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Monday, March 04, 2024

Singer Harry Song's Pregnant Estranged Wife Alexer Gives Shocking Details On Their Failed Marriage


Singer Harry Song's Estranged Wife, Alexer Perez Gopa has revealed shocking details about their crashed Marriages and alleged that he gifted her a cocktail of STDs


During an interview with on air personality Freeze on an Instagram live session, the 23 year old alleged that the Singer always reminded her that he married her out of pity and not because he loved her.She disclosed that his cheating habits were becoming alarming as she had undergone countless treatments for various STDs.
She also disclosed that Harrysong always emphasized on a male child and the topic usually brings friction between them.
In her words:
"It all started when I gave birth to my second child and she became a girl. Before that, he has already been saying that he wants a boy,and I told him am not the one that gives children or gender so I don't understand why he would be bringing this issues after barely two years of marriage.

Secondly was the cheating part that was becoming too much. Everybody will say he's a celebrity of course you know before you enter like so that one is not the problem;which is understandable.i said no problem, If you are cheating, A man that cheats will come back home.
But not the one that you will now go out, you will do it and bring it to my face. If I talk I will still end up being the one begging, because I want to keep the Marriage.family will not support me, friends will not support me. I have complained to almost all the family members. It has been going on and on. When he gets upset and angry , he will slap me.he will say; 'eh,it's just slap na', is slap not abuse?.The amount of infections I have treated in the cause of this whole thing is becoming too much.i cannot be in a marriage and the man cannot even use condom outside, the girlfriends are not one or two.

Then let's come to bodyshaming, he bodyshames me. At a point I told him we would start using protection so we can be able to hold on until conception, he agreed. The pack of condoms I bought is still here with me. He knows about the  drugs that I take and he asked me to stop, that it would spoil my womb and I was like you've not stopped on what you are doing and I would not say because you are cheating, I will leave you;let me also be protecting myself. When he finishes his escapades with those other girls, he would now come home and start bodyshaming me, telling me I have stretch marks, am not good enough, am second hand;that even if I go out, that no man would accept me because am second hand, that am mother of girls

I am currently pregnant.its not like we are having intercourse.At the time, I even had to give space for one year before I even considered.i asked him what we should to the pregnancy and he said we should keep it but he's looking for a boy,so he does not know if this one would be a boy.there's no time that he would come to me and say he wants to have something and I will not agree because he's my husband.the fact that he bodyshames me, having stretch marks,not having standing breasts like his sidechics and that am a mother of girls,all of these things have put me in a depression for so long,and he told me that even if I speak out that no one would believe me,so I've just been like that

The last time he came into the room because he wanted to sieze my phone, and delete all evidence , he came to the house, forcefully collected my phone, as we were trying to drag, he threw me to the wall, even with this my pregnancy and I ended up in the hospital and the doctor was like my breath is seizing.everybody that I complain to, he would manipulate and lie and change the topic. There is no time that he would say this is how it is. He would say anybody that wants to talk to me, he should be put on conference call so that as am talking, he would be talkng his own. He said I should not do any business and I should not on social media which I've not been on for three years because I dey obey man.When I insisted that I wanted to start a business, he borrowed me N600k,another time he gave me 1Million for a business that didn't work out, I later gave him back his money after I sold all the things that I bought.

he said he didnt marry me out of love,that it's out of pity so anything that he dishes to me That I should take anything that he gives to me
Even wit All the arguments going on online,I was still waiting for him to say something, atleast when a man's family is quarreling a wife, when the man says 'ah, you people should leave my wife, it would give me the mind to even reconsider but rather when he came back from Paris, he had been telling me to leave because he had siezed the car key, any small quarrell, he would sieze phone, he won't bring money for feeding. So when I told him I wanted to go, that am tired, he embarrassed me in front of friends family, girlfriends , there's no particular place that he does not insult me".

56 comments:

  1. Is this marriage??

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    1. And to think she is just a young girl @ 24? How can an almost 42 year old man marry a girl of 24 if not to manipulate and control her? She was too young to get married....

      To buttress his manipulative character, he keeps getting her pregnant and complaining about giving birth to just girls...She is even pregnant for the 3rd child....Plus she no do court wedding..Kai! Kai!! Kai!!!

      She should go look for a job or learn a trade...That is why it is good as women, after graduation, learn a trade, build a career and have money so you don't depend on any man or individual...Her story is pitiable, but she is still young and has more years to grow and nuture herself and kids...

      This is a typical example of stories that touch....

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    2. Just 23 kids and 3 kids? So married at 19.
      Poor girl cus her first experience was with this kind of man. I hope she knows there are very lovely men out there o.
      They said she isnt nigerian but I still believe we can support her to stand. She seems to have integrity. I dont think her husband, who doesnt love her nor like female kids, will support her and their daugthers.

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    3. @Phoenix.. plus she no do court wedding.. meaning what?
      If she did a customary marriage with bride price paid etc and she has the pictures, she’s entitled to what the women that did court marriages are entitled to in Nigeria. She can sue him to court for divorce and with a good lawyer get something tangible from him.
      Besides, some churches are licensed to give out the same wedding certificates given at some registries(affiliations kind of).
      I’m not saying court weddings are bad but let’s stop creating the impression that women who don’t do are disadvantaged, they need to be informed.
      In fact, the Nigerian law considers a court wedding done while there is a subsisting traditional marriage as null and void if the traditional (first) wife knows her right and sues.

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    4. New generation women dey suffer, chai! Even some of them still commenting dont even know they are 3nslaved because they can't recognise true love when they see one.

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    5. She is not too young to get married, she is just unlucky to get into a bad marriage.

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    6. Young girl, how could you be on your third pregnancy at 23 in this sort of "marriage"? Anyway, leave his house and try to get something doing part-time to help you. Move in with your parents, pele. Are you sure it is girls he is sleeping with? Hmmmnn.

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    7. Anon 12:17, you mean he's gay 🥶🥶🥶

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    8. Not at all. This beautiful melanin queen Is who this immature idiot is treating like trash? Why get married in the first place if you knew you were not ready to settle down? I think he just wanted boy children but he did t have to marry someone's daughter only to torment her for that purpose . Just get yourself a baby mama and continue with your philandering lifestyle. Now this young lady will be saddled with a broken marriage and three kids at her age. So sad.

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    9. @11:45 If you don't do court wedding, you are on your own. That is the only wedding for which the man can be held for bigamy if he marries another wife, especially outside Nigeria . Churches like Catholic and Anglican churches register the weddings they conduct in court so they are also legally recognized. If a man refuses to wed you in court, it means he may consider bringing someone else in in future and doesn't want to tie himself to you and then go through divorce before he achieves his aim.

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    10. Not all that glitters is gold! Girls should be careful rushing into marriage because they want to marry a celebrity without bordering to find out how responsible the man is.
      This lady is naive and the Man is having a field day taking advantage of her.
      Women should be wise; Shine your eyes.

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    11. Shine your eyes not all that glitters is gold! Beware of celebrity marriage, know who you are about to marry; how responsible he or she is.
      Women especially should be wise in making a choice before an irresistible man turns you to a footstool as we are seeing in this marriage. This girl is naive and the man is taking full advantage of her.

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  2. You should have left as soon as he started this madness. Enduring a marriage is not it. You should think of your sanity, your peace of mind.

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  3. If true, Harrison not try..
    I might believe the part of him badmouthing her sha cos him no Sabi talk, e no dey think before e talk,. Na so that time e go talk say soso get small kinikan..
    He no too wise like that..
    Maybe his upbringing is still affecting him,. Trauma from the past.. but no be escuse to dey cause others pain..

    She no even dey complain of your being with other women, she understands your polygamy nature, but you come dey go run things with amotekun without protection, come dey dash am infections..

    Haba nah..
    Not cool

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    1. I dey clap for you. Good one Dante.
      You know from your view sometimes, I have told myself that, no man will see my lap s until wedding night. So I have to hustle for myself.

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    2. Anon 10:59, if you go through with your decision, you have saved yourself from emotional trauma, I have seen women still mourning old emotional pains even after decades of marriage, some ended up with disease etc, the cost of illegal relationship is endless. This Harrison's wife need to leave him and never look back, embarrass him if he comes close to you and make sure to use the law to put him at arms length.

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    3. I must be dreaming. Abi today na your birthday?

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    4. Awwwwwwwwwwwww Dante the Boss man, I hail thee. This your comment made my day. I know you're a nice and kind hearted guy that is guarding his heart from pains.

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    5. He no try? But if na woman you no go dey stingy with insults, simp

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    6. "Nice one Dante".. because na man collect..
      But When e reach woman turn to collect, I go become person wey hate women..

      Make Una welly-done

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    7. That's why I like you,Dante. You give everyone their just deserts.

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  4. Abeg i want to ask if it's highness or ment that makes our male celebrities behave like this in marriage? Childish men should stop getting married na. Is stretch mark not a natural thing again, girls that have not gone through pregnancy have it talkless of a mother of how many children? Bia Harry whatever stop harassing this lady and co-parent in peace if marriage don tire you🙏

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  5. He cannot stand E-money and his brother but e reach woman na there he get strength.. shame shame shame! Ewobi Asaba.

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  6. I truly feel bad for this woman. She really try. What a beast of a husband. So glad she decided to put a value on herself and move on with her life.

    To all those women enduring and holding on to nothing for whatever reason, I hope her story gives you the strength you need to remember your self, value and worth.

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    1. Have you heard his own side of the story?

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  7. I really sympathize with women that face these kinds of things in their marriage because I believe this was never what the institution of marriage was meant to be. How difficult is it for u to actually love and be kind to the person to promised heaven and earth in the presence of God. I will never understand it.

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  8. Gosh!!!
    Where are this girl’s parents or guardian or something.
    How can you endure such rubbish in the name of marriage.
    She even went ahead and got pregnant the third time. I don’t pity her.

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    1. Hoping to give him boy , 3 children

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  9. Haba Harrysong! What's all these I just read about you? Jeeez!!! This woman tried to tolerate your nonsense behaviour, yet.....Tufiakwa gi.

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  10. All these treatments just within how many years of marriage? Thank God the marriage is over.

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  11. Men! We can do better, marriage is not a war zone

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  12. Na wa o,
    Marriage of few months ago.
    Good she left him.

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  13. I really feel so sorry for this woman,how can you expose yourself to another human to treat you like this?? 🤨😐🤨😪

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  14. As a woman reading everything she went through makes me really sad, most times you don't know what you've got until it's gone.

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  15. Hmmmmm God help our young ladies not to fall for this type of man all in the name of marriage. Look at the age difference what did you except. It will be my Lord and personal saviour kind of marriage. God forbid.

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  16. "I said no problem, If you are cheating, A man that cheats will come back home"

    Chai, she even had to accept that he is a chronic cheat and consoled herself with the fact that after cheating he will come home to her. Some men need to grow up before considering getting married because they end up endangering themselves and the innocent women they get involved with. Why drag her to your level by telling her she's not good enough thereby making her feel worthless and inferior. Why did he marry her out of pity, why not stand his ground from the beginning knowing that he doesn't love her and may never grow to love her. Was she forced on him? Why call her a mother of girls, in this day and age, we're still having this conversation about who determines the sex of a baby? Why not continue with his cheating lifestyle and have one of his cheating mate birth him a baby boy. She should leave and take time to get her life together it's not the end of the world for her.

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    1. His IQ is low and wickedness is high

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    2. His IQ is low and wickedness is high

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  17. Congrats to them.
    The most complex B

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  18. Marriage is good but we shouldn't be so eager to stay married that we endure this much!

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  19. So many monsters out under the guise of "horseband" Women are really going through; Hell.

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    1. Many women are married to thrash

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  20. Another shade of Israel DMW. LoL, these guys will learn the hard way. If you have trauma, go and seek a therapist and recovery coach. They're both different.
    When he heard she wants to leave, his ego said "not happening".

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  21. This is so sad, as if I was reading a movie script, this woman has tried.

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  22. This is her own story... i want to wait for his own story.. enough of judging from oneside.. Una don forget Nedu and the wife ni? or what about Toke.. after her book she come show us her real self and others. All this ladies ehnnnnnnnnnnnn. well my own be say make i hear from him first

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    1. His face actually says it all. All the truth is on his face.

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  23. Really sad,I pray she comes our of this a stronger person

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  24. Lagos Mainland Girl5 March 2024 at 10:30

    Why continue birthing kids in this type of marriage?

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