DIRTY MAN
Please house how long can you give your guy when you noticed things you don't like that he does and you have spoken with him about it?
Asking cos I noticed my guy doesn't flush his pee not all the times but mostly when water is finished in the toilet or the tap is bit running.
Asking cos I noticed my guy doesn't flush his pee not all the times but mostly when water is finished in the toilet or the tap is bit running.
I have spoken to him about it but is like he find it difficult to fetch water from thr kitchen to flush the toilet after he pees. He told me he will change but its over three months now no change.
He does it over time and I will have to be the one to flush his pee, wash the toilet before I can use it. Some times you will notice the toilet smells of pee pee cos it has been there for a while. Things like this turn me off and make me not to be able to eat food especially if I saw it before wanting to eat.
He is a good guy but this attitude I cannot hold it, I don't want to handle it in a terrible way. Please how best can I talk to him about it cos is in him with his brother. They both do same thing in their house.
He does it over time and I will have to be the one to flush his pee, wash the toilet before I can use it. Some times you will notice the toilet smells of pee pee cos it has been there for a while. Things like this turn me off and make me not to be able to eat food especially if I saw it before wanting to eat.
He is a good guy but this attitude I cannot hold it, I don't want to handle it in a terrible way. Please how best can I talk to him about it cos is in him with his brother. They both do same thing in their house.
What do you want to talk to him for? I almost vomitted reading this...Please do not date or marry this pig cos he will get worse and you cannot talk then.......This means he does not even clean the tip after peeing and all his pants will smell of pee and floating with baby bacteria...Jesus
And then he will chook that dirty thing into someones daughter?
Break off!!!
Eww 🤮
ReplyDelete😂 seeing your emoji after reading Stella’s blue pen is so funny.
DeleteBut on a lighter note, girl since you still want the relationship, you gays to find away around it. If possible tell him that you easily get UTI from it and it’s not good because you could transfer it to him and it affects sexual organs on both reproduction and sexual activities. Hopefully, he will start working on it.
I hate using same toilet with guys, there's no how it won't drop on the sit once they stand to pee..... even if they flush it what of d sit? Will they wash each time they pee?
DeleteI have a phobia for dirty toilet seat.
Oh God how I go do this marriage thing o!
There are many things am scared of but marriage is top on the list
As a guy I use the shower to clean the sit.
DeletePlay a " monetary"game with him.
ReplyDeleteHe should agreed that each time you flush for him, he go pay you 5k as a reminder.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Stella your blue pen off me...I just dey imagine your countenance 🤣🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeletePoster if you think he is good for you, then you have to keep reminding him to flush the toilet or better still lock it up and tell him you have some plumbering issues with your toilet....
are you suggesting she makes him go to the bathroom outside like a farm animal? lol
DeleteAfter awhile, he will say she bags.
DeleteIs he washing his hands after using the toilet?
ReplyDeleteOnly you know what you can take. A lack of hygiene is a no go for me. I cannot even stand someone with heavy morning breath and the smell of stale pee is nauseating and vomit inducing. I do not believe in sharing a bathroom with a man, I must have my own bathroom.
Men can handle filth better than women. Girl, you said he is a good man, just a good man with an ammonia dyck. Only you can decide what you can live with. He has shown you who he is, so you know.
Wait until you meet a dirty woman like the one (she and her siblings) described here sometime ago by a female Bv who is the woman's sister -in-law.
DeleteMen and women are both human.
I ain’t gonna meet any dirty woman because I am not entertaining women romantically. Tf you talking about meeting dirty women. Mtsscchhwww
Deletelol, soo funny
Delete18:01
DeleteClean up your mind well as you claim you do your bathroom.😄
😂😂😂😂 Stella you sef be clown e say chook dat dirty thing into someone’s daughter. Poster abeg break off that relationship abeg cos since it’s 3 months and him never change just forget it. Whatever it is that you can’t stand in a relationship biko no try say make you manage am go enter marriage oooo you’ll cry blood. He should carry his Akpa atiti behavior and look for some girl wey no dey flush her own pee too. They’ll both match each odas energy
ReplyDeleteBiko does men clean the tip of their P after urinating? Asking as per boy mum way i be lol
ReplyDeletePoster please if u cants stand this habit call it off please you wont be able to manage if you guys eventually marry.
You can gradually disconnect from him, don't give him reason cos he might come back pretending to be change just to trap and deal with you later lol.
You cant change a grown man
That's Stella's OCD talking. My cousin does not flush the toilet after he poos,dis guy is in his early thirties when I complained he's mum said if I can't flush it she would come flush it herself. His not I'll just dirty. Poster,put a drum of water in the toilet so he won't have any excuses then make your decision if he continues
ReplyDeleteThis..👏👏👏. Change doesn't happen easy and sometimes involves compromise in every relationship to work. Apparently he's had this bad habit for years If putting drum of water in the toilet does not help the situation at least you have proactiively tried your best.
DeleteAbeg, what is this now. You flush for him,and if you go ahead, you're gonna keep flushung.
ReplyDeleteSee their dirty boyfriends oh😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteLater dem go come dey form for me🤣🤣
A whole clean fresh boi like me😌😎
We can all agree this is a very disgusting habit now..
ReplyDeleteBut if the chronicle was from a man complaining this about his girl..
You'll see all these excuse that'll be made on the girls behalf here, you'll even see some insulting the man for being unloving, impatient, not understanding and unkind man..
Na only for man matter Una dey talk truth
True@Dante.
DeleteThat day a woman complained about a very dirty sister -in-law and her siblings, they told her to stop visiting her brother and that her brother should clean up after his wife.
Some women are just embittered against men.
Dear if dirtiness is your deal breaker then break off with the guy.
ReplyDeleteThings you can tolerate may not be the same as I can.
Poster your own na small. If I tell you what my wife does at home you'll pray for me. At least your man's own is pee. Imagine living with a woman who hardly flushes the toilet after pooing. I've tried everything to get her to change and I'm tired.
ReplyDeleteI just use the guest bathroom and i keep it neat as it should be. I've left the master bathroom to her. Let her enjoy living in that kind of filthiness.
The truth is it has even affected the quality of our sex life. She irritates me now. How can a full grown woman have no awareness of her hygiene? It is even shameful a thing to discuss about.
I have tried to be patient with her for years now but seeing as she isn't bothered to change, I recently met a lady outside and she is my go-to now anytime i need sexual release. No more sleeping with a woman an effusive odor everywhere. I'm even thinking of renting another house somewhere so that it becomes my love nest with the lady outside.
I don't care if my wife finds out. No man should be forced to endure such dirtiness in a home. If she can't keep her home then she shouldn't be surprised when another woman comes into the picture.
Some women are truly too dumb and stupid to be wives. When they have gotten marriage on a platter, they begin to take the husband forgranted. One of these days I'll post my chronicle. A dirty wife will not kill me before my time abeg. To hell with whatever.
Oga please divorced her and have your peace, what you are doing is adultery. I will not condole a dirty person also.
DeleteIf you are this bothered at this stage, imagine your mental health inside marriage with him. Good man wey no get good hygiene, is that one a good man? Wey you for don pick race after your second visit? Dey play.
ReplyDeleteLol
DeleteNo mind am
Maybe Baba get funds and na generous, sorry kind man😁..
DeleteSome good people don’t have good hygiene
DeleteBut if they’re teachable then you can work with them
Poster.. if the 'good' in him and his 'goods' accessible to you outweigh this his bad habit. You may have to decide to manage him, compromise and accept the entire package whenever he proposes.
DeleteStella sino "baby bacteria"🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeletePoster ewwww, you know what to do.
Gifty
Your guy will never change. If you end up marrying him he will get worst.
ReplyDeleteSome people do that in their house to save water
ReplyDeleteIf that’s his case it might take him a while to break the bad habit
Befor breaking up sit him down and let him know this is a deal breaker. See if he changes
I once moved out from a shared apartment because of this cleanliness issue and we are still friends today. The expressed a lot of shock that I moved out because of that
Some people don’t understand how this rubbish can ruin your whole day
Just ask him to pee through the floor drain, it is cheaper to drain off with a bowl of water
ReplyDeleteArc Adefila that is another dirty behaviour except you will wash the bathroom/toilet floor and walls with detergent and bleach after splattering pee all over the floor and wall.
DeleteEwww many men are truly dirty. They believer being clean is a woman's thing.
Chai women don suffer for this world.
Poster Please no need talking again. He can't change. Move on. Just imagine rubbish.
He won't even clean himself properly.
Pee through floor drain kwa🤮🤮🤮 . The whole place will still be smelling of urine naaa. He should flush the toilet abeg sumtin that wouldn’t even take up to 5 minutes to do, sorry but this ur option will further enable his dirty attitude abeg
DeleteFloor drain ke? Abeg make Una no let person vomit o😣
Deletelol... poster I used to know someone that stood to poo as an adult, but now the person has started sitting to poo, in a nutshell, its either you change him and be the neat one and be throwing jabs at him very well about his dirty attitude anytime you come across it him for him to feel embarrassed and changes his ways; which usually happens or you call it quit if you can stick with it.
DeleteWhere there is no regular flow of water, floor drain is the solution for men. It takes lesser water. Smells lesser (if at all) than a sittings pee in the bowl. Best solution is to ensure there's regular flow of water into the water closet. And next, jokingly tell him to flush oo.
DeletePoster after 3months and he still never change, he will notoooh, he will even get worse after marriage and progress to poo. Pls run now or cry blood later
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteThe most complex B
This is what happens when a child is not properly trained to use the toilet, they become grown adults who can't change their filthy toilet habits..peeing on the toilet seat, pee without flushing, pooing without flushing...disgusting!
ReplyDeleteHe should learn to do the right thing
DeleteAfter 3 months and he has still not changed? Na pig be that. It would be worse after marriage
ReplyDeleteThat man will never change, that's how he and his brother were trained, is either you leave it or take it.
ReplyDeleteAs for me I can't cope with that kind of man, little things irritate me.
So, do they forced you to come to their house ,stay in your house and find another man to marry period.No wonder many of you are poor because you use your time for irrelevant things
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