Blogfam .
ReplyDeleteGood morning Stella and bvs
ReplyDeleteI just got back from church!!
Craving egusi and semo,it been so long I had that!!!
Happy Sunday everyone π
ReplyDeleteGood morning everyone
ReplyDeleteHappy Sunday.
Thank you Stella for always coming through, God bless you!
Good morning and happy Sunday to you all ππ
ReplyDeleteJewelu star woman π wishing you quick recovery.
Chai, I'll be speaking in a forum today, God please help me and remove stage fright π make I no fall hand o God abeg o.
Bvs enjoy your Sunday.
E go surely be ✌️
God will help you
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God will help you
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I had a good laugh reading comments from the kings. Keep them coming.
ReplyDeleteOne thing I deduced from your comments is that you love women especially your women. You are only hiding behind the mask. π