Hmmmmmmm...
NARRATIVE ONE
CONFUSED
Can words like ''if you are not serious in this relationship, I will end it and walk away'' kill love?
Can words like ''there are so many men out there, so if you are not truthful or faithful, I will walk away'' kill love?
Can words like “them no dey use big prick take make ashawo fear” kill love?
My guy’s prophet told him that such words killed his spirit from loving me and now he is struggling to connect his feelings back
I said its a fat lie but the recent visit his ex-did or their conversation once in a while is making him want to go back to her.
Your man is no longer in love with you because of the words you used on him?And now he is reconnecting to his ex? My dear, dragging with an ex is not easy and all your words may have shown him that he prefers her to you...Just move on abeg
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NARRATIVE TWO
Can words like ''if you are not serious in this relationship, I will end it and walk away'' kill love?
Can words like ''there are so many men out there, so if you are not truthful or faithful, I will walk away'' kill love?
Can words like “them no dey use big prick take make ashawo fear” kill love?
My guy’s prophet told him that such words killed his spirit from loving me and now he is struggling to connect his feelings back
I said its a fat lie but the recent visit his ex-did or their conversation once in a while is making him want to go back to her.
Your man is no longer in love with you because of the words you used on him?And now he is reconnecting to his ex? My dear, dragging with an ex is not easy and all your words may have shown him that he prefers her to you...Just move on abeg
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NARRATIVE TWO
EX PHOTOS
Is it right for a guy to still have his ex girlfriend's pictures in his phone? He claims the pictures are over 2000 cos their relationship lasted for about three years before they broke up due to family issues that the girls family refused to do the needful.
Is it right for a guy to still have his ex girlfriend's pictures in his phone? He claims the pictures are over 2000 cos their relationship lasted for about three years before they broke up due to family issues that the girls family refused to do the needful.
He still has over 200 photos of his ex and does not know how to delete all at once or does not want to delete all? which one is it?Any male or female that refuses to let go of anything that has to do with their ex is yet to get over that person and may not make a good spouse until such is effected...make you waka far
Poster one, hurtful words can destroy any kind of relationship.
ReplyDeletePoster two, it is not right. He's so not over her.
Not all Exes have really been exed.
ReplyDeleteWord!
DeleteYou better fire your soon to be ex
DeleteSidechics. Both of you.
ReplyDeleteI have pictures of my ex wife on my socials and I give a shit about her. I don't have time to go through my phone just to delete her stuff. They day they disappear, so be it. Poster one, such words can kill anything if you ever said them to him> How can you even think of using such words in the first place?
ReplyDeleteWords are powerful,yes word Can affect it
ReplyDeleteYes hurtful works can actually make peoples feelings change towards you.
ReplyDeleteEmotional intelligence is very important in relationships.
Poster 1
ReplyDeleteWords are powerful. Becareful how you use them.
If the tables were turned, and he said such words to you, would you still be in love?
Pleasr pearn to administer words.
However, that is not an excuse to cheat.
If he doesn't want the relationship again, let him tell you boldly. Which one is "his prophet told him"?? 🤷🏽
Poster 2
ReplyDeleteThe man has not gotten over his ex. He is still hurting and unfortunately using you as a rebound.
Give him space to heal properly, so he doesn't transfer aggression on you.
Cheers.
Poster one: words are powerful true and can affect but I think that he doesn't want to be in the relationship again and is holding on to that because I believe he must have told you some hurtful things too. Also, I have issues with people that hang onto "prophets". Just left him go abeg.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: please ask him how he will feel if you have pictures of your ex on your phone too. Let him have a better perspective of this issue, maybe he will make the right decision.
move on poster 1; he doesn't love you any more
ReplyDeleteBoth poster it is all shades of wrong.
ReplyDeletePoster one and poster two you people never see husband material , make Una continue searching
ReplyDeleteMove on poster one since it's not yet marriage.
ReplyDeletePoster two- all the girls hubby dated, their pictures still dey house that his children watching pictures asked him questions, so tey they asked him , why mom?.
He is yet to reply them
Poster 1 those words killed something in him, and it looked like he didn't really get over his ex. He needed something to bring them closer and you did with those hurtful words.
ReplyDeleteKindly move on
Poster 2, i dont see any reason why an ex picture should still be with him in that number even😏
This doesnt sit down well with me at all
Poster 1: Once begin to threaten your partner with those words you mentioned there, like" there are many out there or you can get the one better than her. The feeling may not be that strong again as he is no more secured around you.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: Are you the ex or the girlfriend??
Poster 1, a relationship under the stress of daily threats will fizzle out. There is a fine line between standing up for yourself and issuing threats and ultimatums. Obviously something was not working why those statements had to be uttered. Nobody should force incompatibility just for the sake of saying they have someone. If you had to say those things it was not working in the first place so move on.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, that boyfriend of yours is still hooked on his ex. It is up to you to decide if you want a man who is carrying the energy of another woman around with him. I would be more understanding if they had been married and had a family and life together and she passed away or something. But that is the woman of his heart and you will have to decide if you have the strength to compete with that.
Poster 1, how dare you utter such words to a man, it appears you have been listening to the gibberish being spewed by some queens on here who have been suffering from lack of genuine love?. Now that you have told him that there are many men out there, can you now connect to one of those men? You guys really need to learn how to communicate your feelings or dissatisfaction without being condescending??? If you like, keep the same energy in your next relationship.. Truth is bitter but the threesome Queens here will tell you otherwise
ReplyDeleteDibia Arusi
It is well with both of you oooo🙏🙏🙏
ReplyDeletePoster 1, ..there is no excuse for those words. you have threatened so many times your boyfriend has decided to protect himself by doing the needful, he literally saved himself b4 you leave him hanging. I'd do same in his shoes.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, you're alone in that relationship. The guy hasn't moved on
ReplyDeletePoster 1, stop telling him those words. when saying such, you give out an impression that you are not interested in the relationship wholeheartedly: coupled with the fact that you did not state what he might have done to deserve such. words carry weight, what you intend might not be what the other is hearing.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, he still admires his ex and may go back if she will accept him...200?